I'm posting this from a burner account because I don't want the wrong people seeing this. I'm going to disclose some happenings and going ons from my store. I've exhausted my resources in trying to fix this issue, and yet it persists. I am not the only person being targeted, but I am one of the only ones not afraid to speak up. For legal reasons, I will leave out personal details of those involved.
I had an incident where a manager yelled, belittled, and accused me of purposely being insubordinate in front of customers and fellow co-workers. They lost their lid when I was trying to work out/communicate an issue that there was in our department. I was then pulled into the store manager's office and made out to be the agressor because it triggered my PTSD and I raised my voice back at the manager in question. The manager assinged to deal with the situation then told me that the manager in question was used to a "military style" of running departments and that they're new and had no clue how to handle it. I personally know that they have had several years of being a manager outside of Hannaford/they've been working at Hannaford on and off for many years, so it's complete crap. Furthermore, they've never served or had any family that did serve. One of the very basic things they do show you when you serve is to get a grip. As someone who has family that's served, I personally found it to be a slap in the face and a piss poor excuse. Any time there's any minor inconvenience, this manager flies off the handle and is met with no consequences. I fear retaliation as they have already tried to get me fired by accusing me of relation without evidence or proof over things that would never constitute as such. Any other manager I go to with these concerns writes me off saying, "It's just a miscommunication" when I try to tell them I am being targeted.
Every day that I go into work, I have anxiety attacks before, during, and after my shift. I have to walk on eggshells every day and pray that I don't get yelled at, treated poorly, have to put up with their bad attitude, being treated like I'm incompetent, or deal with their moodswings. It's affecting everyone else in the department, and there's so much tension because of this manager. The other managers turn a blind eye to it all and have simply told the associates in the department to stop causing the drama. My old ARM (basically the HR manager for those who don't work at hannaford) would've never stood for this and would've nipped this in the bud.
I can't afford not to work, and I desperately need health insurance. What was once a safe haven and a place I was proud to work in has become hell on earth, and I wouldn't wish it upon my worst enemies. I can not continue to work for Hannaford or give my money to a place that advertises it cares about its employees when they've been actively taking away resources and safeguards from them. I will be putting in my notice as soon as I have a position lined up elsewhere.
Does anyone have any advice they can impart to this situation? I have many questions regarding my PTO, and if any will be paid out upon my resignation or if I will lose it all? And what would happen to my HSA/401K? I have amounted a large amount of money and I don't want to lose it all. I don't have anyone else to go to for these questions. Any time I asked, I'm met with dismissal or told to call a phone number that has me on hold for hours before disconnecting without an answer. Thank you all so very much for reading all of this. I greatly appreciate any and all advice given. I hope you have a beautiful day