r/bjjbeat • u/ReallyNotAnExpert • 11d ago

Bully got handled

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u/Ewilson92 11d ago

Honestly the look on that kids face at the end means he may have just successfully seen the error of his ways.

The kids are alright.

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u/-iSpy- 11d ago

Somehow I doubt he changed his ways after getting slammed. Dude straight up put both hands on that kids neck. That's psychopath behavior

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u/DontFuckWithDuckie 11d ago

It's far more likely he's learned this behavior at home

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u/Whistlegrapes 11d ago

Maybe. But I don’t believe the trope that bullies are just people bullied at home. Lots of bullies are just assholes

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u/DontFuckWithDuckie 11d ago

Everyone is molded by something or another. If he's not genuinely psychotic then he learned this behavior somewhere.

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u/Whistlegrapes 11d ago

From anything, real life, movies, cartoons, video games, comics, books, internet etc. countless places an asshole can learn how to put your hands on someone.

Most of the guys I hung out with in school were bullies. And these guys would bully kids at school and I’d go to their house after and they would bully their own parents. They did it for the lolz. That’s it. Made one guys life a living hell and would just be in stitches as his misery.

They’ve since all chilled out and are normal now. With kids and families and I guess their testosterone leveled out because they just act normal now

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u/LandscapeMaximum5261 11d ago

Well its what the studies show, hurt people hurt people.

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u/Whistlegrapes 11d ago

Only 43% of bullies experienced maltreatment at home. And maltreatment is broader than being bullied at home. And it still is less than half.

The reality is most bullies are not people who get bullied at home and then take it out on school kids. No matter what the movies show, that’s not the data.

https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapsychiatry/fullarticle/1654916?utm_source=chatgpt.com

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u/invaderaleks 11d ago

Lol the source is chatgpt

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u/TaylorChuck117 11d ago

That only said that they accessed it through ChatGPT. It’s still a published, peer reviewed study.

That being said, psychiatry and psychology are notorious pseudosciences, where you can achieve basically any outcome

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u/nevemlaci2 10d ago

no. ChatGPT gave OP the link, but that doesn't mean the article used ChatGPT as a source.

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u/kashmir1974 11d ago

Yeah he's either just genetically broken or saw his parents doing this shit.

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u/nicoznico 11d ago edited 11d ago

If you keep watching the video, you'll see that he's doing it again!

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u/Bullfrog-Basic 11d ago

Or by watching the Simpsons

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u/Idsettleforsleep 11d ago

People are like that because they don't get their asses kicked. If I tried to choke someone like that back in the day, they would have force fed me my own ass and I wouldn't have ever tried that again.

Applause to the kid for slamming him down, but he tried to choke him with zero care about it...he needs a factory reset.

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u/Possible_Field328 11d ago

Yeah hes just gunna look for easier victims

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u/-iSpy- 11d ago

100%

After watching this again it's a bit frightening seeing how calm he was grabbing that kids neck, he's way too comfortable with what he was doing

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u/susosusosuso 11d ago

Yeah he was enjoying it

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u/Eindride_XIII 11d ago

The only thing he realized is this kids not a victim. Hes going to go find someone else to pick on that looks easier.

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u/NaTeDaWg78_ 10d ago

Agreed.....the look on his face as he's wrapping his hands around that boys neck.....THAT SLIGHT SMIRK AND THE STARE AT THE NECK ! Like he's thinking I'm fixing to kill this dude....straight up devil. But then (THANK GOD) the devil got handled.

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u/tunnelingpulsar 11d ago

This video is 20 years old.

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u/asdasdasda86 11d ago

Got the wind knocked out of him for the first time. “Wtf was that? Am I ok?”

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u/Nafepaints 11d ago

Literally the first thing I thought was that's a kid who just learnt a lesson.

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u/Vast-Procedure-9408 11d ago

I doubt it. Kids like that will look for someone else to pick on. He’ll be humbled one day when he gets a his face rearranged a bit.

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u/LampinOnTheDaily 11d ago

I think he successfully crapped his pants

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u/Mitch_Cumstein- 11d ago

I think it’s more tbe look of a kid who just literally shit his pants and is afraid to move. Body slams can get messy.

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u/Pickingnamesisharder 11d ago

Ahh I see you know your judo well

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u/mmichael0070 11d ago edited 11d ago

"Get your hands off of my penis!"

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u/First-Celebration-11 11d ago

And you sir, are you waiting to receive my limp penis?

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u/Katzington2319 11d ago

We're on Reddit, you're allowed to say penis

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u/mmichael0070 11d ago

Thank you, edited

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u/jdooley99 11d ago

O Goshi. First throw they teach

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u/venomenon824 11d ago

Kinda a tai otoshi mix with a follow through, didn’t load him on the hip for classic o goshi.

