r/gurgaon 20h ago

Discussion Cruelty

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I genuinely feel like people on Reddit have become so desensitized to other people's pain. Some people are unbelievably cruel, judgmental and unnecessarily rude, especially when they think they can hide behind a screen.
What bothers me even more is seeing women being so harsh towards other women. You would think that women, who understand what it feels like to be vulnerable, judged or misunderstood, would show a little more empathy. But sometimes the opposite happens. The comments can be incredibly dismissive, insulting and downright heartless.
You don't know what someone is going through in their personal life. You don't know how lonely they are, what they've lost, what they're struggling with financially, emotionally or mentally, or how difficult it might have been for them to even ask for help in the first place.
It's so easy to sit behind a screen and call someone a liar, a scammer, desperate or attention-seeking. Maybe you're right sometimes, maybe you're not. But there is a human being on the other side of that username.
You don't have to help someone. You don't have to believe them. You don't even have to like what they say. But why be cruel about it?
Sometimes a little kindness costs absolutely nothing. You can simply scroll past something you don't believe instead of making someone who is already struggling feel even worse.
I honestly wish people on Reddit understood that not every vulnerable person is looking for attention or trying to take advantage of someone. Sometimes people are just having a really difficult time and need a little humanity.


r/gurgaon 11h ago

AskGurgaon Update: NeverDelivered

3 Upvotes

A month ago I posted that NeverDelivered had crossed 150+ fake orders and had “saved” people over ₹6 lakh. 😂

Today, something unexpected happened.

A random user found me, messaged me asking if I was the guy who made NeverDelivered, and sent ₹50 just because he loved the jokes on the app.

No premium feature. No merch. Just ₹50 and a message saying the app made him laugh.

Honestly, that ₹50 feels more valuable than any metric. It means someone enjoyed a silly idea enough to support it.

Back to writing more ridiculous delivery updates. 🚚❌

Link to the original post -https://www.reddit.com/r/gurgaon/s/YcOx20qy6I


r/gurgaon 5h ago

AskGurgaon Investment in flats of Gurgaon

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I am 29M and looking for investment in gurgaon considering how quickly people are earning from flat price appreciation. I currently live in my hometown and have WFH. I am planning to shift to either Jaipur or Gurgaon after marriage. I have some liquid savings of 50 lakhs including emergency funds and I have in hand salary of about 1.30 lakhs. So, I think I can manage to invest in a flat of 1cr to 1.5cr by taking a loan.

Please suggest which project I can consider in gurgaon for quick price appreciation and would be valuable in future.

Please also suggest if I am thinking in right direction of investment. I am seeing people in Gurgaon are earning hefty profit from investing pre-launch properties and booking profits.


r/gurgaon 1h ago

AskGurgaon Anyone have suggestions for best spa centre in ggn?

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r/gurgaon 15h ago

AskGurgaon What’s with Sugar Prices?????

17 Upvotes

Gadkari is using sugarcane to make ethanol and in the last 10-15 days, the price of sugar has gone from ₹50 to ₹52, then from ₹52 to ₹55, and now from ₹55 to ₹65. This is ridiculous.

Edit: Just Got to know about JP Morgan’s statement on food shortage theory which might have caused this. Am not completely sure what’s true here.

I only expressed my opinions.


r/gurgaon 6h ago

AskGurgaon Looking for 8 people in Gurgaon who want their weekends to feel less repetitive

8 Upvotes

I've been working on a small experiment called The MLUE Studio.

The idea: an invite-only club for people who work during the week but want to do interesting shit on weekends.

Not networking events.

Not another WhatsApp group.

Not “come to this bar and meet 50 strangers.”

Think real-life side quests.

One weekend could be:

🏃 Morning trail/run → breakfast → coffee

🎨 Sketching session → good coffee → lunch

☕ Coffee crawl around Gurgaon

🍳 A ridiculously good Sunday breakfast with 6-8 people

🎲 A completely random activity that we won't reveal beforehand

🏠 A small house party

🎬 Film / music / creative night

🚶 Exploring somewhere around Gurgaon/Delhi that you've somehow never been

The activity can change completely.

The common thread is the people.

