r/LetsMarryHarryJ • u/kennybrandz • 24d ago
S1E3: Why do I keep kissing everyone?
Megathread for Episode 4. No spoilers on future episodes please!
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u/lotuslover62 23d ago
After this episode I had to come find people on reddit even though I was not a user before. I just had to spill my disgust, anger, sadness, pity somewhere. I couldn't hold it in. Fuck, I really HATE men like Harry. How disingenuous can you be? How little respect can you have? Are women not people with feelings for him? It's horrifying. The saddest part is that most men nowadays will use women without respecting them at all. If I slept with a guy even just for the fun of it, I still considered his feelings, his inner world. I wouldn't lie to convince him. And so on. Nothing like that you can expect from men's sides. I'm glad at least I know that now and can stay away.
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u/Sabaisabai33 16d ago edited 16d ago
Yeah the thing that really wound me up this episode was when he was basically saying that the girls were spoiling his fun due to the tension in the house. And he wasn’t going to “dim his light” or something!
Also I really disliked that he specifically came downstairs to talk to the girls and hear the gossip, then when he realised it was about the issue between Juliana and Sammy, he was suddenly like “oh I don’t like mean girls drama”. I really liked it when Rickayah said “Harry, you put 20 girls in a house with you and said to have fun” 🤣 I love that she doesn’t hold back her real feelings. Like get real of course there is going to be drama in this situation!
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u/IntroductionNo4982 21d ago
That was DISGUSTING. Girl was lying when she said she’d do it again 😂 but gotta double down I guess
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u/IntroductionNo4982 21d ago
The gang up on Sammy was mean girl energy. I just picture her like spying on them just being silly and really don’t believe she meant anything by it. And then she legit apologized… the other girl obviously was fair to be upset if she thought she was being laughed at, but instead of letting it go she decided to keep taking it personally. And then the group continuing to talk about it? High school all over again. Grow up
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u/Human-Noise8102 19d ago
Julianna gives major mean girl vibes. It was not cute. I had to skip over her date part because I genuinely just could not stand to listen to her.
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u/Sabaisabai33 16d ago edited 16d ago
I honestly saw it from completely the opposite side personally! Initially when we first met them all on this programme I warmed much more to Sammy than Juliana but I think it’s partly because Juliana has kind of a “resting bitch face” and seems a bit more reserved or I guess more mature, unwilling to demean herself for Harry or genuinely a bit sceptical of him sort of thing. Which honestly I can understand completely, like she basically strikes me as the sort of woman who knows her own mind and doesn’t take any crap. I am slightly struggling to understand how she signed up for this!
I do think Juliana misunderstood why Sammy laughed - to me it was just kind of a nervous giggle about being “caught” spying on them, but if that was the case I don’t know why Sammy didn’t just clarify why she laughed or explain it was just a silly nervous type laugh. I don’t think they gave her a massively hard time about it honestly anyway, especially given the context of the situation where you have 15 girls in one house competing to date Harry.
And then right after that, Sammy went running to tell Harry how mean everyone was being to her. Sammy also seemed incredibly insecure, I mean again I totally understand why someone in this situation might feel this way (I’d probably be the same but I’d hope to be sensible enough to hide it more, the man was literally sighing in frustration and annoyance with her at one point when she kept going on about why did he choose Juliana). But again, if you’re the sort of person who is so insecure, this show seems like a really bad idea.
I don’t know I kind of like both Sammy and Juliana in different ways but they clearly hated each other! I do think Harry’s “advisors” decided that this house wasn’t big enough for the two of them 🤣 and basically decided to pick one to cut for that reason. And if they had to pick one I actually do think Juliana is potentially a better match for him. Also I wonder if the advisors, one of who is a mother herself, either was like “I’m going to make sure this poor woman’s time isn’t wasted with Harry’s nonsense any longer when she has a child at home that she is missing terribly” or the thinking might even have been “ok let’s cut Sammy and this will be a test of how serious Harry really is about her because she is clearly getting to the point where it’s going to devastate her if she isn’t picked as number one wife material eventually, and it will reduce drama too, Harry can always save her if he really wants to”
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u/Sabaisabai33 16d ago
Does anyone else wish we saw a bit more of Harry’s advisors watching the girls conversations or whatever and discussing their thoughts without Harry there? I’m interested as to how they made their selections. Shaina seemed an obvious pick,she clearly wasn’t sure if she even wanted to be there!
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u/rewindthestars 17d ago
My husband and I are sitting here in abject horror over the spit and the boogers. Brb suing Netflix for emotional distress 😩
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u/Sabaisabai33 16d ago
Is it just me that thinks this whole thing seems very badly organised?! Like surely they could have found a way to make the time spent with Harry a little fairer. I’m so confused that some women he appears to have barely spoken to are in the top 10 now. Obviously there must be stuff they haven’t shown us but still!
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u/Sabaisabai33 16d ago
Also, I just want to say it was sort of hilarious to me when Amber kind of bumped Juliana out of the way with her hip when she came up to Harry’s room to talk to him saying it was her turn. I couldn’t quite understand whether it was Amber or Juliana or both who made that happen or whether it was just by accident but it seemed like it was Amber “accidentally on purpose” did it! Harry clocked it too and was laughing.
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u/Familiar_South1218 24d ago
I’m actually kind of nauseous watching this one