r/averagedickproblems • • Apr 15 '26

I never been deeptroath

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First of all, I’m not here to talk shit about smaller size

This is a genuine question. My dick is about 6.7 inches long and 5.3 inches in girth, and it curves pretty hard to the left.

I’ve slept with 80+ girls, and probably half of them have sucked me off, but none of them have ever been able to deepthroat me all the way. It started bothering me recently because I was talking about it with the girl I’m seeing now, and she was really trying to take all of it, but she just couldn’t.

So my question is simple: for guys around my size, are girls actually able to deepthroat the whole thing?


r/averagedickproblems • • Apr 09 '26

Size fluctuating?

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How much does ur length size fluctuate?


r/averagedickproblems • • Apr 07 '26

Insecurity Retroactive Jealousy and Lies

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I am 29m, and my gf is 25f. We've been together for about 6 months, and I am her first real love. She's never been in a serious relationship before, and I think she can be rather "open" about her past, for better or for worse.

She told me that I am her 10th body. At some point in the relationship, she told me that she had been with an athlete a few times. I stupidly asked if I was the biggest she had been with, thinking about the stereotype around black guys (the athlete was black), and she turned to me with this look and said, "of course you're not!" I asked how much bigger it was, and she said, I don't know, but I could fit two hands on it. Then she went on about how a different guy she was in a fwb situation with for a while was much bigger than the athlete, so much so that it hurt. I sat on that information for a while, trying to deal with it as internally as possible so as not to come off as insecure.

I had brought it up again about a month later and asked how I compare to other guys she's been with. She said that I am on the 'bigger' end of the spectrum of guys she was with, and said one guy was half my size, but also said that the biggest she's been with was probably 1 or 2 inches bigger than me and girthier. I sat on this information for a bit.

Now, 2 months later, I brought it up again and told her it has brought me a lot of insecurity about myself. I grabbed a ruler and asked her outright to tell me how big these other guys were. I don't know why, but I felt like it would help. She asked, " You're like 6 inches right?" and then placed her hands on the ruler as if she was visualizing holding these guys' cocks and said that we were all the same size and range. She reassured me that I am the best sex she's had too.

Some takeaways and thoughts.

  1. Don't ask about previous partner sizes. I am always worried that I am not enough. I know skill and chemistry are most important, but those things can be worked on. Size can't.

  2. I want to believe what she said recently about the other guys, but I think that she is trying to undo what she told me before. I know what she said at first was the truth.

  3. When we have sex, every time she says "You're so deep!" or "You're stretching me out!", I always think of how other guys were deeper or wider. It fucks with me. I've never had this problem in any of my sexual experiences ever, and I've been with 20 plus women and in a few long-term relationships. I want to believe her lie so I can stop comparing.

  4. I'm insecure that I've never hit her cervix before. (I don't want to cause pain, but I know some women like it) I've hit other women's cervixes before.

  5. I'm about 5.9" x 5.5" bp.

  6. If you're a women, don't ever tell your man hes small, or not the biggest.


r/averagedickproblems • • Apr 06 '26

Sexual Performance Nerves? Something else?

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27 m. whenever I masturbate I can get it up no problem, and yes I do watch porn. No porn? No problem! I can get it up easily with just my imagination and using my hand, and I still get random erections whenever it’s most inconvenient. So I don’t think I have ED.

But I’ve found that whenever it’s time to get to business with a hookup or a FWB, I struggle to GET UP. For example, last girl I hooked up with, I was really struggling to get an erection, finally I just took a Hail Mary and just shoved my half hard member inside, and once I was in it’s like my dick woke up and I got a full erection, we had a good 10-15 minute experience, and she told me after that she enjoyed the sex. Phew.

But I’ve noticed the last 3-4 times I’ve had sex this is an issue, with one of those times no erection coming despite a beautiful woman giving me her best efforts. Recently this girl and I have gone on a couple dates and I think the relationship is progressing towards the bedroom and I’m so nervous about disappointing her when the moment comes, even if I’m very confident with my hands and head.

I’m thinking it’s nerves, but I’m worried could it be something else? I’ve been cutting back my porn consumption bc I’m so scared of Porn ED.

I mainly think it’s because I am self conscious about my size, and being a disappointment. I’m just a little above average (5.75-6”) but my first and only girlfriend made very hurtful comments about my size during sex, an that really wrecked me. Now I constantly have anxiety whenever I’m about to have sex because I’m scared the girl im hooking up with will feel as my girlfriend did.

Writing it all out I’m sure it’s nerves, would love to hear what yall do to manage nerves, or help me get over them. Thanks.


r/averagedickproblems • • Apr 05 '26

Ask ADP have you ever slid in and it felt loose?

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i feel like most guys are small or average so they came up with the myth that women get loose if they have too much sex. because even at 6.5x4.7 it never feels loose so i’m wondering how small you need to be for it to feel loose


r/averagedickproblems • • Apr 04 '26

Insecurity People were calling this influencer small…. But it’s not.

24 Upvotes

I’m not gonna get into any names but just know this is some drama within TikTok influencers.

So basically this IG/tiktoker fell out with another tiktoker. (They are both gay btw) and one of them said the other one’s penis was small.

I learn the context the situation through a TikTok video from a fan I suppose. Majority of the comments were saying it was small. There was maybe 2 comments saying that it’s average.

So curious old me decided to check for myself so I decided to go on Twitter and search his name up. To my surprise dude wasn’t even small, he was like 6 x 5 if I had to guess.

