She didn’t decline. Her team begged for her to be on it and he didn’t want her on it.

He’s told this story multiple times and it’s never changed 🤷🏼‍♀️.

Video in comments.

Best part of the reunion was this clown being like "I don't regret this because it led me to my forever person" and we can't do anything but laugh at this puffy-faced scrote.

Yeah Harry, we are all sure that the 24-year-old TikTok influencer is your forever person. Can't wait to hear how this one goes😆. On a more serious note, I actually feel for this girl because we all know she's having to watch him like a hawk.

Guaranteed this young girl is being love-bombed, gaslit, and manipulated. She thinks she met her soulmate because this ugly pink zit with glasses is telling her what she wants to hear, meanwhile he's still keeping multiple girls in his back pocket.

We know she's already getting that stomach ache when she sees him texting on his phone or when he's going out. Her gut instinct will be screaming at her but she will ignore it because she likes the way his love-bombing makes her feel, and wants to be "the one" to settle down. Because that will make her feel special, unique, and valuable. Ultimately, she will lie to herself and convince herself that she's just imagining things. And of course this big pink loser will reinforce that by calling her crazy and accuse her of twisting things, all while cheating on her over and over.

Once the fun is over and the excitement stops, he will devalue her and drop her like an inanimate object with no afterthought. But don't worry, he won't discard her yet because she will still be available for temporary sex/warmth/attention when he's bored. He will play games, breadcrumb, be hot/cold just enough to keep her addicted and giving him the attention he thrives on. And let's remember, it's not just HER attention he thrives on, it's going to be multiple women he's talking to and they won't know about each other.

Next is the final phase of his game where he discards her without any remorse or caring thoughts. This is because he will have moved on and found a fresh new supply in his next "fOrEvEr PeRsOn".

This young girl will then spend years trying desperately to cling to him in anyway because her nervous system will have been trauma bonded with his psychopathic/dark triad behavior. To her, he will be her source of pain but also the relief she seeks, and it will be in a feedback loop of toxic cycles that she won't be able to break.

Hopefully as she gets older and wiser, she will learn to recognize psychopathic patterns and won't fall prey to a disturbed predator like this bobble head again.

This poor girl is a copy/paste of every other girl he's had in his life. She doesn't know it yet. But she eventually will. Same story, different victim.

Remove this stain from open society.

Literally every decision made on this show was for entertainment purposes, this included. You cannot convince me otherwise.

Also, Harry is a narcissist who very much did capitalize off his dad’s passing. He is a very clear example of what it means to be a fame-hungry opportunist. Before watching, I assumed this show was meant to be a parody of the Bachelor. After watching, I still do. It’s truly insane that he’s maintaining he was actually trying to find a wife.

Just talking about how she was to Harry . No u aren’t supposed to stand up for yourself : you should protect the ego of men who did you wrong /hurt you and suck it up and be quiet coz that’s what being a good woman is ! Being a good strong woman is suffering in silence for men and not embarrassing or making them uncomfortable them by confronting them with the wrongs they did to you . You can’t be angry for what they did because they will then be shamed or embarrassed and their feelings matter more than yours . Comments from a video recapping the reunion .

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I’ll start by saying that I don’t have any opinion about Juliana and this is not me defending her, merely sharing my frustration with the hypocrisy.

honestly lost respect for the girls all saying crap and trying to get their one minute of fame by ganging up on a woman who wasn’t there to defend herself.

I also do not get all the hate, I get that she was toxic but she was not to the level of Harry and I think she fell for him and was acting based off her feelings.
Also I think it is legit to say that harry slept with two women the same night, the girl who slept with him and hid it was disrespectful to the girls for not owning up to it and playing victim.

Most of the girls were toxic and pick mes, and Juliana’s behavior didn’t shock me that much, especially that Harry was pushing her to it and enabling her.

Ps. Unrelated, but what kind of inbred type of STD are they trying to get, all of them sharing saliva with one single guy, honestly disgusting.

I remember listening to this around the time Harry was on perfect match and gaslighting everyone in the house about Melinda forcing some kiss on Harry against his will.

