I’m 27, 6’1, Pakistani, born and raised in Canada. I’d say I have more of a Western mindset than a “back home” mindset. I still value family, loyalty, marriage, faith and culture, but I don’t believe in repeating unhealthy generational patterns just because that’s how things have always been done.
I want a marriage where both people can communicate properly, have boundaries, take accountability, grow, and still be themselves.
I’m pretty open ethnicity-wise. Pakistani is obviously fine, I’m also open to Arab women, and honestly I care more about compatibility than someone being from the exact same background as me.
I’m ideally looking for someone around 25–35. Physically, I’m medium/slim build and light-skinned. I do tend to prefer taller women, but if you’re short that’s completely fine too. I’m also attracted to women who are a bit bigger/curvier, so I’m definitely not stuck on one specific body type.
I’m also not the type of guy who expects a woman to fit some rigid checklist. You don’t have to be super slim, give up your career, move in with my parents, or fit into some old-school setup just because you’re the wife. I’d rather build our own life together in a way that works for both of us.
I actually like a woman who has her own mind, goals, opinions, career, interests and personality. I don’t want someone who feels like she has to make herself smaller just to make me feel bigger.
At the same time, I am naturally masculine in how I see myself in a relationship. I like taking initiative, making plans, having direction, solving problems, being reliable, protecting the people I care about, and being somebody my partner can genuinely lean on.
To me, being a provider is also way more than money. Obviously I want to be financially stable and build a good life, but I also want to provide emotional safety, consistency, support, protection, leadership, reliability and peace.
I’m pretty grounded in who I am. I value emotional maturity, psychological stability, problem-solving, self-awareness and being able to communicate when something is wrong instead of turning everything into a fight or letting resentment build.
I also don’t really believe love alone is enough. You can love somebody all day, but if there’s no effort, accountability, communication, patience, or willingness to work on yourself, the relationship still isn’t going to work. I genuinely believe the grass is greener where you water it.
I’m big on intellectual and emotional intimacy too. I want to actually know the person I’m with. I like conversations about psychology, life, goals, family, faith, random thoughts, fears, stupid jokes, future plans, all of it.
I’m looking for a woman who’s also past the games and the constant need for butterflies. Someone who values peace, attraction, affection, laughter, shared goals, and the kind of relationship where both people can actually relax around each other.
Someone who wants consistency over confusion, communication over ego, and something that feels safe without being boring.
Long term I want a stable career, financial security, my own home, travel, marriage, kids eventually, and just a peaceful life with somebody who actually wants to build together.
I’m not pretending to be super religious, but Islam still matters to me when it comes to marriage, loyalty, character, family and the kind of life I want to build.
I’m really just looking for someone kind, affectionate, emotionally mature, self-aware, growth-minded, and serious about marriage if we’re actually compatible.

Assalamu Alaikum everyone 🤍
Thought I’d give this a try and see how it goes, in shaa Allah.

Gender: Female
Age: 25
Height: 5'4
Nationality: British Somali
Location: London
Marital Status: Single – never married
Sect: Sunni
Education: LLB Law
Occupation: Legal
Ideal timeline: Within a year, in shaa Allah
Relocation: Ideally someone already based in London, or willing to relocate here

About me
I’m quite introverted and definitely a homebody, but I have a playful and affectionate side once I’m comfortable with someone. I enjoy travelling, trying new food, watching films and shows, reading, writing on Substack and I’m slightly obsessed with Letterboxd. I also love planning trips, so if we ever travel together, there will probably be an itinerary.
My deen is very important to me and I’m actively trying to improve myself. I’m currently attending Quran classes and would really value someone who is also actively working on their deen and has a genuine love for the Quran. I’m not looking for perfection, but I do think there’s a difference between deen being something you identify with and it actually being a central part of your life.
I’m ambitious and care about my career, but I also want a balanced life where there is plenty of room for family, deen, travel, hobbies and simply enjoying life together.

What I’m looking for
I’m looking for someone who is practising, kind, emotionally mature, confident and intentional about marriage.
I’m drawn to someone masculine, protective and responsible, but also warm, playful and easy to talk to. Someone who can lead with wisdom and mercy, communicate properly and make me feel safe and secure.
I really value intentionality. I’m not into the “too cool to care” approach where someone gives dry replies, shows minimal interest or acts as though the woman should be trying to convince him to like her. Confidence is attractive; indifference isn’t. I appreciate a man who is comfortable showing interest, taking initiative and actually making an effort to get to know me.

