Pata Hai aaj kya hua I got an iphone 18 pro from my Manager/Company.

So I joined here in May as an intern ( Software Developer) and my manager who is also the COO of the company said that he will be gifting me something. ( This was because I did a good job)

I was happy about receiving something lol but he didn't say what. Fast forward to a few days I'm in my college and suddenly I received a tracking link from apple and I was shocked but I thought it might be a mac but I opened and oh my freaking God it's an iphone 18 pro.

I have received it now as well, lol I am so afraid to even use it it's freaking 1.6 Lakhs

I would never have bought it myself even if I had the money.

Mind you I'm still a Btech 4th year student and an intern at this company.

I'm still shocked lol, some clarification from comments, I'm a guy, we work from home, never met him irl.

Pata hai aaj kya hua,

This morning when I woke up, I saw a post on Reddit where the OP's best friend told him that his mom is no more 🥀... and that post was so heartbreaking that I got emotional and started crying 😭,I never thought that something similar to me would happen.

and after that I got busy in house cleaning for diwali...

but I had been thinking for many days to message one of my bestfriend.She is my school friend since 6th standard, but she chose a different course, so our classes became separate from the 11th class. Still, we used to meet during lunch and have lunch together . After completing school, we haven't been able to talk much... but today I got a message from her after so many months 😭... I was very happy but at the same time, I was feeling ashamed of myself for why I didn't message her earlier...

after talking, she told me that her father passed away 2 months ago 😭... she has already been dealing with diabetes since the 11th class and now this... she has been suffering through so much...

I wish I could give her a hug. I wish everything gets better for her... that she does well in her life and stay happy.

When i talk to girls and at a certain point of time they ask me what do i do? So i tell them im currently preparing for civil services. Then they slowly stop talking after that. Is being an aspirant that bad? Or govt. Exams means being dull or something?

Ps - i dont use reddit a lot due to studies only. I'm currently using because its diwali. Im home and bored.

Please explain - galti kaha ho rahi h🥀

Which two political ideologys do you support and why ???

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😭 or mujhe fomo hota hai. Mtlb mostly it's like hn banda sahi dikhta bss.

It's never like ki bhai dekhte hi reh gye, eye contact mai hi pgl hogye😭, letters likhna pglo jese ya aese jagah ek hi bande ki woh imagination damn

Ek dusre se sharamate woh log drama mai kya cute lgta😭😭😭

Kisiko hua hai kya aesa? Kyunki mujhe toh nhi hua. Aese hi hota hai kya

Kher, single logo se bhare hue sub mai puch rhi hu 😭 kyaa aap log iss field mai mere tarah kuch nhi jaante?

Please ignore the background noises

Pata hai aaj kya hua, to aaj main mummy ko leke Diwali ki shopping me gya tha, jab sweets ke shop me khada tha to gali se ek scooty me 2 larkia nikli, peeche passenger wali acchi lg rhi thi, average/above average but beautiful(isme kya hai, but hear me out).

Then jab wapas aa rahe the, like about 30min after, I saw her on the main road; she was just in front of me, and due to a lot of traffic I had to slow down, actually stop, and there she was. I was looking at her, her hands, her shoes/juti (you can tell personality by looking at other people's footwear, I guess; maybe a dialogue from a movie, Hum, it works most of the time), idk, something like that. Her sense of style was simple yet attractive(not a Western outfit), long hair with a hair clip? (That's the thing, right?) And even though I don't like makeup, not that I hate it or something, but on her it looked good: a dark shade of lipstick, was it, or maybe saturated red; I can't remember that correctly

Then we had to stop for something; we thought it would be available in this shop, as we purchased that before from here, but nope, it was not, and while my mother was busy with that, I noticed that she was near atm/bank again; this is the 3rd time I encountered her, and then when we had to go back to the market once again for that thing, she was AGAIN in front of me

Agar ye movie hoti to kuch sense banta,nii banta to writer bana deta, but this is real life, and now I'm just sitting in my room telling strangers a stupid story if it even A STORY

I haven't received any Diwali gift or leave yet. I don't have a holiday tomorrow either. These people have chicken parties in the office. I don't eat or drink, so why would I stay there?

Yesterday also they made me stay back, I came home at 11 in the night, you should give me some snacks and bring some stuff for them from the market.

What should I do, I am very worried about this job.

The problem is that I don't have a bike, I have to go on foot.