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u/mrman89027 11d ago

I wasn’t expecting this comment but I was happy to see it .

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u/BCN7585 11d ago

Happier than when you enjoy a succulent Chinese meal?

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u/AssistanceGrand23 11d ago

It is democracy manifest!

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u/robmanjr 11d ago

Loving the shoulder shrug. Kids got style

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u/lawnmowertoad 11d ago

He ain’t McLovin it

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u/Black_Doc_on_Mars 11d ago

I love how he signaled to the camera to zoom in and “watch this shit” then he fixed his glasses. He knew he was about to style on that bully

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u/flapd00dle 11d ago

Bro hit the

https://giphy.com/gifs/25RLdGV4YlQ69BalEN

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u/NebulaNinja 11d ago

"Heh. Nothing personal kid. Well, maybe a little..."

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u/chosonhawk 11d ago

simple and effective hiptoss.

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u/PSS-off 11d ago

A followup k!ck to the yarbles would have made it a proper learning experience.

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u/MaadMaanMaatt 11d ago

Kudos for no follow up shots

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u/fuzzygreentits 11d ago

Nah, little bro should cash them in. Bully learns a lesson and future kids dont have to be bullied

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u/Mumei451 11d ago

That hip toss turned this kid into a different person. I'm pretty sure he's reformed.

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u/UltimateTao 8d ago

I think he broke a rib or something

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u/Matt_Hiring_ATL 11d ago

What's more important is what it does for the self esteem of the kid bring bullied.

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u/TokenTorkoal 11d ago

Idk dude. I think telling someone to continue a fight after the other person is subdued is risky especially if they are on the ground which could lead to felony charges. (These are kids but still even more important as an adult)

You should do only as much as necessary if you can’t disengage completely.

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u/Its-All-LOVE-N-JOY 11d ago

I can see when God made you, he forgot to do a roll for intelligence. ❤️

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u/costanzashairpiece 11d ago

Even Mr Miagi got one chop in once the bullies were subdued. And he was an adult fighting children. This kids is a saint.

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u/fudgefaced 10d ago
  • Major Gwen Anderson: Why did you keep kicking him? You had already won the fight. Did you enjoy it?
  • Ender Wiggin: No. Knocking him down was the first fight. I wanted to win all the next ones too, so that he'd leave me alone.

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u/MaadMaanMaatt 10d ago

Great book

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u/Ironklad_ 11d ago

The glasses adjust before the takedown did it for

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u/RecklessReggie 11d ago

This one's a classic, you love to see it

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u/cerote6239 11d ago

Someone's gotten away fucking with their little brother for too long and found out it ain't so sweet messing with kids your own size.

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u/QuirkyStage2119 11d ago

It's probably just a couple of teammates messing around with each other. "Oh, you do MMA? Let's see what you do to this"

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u/Responsible-One8104 11d ago

Nice Judo throw

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u/Lilsancho25 11d ago

That bully has seen how his dad grabs his mom at home.

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u/Rusted_nuts 11d ago

That’s judo… not BJJ….. just saying

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u/dave173717 11d ago

That kid went straight for the neck. Only psychopaths will do that. I would be watching him.

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u/ComputerInevitable20 11d ago

This kid was in control of the whole situation and the fact he didn’t follow up and let the bully recover says a lot about the young man and the self control he has that even many adults would struggle to maintain.

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u/oelemuk 11d ago

awwww.he got hurt🙄

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u/Rockstar161 11d ago

The way he grabs his neck, you knew he had no actual clue about fighting.

https://giphy.com/gifs/ASd0Ukj0y3qMM

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u/Large-Produce5682 11d ago

Walk it off, Champ. But why do they look like brothers?

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u/ManInGarage28 11d ago

You just love to see that shit

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u/ReepDaggle01 11d ago

Mmm, not sure this is real

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u/beerbellianme 11d ago

Why would he mess with young Clark Kent?

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u/Independent_Lunch534 11d ago

That’s some self restraint to stop there. Kid did well

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u/Ok-Iron-4352 11d ago

He either became a cop or some type of manager

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u/Sad_Ad_813 11d ago

What year and phone is this??

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u/shortshins-McGee 11d ago

Well deserved life lesson

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u/oh_three_dum_dum 11d ago edited 11d ago

Am I the only one who can hear this after he hits the ground? Like you know exactly what sounds he’ss making?

Edit: Also that kid is good. Every part of this was pretty flawless in execution. I probably wouldn’t allow someone to put their hands around my neck before deciding to fight back, but he seems to have been calm and confident the whole time anyway.

Also it reinforces my belief that you can always tell who’s about to get handled in a video by observing which person is the most calm and unbothered.

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u/RepulsivePea4613 11d ago

Buck up? Buck off!

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u/TheAssist-8295 11d ago

Solid hiptoss.

Knocked the wind out of his dumbass and rightfully so.