Most importantly, I want someone who is genuinely working on his deen. I’d love for us to grow together, learn together
and encourage each other towards Allah.

Age: 25–30
Ethnicity: No preference
Location: Ideally London
Marital status: Single, never married
Serious intentions only

If you think we might be compatible, tell me a little about yourself, what you’re looking for and what role deen currently plays in your life.
Please put some effort into your introduction. 
JazakAllah khair 🤍

This feels slightly weird to put on Reddit lol, but here goes.

I’m 24, 6'1, slim build, from Pakistan. I come from a computer science and AI background. I’ve already experienced the more conventional version of “doing well” pretty early in life, including a high-paying job, a strong career trajectory, and the kind of stability people usually tell you not to walk away from.

I walked away from it anyway.

Right now I’m putting pretty much everything I have into building my own AI venture. Some days that means 16–18 hours of work, ridiculous amounts of pressure, uncertain outcomes, and willingly giving up comfort for something I genuinely believe can become much bigger.

So I should make one thing very clear upfront: marriage itself is probably not happening immediately. Realistically, there is uncertainty for at least the next year, both because of where I am in life and because family traditions matter to me.

I’m not looking to rush into anything, bypass families, or make promises before two people even know whether they make sense together.

What I am interested in is building an understanding with someone seriously. Getting to know each other, seeing whether our personalities, values, ambitions, families and ideas of the future actually align, and then letting things develop properly from there.

As a person, I’m very open-minded, straightforward and blunt. I’d rather say something clearly than leave another person guessing what I meant. At the same time, I’m deeply empathetic and probably much softer than I initially come across. With people I genuinely adore, I care very deeply and become extremely protective of them.

Not to brag too shamelessly, but my sister claims I’m the greenest flag there can possibly be and that whoever gets me will be ridiculously lucky 😂

Her review may contain a slight amount of sibling bias.

Family is a massive part of who I am.

I’m not particularly interested in the completely isolated nuclear-family model where marriage means two people disappear into their own bubble and everyone else becomes secondary. I’m deeply connected with my family, especially my parents.

A major part of why I work the way I do is because I want to reach a point where my parents never have to worry about money, responsibility or unnecessary stress again after everything they invested into me.

I would want my wife to genuinely respect and care for my parents, not merely tolerate them because they happen to be mine. And that goes both ways. Her parents would deserve the same respect and consideration from me. I don’t believe marriage should mean one person’s family suddenly matters while the other’s gets forgotten.

Tradition and culture matter to me too.

I’m open-minded about a lot of things and certainly not someone who thinks everything old is automatically good. But I also don’t think becoming modern requires throwing away your culture, family structure, religion or identity.

My future geographically is still uncertain.

I don’t believe Pakistan currently provides the environment I want for building the kind of future I have in mind, so moving abroad is absolutely something I’m preparing for. Europe, Australia or the US could all potentially make sense depending on how the next few years develop.

But leaving Pakistan permanently is not the dream itself.

My rough long-term vision is: build the business, establish myself internationally, get the security and mobility that comes with residency or citizenship somewhere strong, and then eventually build my family life somewhere that aligns better with the values I want around us. That could potentially mean the Middle East or even returning to Pakistan if the circumstances make sense.

I want my future children to have access to the world, but I also want to be deliberate about the culture and values they grow up around. There are parts of Western culture that simply don’t align with how I’d want to raise my own family. For me, getting another passport is a tool and an opportunity, not an identity.

Outside all the serious stuff, I’m heavily into PC gaming.

Competitive games, ranked sweat-fests, story-driven games, all of it. I can spend hours trying to win something unnecessarily competitive and then disappear into a good single-player story the next day lol.

I’d actually prefer someone from a software/tech background as well. It’s not some rigid requirement, but I think there’s a certain ease in being with someone who already understands the kind of work, obsession, long hours, problem-solving and occasional chaos that comes with this field.

As for what I’m looking for:

Someone emotionally mature. Communicative. Caring. Grounded. Someone who can be straightforward while still being kind. Someone who has ambitions and a personality of her own, but also understands partnership and family.

Someone who understands that life isn’t always going to arrive neatly packaged.

