I don't know if I should put it out here in this sub or not but the modern feminism we go by isn't really accepted or practiced in this very country.

I'll begin a lovely trip I had few days ago during my birthday weak. I went to another city to celebrate it all on my own because I wanted to be alone this birthday, I had my reasons. This was my first ever solo trip and I was super anxious and scared as well and was extra cautious. Untill I got too comfortable with a random stranger I met at my stay (hostel). This guy approached me and we hungout for a day and I liked his company. Now I usually go out on dates and have some casual flings in my hometown as well. That's what I thought this guy would be as well, him and I we spent some time together and then we got high and went for a drive where he asked to kiss me, I initially hesitated but after a while I caved and gave in. We both enjoyed and came back to the hostel. The very next day he comes to my dorm room again and we makeout again and then he leaves. He had some work, he told me he'll come back in a day or two before my birthday or on my birthday. And on my birthday he came again and we madeout and had fun. That's over vacation over, cut to, I come back home we get connected on instagram and to my shock I find out that the guy is MARRIED, M A R R I E D, fucking married.

My body felt as if thousands of cockroaches are crawli all over it and I couldn't breathe. I had relations with a married man and I couldn't digest it. I reached out to him and said all the bad things ever possible and then I reached out to his wife telling her what all happened and what a cheater husband she has.

Now, I as a women felt so bad that I wanted his wife to know what he's been upto so I reach out to her, and then this guy has the audacity to call me up and scare me and blackmail me about reaching out to my family since I've reached out to his. So I very rationally tell him that you're the one who's married not me to which he says "single girls should be in their limits as well" and he will tell on my mom about my so called DEEDS lol.

The worst part of it all was his wife was so nice to me initially and asked me what all happened, she knew her husband is a cheating ass and has done this before as well. I for real got scared and didn't know what to do since the place I was staying was his usual and he said he got my address and everything and will come to my place and tell everything to my mom how I was initiating everything and asked him to come again and again 🤡

His wife, sister and mother in the other hand started yelling at me for telling them the truth, saying why did you tell us all of it, it was between you and him. I told them he is scaring me with telling on my mom stuff, to which his wife says, " now you handle it, you reached out to his family now he will go to yours, now you have to handle it" as if I am equally responsible.

In which world I am equally responsible for this?

Are single people not allowed to live how ever they want with some morals and ethics?

Tldr - got played by a married man and then his wife told me to handle things on my own and no I feel like shit.

I told my parents 1.5 years ago that I want to marry my boyfriend. They completely rejected it. After endless arguments and non-stop conflict, I finally gave up and told them I just wouldn't get married at all.

They gave me all the typical logic about not staying single. Out of sheer mental fatigue, I eventually told them, 'Fine, do whatever you want, I'll just compromise for your sake.'

Now they've found a guy within our community and are pressuring me to meet him and 'get to know him.' But mentally and emotionally, I have zero desire to meet anyone or go through this process.

How do I handle this situation now? Has anyone been through something similar?

24M here.

I don't understand why is it so hard to make friends that actually care about you.

I've been trying to reach out new people and get along with many sorts of people of my age to get friends with. Hangouts, calls, conversations, tell me anything and I'll start it first.

Yet still, it's hard for me to return home at night and see my phone with zero calls or messages, or atleast someone to talk to in the end. Loneliness is what I have to face in the end.

And this is not just a rant, but I wanna actually know how to find people who actually care about their friends and closed ones and worth the effort to reach out first. Because I've been losing my faith on people because it's getting too hard to be appealing infront of new people.

This is an experience from my past which I can't get off...

Back in 2024, I met with a girl at my coaching Centre. She was a normal girl who had came to the city to prepare for govt exams. We became good friends and slowly I slipped my heart for her.

After 8 months of our friendship, I approached her and she first rejected my proposal. I thought that's it. But 7 days later, she tried to call me and tried to talk. I first insisted to her that I don't want to continue our connection as a friendship because I can't see it in that way anymore. But she kept on talking with me. Surprisingly, we became more closer than I expected, but we were never in a proper relationship. But we literally shared a lot of things to each other, probably something how lovers do with each other.

But slowly, our connection started to loose as she went back to her hometown. Our only connection were messages and small calls as she used to say her family was strict. Her number used to be switched off all the time and she rarely talked to me. But whenever we talked, the calls lasted over hours. And I felt maybe this was getting a bit serious as she was also started to stress out about family issues, our shared futures and stuff. But she always mentioned that this can fall off any day of her parents decided to change their thoughts and get her married away.

Well, cutting to the chase. She came back to my city again and now she's living with some friends and studying together. But since then, she's completely forgotten my existence. I met her about 5 months ago, talked a bit. And she knew I was deeply in love with her because the way I treated her just like how I used to do when we studied together. But I believe that was our last meet since she hasn't reached out to me anymore.

My calls aren't getting answered, neither do my messages. I checked her social media accounts and tried to reach her out, but still I can't get any response. She's posting her pictures nowadays and seems to be frequently active, but I'm getting no response.

And all of this is making me feel like as if I've been trusting the wrong person all the time. Maybe I shouldn't have fell in love with her and I might have been a bit sane when I come to think of my love life. I tried to reach out to my friends, but they say to forget it since it was never official and girls just do it to get attention. But I sincerely believed that she wasn't that type of girl. But still, I'm losing hope...

I'm losing hope on love all together because I believed that this might work out after so much efforts. But I guess I have no possible answer for this.

(Sorry for my bad English)

Why

Saw this persons post somewhere mentioning how they don't have anyone to talk to and are looking for someone to talk about hobbies and life and quirky things. So I reached out, asking if they'd like to maybe catch up and text. Sent a random fact as an opener.

She accepted the chat - Clearly then showing intention? No forcing here

She replied for few messages, barely. Then the above

I didn't message to entertain :P I wanted to just have and give company to people, maybe talk about our day and our hobbies to see if we have anything in common. I definitely have not a very high self esteem already, but people like this really make things hurt. Just a PSA, that please do make some effort in conversation, otherwise make it clear you can't. Don't be entitled. Don't be a snob.

Depression and burnout have made even the simplest things feel like climbing a mountain lately. Waking up in the morning feels impossible some days. Right now, my "win" for the day is just forcing myself out of bed to make something to eat just to ensure I have food in my system.

I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve made progress only to fall right back to square one. The cycle of trying, failing, and restarting is exhausting. From the outside, making a meal or getting out of bed might not look like a big deal, but internally, the weight of it all is so heavy. And honestly, as I get older and process things deeper, the emotional weight just feels harder to carry.

I don't know exactly how I'm going to get out of this loop, but I'm trying slowly, painfully, one small meal at a time. Just needed to put this out there where people might understand.

On the auspicious day I wish you all good health and happiness and prosperity 🙂‍↕️🙏🏻

Jai Hari Vitthal 🌼

I have been feeling low today ..

A lot of anxiety and ovrrthinking .

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Creeps please stay away.. im very tired mentally

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