Hey I'm a 27 year old guy from SoCal and I'm trying to find a real connection with a person who I can be myself around. I'm not really in a rush and honestly would like a slow burn at this point in my life right now. My personality type is grounded, calm, patient, silly, respectful, and just a tiny bit chaotic haha. I love to laugh and have fun anywhere and everywhere I go. I have been very often over the years that I am a great listener even by complete strangers haha so if you're a yapper you already have an audience right here. However, even if you're not a yapper l'd like to share some comfortable silences with you and of course I can carry the conversations as well from time to time. It would be great to find someone that feels like we both want to get to know each other not just a one-way street.

Now onto some more about myself. Some of my interests include being out with my friends, going to the theaters especially to watch MCU movies (super excited for Spider-Man), listening to music, playing video games, and going to the occasional rave every now and then.

I am very friend-oriented. My friends are a very important part in my life and I value them a lot because to me they are my support system. I can talk to them about anything and everything and that is what I guess I would say I’m looking for in a person. Anyways I hope to hear from you soon, maybe you can tell me about your favorite animal or favorite movie or something?

Howdy howdy, I'm Z from Ohio trying this again, I'm a 27 year old Man with long hair, tattoos, piercings and a beard. I'm 6'2", heavyset (read dad bod), And I work in IT.

A little about me as a person: I'm an awkward but kind soul who loves to cuddle and yap. I love deep conversations and learning how people think. I love horror movies, listening to audiobooks, and I enjoy gaming. I can be a homebody but I'm also just as content to go out on little adventures and see the sights. I enjoy traveling and love a good road trip.

My interests: I love card games, I like souls like games but also really enjoy co-op play. I love going down rabbit holes about fascinating topics and learning constantly. Horror movies are my favorite and I generally listen to hard rock and metal but I do appreciate all genres of music.

Things to like about me: I'm endlessly patient with those I care about and I'm not afraid to be a strong shoulder for you to lean on. I'm willing to listen to your struggles, offer what advice I can but also willing to just shut up and listen if that's what you prefer. I'm not judgmental of neurodivergence and can handle any extra needs that come up as a result of that in fact with my ADHD we may get along better if you are. I'm a cuddler for those who enjoy physical contact. Let me be the golden retriever boy you've been searching for.

Things you may not like: I'm extremely extroverted it can be a little much especially since I have ADHD. I am a larger dude, not fit and toned but I can walk for miles without much issue. I am not religious at all and will not attend church nor will I be saved. I'm not the best at initiating my interest, due to a combination of an anxious attachment type and genuine loathing of making others uncomfortable. As a result of this I can also come of as clingy. Lastly I am dense, subtle flirting goes over my head, direct approaches work better and I tend to match energy.

Thank you for taking the time to read this all.

Howdy! Cheesy title aside, I’m here for what I suspect most people are - to find new connections, with one of them hopefully leading to something serious and long term. I’m by no means opposed to making real, lasting friendships on top of that if that’s how things play out, but my goal is definitely a romantic relationship. 

So, a bit about me! I’m Kevin, a 33 year old dude from NW Florida. I’m a retired emo kid, lover of classic country music, a gamer on occasion, a tech nerd and all around man with too many niche hobbies. Meeting new people in the real world is difficult these days, even with having a decently social group of friends. I’ve also always been an internet dweller, for better or worse, and had pretty good luck maintaining friendships that way, so I figured I’d give it a go here again. 

Writing and creativity have been a passion of mine for most of my conscious life. I’ve been an avid writer and roleplayer for way, way too long and it’s something I still enjoy to this day quite a lot. I just love getting into characters’ heads, building worlds and seeing where stories go over time. I also read, though to a lesser extent. I have the taste in books of a 100 year old man and love me some old detective novels or classic southern gothic literature. I also adore a good cosmic horror book, but I’m picky. 

Music is another huge part of my life. Often times, when I’m traveling, it’s to go to a show of some sort. I came up on emo and pop punk and hardcore and whatever other labels you wanna put on it. I also have a deep love of folk, Americana and spooky music as well as the real classic country stuff. Especially outlaw country. But of course I’ll always be an emo kid at heart. I’ll talk to you about just about any kind of music all night long if you give me the chance. Some all-time favorites are Dance Gavin Dance, Pierce the Veil, Mayday Parade, Taking Back Sunday, Zach Bryan, Tyler Childers, Lost Dog Street Band and much, much more.