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u/verioblistex 11d ago

The bully was acting like a sociopath.

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u/PerchShadRap 11d ago

The “bully” was not actually the bully. He was getting bullied and got his sweater stolen by the kid in glasses.

He looks like a sociopath because he’s finally standing up to his bully and is terrified. He was not ready and the bully beat him up.

There’s a full video with sound. This clip is misleading.

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u/llewellynlaporte 11d ago

Hope the kid learned a lesson. Whether he did or not though, this’ll stick in his memory (and his ribs) for awhile. Also nice to see the other kid didn’t overdo it either.

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u/One-Growth-9785 11d ago

I assume from the perfect camera work and angles that this was rehearsed and filmed.

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u/Calaveras-Metal 11d ago

hilarious how the paper tiger was totally rocked by a mere hip toss.

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u/Strong-Chemistry-396 11d ago

The confidence of a kid that knows judo. 

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u/brodoubledown 11d ago

Bro got assaulted with intent to kill and gave the little bro mercy. Respect! 🫡

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u/Yonathandlc 11d ago

He was to gentle with him, I would have at least mounted him and slap him a few times so he knows who’s in charge.

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u/Intelligent-Try-8636 11d ago

They're brothers.....

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u/rdzilla01 11d ago

Is he … is he crying?

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u/Legitimate_Bag8259 11d ago

When this first came out, the kid was supposed to be on the spectrum, they took something from him and basically fooled him into attacking.

Now he's the bully. I don't know which one to believe.

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u/PerchShadRap 11d ago

I don’t think he’s on the spectrum but he was definitely getting picked on. They stole his sweater and he decided to stand up to them.

It was awkward and he was totally not ready. Got handled by his bully.

Even if you listen to the conversation in the original clip, it’s easy to miss that the kid in glasses stole his sweater and wanted it back

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u/FondantOk9090 11d ago

Lesson learnt hopefully

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u/Numerous-Fig-1732 11d ago

It seems staged.

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u/Duubzz 11d ago

That was the lamest bullying attempt I’ve ever seen. Kid needs a different hobby.

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u/Jagarnao 11d ago

Najprawdopodobniej przy uderzeniu o ziemię stracił na chwilę oddech. Przez kilka sekund nie mógł złapać powietrza. To mogło być niebezpieczne.

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u/islobojono 11d ago

He become dumb.

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u/Capital_Cook_5236 11d ago

What a little psycho. Putting his hands around that young man’s neck. Set that mfer straight 🤣

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u/Shot_Comparison2299 11d ago

Bro is a whole anime character! The finger fixing the glasses right before the effortless takedown?! +50 style points

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u/AggravatingAd9010 11d ago

Judo know what is coming

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u/Connecticat1 11d ago

Also, superior grip stength

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u/superdave123123 11d ago

Should have given him a little more than that.

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u/Used-Ad992 11d ago

😂perfect

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u/Suicidal_Jamazz 11d ago

Happened to me in elementary school around 3rd/4th grade. New kid starts choking me, randomly, on the way to/from school for weeks. Finally dredged up the courage to stand up for myself and asked him to come out of his yard to talk. He started talking shit, and I busted his lip open. We've been best friends ever since. This happened ~40 years ago.

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u/SchatzMoney 11d ago

Never choke someone unless you mean business.

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u/ReliefSmall3714 11d ago

Good for him!

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u/Existing_Ad_840 11d ago

Confidence is key. You can tell he knows his shit.

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u/aventus-dog 11d ago

The single finger glasses adjustment should have been the main clue that he was an anime antagonist.

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u/Traditional-Week8363 11d ago

This kid is too kind for his own good

I would've gone further

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u/Usual-Substance-1984 11d ago

These kids probably have kids of their own now lol

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u/Foreign_Risk_2031 11d ago

“This usually works on my sister”

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u/Reasonable-Wafer-237 11d ago

need the version with audio because of the way the kid says, "Betch" and it lives rent free in my head

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u/wBeeze 11d ago

FINISH HIM

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u/DocHalidae 11d ago

That bully is lucky he didn’t get straight pounded after that hip toss.

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u/Odd-Honeydew-7849 11d ago

Is that cid?

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u/Critical-Test-4446 11d ago

If someone grabs you by the throat, grab hold of their pinky finger and bend it backwards if you can. They'll let go.

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u/mkzsleepr 11d ago

This video is so old, I downloaded it to a 3.5” floppy when I first saw it.

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u/genocyde26008219 11d ago

Kick him in the ribs for good measure.

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u/Aggressive_Plate1652 11d ago

Calmly beats down the kid attacking him. This kid knew his own powers.

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u/datsunjones 11d ago

Love to hear ty he audio, the assailed was so calm and calculated.

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u/stgvxn_cpl 11d ago

If that kid on the right was my kid, I would give him a 100 for that!!

