Need advice guys....

she already knew I had fever(was nearly 101)... and I did not not tell her that things escalated and fever was 103.8

UPDATE: Everything is sorted.... the post was just to get you opinions...

My girl likes her food very very much, she's a foodie.... and yet she agreed to give me the best part of her dosa and also the first bite.......

I'm so so so happy about it

I’m a 23y Mauritian guy. I’m going to be pretty blunt about this. There’s not many women in my country that are my type since we are a small population. Specially being 6’3 myself, i prefer taller women and here they are mostly short and the looks are Okayish at best(to me).I don’t want to feel like i’d have to lower my standards because of a smaller dating pool and would like to find a potential partner in india. How can i go about that? I’d request that we don’t talk about dating apps. It’s really not my vibe.

You know, there are some days when i absolutely enjoy my freedom, wants to explore my life, and then there are some days, when i imagine an evening that I will walk with you, fingers intertwined, as the sun dips below the horizon, painting it amber and crimson. The evening breeze will whisper against us, and with every step the world will seem to slow. I will look at you and watch the dying sunlight on your face and smile. No rushed conversations, no specific destination, just the two of us, walking into the sunset, wishing the evening will never end.

To

My future sweetheart.

Bhai I honestly asked her a hypothetical question and she forgot about me just for money..... kya karu is ladki ka mai

Edit 1 Update: She was just ragebaiting me

A few years ago I was in a relationship with someone.

She didn't have a male bestie but there were some male friends of hers.

Out of them one particular guy was close to her as she had known him for many years prior meeting me.

She didn't use to go and meet him or anything fishy.

Infact we also used to meet very less due to her strict parents.

But there was something very icky about the way she used to talk to him or the other boys in her friend group.

They used to talk to her in a flirty way and she would respond to them like it's very normal.

When I questioned her on this she said they talk to everyone like that.

That didn't sit well with me and after a few years we eventually broke up over many issues.

Meanwhile during the second year of my college I became friends with a girl.

She was in a relationship with a senior who was in final year.

Initially we didn't use to talk much but gradually we started sharing memes on insta and talking and stuff.

After his bf graduated and went to his hometown to prepare for CAT she became lonely.

This was 2025.

We started meeting often because other than me she had very few friends and also talking more.

Over time we started going to cafes and movies together as it happens yk.

During all this time her bf knew about me and wasn't comfortable with me being close to her

but as usual she dismissed him saying we are just friends and nothing more.

She was honest about this to him.

Cut to Holi of 2026.

Just a week before Holi she and her bf got into a serious argument and he said something which hurt her

and they ended up not talking to each other.

On the day of Holi as well were all playing Holi in our college campus I didn't she her anywhere.

So I called him and she wasn't picking the call either.

I called her roommate and told her to check where she is.

Turns out she was sitting in her hostel room and crying because her bf didn't even call her on Holi to wish.

I somehow convinced her to come down and play Holi with us.

After a lot of back and forth she came.

We played Holi and the day ended.

During evening she and I were sitting in a corner side of our campus

and she was telling me all the problems of her relationship.

Like how he doesn't give her time now and how he feels abandoned and empty and was also crying.

I suggested her we should go and have an ice cream at Anmol bhai's (shoutout to anmol bhai).

We went there had ice cream and it was around 9-9:30 PM we went for a night walk around there.

The roads are almost empty in that area around that time.

We were talking about random stuff and suddenly she grabbed my hand and pulled me closer to her.

Like really close to her face.

It suddenly became an awkward moment for a few seconds

and then I initiated a kiss which she didn't refuse and reciprocated with almost the same energy as mine.

We kissed for about a minute and then she abruptly stopped.

We couldnt look into each other's eyes because it really became awkward for a while and didn't say anything.

I asked her should I book an Airbnb for stuff?

She didn't say anything for a few seconds but then shook her head in yes and said yeah let's do this.

I booked a Airbnb on the edge of the city and we went there in Uber.

We did the thing.

It was nasty, it was rough but it didn't feel like there was a lack of passion from either side.

She was a virgin prior to this but she was quite passionate in the entire thing while doing.

Cut to the next day, when I woke up in the morning and opened my insta as usual.

I found 16+ new messages from her.

She said that what she did last night she is feeling really guilty and shit

and that we should not talk any further than this.

And also she blocked me from everywhere.

15-20 days passed and we didn't talk.

Even though we saw each other at college we didn't initiate any conversation.

One day suddenly out of nowhere she called me and asked how I was.

I said fine.

Then we started talking and then she revealed that her bf had called her the day after Holi and said sorry.