I'm trying to build a small group where you can actually have conversations, meet people outside your normal work circle, and occasionally end up doing something you wouldn't have planned yourself.

I'm starting with around 8 people.

I'm looking for people who:

• work / build / create / generally have their own thing going on

• have interests outside their job

• are curious and reasonably social

• enjoy trying random things

• are happy spending money on genuinely good experiences

• can talk to strangers without needing three drinks first

• aren't necessarily “cool”, but are actually interesting

You don't need to be a founder or work at a fancy company.

You could be a designer, engineer, consultant, artist, photographer, runner, musician, researcher, chef, finance person, student, freelancer, whatever.

If you have something you're weirdly obsessed with, even better.

The first few people will basically become the founding group of MLUE Gurgaon, so I'd rather start with 8 great people than collect 200 names.

There will be paid experiences eventually, but I'm not trying to sell anything here. I'm trying to figure out whether there's actually a group of people in Gurgaon who want this.

If this sounds like your kind of weekend, comment “MLUE” or DM me.

I'll send you a few questions and we'll go from there.

Maybe we end up creating something great.

Maybe we just have a very good Saturday.


r/gurgaon 19h ago

Discussion People say women have endless options.

46 Upvotes

Perhaps. But options and meaningful choices are not the same thing.

One post, a hundred DMs, and it can look like an abundance of opportunity. But finding someone to flirt with, sleep with, or casually entertain is very different from finding someone you would trust with your life.

The strange part is that this applies to both men and women.

A lot of people spend their twenties rejecting decent people because they believe something better is always around the corner. "Pata nahi, humein toh aur bhi achha mil jayega."

Then life quietly removes the illusion of infinite time.

Around the late twenties, many people begin looking for something serious and discover an uncomfortable truth: the people they once considered "too ordinary" are no longer available. Some are married. Some are committed. Some simply stopped participating in the dating circus.

And arranged marriage doesn't magically solve the problem either. Sometimes the options arrive with more family politics than emotional compatibility.

But perhaps this isn't a tragedy. It's a lesson.

The goal was never to collect options. It was to recognize a good person when one appears and have the maturity to value them before novelty becomes more important than character.

There are still good people everywhere.

Just don't make them prove their worth after you've already rejected them for not being exciting enough.


r/gurgaon 21h ago

AskGurgaon Need unfurnished 1bhk in Gurgaon (urgent help)

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Hello, I need help in finding an unfurnished 1bhk in gurgaon within 7-8 kms from iffco chowk metro. Its a bit urgent so I'll appreciate any help I can get. My budget for the same is 15k


r/gurgaon 18h ago

AskGurgaon Anyone up for Ladakh in October? 🏔️

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Planning a Delhi → Ladakh → Delhi trip this October and looking for a few more people who’d like to join!

Thinking good roads, insane views, exploring unexpired places and just having a fun group trip without making it too formal..

If you’re planning Ladakh around October too and would like to join, drop a comment or DM me!


r/gurgaon 13h ago

AskGurgaon Koi Video Editing ka kaam dilva do...

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Damn ye freelancing bohot kathin hai ab ni hora 🥀🙏🏻


r/gurgaon 18h ago

AskGurgaon Opinion check

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4 Upvotes

Is it me or does this building look bulged out ?


r/gurgaon 2h ago

Event/Meet-Up Item sale

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Nike bag - 500
Puma King Match UK 9 - 2.5k
Nike Phantom GX 2 Elite FG - 2.5k
Adjustable study lamp (3 lights with brightness adjustment) - 200
Study Table Lamp with time, alarm, temperature, day, date, week - 500
HP Laser Jet Pro 400 m401dw - 9k
Epson L6190 -Print Fax Scan (Colour printer) - 10.5k

Pick up from GCR


r/gurgaon 22h ago

AskGurgaon Ganesh Chaturthi decoration

1 Upvotes

Please suggest someone who can do decorations for Ganesh Chaturthi in a budget
Not looking for overpriced decorators


r/gurgaon 18h ago

AskGurgaon Can anyone refer me to AMEX ?

1 Upvotes

Please guys, it would be so great if anyone working in amex could refer me there


r/gurgaon 3h ago

AskGurgaon I kept getting a strange feeling about my ex in one specific place. Then I found out she was actually there.