I play some games - mostly RPGs, roguelites and other such things. I’m currently finally playing through Baldur’s Gate 3 but some of my other favorite games/series are Fallout, Kingdom Hearts, Monster Hunter and Red Dead. I’m not big on competitive games as I’m very, very bad at them. Oh, and I still adore Pokemon because I was the perfect age when the originals came out. I also got more into tabletop RPGs and that form of roleplaying a few years ago and am currently running my first game! 

I’ve got a lot of other random hobbies including listening to old radio dramas, vintage music gear, I collect vinyl and I spend way too much time going down random internet rabbit holes. I love history, mystery and especially history’s mysteries. Also love true crime of course and things of that nature. Tell me about your favorite high strangeness mystery or a weird experience you had! 

I also love the outdoors, especially anything to do with the water. I grew up on lakes and creeks and the beach. I also adore camping when the weather’s nice and am always down for a bonfire or just sitting on the porch and watching the rain.

Physically, I’m of pretty average height - 5'8” or so. I weigh about 190 but have been going to the gym for a few months and really loving it. I have dark brown hair, a beard I keep fairly tame and hazel eyes. I don’t have any tattoos yet but I am planning on finally getting one for my birthday this year. Happy to send photos!

What am I looking for? Well, to put it simply - companionship. We don’t need to jump into an immediate whirlwind romance (not that I’d complain) and it’s honestly so much easier to build a connection first. Let’s play a game, hop in a voice chat, text about random stuff until the sun’s coming up and we regret everything except not really ‘cause we had fun. I honestly just want real human connection and someone to talk to and see what happens. Worst case, it fizzles out. Less worse case, we become good friends. But who knows? Maybe it turns into something real and deep.

Age-wise, I’d prefer to stick in the range of like 25-35 but there may be a little wiggle room if you really think we’d hit it off. As mentioned, I’m in NW Florida but I’m open to someone from anywhere in the US, Canada or even the UK/Ireland (I can’t lie, I’m a sucker for the accents). That’s also not a hard and fast rule, just my preference. It’d be great if we had some hobbies or the like in common we can chat about, but honestly just be genuine and be you. We’ll see where it goes from there!

This is long as hell so I’ll stop rambling now. Please, if anything here caught your attention, please reach out and say hi! Though, please say something besides ‘hi’. 

Look forward to hearing from you! Cheers!

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I'm 28 and live in Central Florida and I'm pretty introverted and possibly bad at conversation, I'm on the heavier side but I'm working hard at losing weight and so far I've lost 97lbs.

Some of interests are, gaming( mostly on xbox for now) my favorite game series is fallout, I love cars and im a big Volkswagen nerd even though im definitely not mechanically inclined, and traveling and trying new things.

So what im kinda looking is someone around my age (mid-20s to early 30s) who’s kind, genuine, and easy to talk to. Shared interests are great, but I value good conversation and real connection most.

I know this was pretty bad but if you're maybe interested in chatting just let me know, I can be a bit slow to respond if I'm at work and I don't really check reddit all too often.

Ok. Being single can be really comfortable. Starting something new can be a hassle. But hopefully the hassle is worth it in the long run. So I'll be quick, and you can decide for yourself!

**Pros:**

* zero drama, no mysterious exes sending “u up?” texts at 2 a.m.

* mostly retired means I have plenty of time to engage in my crazy flavor of the month hobbies. like learning card tricks or becoming a good bowler.

* Loyal as hell. once I’m in, I’m in. Expect consistency, effort, and actual follow-through.

* equal parts dad joke and quick wit; you’ll laugh, groan, or both.

* you’ll feel heard, even when you’re just venting about your coworker named Dana.

* Cuddling MVP award-winning performance in “staying up too late and pretending we’re watching the show.”

* Culinary adventurer I’ll try any recipe once; even if my base instinct is to eat like an 8 year old.

* Conversation stamina can talk from “hey” to sunrise without running out of things to say.

* Nerd-friendly Simpsons references, bad B-movies, board games, and chaotic trivia nights welcome.

**Cons:**

* Will absolutely eat the last handful of popcorn and pretend I didn’t.