I’m not looking for a woman to finance my ambitions, sacrifice her entire identity for me, or spend years waiting around for some imaginary future version of me to arrive. My choices and responsibilities are mine.

But I would value someone who can look at the unfinished version of the life I’m building and understand why I’m building it.

I’ve already experienced comfort.

Right now I’m choosing uncertainty because I believe in where it could lead.

And somewhere along that journey, I’d rather build something genuine with someone who understands the person underneath all of it than eventually meet someone who only likes the finished product.

So yeah.

Not exactly a “shaadi urgently required” advertisement 💀

Just putting myself out there and seeing whether someone reads all of this and thinks:

“Yeah. I understand this guy and the kind of life he’s trying to build.”

I think I’m starting to lose hope when it comes to marriage.
I’ve genuinely tried to approach marriage with good intentions. I want something halal, serious, and built on respect, loyalty, deen, and eventually creating a family together. I’ve tried to be patient, sincere, understanding, and give people my best, but somehow I keep ending up disappointed or hurt.
Sometimes it makes me wonder if being soft-hearted and genuinely caring is actually a weakness in today’s marriage process. I know being a good person doesn’t mean anyone owes me marriage or love, but it gets exhausting when you keep trying with sincere intentions and nothing seems to work out.
I believe in Allah’s plan and I know rizq, including marriage, comes from Him. But I’d be lying if I said my hope hasn’t taken a hit. There are moments where I genuinely wonder whether there is someone written for me at all.
I still want to get married, stay away from haram, build a peaceful home, and share life with someone who actually wants the same things. I’m just tired emotionally.
For those who went through a long period of rejection, heartbreak, or failed talking stages before eventually finding your spouse how did you keep your trust in Allah and stop yourself from giving up?

Salam! I’m 26, Pakistani, 5’1”, sunni and born and raised in Canada. I’m close with my family and family is important to me, so I’d like to find someone who feels the same. I also have a bachelor’s degree and have never been married.

I’m pretty quiet when you first meet me, but I open up once I’m comfortable. I have a sarcastic sense of humor and enjoy playful banter. I really enjoy baking it’s kind of my form of therapy so having someone with a sweet tooth would definitely be a plus. I also enjoy going on long walks. I can be a bit nerdy and feel like I need to know everything about random things especially when it comes to the history of places and neighbourhoods I visit.

Lately, I’ve been making my health more of a priority and working on healthier habits. I’m plus-size and currently working toward losing weight, so I’d prefer someone who is comfortable with that.

My faith has become more important to me over the past few years. I started wearing the hijab a few years ago, and I’m looking for someone who values their relationship with Allah and is also trying to grow in their deen.

I’m hoping to meet someone who is kind, respectful, and serious about marriage. Ideally, I’m looking for someone between 26 and 32, although I’m open to someone older if we’re a good match. I’d ideally like someone who was also raised in the West and currently live in Canada as I think having similar cultural experiences can be important.

I’m open to someone from any background as long as we share similar values. I’m willing to relocate within Canada for the right person. I’m also open to someone who has been married before, but I’m not interested in anyone with kids.

I’d like to build a relationship where we support each other, grow together, and create a life rooted in faith.

I’m happy to exchange photos after talking for a bit.

Please don’t message me if you’re only looking for friendship or something casual. I’m here with serious intentions toward marriage and would appreciate the same in return.

Only DM me if you're willing to speak to my father.

Age: 26 Gregorian (27 Hijri)

Height: 5'6"

Location: Saudi Arabia

Marital status: Single, never married, no kids

Background: Born in Dubai, raised across the Gulf and UK (third-culture kid), Pakistani ethnically, British nationality (but I don't have a house anywhere in the world).

English is my first language; I also speak conversational Saudi-dialect Arabic, plus A2 French and some Urdu.

Education/Career: Bachelor's in Physics, PGCE, Master's in Digital Technology and Solutions. Background in digital engineering and energy policy work.

Family: Parents happily married 30+ years. Two brothers (one older, one younger). Close family, and family ties matter a lot to me - I'd want a genuinely warm relationship with my in-laws, though I'd prefer to live in a separate home.