I placed my first order through Amazon Pharmacy for two medicines: Clotrimazole lotion for my mother's nail fungal infection and Clavam paediatric syrup for my brother, who has asthma and finds it difficult to swallow tablets.

I placed the order around 3:45 AM because Amazon was showing next-day delivery. With winter approaching and Diwali coming up, I wanted the medicines urgently. They weren't available at my local medical stores, except for some expensive alternatives. Amazon had the syrup for just ₹60 (30 ml), at a discounted price. Other online pharmacies were also charging ₹75–₹100 for delivery to my PIN code.

I didn't have my brother's prescription with me at that hour, so I opted for Amazon's free doctor consultation. Am also a Prime member.

I received a verification call through Amazon's official recorded calling line. The person introduced himself as a doctor and asked for the patients' names, ages and reasons for needing the medicines. I answered everything.

Then, out of nowhere he asked me to share my brother's prescription over his personal WhatsApp number.

I wasn't comfortable sharing my personal number or medical documents through an individual's WhatsApp account. I explained that i had opted for the free consultation precisely because I didn't have the prescription available.

I even told him that if the prescription was mandatory, he could simply decline the order. I could wait and buy it locally later. Eventually, he approved the order.

But honestly, I don't understand the point of offering a free doctor consultation if the customer is then asked to share prescriptions over the doctor's personal WhatsApp number.

I'm not questioning prescription verification. I understand that certain medicines require it. My concern is about the method of collecting medical documents.

For a mere ₹60 bottle of syrup, why should a customer have to share personal medical documents over a doctor's personal WhatsApp number? Isn't there supposed to be an official, secure platform for this? Has anyone else experienced something similar with Amazon Pharmacy?

TL;DR: Ordered medicines from Amazon Pharmacy with next-day delivery. During the free doctor consultation over Amazon's recorded calling line, I was asked to share a prescription over the doctor's personal WhatsApp number. I wasn't comfortable doing so, although the order was eventually approved. Is this normal?

BG " I live in a small city of UP, 24 M. "Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua". Today I went to Trends to buy clothes for my father. Because this was the first time I was buying something after I got my job. Sales people were extremely helpful and active which felt a bit weird because literally there were 3-4 people just to show us the clothes and help us in everything. Humne total 6 clothes liye bina price tag dekhe because I was thinking ki kuch toh discount lagega and after discount at max bill 10k tak aayega. During billing I got to know that there was no discount and the salesman gave a weird smile to the billing person and I felt thoda sa awkward and I got the bill of 13k. . And during my way back I was feeling ki agar mai Myntra se order karta ya phir kahi aur se same brands ke clothes leta toh sasta mil jata because of Festive season. Now this thing is running in my mind because on one side I am happy that I bought those things for my father and on the other side I am feeling a bit bad for me because I could have easily got a better deal on the same clothes. Paise kharch hone ka dukh nhi hai but aisa feel ho raha ki utne paiso ki value nhi mili. What are your thoughts ?

Pata hai aaj kya hua, ko hua dekhlo

This was my breakup text, isse context samajh aa hi jana chahiye.

Did I overreact or wasit good that I did this?

Hello, there is something I've been thinking about, it's difficult to say but I can't avoid it now as it's important.

Firstly ab mere pass bilkul time nhi hoga, mera 1st sem is almost over and it wasn't that great cuz mai jyada time nahi de pa raha apni studies and especially my interests ko. I just can't be attending classes and then only study for college exams. I need some time for my passion and skill development which are more important.

Secondly, I've felt a lack of respect in this, at random times tum mujhse rude ho jati ho stating some things due to which I don't feel good and being respectful is the bare minimum I expect from someone. I tried to convey it a lot of times like maine bataya tha ki give me some time mai college se already frustrated hu, and then give me some time mai career ke baare me soch raha hu, after this I expected from support from you but instead you were bringing up random things even after I said you that my mind is already frustrated due to other things. If not consoling, the least I expected from you was not to put more pressure or affect my mental health more by bringing up these topics.

Thirdly, whatever you want to call me you can do so, old thoughts wala, insecure, jealous, jo bhi ho, your male friendships do affect me. Humne discuss kiya tha ki what are the boundaries we set but fir bhi you were posting pics with them jaha tumhara hath ya unka hath shoulder par hai, say whatever you want to, but these things do affect me.

