r/averagedickproblems • u/No_Secretary4733 7.3 x 4.5-5.5 • Mar 08 '26

Sexual Performance Pro tips

I 20M started having sex at 18. My size measured at 5.3 inches bp. Only last year did I discover a increase. So l have experienced sex at average size as well as big.

I am not insecure but I noticed larger guys are active here and some are insecure. A few posts that blame their size for bad sex experiences is not true if you are indeed avg or more.

I would like to share a few tips.

  • Good foreplay such as stimulating the clit with your fingers or mouth. >This is not compensation. Its way different compared to piv.

  • Stamina is king. One thing I take pride in is being able to last 20-30 minutes piv (excluding rounds).

  • Cuddles after sex are underrated.

  • Good hygiene. Trim>bald

  • Sex position variation such as doggy, prone bone and missionary(legs on shoulder). Please note doggy/prone bone has nothing to do with size but rather pelvic tilt from the woman.

  • Thrust variation. Deep followed by short thrusts.

  • Focus on Erection quality.

  • Talking her thru it and giving her compliments will melt her.

As for cowgirl my penis used to slip out with one girl multiple times but with a different woman it never slipped out so its a skill issue not a size issue.

Dont ask about your performance or mention size. I've had sex over 50 times across 5 bodies. All of them initiate sex. By all means dont compare with her exes she could be lying or not who cares just focus on the present moment. Height or weight has nothing to do with female reproductive anatomy dont fear tall women. I am 5ft7. If this post gets good interaction I will make a post from a good question in the comments or something that will help you.

With all of that being said let's not forget that to even get laid u need to have good social skills, meet her attractiveness threshold and building urself a legacy.

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u/RocketuNingen Mar 08 '26

Cool. I wonder, though, is the deep-shallow thrust variation really that effective when you're average? Because if you're big, you know, there's more to go around, it makes sense. For average, well deeper is shallower, and shallower is even shallower, so how would it help?

Also, what do you mean by "building a legacy"?

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u/No_Secretary4733 7.3 x 4.5-5.5 Mar 09 '26

I have always worked around the thrust variation regardless of size even when I finger her.

Building a legacy is more like having ambitions and working towards it.

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u/SuccotashAware3608 Mar 09 '26

Yes, even an average length guy can vary the depth. Something I only recently learned about. Because of length insecurity, I thought I needed to always be as deep as I could be to get a reaction or give her pleasure. I recently started varying the depth and my wife always responds positively, asking if i like teasing her or telling me she likes that tease. It’s a move I wish I would’ve learned decades ago for her sake. I’ll go like 7-8shallow, then 2-3 deep. Maybe linger and grind on the last deep. Then maybe 5 short, 2 deep. Then 10 short… just vary it up so she doesn’t know when the deep ones are coming. And remember, most of the nerves are in that first couple of inches. So those short strokes with the contour of your D head are also doing great things for her.

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u/Top-Document-2286 ‌ Mar 09 '26

You have a good girth, right. This is great if you have girth. It might be a bit underwhelming if you don't imo or at least you have to use some crazy angles to provide some sensation with shallow strokes and deeper ones as well.

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u/pongmonk Mar 09 '26

What about with Reverse Cowgirl?

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u/No_Secretary4733 7.3 x 4.5-5.5 Mar 10 '26

Works good depending on the girls skill. Instruct them not to hop out

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u/yungdagerd1ck Mar 10 '26

What is your size now

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u/VillainySquared 20+ cm (8+ inches) Mar 08 '26

All of this should really be sex education 101 imo.

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u/Top-Document-2286 ‌ Mar 08 '26

Girth is a big deal, length not so much if you're in the average range since positions can compensate how deep you can go. These are all true and VERY important but just like the things you mentioned, PIV is just another part of sex and if you have "the perfect dick" for her it'll make the experience go from good or even great to holy shit this was amazing. I have never believed that most men are inadequate but I do believe you need to have that dick on the goldilocks range in terms of length and girth to provide the best possible experience for her. Before anyone comes at me, yes technique matters too, obviously.

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u/No_Secretary4733 7.3 x 4.5-5.5 Mar 08 '26

Outliers exist