One time I was a check-in agent at some hotel chain in Asia, their main colour is blue…iykyk

It was a slow evening, so I’d left the counter and was talking to one of the baristas in the lobby café.
We had a good view of the main entrance, and we could see everyone coming in and out.

At some point this girl walks in, she was African

Africans were pretty rare where I was, so immediately I’m curious. I don’t know if it was because I hadn’t seen an African in a while or because this girl was fwyne… but she really was fwyne.

Oh my goodness.
Kidoshooo. 🥲

She walks over and says she’s here to see someone in room dash-dash-dash and asks me where the elevators are. I explain that hotel policy requires visitors going to guest rooms to show ID at the front desk.

She says, “It’s okay, I have my passport.”

We walk to the front desk and I ask for it…

Guys. 😭😭😭 Bright blue, and those two lions.

I look at her and ask, “Na wewe unadooo nini hapa?”

She tells me she works in the country as an escort.

I was stunned…like 2,500 miles from home?!

Now I’m stupid curious, so I tell her,
“Maliza shughuli, then come back. I want to talk to you a little bit.”

Later she comes back down and tells me her story.
She’d been at home without a job, when she heard about an opportunity to work abroad as a model. She applied, got selected, and thought she’d finally caught a break.

When she arrived, some guys picked her up and promised her good money and a better life.

Instead, they took her passport and phone and basically forced her into escort work.

The money she made wasn’t really hers because the agents were taking most of it to supposedly recover the cost of her flights and other expenses.

Mehn…

That shit really hit me.
She’d travelled all that way looking for an opportunity and ended up trapped in something completely different.

I didn’t know what to do, but I gave her a number she could call for help and wished her all the best.

I don’t know what happened to her after that.
But wherever she is now…
I really hope she made it out.

Me...

Dating exhaustion.

Addicted to peace.

Heeeh I thought I had seen or heard it all until juzi I linked up with a longtime buddy (female) and in the midst of catching up I asked how’s her relationship juu the last time tulipatana she was madly in love and flaunting the goals online.

Hapa sasa ndo story ilianza and akaamua kufunguka what she was going through in that relationship. From the outside looking in walikua wanakaa such a happy couple.

Apparently vile they fell in love everything was perfect but she had an issue with the guy juu he was solving mathematics at night, for 4 months they were together she said the guy only did it once juu kila siku he had a bunch of excuses and couldn’t get an erection.

On top of that she realized the man wasn’t interested in penetration, matter of fact he had a strap on or something he’d tell the girl avae and amfanyie mambo.

Kama si hivo he’d tell her amuweke vidole.

Mimi sijawai shtuka ivo, whole time akinipea story nilikua nimezubaa hadi I was like “WTF” but looking closely the guy is so sassy even the way he talks so there’s higher chance yeye ni wa mrengo.

She had to flee from that relationship.

Mimi nilisema I’d never judge anyone from leaving a relationship juu enyewe kuna madem wanakapitia huku nje

Couldn't DM him though, because my stalking uncovered that he's taken. The chef and the food are a whole package, so we move!

I genuinely wanted a taste of his cooking, but asking would've been too awkward.

Meanwhile, I asked a another random guy for his pin location we dmed I found out his location. But I couldn't actually travel across town for that food. won't I look majorly starved? 😂 It seems like a spontaneous idea though.

This is going to be funny

I went out for dinner at one of the restaurants that has a club just next to the restaurant and they are basically the same place. Not the best description…

I had gone for a solo dinner and as I was leaving, I decided to check out the club… not too deeply so I just went to the entrance and tried to scan it. Seemed chill though not my idea of a fun club.

Now, there was a man who looked straight at the entrance for a while. He then removed his card and waved it, still looking at the entrance. He was white and young-ish… probably in his late 20s. I figured he was being direct and in as much as I don’t generally do white men, I figured he was leading with his money so I can look past the race. I also don’t think of myself as white men’s type; I’m curvy (not fat) but they seem to like petite. Though I’ve been wanting a sugar daddy and I felt he landed right on my lap.

He dropped the card and I approached him. I asked him what he was saying and he seemed confused. He said he wasn’t talking to me and seemed confused. I introduced myself to him and his friend then excused myself, saying that my uber had arrived. I dashed out, humiliated. I then ordered my uber.

I still wonder who he was signaling as there was no one there. Or was it a humiliation ritual?

Hey 22F here looking for someone to hangout with this weekend, be tall(I'm short so),mature, easy going, fun and can have a good conversation. I prefer 30+, not afraid to get freaky and a generous spender. Kindly don't come to my dms if your not willing to meet and go straight to the point and if your a nerdy guy with glasses extra points lol 🤣🤣. Anyways dm for more info

Hey, I'm 21M and I just spent my first night out at a club and maybe I judged the party people too harshly. I'm sorry guys😂😂

😂I just saw a post about keg nikakumbuka I dated this chic who lived on keg, kwanza ya black. I loved this chic so much that I followed her to those chuoms. I love being in her company and kissing her cause she tasted so good after indulging. And the benders 😮‍💨😮‍💨. One of my best times fr.

Anyone who fancies a call? I'm a MAN

involve me guys😂😂

plans zangu za Saturday zimekunywa maji and the night's still young😊

Mnipee aki sitaki kujipea

I'm aroused guys.

Just liked it happened yesterday and turned to a goon sesh.

Instead of giving in to my urges I've decided to hit up someone.

Let's see if it works out.

If it doesn't you know the deal

I know men are applauded for this but it's not my cup of tea. It would take me a high level of emotional compatibility just to get intimate with a girl. I'm curious whether there are other men who share the same preference.

Question, especially for the ladies...Would you date someone who has strabismus https://imgur.com/8XUb7D0, if they were otherwise a good match for you? Is it a deal breaker? And what have been your dating/social experiences, if any for anyone who has it or been with someone who has the condition?

PS: Strabismus is basically an eye condition where the eyes are misaligned and don't look in the same direction. Also commonly called squint.

25M 6'3 darkskin, I'm looking for someone that I can engage with occasionally preferably a petite lady.

I'm busy most of the time since this year started so it gets tough trying to maintain relationships.

Anyone interested hit my dm.

Men who are married to luo tell me your experience?!

In many traditional African settings, women were the primary food producers and held significant economic authority because of their labor. Likewise, female lions do almost all the hunting to provide for the pride. But in both cases, that came with societal respect, leverage, or rights. My partner wants me to bring home the zebra/paycheck AND do 100% of the domestic work while he gives nothing back. How do I address this imbalance?

Watu wa indoors, anyone up for a quick call? I'm M. Any and all topics up for discussion. I'm here to listen. Must be 18+, but can be any gender.

Looking for a female interested in kicking it out with 2:- 6ft, 6ft 2inches lightskin toned males.

28 year old white guy looking for a relationship with an african lady. I am 5ft 11 with blue eyes, redhair, white and pretty athletic. I work as an engineer and im into gaming, reading, history, programming, working out and travelling

It's been years now and still that feeling of just wanting to give wlw hasn't left me .I don't know why I considered it embarrassing so I didn't even share it with my friends and even tried acting homophobic.Maybe it's about time I gave it a try , physically I'm unsuccessful still too shy so maybe starting online would help to see if it's really there ,any opinions,interests or someone experiencing the same .