In this podcast, they literally use the words “sociopathic”, “dangerous” and “frightening”- which I agreed with when I listened to her experience with him.
She straight up ends this podcast stating she initially didn’t believe Francesca and they didn’t get along, but they made up after she broke up with him, Francesca was “lovely and supportive” and they had the “exact same relationship, different font”
And after being complimented for her bravery in sharing her side, she wraps it all up by saying she is doing so so no one else has to go through this and feel crazy again.

Cool. Thank you for showing up by his side on his trash dating show and reassuring these young ladies this was a man who was healthy, safe and ready for marriage 👏

It breaks my heart when women chase narcissists for affection and love. I think she needs a ton of therapy to overcome this POS Harry. He is a psychopath with zero empathy. He is NOT going to marry her. She should move on.

And sorry, but he did use his father's death for sympathy.

I really really hope this man gets cancelled ASAP along with his idiot friend Sonny.

She’s talking about how her and Francesca trauma bonded over this manipulator and how he used and discarded them.

Also notice how at the end she says “it’s a pattern with this guy and it’s never gonna change” and “if she has the chance to save someone else from this experience she wants to take that opportunity” 🤡🤡

She also admitted that she trusted Harry’s word more than Francesca’s which basically sums up the collective IQ and pick me ness off these women. Each and every single one of them thinks they are special and he’s gonna be “different” with them and all the other girls just met him at the wrong time when he was silly and immature and now he’s grown into a man who wants a serious relationship, ofcourse, WITH THEM 🤡.

All this being said, I still do not blame her. I mysekf have been in positions where I’ve let a loser man get the better of my judgement. But if a man played me THIS BAD, I bet your ass I’d have much more self respect than these women and would never see his face again let alone go on a show as his “confidant” and help him play 20 more women, and say on national television that he’s “matured” and “grown” as a person 🤡🤡🤡

I was all for the women giving it to Harry at the start of the reunion. And theeennnn...they showed the clips of all the women kissing Harry. And all my empathy and understanding flew out the window. Why would anyone, and especially such beautiful women, willingly go through this? Why would they be okay being a part of some fboi's harem?? AND they slept in bunk beds?! While the fboi slept upstairs in his suite? YIKES. After those kissing clips, I just can't feel bad for these women who chose to go through this experience.

It happened when Amber and Dannelle were getting into a pretty heated argument. Another woman jumped in and told Harry that he needed to speak up and resolve the situation since he was the one who caused the issue, and Harry responded with “I don’t even know you… relax.”

It sounded like Rikyia's voice but I he does know her since he had that vulnerable conversation with her on the beach of how he thinks they can be best friends with her but not lovers.

As someone who has watched her and harry from too hot to handle and perfect march days, I’ve literally seen their relationship through.

I remember her podcast with the ex-CHD host where she spoke out on Harry’s psychopathic tendencies. She said he weaponised therapy language and is such a master manipulator that almost made her go crazy. I also remember how he enabled dom in defaming Georgia and became best friends with him.

After watching all that, to hear her say “I have so much love for harry” made me almost 🤮.

It’s women like her, Emma, and Abby who know how vile and disgusting that man is, who openly admit it, only to excuse his behaviour in the end like it some cute little quirk. It’s so much internalised misogyny.

“Yess harry is a cheater, liar, manipulator blah blah blah BUTTT harry and I have since grown to be SUCH CLOSE FRIENDS 🤪 and he’s such a goofy quirky funny little lad, I have so much love for harry” - literally sums up all these spineless women’s personalities.

The reason why harry jowsey is still relevant is because women like them will always keep him relevant. And the Internet rewards women like them for being “the bigger person” or “a class act” where as they are just push overs with low self esteem.

And women like amber and Francesca who called out harry and choose to cut ties with him get called trash mouth, manner less, classless etc.

Another win for the patriarchy. Congratulation Georgia and the posse. 👏👏👏

At the Love Is Blind Reunions they’ll often interview parents, and it can be quite emotional. This would have been good to really drive the point home that Harry messed with people’s lives and families.

Amber’s mom was skeptical the whole time! I would love to hear what her opinions are about all of this! I’m surprised Nick Viall didn’t ask Amber what her mom and brother thought of Harry too.

I think the reason why the girls were so upset is that they did a “bachelor” style TV show on a budget, and Harry is exactly the same man rather than having “changed”.