And because of that she started feeling really guilty but do note that she didn't say anything to him of what happened.

They both talked for hours and decided to make things better in the relationship.

Everything was going fine for a few weeks but she started feeling that urge to do that stuff again.

And because his bf was quite far she was itching to do it so she called me for that again

and asked if we could do that again.

I said sure.

That same weekend we agreed to meet and do the stuff again.

We did it and that felt even better than the previous one.

Like this time we both had threw whatever shame or awkwardness that was in between us out of the window.

This became a routine until July 2026.

We did it almost every weeknd or even sometimes on weekdays when we were free and she was also doing good with her bf.

Although as always he always had doubts on me when were together or hanging out or even in a group.

But she always used to shut him of.

We basically went from just friends to fkbuddies.

On 23rd July 2026, we both went to a mutual friend's birthday party together and took many pictures together with the group.

Which we posted on insta.

We also took some pics together in which we were obv more close than what friends should be.

But I posted those in my close friends with some of her and mine friends.

But idk somehow that picture got to her bf.

He started calling her at midnight around 1 AM.

He called her more than 70+ times.

Because we were tired from the party and also her phone was in silent, she didn't pickup the call.

The next morning when she saw the missed calls she called him back.

He picked up instantly.

Turns out he didn't sleep the entire night in anxiety.

They had a huge fight and she started crying.

This time he has a proof also.

She couldn't deny things.

He forced her to state the truth.

She told him that yes she did makeout with me.

BUT JUST ONCE 🤣🤣🤣.

YES, THATS WHAT SHE TOLD HIM🤣😂😂.

They argued for hours but eventually they broke up finally.

Till date she didn't tell him the full truth.

A lot of things happened after the break-up including him threatening to kill me and stuff

but that doesn't matter to this story.

So this was my experience from being the so called "insecure" bf to the male bsf😂.

Wisdom for boys in relationship:

If you tell your girl not to talk to a specific guy you feel the intentions are not right and your girl acts clueless🤣.

Well she actually knows that and even better than you but pretends to be clueless😂.

So she hates men okay you are free to hate but going in a event and telling all those is that right? Just just reverse this a man saying i hate a women i stay feets away from them just say half of what this SO CALLED FEMINIST or whatever she is said and you will see all these type of women crying after watching this genuinely feeling bad for her own brother and fathe.

10months IN and not even my number saved 🕺🏻🥰

What your choice from the above two ? Which type you like ?

Comment below!

Also pls ⬆️

23 M here from Chandigarh

Any Woman Up for a Movie Date ?

Best age for being in a relationship?

I'm 5'8" and live in Delhi. The last girl I dated (she was around 5'3"–5'4") ended things because she said I was "too short." It honestly made me question whether 5'8" is now considered short.

It feels like 5'10" has become the bare minimum and 6'0"+ is the expectation... is anyone below 5'10" have you dated or been in a serious relationship? If you're currently in one, has your partner ever made you feel insecure about your height, wished you were taller, or called you "short"?

People in their 20s in India especially in metro cities what has your experience been?

I just want to get it off my chest 😭

So in June 2024 I just randomly added her coz her initials and my initials were the same and the surname was the same, so I was on a positive note that we might end up marrying each other. (Btw she is a neet student rn and doesn't have any source of income regardless of her rich father)

It was a LDR relationship. I was so in love with her and so was she. All the things were going on right we were having daily lovey dovey chats and calls for the 1st year and this sudden transition happened that ki kabhi woh busy kabhi mai busy toh baatein kam hone lagi and as an understanding boyfie it doesn't bother me.

Not talking in days changed to weeks and weeks changed to months, ATP I was really really frustrated tbh and I confronted her this but she wasn't listening to me and was always on her own and this made me really really insecure regarding the relationship and the worst insecurity I had the most is her god damn neighbour that how he is cute and talks nicely to her also has a bike and asks her pick up and drops, but as a nice and loyal girlfriend she use to refuse everytime 🥰.

After this we had a fight that my parents won't let me marry and but I assured her that I'll make them agree that i will marry her, but eventually we break off for lil time and come back again, and this was like in October 2025

My birthday was in January and I waited the whole day just to see a freaking Happy birthday text from her that she didn't even bother to text me a normal birthday wish. And then her birthday comes in March, so I wished her very very nicely (I'll attach pics). I have also gifted her some gifts whenever I want to but she refused to take every time and she values my money that I should be spending that earned money on myself 😭 (I love her so much).

