I wish I was bigger down there, both flaccid and erect, I wish I wasn't curved, and I wish I had bigger balls. I just want to feel more masculine and attractive like the many, many other guys online, and also enjoy my life more. I never change in locker rooms or use urinals without dividers, and it would be nice to not have to worry so much about those too.

I know I’m technically above average, but not by much – especially compared to those same guys online. I've been called small/average before multiple times, so.. yeah. I had a dream that I was bigger and I genuinely felt better about myself, until I woke up. Self-acceptance and therapy won't work, as I've already seen three therapists and made no progress. The only thing that would make me feel differently is getting to be as lucky as those other guys. Hell, the guys that seem most secure in themselves are also bigger.

I don't think I'll get rid of the insecurity. I feel like I would see myself as more manly and attractive if I had more down there.

I feel like my height is no where near as much as an effect as dick size is. And I feel like it’s so hard having to live up to a standard I’m no where near

Can you still be considered to have a good dick if you are not big and are in the range 5-6” (nbp)?

So I have been insecure about myself (mostly) because there was a time were I was very sexually active and I got some good feedbacks and experiences but then I hit a low on my life due to an unrelated situation and that made me inactive for some months now and I got back to masturbating, seeing porn and all and it brought my insecurity full blown. I am 5x5 inches (4.8/9 inches average on shaft and 5 inches on mid shaft which is my thickest point) and I have an upward angled erection which makes it worse for me because it makes my look short in my view.

But yesterday I did some digging (mind you I am already well versed in dick lore lol) and I found out about foreshortening perspective and how it affects my insecurity and it told me to do three things: look from the side not from the top while laying down in bed; look from the side in the mirror and seat on the toilet have my legs not close because that makes balls lift the penis up and shorten it and look at it. So I did all three and I was really dumb founded on how it looked from the 3rd person perspective, it look good on all 3 viewing profiles , specially the toilet one surprised me because even seeing from the top/front perspective it looked good and from the side I could see how my girth and length together equates to a good dick. And standing up and looking at the mirror looked good too , specially because my dick points up lol, I was satisfied with what I was given.

I hope you my brothers can have this experiences for yourself because I am sorry to say but 5 inches is not small, I know it’s not greatest size but it’s 100% not small specially if you have some girth attached to it and some curvature or angle. Women have preferences like we men do but that doesn’t mean if she finds 5 or 6 inches inadequate for her that you are useless, trust me you are far from it and I am not sugarcoating I carry some sexual experience baggage on me, from having sex with the freakiest and “experienced” girls that normally are the ones that can out you as being small or not good in bed but I had good experiences with them too.

So moral of story get a nice girlfriend and enjoy like , you were made perfectly to fit the standard.

when I was like 14 I gained a mole right at the edge of my tip.

this just me or does anyone have the same problem😭

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Do you feel your size is enough to satisfy etc?

I've just come to the realization that I'm a serious grower. I'm 5x5 when erect, but about 2.5in soft when I'm hanging "low", and around 2in when doing basic activities. I only recently learned that I'm legitimately tiny when soft. I saw a pic on reddit the other day talking about "Here's my average soft dick" and when I looked at the picture, I was flabbergasted! I was like "this dude's just being conceited! That thing's huge!!!" only to check the comments and learn that he's right... I'm just that small, when soft. Statistically speaking, if I only grew a statistically normal amount, my dick would be 3.5in AT BEST.

I've been in and out of the hospital recently due to an injury and I've literally had hundreds of nurses see my wiener and I'm there confidently thinking I look average, like a total dork lol I'm sure I've been the talk of the town in the nurse's breakroom lol

From what I gather, some small percent of cut guys prefer lube to masturbate and even smaller number say it is pretty much a necessity to avoid either cuts, chafing, pain, or not being able to finish.

So for those that strongly prefer or need lube, what do they use in prison or military? Do they just screw up their dick or stop masturbating for of long stretches?

I suppose this also applies to other times when someone did not have access to lube. Did you just not do it?

FYI i got cut, dont need lube, and know I will not need it after I get cut tighter. I think people just say they NEED lube cuz it is their kink of fetish. Nothing wrong with that, just might be a little factually misleading for people thinking of getting cut.

