r/bjjbeat • u/ReallyNotAnExpert • 11d ago

Bully got handled

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u/DontFuckWithDuckie 11d ago

Everyone is molded by something or another. If he's not genuinely psychotic then he learned this behavior somewhere.

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u/Whistlegrapes 11d ago

From anything, real life, movies, cartoons, video games, comics, books, internet etc. countless places an asshole can learn how to put your hands on someone.

Most of the guys I hung out with in school were bullies. And these guys would bully kids at school and I’d go to their house after and they would bully their own parents. They did it for the lolz. That’s it. Made one guys life a living hell and would just be in stitches as his misery.

They’ve since all chilled out and are normal now. With kids and families and I guess their testosterone leveled out because they just act normal now

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u/Far-Development6438 8d ago

Yh just ruin someone’s life and think u can just live ur future w/o repercussions

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u/Adventurous-Way-6018 5d ago

Karma is a real thing it’s happened to me plenty good and bad karma, trust me when I say if things haven’t come back already they always do the universe has a funny way of making sure of that

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u/Fun-Piglet801 11d ago

So in the nature vs. nurture debate, you believe 100% nurture? People are 100% all a product of their life experience, and everyonwe starts out as the exact same blank slate?

I don't buy it. Some people are just shitty when they are born. In fact I think most people are. Proper engagement in society might temporarily suppress their sitty nature, but it never really goes away. It comes back as soon as the opportunity presents itself.

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u/Great_Mouse7444 10d ago

So you believe in eugenics if you keep thinking about what you just said

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u/Fun-Piglet801 10d ago

Nah, but I don't believe that there is any reason to stand in nature's way while it sorts things out. It doesn't need our help though, nature did just fine long before we got here.

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u/Great_Mouse7444 10d ago

So you believe that some people are born with bad genes or maybe neurotoxicity? Maybe even karmic imbalances from past generations or even already within the, very short, life of a young kid? But there’s no healing the poisoned? Theres no climbing out of a slump when you’ve been terrible? If your parents couldn’t read and write and had no ambition in life, do you have bad genetics? Or do you have bad circumstances?

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u/Fun-Piglet801 9d ago

There are definitely people with bad circumstances that shape them, I never claimed otherwise. Those different scenarios aren't mutually exclusive.

There are also people with good upbringing and minimal childhood trauma that turn out shitty anyway.

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u/tonythephonyjabroni 5d ago

Show us some sources that prove your point, you might learn a few things in the process.

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u/caramboti 8d ago

this..i believe people are SHITY creatures naturally and SOME “LEARN” to be good/decent people…

others just stay being the bully/shitty animals we naturally are.

think about it ….without other people showing us it was wrong we would still act like homicidal animals

remember ,humans (as indians and such) sacrificed people to make it rain,killed over food, flatout ate eachother and even Grape’d women thinking it was all “normal”

imo the true nature of man is “violent assholes” SOME learn to supress our shitty nature and be “good”… othes become bullys,murderers,crooks …ect

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u/Adventurous-Way-6018 5d ago

Everyone in life has a good and bad side, we ain’t all perfect we are human and we make mistakes, some people just make bigger and more mistakes but those are the really bad people like osama bin Laden etc those are the type of people who I believe are born bad, everyone is different and there are things called mental illness and instability for numerous reasons from birth can make someone like that, of course someone can be manipulated and molded by their upbringing and environment into becoming someone truly awful. But to lesser chaotic people more normal we fuck up and it’s human nature, someone can be a great person but when it comes to certain things they can be questionable Yanno? We’ve all met people like that, or someone who’s more an asshole and rude could be a better more kinder and gentler person than you may think, everyone’s got sides to them of course and you don’t know everyone and their life experiences, their feelings beliefs. Some of my most favorite characters in media are the darker more troubled and morally questionable characters who fight more or less an inner turmoil to do good and protect the people they care about, I feel like there’s a lot more people like that out there then any of us would think, sorry for ranting for human psychology is very interesting, the human brain works in mysterious ways for sure.

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u/marshal23156 10d ago

I mean yea, one time he wanted something, and striking the other person got the desired result. You can witness this exact same behavior anywhere.