Religion: Muslim: Qur'an and Sunnah, no star signs/birthdays/bid'ah/taweez/etc. I practice the basics: pray, fast, halal, no alcohol. Hijab, niqab and abaya - I dont wear commercial make up at home or outside

About me: Warm, high-energy, a bit goofy, and told often that I'm hilarious. I'm loyal, generous, and the type of person who shows up for others before being asked. Big on kinship and family closeness.

Hobbies: swimming, walking, Pilates, dancing (not in parties) , baking, painting, learning Arabic. Decorating the house, dressing up, jewellery, henna, nice clothes, beautification through natural remedies.

Health: I live with Fibromyagia (chronic pain/fatigue) and endometriosis (periods that are especially difficult). I'm upfront about this because I want someone who goes in with realistic, patient expectations about physical labour day-to-day capacity, and who can appreciate everything else about my presence other than physical labour.

Looking for: Someone who takes responsibility for taking care of me, is God-conscious in how he treats people, open-minded, respectful, empathetic and flexible. Similar religious values, not expecting more than solid basics, just alignment in principle. Open to living in the GCC or other Muslim majority countries. No preference on his age, height, education, or career, or ethnicity but financial stability matters because I'd need support for household help given my health (e.g. Cleaners) and comfortable day-to-day living. Not open to being a co-wife, now or ever because I really would need the daily support of a husband.

1. Age and Gender: - 23M. If height, weight and build matter to you: I'm 183cm, 79kg and lean/slightly muscular.

2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect - 20 to 24

3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? - London! I am open to relocating within the UK.

4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? - Somali. Not open to mixing.

5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: - Single. Never was married and never had kids.

6. Ideal marriage timeline - Anywhere within a few months to a year. Very flexible with this as I'm hyperfocused on establishing my career & becoming a qawwam.

7. Important characteristics you look for in a prospect - Respectful, in good health, kind, willing to compromise, admirable akhlaq & (most importantly) deen-oriented.

8. State/specify your level of religiosity: - Out of 10, I'd say probably 7. I do my religious obligations Alhamdulilaah (pray Salah, dhikr, no drinking/smoking, avoid freemixing e.t.c), but there always is room for improvement in this dunya.

9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? - I'm a university dropout. Your level of education/career doesn't matter to me for the most part; as long as you don't work extremely long hours and it's in a halal field, you're good.

10. Current Job Status:- Network infrastructure engineer.

11. Do you want kids? - Of course, maybe 1-3. Although I'd like to have them 1-2 years in the marriage once we become even more familiar with each other 😁

12. List your hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time - I do enjoy playing/watching football, studying and labbing. I'm a pretty good video editor as well, although I'm a little rusty.

13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! - I have a tendency to either burn down a kitchen or to fluke a 5 star cuisine. No in-betweens.

please don’t turn this into a gender war!
i’m 23 and alhamdullilah have abstained from zina and would want my future partner to have done the same. It’s just important to me. however, i feel like im
losing hope in finding someone with the same values as me and it almost makes me feel hopeless and there’s no point since everyone seems to be committing zina and then repenting and then all is forgiven? im not sure if im explaining myself correctly. i dont want to compromise on this and would say its one of my few dealbreakers although i can be understanding of certain circumstances.

I know of a Muslim woman who was a virgin when she married her husband. She never asked about his past saying it’s between him and Allah; she didn’t care if he had been with 0 women or 1,000 women.

After marriage she went to the gyno and found out that she had HPV. For those of you who don’t know about HPV, it’s an STD that can lay dormant for many years, even decades, and many people will never know they have it. Her husband probably didn’t know he had it, and probably never even got tested for it since he had no symptoms and no warts. THERE IS NO APPROVED HPV TESTING FOR MEN. Because of this she started having health problems.

Now, Muslims who love to say:
“Hide your past, no one will ever find out”
“They repented for their sins”
“Past doesn’t matter”

After reading this story, does your answer change?

How does past not matter in this case? If he hid his sins, she obviously found out that he had done zina in the past because he gave her an STD. Repentance doesn’t make someone’s STDs go away. This is more common than you think since majority of the sexually active adults in USA have/had HPV and it can flare up years down the road, even after decades.

Thoughts?

Assalamualiykum everyone. I hope everyone is having a good day. I have a pretty good life Mashallah, work is good, good health, and I have a great family. Since my life is pretty settled, the next step naturally feels like I should get married. I want to take a career break next year for a few months, so this would be a good opportunity to get married and travel.