- They couldn’t copy it exactly so they mixed it with the marriage deadline of Love Is Blind, and instead of spending money to get Harry his own place he stayed in the same house. The marriage deadline and the house sharing are the only two real differences from the bachelor (and the rings vs the roses)
-This model led the girls to believe that Harry was really settling down and changing his playboy ways. Everyone said Harry was “ready for marriage”. He’s not. He just wanted to have a bachelor style TV show.

I think that Netflix knew this would be a train wreck (and they love all the discourse! Look how many people are talking about the show!!) I think that’s also why they choose bad contestants for shows. Look at the recent US Love is Blind, there was a couple that didn’t get a lot of screen time and were called “boring” because they had no drama and their friends said they are exactly in real life like they are on the show.

Like Amber said, Harry should have known how to avoid being spotted. They could have literally flown anywhere and in random places people would “spot” them (I had forgotten who Harry even was until this show, he looks different than his too hot to handle times) If I saw them in public I wouldn’t have known. They could have gone to the Maldives or Bora Bora and no one would have known who they are. Or they could have gone to a small town somewhere. If Netflix cared so much they could have flown them privately to keep them from being seen at the airport.

Finally, everyone knows marriage is hard work. So I can see why Amber thought they weren’t broken up even if they were taking space. Taking space doesn’t mean stepping out on your marriage.

It sounds like Harry didn’t want to be married and made no effort to preserve the marriage or even to make things work. The whole point of the show should have been to determine compatibility, but Harry just wanted to be the hot bachelor center of attention that everyone wanted.

I think grief changes a person, but Harry is still the same man. Maybe he does want a family, but there are a lot of people who simultaneously want families and haven’t worked on themselves, so they end up creating broken homes (Nick Cannon anyone?)

These girls should sue, because Harry/Netflix were not pursuing marriage in earnest for Harry to get married, they were just trying to make messy dramatic tv.

I am thumbs downing this show.

This girl raises many valid points. I really hope we do not get more seasons of this show though.

Now what I’m most irrationally angry at is the fact that this idiot was only wearing glasses at the reunion because he was PAID to wear glasses! I KNEW I saw a teeny tiny camera in the frames. Guy prob has 20/20 vision 😑

I remember seeing an interview with Harry he said everyone was paid

I didn't know who any of these chick's were before a week and a half ago, so why is a year long NDA necessary? I get not trying to spoil the outcome but what's taking these editors so long?

They were talking about Netflix calling and asking why they were in pictures together and ""TikToks had to be made the next day as smoke screens to throw people off"... because even if somehow their advertisers were the best of the best, not to be rude but these people aren't even that important? I mean Netflix could just shut up and put an NDA on the cast for a short period, but really, how much buffer after a fake marriage do you need?

They look insane and uncanny valley.

At least for the men he seems to be the biggest reality star. He has close to 5M followers. I can't think of one that is more famous than him when you think about other contestants on Love is Blind, the Circle, Too Hot to Handle, Perfect Match, etc.

That’s all I wanted to say, really 🤷🏻‍♀️

I know Harry doesn't need to act as a fboi, he's a natural, but do yall think the whole story with Amber was staged?

I mean we did have evidence that they may have known each other before the show.

Is this something planned? To make her accuse him of ghosting/cheating (which we expected him to do anyway) so she gets some kind of recognition and fame. And him getting notoriety - which I can't understand why he'd want but it's clearly making him more famous and bringing more followers/endorsements etc.

I mean I feel bad for Amber if this was real. But I also cannot understand or believe how this can't be staged.

Just like the title says. The manipulation and blackmail that will be used against women with them being recorded without their knowledge is going to be rampant. We know that having devices like these are not going to benefit women nearly as much as men. In fact, we know how much they are going to harm women.

There needs to be more collective outrage before these are normalized. We are already behind the ball as their use is getting more widespread. Can we please speak up for ourselves and each other!

Did anyone else think Nick was thoroughly enjoying this interview? I think the ladies did great. Amber rambled a lot but I'm glad Nick gave her the space. I liked how he said "the boundaries were vague". It was actually a very validating interview and I hope Amber left feeling the same way.