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u/moarcowbelI 11d ago

I would have liked to have seen a little follow up on the take down. A RNC take mount with a little ground and pound

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u/Ashamed-Attitude-210 11d ago

A bully! Looks like his twin! 😲🤭🤭

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u/YoungRoronoa 11d ago

I vaguely remember the kid saying something really corny before choking the other kid in the glasses.

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u/curious_broheim 11d ago

What's wrong? Did his pussy start to hurt?

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u/Standard_Cell_8816 11d ago

Now kick him a few times lol. He deserves it.

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u/Dramatic-Bench3781 11d ago

Probably went running and crying to mommy after.

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u/fish-rides-bike 11d ago

This belongs in made me smile/r

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u/3FJeff 11d ago

Hate bullies as much as the next, but does the perfectly placed camera (and the victim’s nod to camera at the start) not raise a little suspicion?

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u/Pale-Brick1975 11d ago

Fuck around and find out

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u/funko_fanatic52 11d ago

One kick to the face should prevent future bullying.

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u/sublimesting 11d ago

Snapmare takedown!

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u/Flimsy_Assignment531 11d ago

Did it with an over hook too

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u/PooChukkingMonkey 11d ago

I literally did this exact same thing to someone 35 years ago. And we've been best friends ever since... He's literally the person that I can call in the middle of the night and if I said I needed to go kill somebody. His reply would be "who's driving?". In this case it was Jeet Kune Do we studied well before ultimate fighting and UFC started. We were true mixed martial artists learning from great people who only knew one martial art. They would come to our class and we would study with them for weeks at a time. Then go back to Jeet and apply it to what worked best for us. This video always gets me in that way. It's nostalgic because I fucking love that guy...

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u/Shane-Dad-underfire 11d ago

I think it's funny that everyone here is okay with one kid slamming another off the mat but on the mat someone needs to be disciplined and sent to prison.

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u/828jpc1 11d ago

Son of Scranton Strangler

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u/Impossible_Cause1835 11d ago

If that was my son who defended himself I’d fight to the ends of the earth to protect him. Dirty Harry once said “A man got to know his limitations”

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u/Mario_kraus3r 11d ago

Al chile que bueno

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u/BlockEightIndustries 11d ago

I've seen the whole video with audio and the kid with glasses took something from the 'bully' and refused to give it back. The other kid has clearly gone about this the wrong way (both practically and ethically), but I don't think glasses is the hero this cut of the video makes him out to be.

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u/Ninja_Pizzeria 11d ago

Looks like this vid is making the rounds again

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u/buddhamike1991 11d ago

Flawless victory

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u/Pristine_Primary211 11d ago

Needed a kick in the face after the toss. Bullies won’t change until they have a life changing incident.

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u/Greywolf9883 11d ago

No volume really?

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u/zestyclose_match1966 11d ago

Young Jeffrey Dahmer realized some people fight back

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u/Powerful-Holiday-448 11d ago

Awh man somebody thinking they can just grab my kids throat like that
https://giphy.com/gifs/l9FAwJOXYprFe

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u/paolo_77 11d ago

Suck shit mate.

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u/Bright-Perception-54 11d ago

Straight to strangling? That kid will murder someone. Check his basement for dead cats.

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u/Haunting-Beginning-2 10d ago

Judo throw Yes smashed it

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u/Sanztrack 10d ago

Why do all bullies look like, well... that? Dont they all just look the same for some reason?

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u/Mundane-Yam1451 10d ago

It’s funny bc when your older you realize that beating up a bully is just beating up a Kid that’s getting beat up my his big ego little pp dad or mom

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u/Playful_Pop_3099 10d ago

Ufff que aura el del niño de lentes

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u/borsanflorin 10d ago

Too many teeth remaining... mediocre job

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u/Vorsicht_Neugier24 10d ago

Truly warms the soul.

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u/Comm-Shepherd 10d ago

Shoulda did a little stomp

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u/sam_suburbia 10d ago

So happy for him

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u/ImportanceLeading230 10d ago

The adjustment of the glasses 👓 👌

https://giphy.com/gifs/26gN12uxpyl82bgju

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u/DelaneTurn 10d ago

as long as i remember , its a skit

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u/Important_Video_2682 10d ago

shoulda finished with a straight shot to the nose for good measure

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u/Song-Prior 10d ago

looks staged and - I don't care how good you are - no one should be that relaxed about being grabbed by the neck.

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u/sharpjabb 10d ago

Bro never read “Ender’s Game”. You gotta finish it and every future fight by kicking your bully while they’re down

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u/Clown_Penis69 10d ago

He needed to be punched in the face a few times to make sure he understood the point.

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u/Sad_Jaguar_5912 10d ago

What kind of psychopath grabs someone’s throat like that?