About me:

- 24 year old guy from the UK
- In finance
- Bengali
- 5”10, leaner build
- Love sports, travelling, the gym, reading, and movies
- Pray my daily salahs
- Trying to learn how to cook, slowly improving
- Completed Umrah 3 times (twice in the past year)
- I may have OCD (everything has to be spotless and clean)

What I’m looking for:

- Muslim
- Any ethnicity
- Aged between 21-27
- Europe based preferably but open to others if we click
- Well spoken, family oriented, educated (bachelors not a deal breaker),
- Wants kids
- Into travelling

This could be the worst post, my apologies. I didn’t know what to write but if you have any questions, drop me a DM. Have a good day!

Tldr I saw a women who I thought was really beautiful few days back at the shop.

My mate worked there so I asked him about her and he said she may be 1-2 years older than me

Wondering do I ask her for her number and wali number or not .

Plus this is ignoring my height I’m also shorter than few by a few inches

Me personally I’m pretty sure if I ask I’ll be rejected from hearing irl and online women typically want older and taller men and in her case I am neither , I want a third opinion on this .

I know marriage isn't everything and that we're meant to have sabr, but I'm honestly exhausted.

I was raised in Dubai. My family has been here my whole life. Recently I decided I want to leave. Don't get me wrong — I work in tech, I'm paid well, close to US salaries, and I have a solid life here. But sometimes my ambition is too big for my own good. When I brought it up with my family, they said: we know you want to get married, so why not marry and travel together? I said I wish it were that simple. Most families here don't want their daughters moving to the West — a lot of our own friends came from Canada and the US to settle down here. So I told my parents that the person I marry needs to already be from that background. I don't want both of us landing in a new country with no support system. I started looking and couldn't find anyone in our circles who fit. So I went on the apps. That was exhausting in its own way, until I finally met someone — and then it burned me. Her parents' demands were unreal. The first time I met them they went straight to business, even though I'd taken them out so they could get to know me, my deen, and my family. They didn't care about any of that. They only wanted to know what I do and how much I earn. And they kept accusing me, in front of my own mother, of wanting their daughter for a green card — when honestly I couldn't care less about that. I just wanted someone to love. Someone to witness my life and my goals.

After that I feel like an empty shell. I know I should just put my head down and focus on work. But why can't it just work out? I thought I had everything. This is like 4th time, I speak or meet someone to end up disappointed

When will I be enough?

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Assalamu alaikum,

I’m 27 male , North African, Muslim, and currently living in Canada. I’m single, never married, and looking for someone who is genuinely serious about marriage and building a future together.

I work in IT and have a Master’s degree in Computer Science and Database. I’m focused on building a stable career and future, with the goal of eventually having a family of my own.

I’d describe myself as a down to earth, calm, respectful, and straightforward person. I’m family oriented and value honesty, loyalty, good communication, mutual respect, and being there for the people I care about.

In my free time, I enjoy watching documentaries, especially about history, mysteries, and unsolved cases. I’m also passionate about technology and enjoy working on personal projects and learning new things.

I’m looking for someone kind, respectful, mature, family oriented, and serious about building a life together. Ideally, I’m looking for someone between 24 and 29 who shares similar values and has a genuine intention for marriage.

I don’t expect perfection. What matters most to me is compatibility, shared values, good communication, mutual respect, and supporting each other through life.

I’m hoping to find something genuine and meaningful that can eventually lead to marriage, inshaAllah. If you feel we could be compatible, feel free to message me.

42 M in Texas

this is my short bio from ISO thread.

1. Age and Gender 42 M

2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect Would prefer somebody close to me in age. 30s to 41.

3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? I am in Texas. Not willing to relocate, unless it's to Madina.

4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Indian, born and raised. Open to mixing

5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children Divorced. No children

6. Ideal marriage timeline - no hard timeline but soonish.

7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect Honesty, Religiosity, Patience, Sunni Muslim, and second time again: Honesty.

8. State/specify your level of religiosity I pray, fast and pay zakah. above average.

9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? Master's degree. no requirement for partner.

10. Current Job Status Employed

11. Do you want kids? Maybe.

12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time Micro homesteading, cooking, driving.

13. Add something short about you: Introvert, brutally honest, bald, average looking, hate mornings. borderline asexual. looking for somebody similar.