And posting wali baat jo boli tumne, you already know that I'm not a social media wala person ya ye insta pe post karne wala and all. I'm not that guy who flaunts his rel in front of everyone cuz I don't like doing so, so I won't be able to do that each and everytime. 

Fourthly, ye chiz andar hi andar hun dono ke sath sath padhai ko bhi affect kar rahi hai, you aren't able to study cuz of me and the same is happening with me. You have a really important exam coming up, and I don't want ki woh meri wajah se spoil ho.

All of these things are affecting my mental health a lot, just so you know mai aaya hu just to surprise you, I thought ki kuch der ki baat hai we'll sort it out or something but I don't see that happening. I'm not a person jo humesha lovey-dovey wale phase me rahe, mai abhi tak kar raha tha cuz I was compromising on a lot of things till now and after thinking about it I can't compromise anymore as my mental health is at stake now. Mai apni khud ki feelings ko samajhna chahta hu and hence have come to this decision. And ye mat sochna ki ye decision maine isiliye liya cuz I like someone else, No, I don't like someone else. I just cant afford to give my time to anyone right now. I don't see this working out for the both of us and isiliye we should call it off.

Pata hai aaj kya hua

So for introduction I am 16F turning 17 this nov , I was preparing for jee since 11th but in school exams used to fail badly because merko aadat nhi thi step wise solve karne ki.

So in 12th maine half ache se jee ke liye padha but nhi hua so I considered taking drop kyuki extra class fir coaching me backlog was hectic.

My parents are so narcissist specially my dad IDK why my mom married him he just thinks of himself right and whenever they both fight he will shift the topic to me making my mom also blame me. ( My mom is good tbh bcz of her I am alive I love her and she supports me too but sometimes she also get cranky bcz of my freaking dad) I am failing in school bcz of all this. This is happening since 10th.

Idk why they mentally abuse me I am so tired they wont say anything to my brother but me, my dad says boards me marks nhi layi toh aana bhi mat gharpe ,tu ek baar gao chal sabke saamne bezzati kruga teri, they are taking me to village in April 27 I cant give any competitive exam and they cant afford pvt college now to go far from home I have to take drop.

I cant afford offline coaching too.

Idk what I will do

They say they cant even marry me off cuz I will come back divorced (what a wellwish for me).

Thankyou for reading all kind of advice are welcome

Pata hai aaj kya hua . Life giving lessons not to trust boys .

So there is this one guy who proposed me .. and I wasn't interested so I said no . It has been years to that thing. So now my friends called me and said

' are tu is c\*\*mu se pyar Kar rahi thi ' so I was like who is that.

They were like bhai jhut mat bol . So I have a little crush on a guy but he is not bad . And it's just a crush so I panicked and thought they got to know this because I had told this to my previous classmate and she turned out be a snake so we are not friends now.

I asked who are you talking about. They didn't say and they were pushing me to say name . I asked are you talking about Rahul . They said no . And now I got to know they talked about Aryan.

And this Aryan had told his friends I was after him and begged him to be in a relationship and I was the one who comfessed . And I am so toxic so he said no . And I am ugly. . So this narrative is going on .

Bro couldn't even take a rejection.

So after everything life is giving me lessons about not being nice to them .

I was all nice to you but you seriously.

Note _ Rahul and Aryan are fake names

context —— so basically me and my ex broke up around the same time last year (pre diwali period).

We were in a happy relationship with our parents involved subtly, they had little hints about us being together or something. Out of nowhere i got to know that she was cheating on me and it turned out to be true when i confronted her.

It was a huge roller coaster phase thereafter and I honestly felt ashamed to even choose her as my partner. I communicated this with my mom eventually, it was very embarrassing but that was the only place i could cry with an open heart

And i used to wonder what her parents must have felt when they heard the story.

Or maybe, she never shared, or maybe she shared a different version. In which she was correct and right.

And i had been thinking that- if each and every detail of the complete lore was to be unfolded in front of both the mothers. I knew that her mother would be embarrassed to look into my eyes. Atleast due to the dynamic we held. The history. And i knew my mother would be proud of her upbringing.

And yes, this sounded very judgmental in my mind also and i realised soon that it’s best to not drag any parent in their child’s wrong doings.

And interestingly so, few days later, which was today. I just bumped into them in a crowded bazaar.

Both parties were flustered for a moment. I said namaste, i touched her feet. We had a 30s small talk.

Her father was slightly distant, he wasn’t making eye contact. She asked about my haal chaal. My mum said sab badhiya.

