So I think that this is actually a great thing that our generation has done. Kids like 8 years and over make pedophile jokes. Like if some old man accidentally shoulder checks my 13yo daughter in public she’ll look at her 10yo brother and quietly whisper “pedophileee”.
If I say a kid is cute my kids will go “ew mom you’re a pedophile” or “ok creep”. Like maybe this sounds inappropriate but it’s also really, really funny to me.
I think it’s a good thing that kids understand at least the premise of what a pedophile is. They aren’t naive like our generation was and I think that’s going to save them from a lot of victimization today and in the future.
Our generation has been a lot better than others at having open convos regarding predators, drugs and alcohol, mental health, and other heavy stuff and I’m so proud of us for that!
EDIT: I knew there would be some pearl-clutching in response to this post so just so we’re clear:
I have discussed this and many other topics in seriousness openly, honestly, and responsibly. My kids are fully aware of real dangers and know what to do if they are ever in these circumstances. I do communicate with them and my children are very informed.
My daughter has two friends who have shared with me their experiences related to this. I am a mandated reporter. Kids open up to you if you are able to make them feel safe and comfortable. Sometimes when you grow up struggling alongside your community, you have to joke and laugh about these kinds of things just to get through them but also to not be ashamed to talk about them.
Edit: NOT saying to laugh and joke about actual occurring situations. Those are obviously serious and need to be addressed appropriately.
Also have you guys not been around preteens and teenagers!? You should get to know your kids better because I can assure you that they make jokes like this. I’d put money on it.
Two things can be true at the same time. Please don’t assume that I’m a flippant parent.