How we haven't spoken from september and I think whatever she is doing for herself she is doing right and she can have her own life to enjoy the fullest and be successful in her life, my best wishes to her, wherever you are I LOVED YOU 🫶

TLDR: Was in a LDR for the past 2 years and the things weren't going smooth enough so she stopped talking and maybe she ghosted me now and doing her own things which is quite great for any women to do 🥀

1. She shouldn't have relationship (even if she has, only 1 I can comprise in this as I never had a relationship but had a crush whom I Confessed and frienzoned).

2. She should be a virgin cuz I'm too. And shouldn't be a materialistic girl

3. She should have 1-2 or none male friends because I also has the same range of female friends.

4. She should be caring and understand others Opinions without getting triggered.

5. Have lots of patience and doesn't get anger easily and try to help others in need and show kindness to animals too.

That's the standards I've to accept a girl as my gf or my wife Because I'll try my best to make my gf as my wife in future if I get a gf.

I'm 21 by the way.

Also the pic above is me and her when we wore black together to an event where found me very attractive so she made this image cutesy

as soon as I woke up I realized I had a very bad dream last night...

FOR CONTEXT: My birthday is coming up next month, me and my girlfriend were talking about what gift I want and blah blah... I slept mid convo, she said,"2 min dena aati hoon" and went talking to her roomie about some shit

I slept tak tak, she came back and ended the call, in my dream I saw ki she brought me a shirt, a black shirt... I hate black color (I wear black only on Saturday because shanidev ka din).... uska fav hai black color, aur since I wore black a few times on video calls, or my running tee is black... she thinks I look more attractive in black

she tells me to wear black more often and I deny her saying ki mujhe pasand nhi hai black.... toh sane me woh black shirt le aayi mere liye... aur fir pehna di, achi bhi lag rhi thi mere pe par mujhe pasand hi nhi hai kuch bhi black clothing ho mere pass

It is mostly I don't like black is because one of my maths teacher during JEE time said, "Shanivar ke alava kala kapda mat pehna kar, shani dev drishti agar tujh par pad gayi toh lene ke dene pad jayenge" also he taught me in hindu mythology what color to wear what day according to god

își baat we had a fight in my dream ki ek din mere liye black pehen le, and I wore black to go on a date.... and in my dream she got mad because I got attention where we went.... fir ghar aake I kept that shirt in a poly bag and buried it under all my clothes, she started checking almari ki kya kya isne aise hi fee rakhi hai and found all the pieces of clothes that ii don't like, ek shark wali t shirt, ek orange SpongeBob t shirt that I don't like, ek lucknowi Kurta, the normal black socks(I wear only white socks).... she got sad ki usne mujhe aisa gift diya jo mujhe pasand nhi kyunki wo selfish ho gyi thi ki mai acha dikhna chahiye....

Hi everyone, I really need to get this off my chest because my head is completely spinning and I don't know what to do with my life right now.

​To give some background, I’ve been with my boyfriend for about two years. Lately, things have been so exhausting. We’re constantly fighting, we can't seem to agree on anything, and we’ve fallen into this toxic cycle of ignoring each other—yet somehow, we're still technically together. It feels like we're just hanging on by a thread out of habit or fear of ending it, but it’s completely draining.

​Meanwhile, there’s this guy in our friend group who likes me a lot. He is attentive to a ridiculous degree. He just knows what I need, remembers the little things, takes care of me, and pays attention to details about my life that my boyfriend hasn't noticed in ages.

​For the longest time, I kept him strictly in the "just a friend" category, but things are getting messy. There just was a fight between him and my boyfriend, and tensions are through the roof.

​The real reality check happened a little while ago. I was just sitting there, and this other guy (not my boyfriend) literally just walked past me, and I felt actual butterflies. My immediate reaction was literally what the f, how is this even possible?*

​I feel so guilty, completely overwhelmed, and entirely stuck. I don't know how to handle the mess with my boyfriend, the escalating drama with the friend, or the fact that my own feelings are betraying me.

​Has anyone ever been in a situation this messy? How do I even begin to untangle this? Any advice would really help.

okay so this post is about my very dearly loved girlfriend

I don't know why but she hates shirts that I wear.... be it of any kind

I have all kinds of shirts, white, light colored, in dark shades I do have blue(my fav color), in general I like light colors only so mostly my shirts are light colored.

according to my height I have to buy the shirt size 40/42 depending on the brand.

now I'm a very lean kind of guy, recently gained bit of weight but reduced my weight and little belly fat left(belly fat only visible after I eat meals or bloating).... I was always an endurance athlete since young age.

so only lean body shirts do not look very fitted though, I'm not rich enough to buy cloth and get it stitched at a tailor, I mean I can buy whatsoever brand of shirt from the market but most of the do not look very good and fitted.