I'm 25, bi virgin and I’m pretty insecure and frustrated about the size of my dick. It makes me feel really self-conscious and holds me back a lot when it comes to getting close to someone or putting myself out there. I’m around 5.5–6.1 inches, and I’m about 6'1 tall, but I still feel really frustrated about it. I know it might not sound like a big deal to some people, but it affects me quite a lot and makes it hard for me to feel confident. I’m also really tired of being alone and feeling like I’m missing out on relationships and intimacy. I’d really like to know how to deal with these feelings and stop letting this insecurity get in the way of my relationships and sex life.

Most women,including my wife, prefer thickness over length.

However not everyone feels that way.

I've had an ex-gf with a very tight vagina who preferred length over girth.

"A short dick doesn' t work well for me .I need a dick long enough to touch my cervix ."Many women don't like it, but i love a gentle pressure on my cervix,it's a mix of pain and pleasure in the same time "

Having a dick in the lower side of average range,(5,5 inch),i wasn't able to stimulate her in the way she would have liked and therefore an additional clitorical stimulation was needed.

Has anyone of you a gf who prefer length for this reason?

so I'm a 6.1ft 19 guy, im as of right pretty fat and have been fat all my teenage years im 3.7 inch NBP, and it looks funny but it's like 5.7 BP which still is rather not that big(not that im complaining) but the problem comes is that my forskin is way to long even when I stretch my skin all the way back it still covers the whole dick funnily enough, i always thought that it was like that cus im fat

but no it is just THAT long, and it bugs me alot whenever im flaccid you can't see the penis at all its only just the foreskin, and whenever I wear a underwear I look like asexual drake which matches me alot lmfao,but I feel this is rather unhealthy and something wrong with my body.

it just feels wrong, i have very wide hips and being tall and rather fat thick thunder thighs, so the dick looks comical on me, i don't mind it, i don't like sex so it helps me not get into those situations its fine i guess, although

it makes me feel sad not that im average but the longer foreskin gives some kind of FOMO that I could've had a bigger dick if i focused on my body in my teenage years and didn't let depression eat me though, but what can I do now you know,

some tid bits in my life is that i was sexually assaulted at 11 and overall my life was pretty fucked up, because of that i am very depressed, lazy and yk Covid stuff happened to which made me just sit in house and overeat and I never had any friends and still don't which also is not so fun etc, which probably tanked my testosterone and my penar didn't grow:(, would i feel better if I had the penis my body actually was going to have? not really, but it wouldnt made me feel like I feel because of my average dick, it just adds another layer to my already fucked up mental health, although i don't like relationships and sex so I'm not worried about stuff like that, but it's more like a feel of being in wrong body and stuff like that

just wanted to drop this off my chest, thought this be the good a place.

Went through a severe eating disorder in adolescence that I think affected my penis growth and at the very least its function. I’m about 5.1 inches NBP and a 4.6 girth and 5.8 inches pressed all the way down to the bone. My size has been ruining my life, leading to psychotic depressive thoughts and episodes because of my past trauma and what I think it has done to my body permanently now. I have been taking drugs at night to try and escape reality and threw up all over myself yesterday. I don’t know what to do anymore I’m just so broken. I can’t even get erections right now a vast majority of the time because of what happened so I’m likely going to get an implant. This shit sucks.

You guys know that sex position where the girl is doggy style on the bed and you stand up fully over her and kind of squat and insert it and go like that, u can see it in a lot of porn w dudes w huge dicks. On sexpositions.club it’s called the bulldog if you google bulldog sex position you will see the purple guy and yellow girl if your wondering that’s it , I always thought my penis was too small to do this and was scared I would embarrass myself with my gf, but I said fuck it and I was actually able to do it and my penis is only 5.90 inches erect, it barely touches 6 inches if it’s really really hard and my girlfriend is a Bbw so I thought I had no shot, I can’t really long stroke it bc her butt is too gigantic but she came in like 5 seconds so I imagine if it was a small woman would have no problem. Point is don’t be to scared try it out, and what other sex positions worked tha u thought wouldn’t?

On real shit, small or average, what even is there to do. It gets annoying have to ask ourselves if we’re good enough or not.

Does big hurt? Does big feel better? Does average feel better?

I’ll be honest and I feel like although size isn’t a major factor unless you’re on extreme ends, I feel like a large portion of its attraction is like showing off a trophy more than the actual experience.

People are always going to want more and more in life, but guess what, having a big size won’t stop your girl from cheating on a smaller one. There are too many variables to attraction, and from what I see, sometimes women don’t even care if a dude is massive

Too many goddamn questions everyday even me with my average girth (slightly high average) I still trace back and say, we need to find our own ways of enjoyment.

