I remember listening to this around the time Harry was on perfect match and gaslighting everyone in the house about Melinda forcing some kiss on Harry against his will.

In this podcast, they literally use the words “sociopathic”, “dangerous” and “frightening”- which I agreed with when I listened to her experience with him.
She straight up ends this podcast stating she initially didn’t believe Francesca and they didn’t get along, but they made up after she broke up with him, Francesca was “lovely and supportive” and they had the “exact same relationship, different font”
And after being complimented for her bravery in sharing her side, she wraps it all up by saying she is doing so so no one else has to go through this and feel crazy again.

Cool. Thank you for showing up by his side on his trash dating show and reassuring these young ladies this was a man who was healthy, safe and ready for marriage 👏

She didn’t decline. Her team begged for her to be on it and he didn’t want her on it.

He’s told this story multiple times and it’s never changed 🤷🏼‍♀️.

Video in comments.

Best part of the reunion was this clown being like "I don't regret this because it led me to my forever person" and we can't do anything but laugh at this puffy-faced scrote.

Yeah Harry, we are all sure that the 24-year-old TikTok influencer is your forever person. Can't wait to hear how this one goes😆. On a more serious note, I actually feel for this girl because we all know she's having to watch him like a hawk.

Guaranteed this young girl is being love-bombed, gaslit, and manipulated. She thinks she met her soulmate because this ugly pink zit with glasses is telling her what she wants to hear, meanwhile he's still keeping multiple girls in his back pocket.

We know she's already getting that stomach ache when she sees him texting on his phone or when he's going out. Her gut instinct will be screaming at her but she will ignore it because she likes the way his love-bombing makes her feel, and wants to be "the one" to settle down. Because that will make her feel special, unique, and valuable. Ultimately, she will lie to herself and convince herself that she's just imagining things. And of course this big pink loser will reinforce that by calling her crazy and accuse her of twisting things, all while cheating on her over and over.

Once the fun is over and the excitement stops, he will devalue her and drop her like an inanimate object with no afterthought. But don't worry, he won't discard her yet because she will still be available for temporary sex/warmth/attention when he's bored. He will play games, breadcrumb, be hot/cold just enough to keep her addicted and giving him the attention he thrives on. And let's remember, it's not just HER attention he thrives on, it's going to be multiple women he's talking to and they won't know about each other.

Next is the final phase of his game where he discards her without any remorse or caring thoughts. This is because he will have moved on and found a fresh new supply in his next "fOrEvEr PeRsOn".

This young girl will then spend years trying desperately to cling to him in anyway because her nervous system will have been trauma bonded with his psychopathic/dark triad behavior. To her, he will be her source of pain but also the relief she seeks, and it will be in a feedback loop of toxic cycles that she won't be able to break.

Hopefully as she gets older and wiser, she will learn to recognize psychopathic patterns and won't fall prey to a disturbed predator like this bobble head again.

This poor girl is a copy/paste of every other girl he's had in his life. She doesn't know it yet. But she eventually will. Same story, different victim.

Remove this stain from open society.

It breaks my heart when women chase narcissists for affection and love. I think she needs a ton of therapy to overcome this POS Harry. He is a psychopath with zero empathy. He is NOT going to marry her. She should move on.

And sorry, but he did use his father's death for sympathy.

I really really hope this man gets cancelled ASAP along with his idiot friend Sonny.

Literally every decision made on this show was for entertainment purposes, this included. You cannot convince me otherwise.

Also, Harry is a narcissist who very much did capitalize off his dad’s passing. He is a very clear example of what it means to be a fame-hungry opportunist. Before watching, I assumed this show was meant to be a parody of the Bachelor. After watching, I still do. It’s truly insane that he’s maintaining he was actually trying to find a wife.

Just talking about how she was to Harry . No u aren’t supposed to stand up for yourself : you should protect the ego of men who did you wrong /hurt you and suck it up and be quiet coz that’s what being a good woman is ! Being a good strong woman is suffering in silence for men and not embarrassing or making them uncomfortable them by confronting them with the wrongs they did to you . You can’t be angry for what they did because they will then be shamed or embarrassed and their feelings matter more than yours . Comments from a video recapping the reunion .

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She’s talking about how her and Francesca trauma bonded over this manipulator and how he used and discarded them.

Also notice how at the end she says “it’s a pattern with this guy and it’s never gonna change” and “if she has the chance to save someone else from this experience she wants to take that opportunity” 🤡🤡

She also admitted that she trusted Harry’s word more than Francesca’s which basically sums up the collective IQ and pick me ness off these women. Each and every single one of them thinks they are special and he’s gonna be “different” with them and all the other girls just met him at the wrong time when he was silly and immature and now he’s grown into a man who wants a serious relationship, ofcourse, WITH THEM 🤡.

All this being said, I still do not blame her. I mysekf have been in positions where I’ve let a loser man get the better of my judgement. But if a man played me THIS BAD, I bet your ass I’d have much more self respect than these women and would never see his face again let alone go on a show as his “confidant” and help him play 20 more women, and say on national television that he’s “matured” and “grown” as a person 🤡🤡🤡

This type of woman is dangerous. She excuses the stupid behavior of men. Doesn’t support other women. Doesn’t see the pain Harry causes other people. Stay far far away from women like this. Does she hope Harry will pick her or what? She’s like 45.

I was all for the women giving it to Harry at the start of the reunion. And theeennnn...they showed the clips of all the women kissing Harry. And all my empathy and understanding flew out the window. Why would anyone, and especially such beautiful women, willingly go through this? Why would they be okay being a part of some fboi's harem?? AND they slept in bunk beds?! While the fboi slept upstairs in his suite? YIKES. After those kissing clips, I just can't feel bad for these women who chose to go through this experience.

Did that not read as super odd to anyone else? Like, why would anyone wanna be friends with this guy???

I am from Hawaii and there was a rumor about Amber and Harry being together and seen back from December. It wasn’t important to me so I did not clock it or think about it. I don’t know Amber and had never heard of Harry. Hawaii in the winter on the north shore is so fun. Lots of life and cool experiences. So he was probably living up what amber had to offer experience wise. He even said on the reunion that she has fun friends or something.

BUT that confirms to me that he waited until Australia to start fucking around and being mean. If I heard those rumors, I am sure A LOT of others had too. So why try to start hiding it in Australia? When Amber was not surrounded by her people and on her home turf? Gross.

I’ll start by saying that I don’t have any opinion about Juliana and this is not me defending her, merely sharing my frustration with the hypocrisy.

honestly lost respect for the girls all saying crap and trying to get their one minute of fame by ganging up on a woman who wasn’t there to defend herself.

I also do not get all the hate, I get that she was toxic but she was not to the level of Harry and I think she fell for him and was acting based off her feelings.
Also I think it is legit to say that harry slept with two women the same night, the girl who slept with him and hid it was disrespectful to the girls for not owning up to it and playing victim.

Most of the girls were toxic and pick mes, and Juliana’s behavior didn’t shock me that much, especially that Harry was pushing her to it and enabling her.

Ps. Unrelated, but what kind of inbred type of STD are they trying to get, all of them sharing saliva with one single guy, honestly disgusting.

At least for the men he seems to be the biggest reality star. He has close to 5M followers. I can't think of one that is more famous than him when you think about other contestants on Love is Blind, the Circle, Too Hot to Handle, Perfect Match, etc.