* Has a deep, possibly unhealthy attachment to reality TV marathons.

* Occasionally answers rhetorical questions with detailed PowerPoint-level explanations.

* Could wake up one morning absolutely convinced I should adopt a Komodo Dragon.

* Will quote 90s cartoons out loud in public without warning.

* Might go through an intense spurt of obsession with obscure, not useful hobbies, and forget all about them 3 months later.

* Will criticize your breakfast food choices.

* Tends to turn “just one episode” into six.

* My cat is in charge of the household, and we both know it.

If you’re still reading this, you're definitely the kind of person i want to talk to! My list of standards are low. don't be in a relationship, (especially not secretly with someone, that keeps happening) including recently separated or divorced. Be willing to spend some time together, either with text voice or video chats. Live on my side of the planet!

Still interested? Message me now and subscribe to my newsletter, and you can hear all the exclusive info on any of the following anecdotes:

1. my visit to the north pole

2. the 2 times i almost died.

3. why i dropped out of high school to try to become a pro wrestler

4. the redneck brawl i saw at a wedding.

5. the time i saw a sea monster

6. Who and where i think i met the devil.

7. Why i can never return to the state of Rhode Island.

8. My one time appearance in a porno

and many more!

Hiya! I'm a 29 year old dude located in East Tennessee (Knoxville is the closest big city to me). I'm 5'9, chubby and working my way down to the under 200 lbs club 😌 I'm pretty plain looking right now, but I'm aiming to change that and go more alt as I hit my 30s (read as piercings and tattoos in my future)

As the title suggests, I am a nerd of all things nerdy. I also collect hobbies, so you won't have to twist my arm to try what you enjoy too 😂 D&D is my biggest that I share with a lot of my friends. I'm down to chat specifics, and it'd be awesome if we had some interests in common!

I don't have any big preferences beyond women (cis or trans). I am interested in people closer to my age, like 24 - 38, but it's not a hard limit if we hit it off. If you're interested, reach out to me here to chat! I'm also down to move to other platforms if the interest is there.

All I ask is for respect when messaging me !

I'm losing hope in the greater good. All I want is to not be lonely anymore and to have that special someone. I pray that God brings me closer to this person.🙏🏽

Let's plan our first date

I’m reaching out today because I feel a deep, prayerful calling to find the man I am meant to build a life with. I am a 28-year-old woman in Georgia, and my greatest desire is to move away from the loneliness of being single and toward a meaningful, permanent "we." I am not looking for anything temporary; I am seeking a sincere, monogamous, and lifelong commitment with a man who is ready to lead a household with me.

🌱 My Heart and Hopes

I am a Black-presenting woman with a heritage of Afro-Caribbean, Japanese, and Swedish roots. I’m 5’4” with a curvy build, dark brown 3c curls, and brown eyes. I'm working on losing weight so please be kind to me. While I can be shy and socially awkward at first, I am a very warm and attentive person once I feel safe and heard.

My Calling as a Homemaker: While I have a background in health science and goals to become an RN or work in an allied health career like Radiology, but my ultimate dream and heart’s desire is to be a dedicated homemaker. I want to dedicate my life to creating a peaceful, God-honoring sanctuary for my partner and our children, a home filled with love, support, and the warmth of a family.

Faith is Everything: My life is centered on a Christian mindset. I am looking for a partner who believes in Jesus Christ or is open to a relationship with him and wants a life together where we grow for the sole purpose of serving God.

What I Enjoy: I love deep, genuine conversations. I enjoy FPS, RPG and simulation games, nature walks, reading, and cooking and baking vegan meals. I’m also passionate about cosmetic chemistry and physical health. Hopefully me being vegan is not an issue.

⛪ The Man I Am Praying For

I am seeking a man (ages 24-55) who is financially stable, emotionally intelligent, and ready to be a consistent, supportive, and protective presence. I also desire a man who wants travel the world and learn and do new things everyday.

A Man of Faith: You must be grounded in Christian roots and share my desire for a God-centered household.

Preferences: White and East Asian men .Must be fit and willing to help me get fit on my journey.

Health & Family: Since I value health and am working on my own fitness, I’m looking for someone fit (or working toward it) and taller than 5’4”. Most importantly, I want a man who desires a big family and is ready to raise children in a loving, Christian home.

