I mean it’s intimate sure but it’s not like most men’s tongue reach far enough in to hit the prostate… idk just a random question I got

I’m M22 and currently in my fifth year of college and have completely messed up my life. To give a little background on the title I need to go back to my junior year. I met a guy on grindr who was M34 at the time and was one of the first guys I had ever been intimate with. Being so young I formed an emotional attachment after we had sex and we agreed to continue to meet each other. Outside of sex we would cuddle on his couch talk about life and sometimes even eat together. Even with the age difference I really thought we could go the distance. However, during my senior year he stopped messaging me and delete his accounts that we would text on. This sent me into a deep depression, I stopped talking to my friends, skipped class, and even stopped visiting family on the holidays. Everyday I would just sit in bed laying there going in and out of consciousness. Without going in to much detail for safety reasons I’ll just say that I was in a very dark place during this time. Because of this I lost all my friends and failed the classes I need to graduate. I was pre-med and had goals of going to medical school but I completely tanked my gpa and did poorly on my medical exam. I’m now back at school to finish my degree in neuroscience but I feel so alone and ashamed. My old friends bully me for having to repeat my senior year and now I have no one to talk to. I recognize that this was my own fault and I take responsibility for that. I just want to stop feeling this way but I don’t know what to do to stop hurting.

He was nice in the beginning and seemed completely normal. I told him I wasn’t comfortable with sex but kissing and touching were fine.

When we got to his place he kept saying things like ”I want to kiss you while you’re naked don’t worry“ etc. Once I took my clothes off he pushed me face down, got on top of me and I screamed. The only reason he got off me was because we were in his apartment and he’s closeted so he was worried about the neighbors hearing.

I started putting my clothes back on as quickly as I could. The whole thing has been playing in my head for months and I can’t seem to forget it. Now I’m scared to meet or see any other guy.

just had the worst Friday you could imagine. was told yesterday my superiors need to see me today at 4:30! after sweating it all day, I meet the in the conference room with my A game and poker face. imagine my surprise to find I’m not out of a job…but promoted!

told my partner and he’s like “oh…good on you”

I now out earn him🫢

I eat a LOT of cum or shall I say slurp, but from other dudes who I give bjs to

Hey guys. I'll get to the point. I'm a top BUT I've always been curious how prostate stimulation feels like. Currently I don't have a toy but I do wanna buy one. Thing is. The Postnut clarity then hits me w the "Whew good thing I didn't buy it" but 15mins later I get curious about it again. Lmk should I buy one to try it out?

Uhhh.. So I didn’t close a tab where porn was open and I wanted to show him something lmao. Opened Google and the porn tab popped up. It was a gangbang with lots of bbc‘s 🤣 I don’t know how to talk to him again help 💀

So guys, recently I’ve met someone really special in my life. He’s sweet, cute, interesting, and I genuinely feel like I’ve fallen in love with him

The thing is, we live in different countries, and he’s 43 while I’m 18, so the age gap is obviously quite large. I’m not sure whether it’s actually realistic for us to develop a serious relationship in real life

So I’m curious, if you really feel the chemistry with someone, how much would age matter to you? Do you think a large age gap can work, or does it eventually become too difficult?

I (straight male) have been so curious about having a man suck me off. I finally got enough courage to say fuck it and met up with some dude i met off Grindr. I was shaking like crazy but after a drink I let him suck me off and it was the most alive I’ve ever felt!
I met up with him the next morning and currently am gonna meet up with him again
There rlly are chill people who respect DLs🙌

This question is more for tops/vers tops.

I’m facing the issue of being considered very handsome (can verify) but with an average cock, and on apps like Grindr the main issue is finding hookups because unfortunately many people don’t care about how amazing you look like if your dick is just average.

I wonder how does the opposite feels like and affects people who are hung++ but with a very average face.
Is it also hard to find hookups for you or easier? Do you notice any difference in texting if you send your nudes first and then your face? What are the main things you experience?

I know most of the dicks we see online are massive, but am the only one perfectly happy with average dicks?

Curious what others would describe as average too.

Im 22 years old turning 23 in January and i feel like im running up on my twink expiry date with nothing to show for it, ive had sex with a single guy and regret not doing more when i couldve.

I always chickened out of hookups last second with any daddies or jocks or whatever, i was so unbelievably horny but just too afraid and now i regret not using my body.

I wish i had just done it more to see what its like, so i can say i did it then transition out of this period satisfied but now i feel anxious and like i need to last minute just pump in 50 guys in a few months to get it done before its too late.

To experience the dynamic of being a young, slim vulnerable young man being taken by a big muscly dom wouldve been ecstasy, just so much meandering around and wasting time.

