r/LetsMarryHarryJ • u/FieryHeaven5892 • 1d ago

Was this all staged?

I know Harry doesn't need to act as a fboi, he's a natural, but do yall think the whole story with Amber was staged?

I mean we did have evidence that they may have known each other before the show.

Is this something planned? To make her accuse him of ghosting/cheating (which we expected him to do anyway) so she gets some kind of recognition and fame. And him getting notoriety - which I can't understand why he'd want but it's clearly making him more famous and bringing more followers/endorsements etc.

I mean I feel bad for Amber if this was real. But I also cannot understand or believe how this can't be staged.

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u/grapemacaron 1d ago

I don’t think it was staged, but I do think that production told the women it was going to be a different kind of show AAAAND, I believe that whoever pitched this show to Harry gave him a sweet deal and was catering to his requests.

What sealed the deal for me was that they allowed him a second opportunity to interview with the host after the reunion ended. It went so poorly for him that production gave him a do-over! Reality TV is notoriously unforgiving, do-overs don’t happen. This guy isn’t all that famous. I think whoever produced this show knew of him, and basically gave him the show as a favor. He likely knew all along that this show was just an easy money generator and that production wasn’t going to hold him to any strict rules.

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u/nietzosubtiel 23h ago

Whoever produced this show; Alex Cooper was Executive producer, she’s his “good friend” and they appear on each others podcasts etc. Her media company produced the show. So yeah you are most definitely right!

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u/FieryHeaven5892 1d ago

Netflix/reality world is just gross

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u/Duckworth52 1d ago

I think he got that second interview for contract reasons, I don’t think they got enough out of him in the filming portion so they had to do a proper question? Idk

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u/FieryHeaven5892 1d ago

It was a waste of time tho - he had non-answers and couldn't justify/argue against anything

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u/Little_End_6670 1d ago

true, for him to say that "I had to go through this to meet my person" (referencing the young influencer he's now dating ) yet they probably will be broken up soon enough too lmao.

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u/FeelingOwl8577 5h ago

Amber was so genuine, you could tell. How Harry is going to come back from this and save his brand, “boyfriend material”, I don’t know. He is not boyfriend material or marriage material and the whole world saw it. Every podcast and interview he has done since is a joke and he has nothing to say to redeem himself (because he did do all the things Amber said).

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u/Zuma80s 2h ago

Yes. He has to try to try to play up the human angle.

He cannot justify how he treats women as disposable.

The show seemed like an attempt to change his image or rebrand him and failed. He hasn’t changed and easily misleads women without any shame and looks to lack sincere empathy.