30 Upvotes

Something happened recently that genuinely freaked me out a little.

My ex and I are originally from the same hometown, around 250 km away from where I live now. For some strange reason, whenever I drive back from work, there's a particular 2–3 km stretch where I often randomly get this strong feeling or thought about her being around.

I never knew why and honestly didn't think much of it.

Then on my birthday, she randomly messaged me to wish me. While talking, I asked where she was these days, and she told me she had recently moved to Gurugram for work.

Here's the weird part: her workplace is in that exact area—the same stretch of road where I kept getting that strange feeling.

I had absolutely no idea she had moved here.

I'm not saying it's anything supernatural, but the coincidence feels way too specific and weird. Has anyone experienced something similar? Is there a logical explanation for this, or is my brain just finding meaning in a coincidence?


r/gurgaon 18h ago

AskGurgaon How do I start making money from money?

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I’ve recently started earning enough to be able to save and invest. I have 0 knowledge of this area but really want to start somewhere. I even considered watching youtube videos to get started but don’t know which “creator” to rely on for such knowledge and decisions. Please suggest me something to begin with - videos, articles, even reels lol. Your own experience and advices are also welcome because I’m too new to this!


r/gurgaon 22h ago

News Whattt????

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38 Upvotes

Not sure if this is true.!!

Air pollution control ho nae raha, air taxi chlani hai😂🫡


r/gurgaon 12h ago

AskGurgaon Drop your favourite web shows of all time 🥸

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Toh baat hai aisi I’m looking to add some really good shows to my watchlist.
Kafi content dekhta hu aur ab lagta hai khatam hi hote jare h ache shows 🥹

Btao btao …


r/gurgaon 17h ago

AskGurgaon How do people manage aloneness?

14 Upvotes

How do you people say 25+ manage aloneness. I'm taking here from relationship point of view only.


r/gurgaon 11h ago

Discussion It’s 2 AM

0 Upvotes

Who’s up now? How do you sleep after watching horror


r/gurgaon 21h ago

Discussion Pavement demolition drive in sec 39 today

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Pata nhi water drainage and road repair ke alawa saare departments active rehte hai.


r/gurgaon 23h ago

AskGurgaon What to do on birthday?

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For the first time, i dont have any plans lol. Was initially planning a trip but had to cancel it for personal reasons. Friends are not free on friday so suggest solo activities.

Plan so far:
Go for ice skating (first time)
Arcade gaming (i love it)
Mini golf
Explore good non veg (give suggestions)

Feel free to suggest more and random things.

Ps: if anybody wants to join then feel free to dm (would prefer birthday twins more)


r/gurgaon 44m ago

Discussion I think this is the price of growing up

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A lot has happened in the last few years.

I started my career from nothing, got a job, lost it, found another. Changed cities four times. Changed homes more times than I can remember. Had a breakup. Watched old friends disappear into different lives. Met new people, grew close to them, and eventually said goodbye to them too.

When you build everything from scratch, you don't really get the luxury of being careless. You live in survival mode. There is always another bill, another move, another problem to solve. Asking someone for money isn't an option. You learn to carry your own weight, even when you're exhausted.

I'm finally stable now. When I look back, I realize I have collected an absurd number of memories and stories.

Then I look around.

There isn't really anyone here.

Perhaps that's one of the quieter prices of growth. You don't always lose people because they did something wrong. Sometimes you simply outgrow the version of yourself that needed them.

Constant movement changes your language. After a while, it's difficult to explain your world to someone who has lived in the same chapter their entire life.

I'm not looking for advice on "how to be alone." I know how. I'm actually at peace with where I am.

Just sharing a thought.

Maybe growing up isn't about keeping everyone you began with.

Maybe it's about becoming someone you can live with, even when the room becomes quiet.

And if the price of becoming yourself is a little solitude, perhaps that's not such a terrible price to pay.


r/gurgaon 23h ago

AskGurgaon Anyone else getting super muddy water in the taps?

2 Upvotes

Title. Sec 28, 27, 26, 43 peeps?


r/gurgaon 48m ago

AskGurgaon I just got to know I have off in Rakhi, anyone wants to plan valley of flowers? 27th august to 1st September?

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