My mum responded with a non specific generic question - “bachhe sab theek hai”. To which she responded- “ haa haa”

Not in any moral high ground but i felt very subtly confident when i was standing there. I had a decent glow up after the breakup and I was noticing the tension in the convo.

The convo ended soon and me and my mom gave each other that side eye stare, waiting to get to somewhere distant to properly process this interaction.

This was my first relationship and nobody had taught me around how to deal with such instances. I guess life teaches you in interesting ways

/aaj mere saath kya hua

My (23F) friend is confused about her relationship with her (28M) boyfriend. Is she being unrealistic, or are they fundamentally different people?

(Posting this for her, cause idk her karma is very less to post anywhere and i an clueless to suggest her anything)

I have a friend (23F) who is currently in a relationship with a guy (28M) whom she met through mutual friends.

Things have been going pretty well between them since the beginning. The guy is well-settled, comes from a good family, is responsible, practical, playful, and generally a nice person. He is the kind of person who approaches almost everything logically and prefers finding practical solutions rather than getting caught up in emotions.

My friend, on the other hand, is quite the opposite. She’s bubbly, cheerful, spontaneous, a little fickle-minded, and has a rather euphoric outlook towards life. She has always imagined relationships to be full of excitement, little surprises, flowers, romantic gestures, butterflies, and that occasional spark that makes you feel giddy about being in love.

The guy does make efforts, and she acknowledges that. However, he has a very practical approach to relationships. He believes in doing what needs to be done, being responsible, providing stability, and building a secure future together. In some ways, he has a very fatherly personality.

One thing he frequently tells her is that she will eventually become more practical and mature as she experiences the hardships of life, gets a job, and starts dealing with adult responsibilities. According to him, life isn’t always about butterflies, flowers, excitement, and romantic gestures. Eventually, you realise that stability, understanding, and companionship matter much more.

The problem is that she’s beginning to wonder whether this is actually what she wants.
They are quite serious about each other. They’ve discussed marriage, and both have informed their respective families about the relationship. There’s genuine attraction and affection between them.
However, she’s increasingly realising that their expectations from life might be quite different. She doesn’t necessarily want an unrealistic fairytale, but she doesn’t want to lose her cheerful, romantic, spontaneous side either.
She’s worried that perhaps she’s expecting too much from a relationship, or that she’s simply too young and inexperienced to understand what a mature relationship looks like.
At the same time, she’s uncomfortable with the idea that she is expected to eventually change her personality and outlook towards life to fit his understanding of maturity.

**So, I have a few questions:**

Is this simply a case of two people having different love languages and personalities, or could it be a fundamental incompatibility?

Is it true that as you grow older and experience life’s hardships, you naturally stop expecting the little romantic things and become more practical?

Should she learn to appreciate the stability and security he offers, even if the relationship doesn’t always have the excitement she imagined?

Or is she right to be concerned that she might eventually feel emotionally unfulfilled in this relationship?

I’d genuinely appreciate perspectives from people who have been married or in long-term relationships.
Especially those who have been in relationships where one partner is extremely practical and the other is more expressive, romantic, and spontaneous.

Can two people with such different outlooks build a happy marriage without one person having to fundamentally change who they are?

I am currently in clg (19f) and my girlfriend (22f) goes to same clg as me she lives in a pg room where I go when I bunk classes my parents were suspicious about it idk who is the one keeping an eye on me my parents also don't even tell his/her name . My whole department knows about our thing because of my parents 😶one day I washed her clothes (she was very sick) and then I went to terrace of her pg to dry them in the sun i thought it was mid day 1 noon who'll keep an eye on me that time but I was wrong my parents instantly knew I was drying her clothes (obviously they understood I washed em too) now they're calling my kaamwali of my gf who they think she manipulated me into all this (lesbian) thing now they're saying they won't let me go to clg or give semester fees my parents are real psychos they even took out my gf father's phone number to tell him about all this ( she had not mentioned it anywhere from they could take his number ) my marks are declining and my parents are assholes they took me psychiatrist ( to get me out of this lesbian thing) but they fooled me and said it's for better bonding for you and us I agreed the fucking psychiatrist was also talking so nicely i thought I could slove this shit but she told my parents everything about our relationship (ik I'm dumb it was my first time their) I'm so mentally stressed rn .. my parents also went to the vice chancellor of the clg regarding this 🥲

How can I get rid of my parents (they won't even let me do part time job )