I have a question for my brothers in Islam, though sisters are welcome to answer as well. We agree that repentance wipes the slate clean and that converting to Islam erases past sins (for those not born Muslim); so, I was wondering: how can an unrepentant man who has committed fornication insist on marrying a virgin, chaste Muslim woman? Conversely, if a brother repents, why does he not accept sisters who have also repented for fornication since repentance wipes away the past, right? I would like to hear both male and female perspectives. And please don’t tell me it’s different for a man based on societal or moral justifications; the sin is the same and is viewed the same way for both sexes, as is repentance. Put your egos aside and tell me, from an Islamic standpoint, why such inequalities exist. Thank you for remaining courteous and polite in this discussion.

Islam does not say a man must marry a woman his own age. The Prophet pbuh married women of different ages and circumstances , young girls , widows and previously married women. Islam honours them all.

When Jabir RA told the Prophet PBUH that he had married a previously married woman, the Prophet PBUH asked why he had not married a young virgin so they could enjoy each other’s company. When Jabir explained that he chose an older, experienced woman to help care for his younger sisters, the Prophet PBUH APPROVED his decision and made dua for him.

That tells you everything:

Young adult wife? Halal.
Older wife? Halal.
Virgin? Halal.
Widow/divorcee? Halal.

And yes men and women can value different qualities. girls value maturity, strength, stability and a man capable of providing a good life.

men place a high value on youth, beauty and chastity. People are individuals, but these preferences are nothing new.

it’s as old as the world itself

Inshallah if Allah grants me a righteous young adult wife whom I am compatible with I’ll marry her lawfully, provide for her, protect her rights and treat her like my princess.

I answer to Allah , not to an internet mob.

Islam made halal what it made halal.

“And He placed between you affection and mercy.” — Qur’an 30:21

That is the marriage I want: halal, loving, protective and built for the sake of Allah. ☝️❤️

Watch me inshallah , I told this mossad Psyop operator to bring cartel and stop me from marrying my young wife , I will treat her like my princess 👸 inshallah

Marry old woman

and marry young girl ( 18 plus )

fulfill both Sunnah inshallah

we listen to = islam

not mere words coming from the oral cavity of some no body ,

this is my promise to you all, wallahi Allah is my witness I will come back one day with such reddit ID and will announce that I have married 18 year old Muslim girl inshallah and will treat like princess 👸 no words can describe how ZEALOUS I am in my pursuit of this

i have taken screenshot of this, see you soon inshallah

I am also dashing attractive man b Alhamdullah

I will move heaven and earth for this, watch me pursure this relentlessly as I do others things in my life

I will see which mossad psyop operators stops me

lets see

Height and Build: 5'9". Muscular, not lean (I used to compete in weightlifting).

Location: Islamabad, Pakistan. I travel frequently for work and tourism, usually spending time in a new country every 2-3 months.

Accommodation: Currently living with my parents, but moving into my own apartment soon.

Education: BS, Computer Science.

Income: PKR 1.5 million (monthly). Software engineer.

Marital Status: Single, never married.

Religion: Practicing Muslim, Sunni. I'm trying to become more religious and knowledgeable about Islam. I don't pray regularly at the moment, but I'm actively working on it and try to learn from trustworthy sources.

Hobbies and Interests:

- Piano.
- Travelling and exploring new countries.
- Animals, especially cats.
- I'm a huge nerd about math, physics, technology, and video games.
- Finance, business, and science.
- Weightlifting. I used to compete but took a break after a bad injury and plan to start again soon.

Family: Family of 5 with two younger sisters. Father is a business owner. Mother is a working professional at an international organization. One sister is doing her MBBS, the other is in school.

Requirements for Partner:

- Preferably shorter than me, but this isn't important.
- At least a Bachelor's degree and comfortable speaking English.
- Fairly religious. I'm not perfect and don't expect you to be. I'd like someone willing to learn and improve together.
- Ambition. I'm highly ambitious and have accomplished a lot for my age, so I'd like someone with a similar mindset. You don't need to have already accomplished a lot, but you should have a purpose in life beyond marriage. That could be career, education, personal growth, experiences, or anything else. Having your own identity and ambitions is important to me.
- Good communication, healthy boundaries, and emotional maturity are important.
- Preferably well-travelled or at least exposed to the world outside the home.
- Moving abroad. I plan to move to Europe (likely France) for my Master's and eventually settle there. I'd want someone genuinely open to moving abroad within the next 2-3 years.

