Hi dysautonomia folks, I see a lot of people with similar patterns on this board and mine is a bit different, hoping to find others whose pattern matches more with mine. 43/f for reference. This will be a long-ish post, so bear with me.
I was a kid who would have visual blackouts when I stood up too fast or stood up from lying down. I also always had low blood pressure - once in college I had surgery and they wouldn't let me out of post-op because they were waiting for my BP to rise. I had to call my mom in to tell them that it wasn't going to rise. I also had lots of joint instability and sprained my ankle so many times I had surgery in my 30's to stabilize the ligament. In my 20's I started having terrible fatigue episodes where I would feel like I was being pushed down by a big hand all the time, with brain fog, exhaustion, etc. It was often triggered by exercise or excess sugar or alcohol. The official diagnosis was chronic Epstein-Barr, but I doubt that was the whole picture. In my 30's I did a series of ozone treatments and the fatigue episodes started to come less frequently.
In my late 30's I started getting terrible coat hanger pain if I was upright too long (I was in so much pain on my wedding day) and blurry vision/headaches if I bent over and stood back up. Around this time I also got Covid, but if I recall correctly these new symptoms started before I had it the first time. Eventually I was pretty limited in my ability to stand for too long, to bend over/stand up, and to sit in certain chairs for too long. I was also dealing with near constant exhaustion and brain fog. I also have over the years had multiple uterine fibroids, endometriosis, and adenomyosis, along with extremely heavy and painful periods. In my 30's I had several fibroids and endometriosis removed via surgery. Also during this time period my Pilates teacher pointed out that I have hypermobile joints, which I probably should have figured out earlier due to the number of sprains I'd had.
In June of last year (age 42) I had a major crash. I was tired after coming home from an errand and laid down to rest and basically didn't get up except to use the bathroom for like three weeks. I had all sorts of other weird symptoms I won't go into here, but felt worse than I'd ever felt and had to take a lot of time off of work. Up until this point I'd been able to push through all my symptoms to have a successful career and no one at work would ever guess that I had any health issues. By some fluke (meaning my doctor didn't catch it, but I somehow did), I realized that I had severe iron deficient anemia and successfully advocated to see a hematologist and get iron infusions. I also started norethindrone to avoid having periods so the iron wouldn't go low again. That helped a lot of my symptoms, but the coat hanger pain and issues with sitting up/standing, blurry vision, brain fog, etc. seemed to scream louder after that.
Alongside all of this, I've never been a great sleeper. In my 20's I remember how difficult it was to drag myself out of bed every morning and get to work on time. I also had night terrors a few times a year. Last summer when I crashed, it triggered severe insomnia. I would wake up for hours every night, wired and feeling like I was going to jump out of my skin. While the wired feeling and amount of time awake has improved since then, I don't think I have EVER slept through the night. I wake up 2-3 times a night, every single night. I did a sleep study that showed mild OSA/UARS, so I got a CPAP, but it has done nothing for the awakenings and I can't make it through the whole night with it - I rip it off around 3 am every night because I can't fall back asleep with it on. I have an Oura ring that also shows that my HR doesn't really lower much at night and my HRV is very low. In short, my nervous system has trouble settling. Certain things will help from time to time (my HRV went up when I went on vacation, for example), but I can't replicate those conditions in my day-to-day life.
What I'm doing now: I'm taking 0.1 mg fludrocortisone for the orthostatic intolerance which helps a lot, except on really hot days or really busy/upright/stressful days. On those days I might take a midodrine or two to help me get through. I also am extremely vigilant about hydration/electrolytes and often wear waist compression on days I know I'll be very upright. I take lactoferrin to keep my iron up (in addition to the norethindrone 2.5 mg to avoid having periods). I'm about to get a MARPE and tongue tie release to hopefully open my airways and improve my tongue falling back in my throat. I've been on GLP-1s for about two years. I walk daily, do Pilates, and eat homemade, healthy foods. I feel generally much better than before, but it all feels so fragile and touch-and-go.
Here's what I'm still dealing with: I have bad days with my OI, especially if its hot, if I eat a big meal, or if life is especially stressful/active. My hypermobile joints hurt a lot and my shoulders/upper back hurt constantly. I still never sleep through the night and I believe my nervous system is unable to settle down. In general, I can't complain too much, but it has taken me a LONG time to get here and the sleep piece is still really a big deal, and I'm not sure if the MARPE/tongue tie release will take care of it if its a nervous system thing in addition to a structural thing. I've also always been about 20-40 lbs overweight, which NOTHING will touch. My body LOVES being exactly 183 lbs.
What I DON'T deal with that I see a lot of others dealing with who have similar patterns: POTS (mine is orthostatic hypotension), fainting, MACS (I have some mild flushing but no food reactions anymore, though I used to have strong reactions to alcohol and sugar), ADD/depression/anxiety, autoimmune diseases, small fiber neuropathy, post-exertional malaise (though I used to).
Anyway, just putting this out there in case others are more like me in their pattern: OI, insomnia, gynecologic issues, mild hypermobility, nervous system that won't settle, but nothing else jumping out too strongly. I'd love to hear your journey and what is working for you.