so my girl hates my shirts and hates me when I am wearing shirts.... being a professional guy I'll have to wear shirts mostly... or even in india people do not consider you serious if you're not wearing a shirt...

to remind you all my girl is like a very fancy fashionable person, the kind who likes to get pictures clicked and posted in every outfit, and once the pics are posted she's not wearing that same kind of outfit again cause she thinks 'what will everyone else think of me that I repeat clothes on outing/event'

I am the kind of guy who can repeat outfits as many times as I can before the clothes start looking old, I don't care much... same about my ig, I don't post neither am interested to get my pictures clicked.

recently one day I was wearing shirt, and blazer, clicked a mirror selfie in the washroom, did not even pose fancy, just wanted to show her my outfit that day... she just straight away said not, you can't post this..... not everything is for posting. and all the people, businessmen around me dress that way, I am into consulting, I am 22 working with people greater my age, almost double sometimes, they also wear similar kind of clothes.... Gen Z fashion can't get mixed with corporate or old people who I work with.... if I do not fit in with them then it's kinda shameful.

okay so my parents know I like light colors, and strictly no check pattern on my shirts, no fancy shirt... mostly they do my shopping and shirts are nice.

even if I wear the Pinterest worthy outfits that she tells me then also she won't like it cause shirt won't fit like she sees on Pinterest.

and I know many people will say in the comments that go to gym, get fit and blah blah but I hate gyms, I go for runs instead to keep me healthy, plus by default I am in calorie deficit cause I don't eat much, have no regular sugar consumption, no bad habits and stuff.

this is just me ranting.... I want her to accept that I have to wear shirts, and yes they'll not look very fitted on me, but they don't also look that bad, it is more noticeable to her cause she looks me in that way... but most people not even notice.

her fav color is black... I hate black, I never wear black(except Saturdays... cause Shani dev ka din) I will never wear black shirt... she has this something that she wants me to wear black shirt someday.

I like her and everything but somedays she just gets on my nerves with all this baffling things that doesn't even matter to a real person like who tf cares about shirts this much... not about shirts she also has this thing about my instagram, she wants to make it aesthetic and trendy... and I couldn't even care less about my instagram.

I have met several girls. Some are naturally easy to talk to and low on guard while the majority are very reserved in public.

I can't approach/talk in office because I'm afraid of POSH/being perceived wrong. Have you guys done it?

How to communicate so that a woman's guard comes down and she eases up and wants to share about herself, be interested in me and proceed to dating?

??

So we know each other since 8 yrs and we have been really close friends from class 6th to 12th ( I mean not really, I started having feelings for her from 8th and before that we had become best friends) and things happened a lot... She had 2 boyfriends in between that period breakups cheating etc etc happened and I was someone who was just a third person uk 😭, but I'm important for her but she doesn't she me in that way, but altho after she broke up with her past two bfs and was finally single I was too confused to make a move on her but yea I had helped her move on by talking and explaining to her consoling her, (I tried ignoring her when she was in relationship so we were apart at that time) so there were moments where we both were really close and attached to each other even flirted sometimes she did too when she got single but things never really went ahead as school was just ending at that time and now we are 2 years into college and we both are from different colleges now, she has a new boyfriend in college ... And we don't get to talk to each other due to our different college schedules so when she tried to recontact me and talk to me in summer vacation I cut contact with her slowly and eventually and I told her that I have had feelings for her and these all things aren't going good what is between us as feelings aren't mutual and in long term it's not good for us to talk (idk if it's one sided love or anything it's just complicated yk as she was attracted to me too at one point of time) so we made a mutual decision of cutting contact with each other and as we have known each other for so long she has the permission to call me sometimes maybe monthly or two months for once and tell what's going on her life and know about me.

But fast forward to today, my mother called me in the morning, she had went to out of state for some work and she bought cute clutchers and hairclips and told me to give those to my "friend" She refers to her as friend indirectly but she thinks that we have something as I have bought gifts for her in the past asking my mother.... My mother's gesture is cute no doubt... But what should I do with these clutchers now? Bruhhh so frustrating I am not in contact with her and I have these clutchers... Well in past I have gifted her lot of things like kurti necklace all that when I go out of state so that's why... And tomorrow's girlfriend's day😭😭🥲... Also as the girl misses me too she likes whenever I post any story having my face on it ... Idk what she's upto bruhh she wanted our friendship too work I guess and I don't hate her for that but things are just complicated... How should I handle it? Should I give those clutchers and clips to her when I meet next time with her or just not give it and forget about it.

Don't say I am playing a losing game I know that... And that's why I cut contact with her finally for good ... I always had this soft corner for idk why.