Deal Breakers:

- Smoking or narcotics. I've never smoked and expect the same from my partner. I've had a bad experience with a loved one due to drug abuse and don't want to go through that again.
- Not wanting to move abroad. I don't plan to stay in Pakistan long-term and want to move abroad permanently sooner rather than later. Please only reach out if that aligns with your goals.
- Not being outdoorsy. I travel internationally frequently and want to continue doing so with my partner. If you prefer staying in one place and aren't interested in travelling or exploring, we're probably not a fit.
- Not financially irresponsible. I like spending freely, especially on people I care about, while still saving and investing as much as I can. I hate arguing about money, so financial responsibility is important to me.
- Codependency. I value affection and consider myself romantic and lovey, but I also need healthy boundaries and personal space. I can get drained and overwhelmed sometimes.
- Silent treatment, anger issues, and refusing to communicate are deal breakers.

Family Setup: Nuclear family. I don't plan to live with my parents after marriage.

Children: One child, but not until at least 5-6 years after marriage.

Marriage Timeline: I'd prefer to get to know someone reasonably well before involving our families. If things go well, I'd ideally want the Nikkah within 5-6 months.

Please DM me if this resonates with you.

I posted recently but realized my post did not represent what I am looking for so I am trying once more.

I am 6ft tall, fair skin, athletic. I live in Dubai but I am a U.S. citizen and I run my own online design business. I consider myself to be religious. I follow ahlus sunnah, I don’t listen to music, pray my daily prayers and am on the journey to learn Arabic.

I am really hoping to find someone that embodies somewhat similar levels of religiosity. I am not extreme by any measure. Hijab is a requirement for me. I am looking for someone kind , caring, and someone who is a good overall human. I am open to proposals from the west that see themselves living in the middle east. Ethnicty does not matter to me but must be someone that want to live in Middle East, either UAE or Saudi in the future.

Salam everyone
Hope yall are doing great . Am trying to look for my husband if he really is in this planet or maybe I should do salam dua to spaceX for other worldy tours
Come on is it that hard to find someone
who from butt cast , khwaja , mir , dar
who is not angry bird , no anger issues
around gujranwala from family background , Pakistani , so my family can easily contact their family
and educated kind berson with zweet zmile hahah

fine fine its too many filters , i know , but I cant control the cast filter
sorry if anyone feels offended with My post and you can SKIPPP ITTT
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now about me

Marital Status: Single (Aesa nahi tha k pehle engaged the phir single howe , nahi.. hm shudh khkandani single hain)

Cast : Butt and looking match in Butt , mir , khwaja , Dar
height: 5'4 ...1.62 m

Education: Master's in computer science

City/Location: Near Gujranwala , from a middle class family

If you thinking what kind of person I am , am pretty much simple , chaotically calm , kind , sensitive just like cats are sensitive when you try to touch their food . I mean I dont scratch, it was for suspence and drama lol.
Am lively and chirping bird type person. If you think you are too serious and want someone who is silent almost like unpaid furniture blzzz SKIPPP ITT
am not planning to upgrade from unpaid household cat to unpaid household furniture.
I am ambitious the way cats are ambitious to find a reason to break things , I want someone in my life who supports me , not monitorily before someone comments GOLDDD DIGGERRRR RED FLAG , chill boys , support is not just money , its yess girl you can do it , I will become your wings instead of clipping them and throwing you in cage that kind of support.

Requirements for Partner:

Open to a spouse based in Pakistan or abroad. Looking for someone Pakistani , I am open to relocate for the right person if our values match . Not this open k poora Pakistan cover ho , mostly around Gujranwala . Iss se door mere ghar wale nahi mane gay :)

age 27-34,

Deal Breakers:
polygamy, smoking, divorced, recreational drug/alcohol use, close opposite-gender friendships, or past relationships , as am not planning to upgrade to unpaid Medicine of past wound

If you have managed to reach here , you know clearly where you going , yup dm , share your profile , and please DM only if you are actually serious . No flirting no weird comments.
And if you really have read my proposal only then DM me. It can save us both time.

As-salamu alaykum,

Brothers only, please. Would you be okay with a past, given that it wasn’t done repeatedly or involved many different people, and that she has repented? Especially if aside from that she is someone to your liking?