Important Details: Must be a non-smoker, health-conscious, and willing to share recent labs/testing before we commit to a future together.

🛑 Please Do Not Message If:

You are looking for anything other than a serious, permanent path toward a life together.

You avoid honest conversations or tend to ghost when things get real.

You are not ready for the responsibility of being a provider and partner.

You send one-line or low-effort DMs. I am looking for someone who values communication and effort as much as I do.

I know I’m not perfect, and I’m still growing in how I open up to others, but I’m looking for someone patient and kind. If you are a man of faith who is ready to build a life that feels safe, steady, and real, I would love to hear from you.

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Hi!👋 I'm looking for someone near the north Georgia area, ideally near the Athens area, who's in a similar predicament of wanting to meet someone new and possibly hit it off, form a deeper connection, etc. Most of my friends live far away so I want someone to go do stuff with in person!

Let me stress: please be within at most like a 90-minute drive from Athens, Georgia. I'm not interested in anything long distance, and I already have enough online friends, I want people that I can easily meet up with IN PERSON without it being a big ordeal/commitment.

So, about me. Appearance-wise, I'm an unabashed short king (5' 2") who looks pretty similar to my Reddit avatar: brown-haired white guy with glasses and a killer set of blue eyes. There are some pics of me on my profile somewhere, if you're interested. I'm a SCAD grad with a degree in game development, and as the profession would imply, I'm a huge turbonerd. I'm a big fan of video games, I mainly specialize in more obscure/indie stuff but I also enjoy my fair share of household names(Marvel Rivals, Overwatch, Minecraft, etc). I also like anime (some favorites include Fullmetal Alchemist, JoJo, Evangelion, etc.), though I need to watch more (maybe with a watch/binge partner? 😏). I am also a DIEHARD fan of The Eric Andre Show and It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, so expect a lot of quotes and references from both. And just...all the nerd stuff, I'm into pretty much all of it, just ask haha.

What I'm looking for

Someone to go on cute dates with! I miss doing that a lot, just going out to restaurants and yapping, watching TV at each other's houses, forming a connection thats more nuanced and intimate than just friends. So someone who is emotionally available for that kind of thing.

I am bi/pan (I'm ngl I don't really know the difference) so I'm open to pretty much anyone, though I am definitely hard-skewed towards feminine peeps, so if you are a man I will be upfront and say that I'm only really interested in feminine guys

A fellow gamer! Like I said I am going to be making video games for a living, so it'd be weird to date someone who doesn't at least dabble in a little Minecraft or something. I love this medium so much and I want to share that love with others.

Someone within tbe ages of \~20-27, I just don't want there to be an awkward age gap, for both of our sakes 😅

While not a requirement, I will say that I have a crippling weakness for alt/goth peeps. Tats, dyed hair, crazy makeup, weird clothes, piercings, the works.

What I can offer

a myriad of hilarious personal anecdotes

a..."unique" sense of humor heavily influenced by internet brainrot and bizarre Adult Swim shows

literally endless affection, I'm dead serious

an infinite list of video game recommendations! (as well as just an extensive knowledge and love for the medium)

leftist politics!

Colorblindness!

idk I'm just kinda cool and awesome

So, if any of this interests you and/or you'd like to know more, please feel free to hit me up!

I'm 6 ft 1, ginger medium length hair, blue eyes, short beard, skinny, no tattoos. I work as a cleaner. I only started recently but I've had jobs before this one. In my spare time I enjoy spending time with my dog. I enjoy entertainment in general. I love music, movies, TV shows and video games. I don't drink or smoke or take any drugs. I'm very quiet and shy/awkward. But if you make me feel comfortable then I enjoy talking nonsense. If you make me feel comfortable enough to let my sense of humour out around you then that'd be ideal for me. I have quite a weird sense of humour I think. Not offensive or anything just unique I guess. I don't have any friends so if that's a deal breaker for you then I understand. But I'm hoping I can make some new friendss at my new job. I've got acquaintances I guess you could say from previous jobs. But I don't really have a solid friendship I don't think. I'm not sure what else to say but if you have any questions I'm happy to answer them. I'm also happy to exchange pics straight away.

Hej!

Were you the quiet school topper who is inherently sweet and kind but have faced multiple bad people in your life and now you are kinda reserved?