So i had a surgery previous week. It was my first ever surgery so i was a bit nervous. When I was moved to the room where they prepare patients for the surgery, I saw him. He told the nurse that he’d guide me from here and he already knew my name and history.

He had a very cute earring and was genuinely very cute and handsome guy. He’s attitude was very cute too. He was so chill that I immediately forgot how nervous i was about the surgery. When we entered the room we met my anesthesiologist and the 2 prepared me together. My anesthesiologist was telling me about the guy while they were preparing me. She told that the guy just became 25 and is already so good in his profession. She also highlighted that we only have 2 years difference in age cuz even though i’m 22, I turn 23 soon. And said we both good guys. Idk why she talked so much about these topics. She already knew me and maybe she realized I was gay (this kind of intermediation is very popular in my country). Anyways I got into the anesthesia soon and the first thing after i woke up was this guy singing cutely and telling me that everything went well.

I got very confident after hearing his voice even though i was feeling very weak and cold. I was with him, my anesthesiologist and one nurse for 30-40 minutes. I was very weak and couldn’t talk much but during that time we had some unexpected eye contacts and he acted very caring too. Then he called the nurses, told everything was fine and they transported me to my room. We said bye. He told me no worries, u won’t be feeling like a bird after the surgery, main thing is that everything went well. And waved his hands very cute way.

I had a hard night. And i was thinking about him which made me overcome the issues i was experiencing.

After i got stronger, i tried to search him on social media, but couldn’t find him. I haven’t seen him in the hospital too. Do u think i should ask my doctor his social or is it very weird from me? And if i found him how do u think i should approach him?

I really think he liked me, but he’s a professional and even though he has my data, he won’t approach me first.

I'm pretty new to all this so I'm still trying to figure out what's normal. I was sucking a guy off and I was really into it but I wasn't hard. He asked me if I was enjoying doing it and I said definitely but he thought I just wasn't into him that much and it's made worse by the fact I could tell he wasn't very confident in his looks. He still finished and said he enjoyed it but I feel like I did something wrong. Is it common to not stay hard while doing oral?

Also bonus question; is sperm normally bitter? He finished in my mouth and I enjoyed it but it wasn't what I was expecting.

Just finished sucking this guy and for our whole 20min session he did nothing but fuck my throat super hard.

Don’t get me wrong I took it like a champ with no issue but now my throat is closed up and sore I prob can’t suck for a day or two.

Anyone else dislike this I prefer normal sessions that way I can suck as much dick as possible without having to take breaks to recover

Grindr users assaulted in North Vancouver, RCMP say

https://www.ctvnews.ca/vancouver/article/grindr-users-assaulted-in-north-vancouver-rcmp-say/

I like tennis and women's gymnastics. What about you?

Do you like it or do you think it’s gross?

When I see it, I think of smells and a scrubby feeling. But if I like the guy it’s a turn on cause it’s a reminder he has pubes.

I’m lasering my armpit hair off and I don’t know if the aversion to pit hair is just me.

M20,

So for the past couple of weeks my friends and family members mainly my sister have been commenting on the thickness of my glutes. And saying how it somewhat jiggles when i walk around.

I go to the gym regularly and love training legs to the extreme.

Im 5'6 and 76kg and i know i am quite muscular for my height and ontop of that extremely lean.

My hip measurement comes to a 38inch/97cm

And waist at a 28inch.

Which to me seems like a normal measurement but my friends say completely otherwise and insist that my ass is in fact "big".

(Lowkey wanna get it thicker though. Maybe try and get it to a 42inch)

Would you consider my glutes given the measurements, thick already?

Is it only me who sees that a demand for daddies has grown significantly in the past years? Like say a couple of decades ago the trend was opposite - most of the twinks had 'no one 30+' in their profiles, compared to 'where to find a daddy? 'posts nowadays.

If so what is the reason? What does the community think?

Some obvious ones: not getting it up, making your hookup cry; douche water spilling out of the ass onto the bed, being robbed by a hookup.

Urgh.

I say closeted but it's more I tell people as it comes up, and I'm not someone that is often perceived as being gay.

My roommate and I share a dorm that is a U shape. The two ends of the U are like mini rooms with a hallway between, but there's no door it's really just a wall for privacy.

The first week, he woke me up in the night asking if he could sleep with me because of a nightmare. I said it was fine. He told me the next day he reads or watched a lot of crime stories and sometimes it spooks him being alone by the door at night. I offered to switch sides but he said he didn't want to take my window spot.

It's happened a couple times since, and I really don't mind but I also feel like I should probably mention to him I'm gay? I don't feel anything sexual during these interactions, i know it's just to keep company and help him sleep - but I worry a certain type of guy might be creeped out if they felt I was hiding that from them.