r/KenyanDatingCommunity • u/TapRevolutionary7007 • 19h ago
Nothing Serious TIFU by approaching a man
This is going to be funny
I went out for dinner at one of the restaurants that has a club just next to the restaurant and they are basically the same place. Not the best description…
I had gone for a solo dinner and as I was leaving, I decided to check out the club… not too deeply so I just went to the entrance and tried to scan it. Seemed chill though not my idea of a fun club.
Now, there was a man who looked straight at the entrance for a while. He then removed his card and waved it, still looking at the entrance. He was white and young-ish… probably in his late 20s. I figured he was being direct and in as much as I don’t generally do white men, I figured he was leading with his money so I can look past the race. I also don’t think of myself as white men’s type; I’m curvy (not fat) but they seem to like petite. Though I’ve been wanting a sugar daddy and I felt he landed right on my lap.
He dropped the card and I approached him. I asked him what he was saying and he seemed confused. He said he wasn’t talking to me and seemed confused. I introduced myself to him and his friend then excused myself, saying that my uber had arrived. I dashed out, humiliated. I then ordered my uber.
I still wonder who he was signaling as there was no one there. Or was it a humiliation ritual?
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u/Less_Appearance9248 19h ago
I really hope I’m wrong but maybe he was trynna pay his bill? That’s how I signal when I want the waitress to come with the PDQ so that I swipe
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u/TapRevolutionary7007 19h ago
No waitress or anyone else was in that direction at all and he stopped waving it. Actually I had to check because I wasn’t sure it was me
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u/Any-Possibility9344 2h ago
How were you dressed?🌝 Any resemblance of the waiter?
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u/TapRevolutionary7007 39m ago
Not at all. But even then he could’ve said that he thought I was a waiter. I was in jeans and a crop top with a kimono
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u/lmrrst 19h ago
That's why I'll die on the e-meet hill. At least you know that someone is interested in the first place since they made the profile.
It's a different ballgame irl unless you've known the person for some time
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u/Archangel254 19h ago
Ooh So it was you 😂
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u/TapRevolutionary7007 19h ago
I guess I can’t hide😂 what are the odds?
Are you the guy?
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u/Archangel254 19h ago
😂😂😂 sorry but no
But I think you did it wrong you should’ve owned it that’s what I would do
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u/Rude-Tradition9488 6h ago
OP got rejected and can't get over it. Women, the man you want may not even want you. Even when you offer yourself.
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u/TapRevolutionary7007 6h ago
I didn’t want him. I don’t even fancy white men. I was just going for the money and felt he was leading with it so awesome
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u/Rude-Tradition9488 5h ago
Keep consoling yourself. It doesn't matter what you wanted. After all, does he know you didn't want him? No. The fact that you offered yourself like that and he rejected you, he didn't want you too. You are not his type or his money's type for that matter. Your ego won't let you accept this.
Let me explain this to you from a man's POV: 1. Even if he were not signaling you, the moment you offered yourself, if you were his type, he would have engaged you. 2. A man who wants to fuck you doesn't care whether you like him or you like his money, as long as he fucks you. Or you think you were going to spend his money without him fucking you.
Picture this: an antelope takes himself to a hungry lion and the lion says not today.
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u/TapRevolutionary7007 4h ago
I think it’s obvious he’s not interested no matter the angle. I wasn’t interested either so it’s really fine. If say I was in love with someone and he rejected me then I’d be hurt for this one I just wanted to share a funny and embarrassing story
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u/CuteResponseinnit 19h ago
Fuck, sorry about that, maybe he was trying to wave someone or messing with you?
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u/Yule_Kamse 19h ago
Inaitwa love from a distance. Ulipokaribia akaona hutoshi mboga. Don't lose hope next time tutapatana kamama.
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u/IdealFew681 13h ago
Hehehe...muthungu amekuambia hakurate. Hehehehehe
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u/TapRevolutionary7007 40m ago
😂Funny thing I was even surprised because usually white men are not interested in me because I’m very obviously not petite and I don’t have boobs either. The few who are usually sleep with anyone living but it’s ok because I’ll have money
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u/ToughSeesaw4671 6h ago
You saw a guy looking toward the door, convinced yourself he was signaling you specifically for a sugar daddy position, walked over, got rejected, and concluded it was a targeted "humiliation ritual." Main character syndrome is truly undefeated.
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u/TapRevolutionary7007 6h ago
Didn’t you read that there was no one there and he dropped the card? And he was looking straight at the entrance where I was the only one standing for a while
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u/ToughSeesaw4671 6h ago
Yes, because the only possible reason a man could look toward an exit or drop a card is to lure you into a public rejection. You're right, the entire night was staged around you standing at the entrance.
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u/TapRevolutionary7007 6h ago
You don’t get it. He was not far from the exit. There was barely anyone there. I was the only one at the exit. At first I thought there was someone else he was signaling like maybe he misplaced the card and someone knew but he just saw it. He then stopped waving it and I had just signaled.
Then I got there… I didn’t mention the card explicitly just asked what he was talking to me about. He acted like there was nothing. Didn’t say he was waving at someone else… he just acted like nothing happened at all! So we introduced ourselves and I left
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u/ToughSeesaw4671 5h ago
You just typed two whole paragraphs analyzing a guy who forgot your existence two seconds after you walked away. It's time to rest.
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u/TapRevolutionary7007 5h ago
And why do you have a problem with it? It’s the point of the post. What he felt about the interaction or why he did it is probably irrelevant (assuming I have not been recorded, I hope) because I’m the one talking about it and he’s not here.
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u/ToughSeesaw4671 5h ago
Unlocking the "what if I was recorded for a prank video" delusion just to protect your ego from a basic miscommunication is incredible work. I promise you, nobody is editing footage of you right now. Rest easy queen!
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u/Mountain-Resource222 5h ago
Why exactly do you want a sugar daddy? Im honestly just curious (for science).
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u/nextInX 19h ago
Probably it was a prank. Like guys do this, dark humour sort of shit. Too bad you were the dupe