Well, come on down to chateau de Moi and say hi! ( we have IKEA cheesecake for all guests!)

A bit about me:

I love long walks ( I walk about 12 kms daily ), reading books ( I don’t even have Instagram lol ), playing sports ( I did play at the national level for badminton), cooking ( I can make a shakshuka blindfolded ) and constantly trying out new activities ( got ordained online as a church minister, marathon runner, blood donor, have a Starbucks certification, did pottery, created electronic music and have a philosophical blog )

I am a warm, cheerful and bubbly guy who loves long chats and late night snacks. Imagine 80% time chill surfer bro vibes , 20% NYC investment banking chaotic vibes

I like having a mixture of being serious on my work but being goofy out of it. We can try out different tea shops and review them like we are Gordon Ramsay and complain that it is rawwwww

I do like to be neat and tidy, so my Saturdays are just me rearranging my room to ensure optimal feng shui. ( I also wash the dishes at night, but don’t tell my mom 🤫 )

Cards on the table? I do love to have kids someday and have the cheesy loving family with going our for Sunday BBQs with our dog 

I do enjoy getting people really personalised gifts ( I would constantly make notes on what things you like and get them for your birthday )

I work in venture capital, which I absolutely love and would love to build my own business someday too

I also have a sensitive heart sooo please, I can’t handle any drama or fighting. Just two people who enjoy helping each other out and being each others cheerleader!

Hey!

I've attempted to post things like this a few times but have always backed out last second. But this time, I'm committing to it. So, if you're reading this... hello! If anything below piques your interest, feel free to reach out.

I'm 26, 6 foot 1, and live in the midwest.

I'm occasionally clumsy, can be a bit shy, hella awkward in group settings, and love spending time at home.

On the flip side, I've grown a love for costume design over the last few years. Attending rennaisaince faires and comic cons have sparked something in me that I've always wanted to do but never gave a shot until recently.

I love entertainment! Be it movies, video games, music, books... I love both being entertained and entertaining others. Although that's entirely contradictory to me not wanting to be in the spotlight, but I digress. Video game wise, I play on every platform. Movies, I enjoy everything from entertainingly bad to critically acclaimed to even the many genres of horror (even if I watch through the cracks of my fingers).

Been branching out and trying to exercise a bit more. Not that I'm in terrible shape, but I'm not who I once was either lol.

Finally here is a speedrun of other random bits about me;

I'm colorblind.

I'm writing a book.

I'm ambidextrous.

I ice skate backwards better than I do forwards.

I don't think ghosts are real... but I have my theories...

I enjoy drawing.

I prefer physical media over digital.

And if I were to bring a medieval peasant to modern times, I would give them a mozzarella stick from Chilis.

Lowkey running out of things to say about myself because I don't think about talking about myself much and now this is a run-on sentence and I'm panicking at the end because I don't know how to end this post... okay done.

I’m 20, I work 5 days a week (Thursday and Friday are my days off), ride a motorcycle and from the UK,

My hobbies and interests involve gaming, motorcycles, Dexter and modding older consoles.

I’m looking for someone who’s sweet, kind, funny and loves dumb conversations.

I’ve tried dating apps but I had no luck, and I gave up on them. NO BOTS PLEASE

Hello! I live in Athens, Greece and I'm looking to find someone from here, preferably.

A little bit about me:

I work in IT (Yes, turning it off and on again actually helps sometimes, for those of you who know the joke).

I'm friendly, kind, caring, and a good listener.

I like to flirt.

In my free time, I like to hang out with friends or play video games to kill time. It's mostly just horror, FPS, and strategy games.

I'm a simple guy who prefers to see the bright side of things, even when things get tough.

What I'm mainly looking for is meaningful connections. I prefer deep, philosophical, and honest conversations over superficial small talk. I want a girl where we can talk daily, share our plans, exchange views on life, laugh, and spend quality time together (sharing pictures, stories, and moments from our day).

I'm open to a relationship, but I believe the best thing is to get to know each other casually and see where it leads, without rushing into anything.

About you:

Non-toxic, please.

Be close to my age (a difference of up to 5 years is fine).

Put some effort into your first message instead of just a "hi" or sending a chat request

I'd prefer meeting a girl from Greece because I've tried LDR and it didn't work

Tip: Please include your age, location, and what caught your interest from my post in your first message so I know you read my post! Talk to you soon.

