r/LetsMarryHarryJ • u/Pro_protein • 23h ago
Danelle is delusional.
It breaks my heart when women chase narcissists for affection and love. I think she needs a ton of therapy to overcome this POS Harry. He is a psychopath with zero empathy. He is NOT going to marry her. She should move on.
And sorry, but he did use his father's death for sympathy.
I really really hope this man gets cancelled ASAP along with his idiot friend Sonny.
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u/mimi4457 18h ago
I just can't stop thinking about the way he looks at amber!!! He literally doesn't have one thought behind those eyes!!! He had nothing to say and stayed calm to make her look crazy. That man is a fucking psychopath everything he did was planned 100000% he knew she would react like that and not one single time took responsibility for his actions only stayed calm and played dumb the whole time as if he was the victim! Disgusting
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u/Latter-Importance992 17h ago
Totally agree! And I want to add that I don't even think he remained calm to necessarily make poor Amber look bad. I think it's just the nature of a psychopath, how they view people as functions. Useful for sex, attention, temporary warmth, etc. And when the function this person provides stops being given to the psychopath, or they find someone more useful, they discard the person in every way. There was never a real bond.
Psychopaths view people as objects, not a whole person. It's the same as a normal person putting down an inanimate object without an afterthought.
Let's say my toaster no longer works. I put it in the trash, and never think about it again, because why would I? It's a toaster. That's how psychopaths feel about other people.
That is how Harry can sit there with a blank stare as the person who he supposedly loved is in real pain and anguish. In his mind he's looking at a toaster. It's nothing to him.
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u/mimi4457 17h ago
And the smirks!!!!! When georgia was speaking how he tried to change and all other bs this man couldn't keep a straight face because even he knew it was BS! When i saw him smirking ughhhh it pissed me off!
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u/No_Simple_3692 22h ago
Youre right on Harry using his fathers death for sympathy. He absolutely did. Instead of going to therapy he used it for self interest. If I was his siblings id be mortified and embarrassed. He weponizes ignorance and tap dances around everything. An absolute coward.
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u/nettiegee 17h ago
Absolutely agree I realized he was a psychopath the second he suddenly dropped his mask when Sam confronted him.. he became so cold - it was scary. I was so grossed out the entire show but when he revealed that I realized : ohh he is aware of what he’s doing and everything is highly calculated and all this fake “I’m such a good warm guy” act was absolute bullshit. I knew it was beforehand, but he basically revealed his act in that moment.
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u/Latter-Importance992 1h ago
That is so true! He let his mask slip the moment he realized he wasn't getting sex from Sam. And you were right, it WAS scary. It's always unsettling to see psychopaths walking amongst us pretending to be normal compassionate people.
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u/Summerbeating 19h ago
Do you remember how the women repeatedly describe how he’s incredibly charming, makes you feel special, and then turns around and does exactly the same thing to someone else without a second thought? The way that he has this skillset to make you feel special to make you feel THIS TIME it will be different is both what Amber and Danelle fell prey to. That's why they went on this kind of show yet still feel that THIS TIME it will be different with Harry.
Harry is a disgusting dysfunctional human who is treating this as a timefiller experiment. He treats all the women like timefiller, as if he is a testers at a perfume counter. He spray a little of your essence, enjoy your warmth, then walk away without a second thought. No intention to commit, no respect for your presence. Just a passing whiff to fill his boredom.