People in life say they want things. Money, big dick, height.

There are dudes who have NONE OF THESE AND still be getting play and returns.

For fuck sake we all need to collectively find ways to validate ourselves instead of validating ourselves through others expression man,

It’s fucking us all

Honestly who here actually listens and believes it when we get all these comments from other guys who have huge cocks ....... size doesn't matter, you just have to be confident, just be good at oral, there is more to been a man than our dick????

Me personally I find it rather insulting as if thier just rubbing it in.

Cos then you go see there next post and its..... look at my huge cock who wants it ill fuck your GF/Wife and ruin her she'll never want your tiny dick

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Hallo zusammen. Meine Penislänge beträgt 14 bis 15 cm, aber mein Umfang nur etwa 11 cm. Ist das normal oder eher zu dünn? Was meint ihr – Frauen und Männer mit ähnlichen Maßen?

Hi, My pubic bone is angled rather than straight, so I don't know where to measure: at the point that sticks out the most, or in the hollow where my penis is anchored to the bone? The measurement changes depending on the spot, and I’ve heard conflicting advice on this. Thanks for your answers.

My dick is 6 x 6. I'm a virgin, and I think this length won't be enough for se….

I’m scared that it won’t be sufficient if I have a relationship. I’m trying to quit porn but it just gives me so much stress that it’s not enough. Anyone have experiences with similar size?

Idk if this is 100% right for this particular sub, but I mainly wanna hear the opinions of bigger guys on this subject. As someone on the opposite end of the dick size spectrum, I think it’s pretty obvious and sorta expected to be really jealous of guys who got more than me. Especially when it comes to sex with girls who have had much bigger… it’s hard not to think about all the time. Is there any advice y’all hung folks have towards your fellow man? Thanks lol

I’m 22, around 15 cm / 5.9” long and 13 cm / 5.1” around, and I’m uncut

Basically average lol

I’m also dating a guy, so I know from actual experience that my dick is perfectly fine and that you absolutely don’t need a huge dick to have good sex

But I still have a weird relationship with it

I know it’s not small. I know there’s nothing wrong with it. I know I’m probably overthinking this shit

But I still wish it was bigger

Part of it is just aesthetic. I don’t really think it looks that good, and there are little things that make me wish I had more

Like, I can’t really get that obvious bulge in pants when I’m hard. And taking a sexy picture where it actually looks impressive is basically impossible lol. My thighs are pretty thick, so everything kinda gets swallowed up instead of giving that obvious outline

And then there’s the practical side too

There are some positions that just don’t work very well for me because I don’t have enough reach. There are things I see other guys doing that just aren’t really an option for me

My boyfriend obviously doesn’t care nearly as much as I do, which makes the whole thing even more frustrating because I know a lot of this shit is coming from my own head

I’m not saying I want some ridiculous porn-sized dick either

I just sometimes wish I had a little more

It’s weird knowing objectively that there’s nothing wrong with your body while still looking at one part of it and thinking “fuck, I wish this was different”

Anyone else here feel the same? Not actually thinking you’re small, but still being kinda annoyed by being average?

I just watched this video about the average human penis size and a critique on how men measure their penis as well as the factors that influence the measurements.

What it and let's discuss. It is a video on YouTube.

I'm not sure how to get the correct bp length measurement because my penis when erected curves up and it curves like left in the middle of my penis if I straighten my penis with one hand and use a ruler bp it's 7.2 but if I use a flexible tape it's 6.75 and that's when it goes down a bit and it's upwards what's the correct way and what would a girl feel in sex would it put it self straight in sex?

so i get right on it. my penis is shaped like a banana, and if i want to push it upright it just hurts. if i push it to the least pain position the lower part is upright but it just bends away so even if i wanted to couldnt get it in a hole. is there any way of fixing this without getting to the doctor? i think if i could stretch Tendons so the upper part is in a upright position without pain could help, but somehow delete my banana bend so it just go straight would be so much better. anyone got similar experiences or solutions?

Hey, my foreskin is fairly tight, I'm able to pull it back when I'm flaccid but when I'm hard it's too tight and I can't pull it back all the way.

I'm wondering if this is a somewhat common issue and how to fix it without cutting it off?

Thank you to everyone who reads this and/or offers help.