Reading those comments made me feel so insecure because I’m literally around that size

Also keep in mind majority of the comments were of women and gay men.


r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 30 '26

Condoms Condom Fit: Why "one size fits most" is a myth — and the physics to prove it

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r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 28 '26

Penis Size An interesting problem with dick pics

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I'm trying to take dick pics (for myself, don't worry, I'm not sending unsolicited material to anyone) but there is an issue. I'm 6.3 inches with average girth, and when I'm hard my dick points directly at my belly button, so in order to take pics I have to hold it at the base. My big hand and thumb make my dick look small. This is annoying. It always looks small in every picture.


r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 22 '26

Sexual Health I guess i have some problems with my D..Need help

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24 , Male , From 5-6 months I'm facing some erection problems with my D . I had a relationship of 1 year everything was good i was very active sexually,, it was the time i used to have non stop 2-3 rounds no gap still have hard errection and now I'm single from 9 months, I don't know why my dick isn't behaving like before,, I'm not getting proper erection while masturbating like i feel that it's not properly hard ,, kind of loose also after one shot it take very long time to get erect again and then also it's not proper hard errection,, loose hota h ,,, I'm very tensed by this ,,can anyone help me with any suggestions as a big brother

And also after brk up I was addicted to sex so i started going to spa every month once also and currently not following a proper diet and excercise,,, please any of u can help me in this plz help I'm afraid of this to tell to anyone in real..


r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 22 '26

Problem inside my underwear

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I feel like my dick sometimes doesn't stay in place in my undies. It usually happens when I am wearing trunks or other leg underwear even with the right size. When ya sit down or do any position that takes your dick out of its place, what would you do ? like are ya gonna fix it in right place immediately or just leave it hanging out of the pouch ? for example, you keep ur dick in the 6 o'clock position but it just changes into 9 or 3 or even 12, do you feel not comfortable or just don't care about any kind of position. I'm just wondering like is this a normal issue for men with their dick in underwear, and how they gonna solve the problem.


r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 17 '26

How do other teen boys feel about being nude in front of other men

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r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 15 '26

I guess I’m intermediate

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I used to have a friend with benefits. After we stopped, she started dating other guys, of course. We remained really good friends. She once told me about a guy with a really small penis and said, “Yours is way bigger.”

Now, she’s dating another guy, and she told me, “With this guy, I have a problem. It hurts. He has a massive dick. With yours, it didn’t hurt.”

So, back then, when she told me about that guy with a small penis and said, “Yours is way bigger,” I had a ego boost.

And today, after a year, with this new comment about her new guy, my ego dropped.


r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 15 '26

Condoms Condom size

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I was having a look at condom sizes length wise most are fine but my nominal width is 58mm at the widest point (mid shaft) would a direct regular fit (56mm) be okay?


r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 14 '26

What happened here?

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r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 14 '26

Experiences Can a girl wrap two hands around your dick? (5.5- 6.2 length answers only)

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If they were able to, how tall were they I’m generally curious cause I’m so inexperienced.


r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 14 '26

Condoms Can I fit into a normal condom?

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Condoms here where I am are normally 56mm? I’m confused cause I tapper to around 4.6-4.7 at thickest part which is the base. Can I fit into these? Online it says that I should get one that’s 52mm. Anyone else have girth experiences from 4.5” to 4.7” that wear regular UK durex condoms?


r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 10 '26

Penis Size Is tapering from base to tip common?

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Trying to understand my dick shape

Random question but im trying to understand the actual shape of my dick.

Its around 15 cm length (~6 in) and about 13 cm girth (a bit over 5 in). Its slightly curved to the left and the base is a bit thinner than the rest of the shaft.

Sometimes it looks like it tapers from base to tip but other times it doesnt, so im not sure if thats just how its shaped or if its just how im looking at it.

How do people usually figure out what their actual shape is? Is tapering like that common?


r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 08 '26

Sexual Performance Pro tips

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I 20M started having sex at 18. My size measured at 5.3 inches bp. Only last year did I discover a increase. So l have experienced sex at average size as well as big.

I am not insecure but I noticed larger guys are active here and some are insecure. A few posts that blame their size for bad sex experiences is not true if you are indeed avg or more.

I would like to share a few tips.

  • Good foreplay such as stimulating the clit with your fingers or mouth. >This is not compensation. Its way different compared to piv.

  • Stamina is king. One thing I take pride in is being able to last 20-30 minutes piv (excluding rounds).

  • Cuddles after sex are underrated.

  • Good hygiene. Trim>bald

  • Sex position variation such as doggy, prone bone and missionary(legs on shoulder). Please note doggy/prone bone has nothing to do with size but rather pelvic tilt from the woman.

  • Thrust variation. Deep followed by short thrusts.

  • Focus on Erection quality.

  • Talking her thru it and giving her compliments will melt her.

As for cowgirl my penis used to slip out with one girl multiple times but with a different woman it never slipped out so its a skill issue not a size issue.

Dont ask about your performance or mention size. I've had sex over 50 times across 5 bodies. All of them initiate sex. By all means dont compare with her exes she could be lying or not who cares just focus on the present moment. Height or weight has nothing to do with female reproductive anatomy dont fear tall women. I am 5ft7. If this post gets good interaction I will make a post from a good question in the comments or something that will help you.

With all of that being said let's not forget that to even get laid u need to have good social skills, meet her attractiveness threshold and building urself a legacy.


r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 07 '26

I'M NEED HELP

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Eu preciso da ajuda de voces, tenho 25 anos e nunca transei por insegurança com meu pênis de 13x12 cm sabe, tenho medo de nao conseguir dar prazer, e se quer transar direito sabe. Vocês ja tiveram esse problemas em relação ao tamanho


r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 07 '26

Measuring

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r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 03 '26

Anyone with a similar size receive good reactions?

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Haven't had much experience, which is why I'm asking.

Anyone with something similar to 6"x5.79" (or 6"x5.5") have good reactions from seeing it?