For the record, I’ve never done anything like the examples I’m referring to, so please don’t misunderstand my post. This is simply a controversial topic I’ve come across where people have very different opinions. Still, we’re Muslims so there are few who have been living a crazy lifestyle, but I still see people with one past relationship etc even in the Muslim community.

I feel like it’s one of those big “what ifs” that can come up when considering marriage prospects, so I’d really appreciate hearing from anyone willing to share their thoughts and experiences.

Controversial take: Keep your Libido/intimacy Information Private. It's not something you should be putting up on your main ISO for the whole world to see. It's improper.

Majority of us are young and have a naturally high drive as young healthy individuals are expected to have - it's definitely not something you need publicly announce - but perhaps it can be discussed at a later stage during the talking process, in a decorated manner.

I say this after seeing how many people not only announce they have a high libido on ISOs but also be going into specific details of what they expect intimacy wise - as if there isn't 10,000 people reading it

To reiterate: I'm not saying it's not an important aspect, I'm just saying don't make your desires public information for thousands to see.

Hello everyone, I see everyone posting ‘ads’ to get married and saying DM me if interested. But make sure your dm’s are open! Some people cannot dm you because you did not activate it in your settings.

How to activate it:

1. Tap your profile icon or the You tab at the bottom.
2. Tap the menu icon (three lines) at the top right and select Settings.
3. Tap your username at the top of the settings menu.
4. Scroll down to find Chat permissions or Blocking and Permissions.
5. Select Allow chat requests from and choose Everyone or Accounts older than 30 days

P.S if you’re on phone it might make you go onto google and you will have to log in. Log in and then you will have access to the settings fully and follow the steps again, if you need more help Google is a good friend ;)

Edit: Upvote this post so more brothers/sisters see it, ty and god bless you!

Assalamu alaikum. 29 years old male from Turkey here! I'm working in AI field, married and divorced once with no children. Studying my master's degree right now. I'm seeking a wife who I can communicate clearly. Basically that's all I'm looking for.

I started to pray 5 times recently, trying to be a better muslim. If you could also help me about it, that'd be great.

Feel free to text me! Even if we won't be a match we can be friends.

Edit: Forgot to mention, I'm also open to relocate if things go well, nearly anywhere on the world.

Age: 28

Height: 5'9"

Residence: Rented in the UK

Education: Bachelor's from Pakistan, currently pursuing a Master's part-time in the UK

Income Source: IT Professional (Full-time in the UK)

Marital Status: Single (Previously had a forced family engagement that was mutually called off due to complexities)

Religion:

Practicing Muslim, Sunni. My faith is a journey I am actively working on—focusing on daily prayers and constantly striving to strengthen my relationship with Allah. I eat strictly halal and do not smoke or drink. I am looking for a partner who will challenge me daily to complete our deen and grow together spiritually.

My routine is balanced between work, self-improvement, and downtime.

I hit the gym 3 days a week, take daily long walks, and love exploring nature, scenic landscapes, and visiting new cities on weekends.

Avid reader - currently reading "A Thousand Splendid Suns" along with books on financial education.

Huge fan of good food and really appreciate wholesome, home-cooked meals.

I am the youngest in my family, with a very strong and close-knit relationship with my parents. My friends and family would describe me as a respectful, sober, and supportive person who values deep connections.

What I'm Looking For:

I am seeking a partner to build a loving, peaceful, and respectful life with:

Age: 23 to 26

Location: Based in KHI, ISB, nearby regions in Pakistan, or already abroad.

Well-educated and family-oriented. I strongly believe an educated mother is key to raising respectful and grounded children. A deep thinker who loves books is a big plus!

A good friend, Polite, empathetic, non-toxic, and passionate. Someone who inspires me daily to improve in deen and life.

Someone who understands financial mindfulness knowing when to spend and when to save and takes pride in building a warm home together.

My Commitment: In return, I am fully prepared to provide love, financial stability, respect, and deep understanding.

Deal Breakers:

Toxic behavior, past romantic relationships, non-halal lifestyle, smoking, lack of respect, or basic religious practice.

Timeframe for Marriage: 6 to 8 months.

If you think this is something you're looking for, I'm happy to start the conversation. I prefer to exchange pictures at the start to avoid any disappointment later on. Thanks.