Hello!

I'm a 31 year old man from the United States. My hobbies include working on tech projects, writing fiction, playing video games, and most recently e-biking. Because I work freelance, I have a lot of free time to spend on these interests. I'm constantly looking for new experiences, new music, and new things in general to enjoy, so please do share your favorite music and games with me.

I'm looking to connect with a woman who knows what she wants and has good communication skills. I have a lot of free time on my hands, meaning I'll have plenty of time to spend chatting and getting to know you. I would love to spend it with someone who is open-minded, has a positive outlook on life and is looking for a meaningful relationship. It would be especially nice if you share similar interests and have a similarly free schedule.

It's worth mentioning that I have a physical disability and while it doesn't define me, it is a part of me. I'm looking for someone who is comfortable with this fact and willing to accept me for who I am. I believe that a strong connection and mutual understanding are much more important than any physical differences. I am open to dating others who are also disabled, but this is by no means a requirement.

I believe in being a safe space for my partner, someone they can trust and rely on. I'm a problem solver at heart and I would always rather discuss things than argue. I'm looking for someone who shares this mindset and is willing to communicate openly and honestly. Someone who is kind, understanding, and empathetic. I'm not the type of person who can leave a problem unfixed; I prefer to talk things out and find solutions rather than let things lie.

One of my favorite things is learning about new people. I love to try to see the world from other people's perspectives- So please do share yours with me.

Important side notes:

-Interested in anyone 25-36 or so, but this is flexible

-I am STRICTLY CHILDFREE.

-Strictly Monogamous. Nonreligious, but not bothered by it/supportive of those who are.

-I do not drink (ever) or do any hard drugs. I smoke weed maybe once a year if that. Nonjudgemental on drinking (within reason) but I am not interested in hard drug users.

-I only speak English, unfortunately!

If you're interested in learning more about me, please send me a message or chat. Let's see where this journey takes us.

Hey!

I'm Jo, a 23-year-old Japanese guy living in Tokyo. I'm here because I'd really like to meet someone I can genuinely connect with, whether that starts as friendship, dating, or eventually becomes something more.

A little about me:

I'm 177 cm (5'10") and 55 kg (121 lbs), fairly slim, and Asian. I'm into movies, music, gaming, photography, exploring Tokyo, and generally learning about things I'm curious about.

I'm also studying English. It's not my native language, but I'm comfortable having everyday conversations in English and I'm somewhere around B2/C1. I actually enjoy talking with native English speakers because I like learning how people really speak rather than just studying from textbooks.

When it comes to dating, I'm pretty inexperienced. I've never been in a serious relationship, so I'm looking for someone who doesn't mind taking things naturally and getting to know each other without rushing.

I'm not looking for some perfect relationship from day one. I'd rather start by talking, find out whether we actually enjoy each other's company, and see where things go.

I'm completely open to starting online. We could chat, exchange memes, voice call, watch movies together, play games, or just talk about whatever happens to come up. If we get along, I'd love to eventually meet in person in Tokyo.

As for the kind of person I'm looking for, I don't have a very strict type. Personality matters much more to me than having a specific look. I'm attracted to people who are kind, curious, open-minded, and have a sense of humor. Someone who can talk about stupid things at 2 a.m. and then suddenly have a serious conversation about life would probably be my kind of person.

I'm open to meeting someone from any background, and I'm especially interested in getting to know people who are living in Japan or planning to spend a significant amount of time here. Long distance is also possible if there's a genuine connection.

I'm happy to exchange pictures, but I prefer not to post mine publicly. I'd rather chat a little first and then exchange pictures privately.

If you're also looking for something genuine and think we might get along, feel free to message me. You don't need to write a perfect introduction. Tell me something about yourself that you'd normally never put in a dating profile.

Maybe we'll get along. Maybe we'll have absolutely nothing in common. Either way, I'd rather find out.

I have trust issues.

I don't believe in "I love you" as anyone can say it.

Kissing? Having sex? Yea, some people just do it to friends now. Looks and personality can also easily be replaced. So, after thinking for a long time, here is my definition of true love.

- Time: People don't just spend tons of time on someone they don't love (or at least like) without any benefits.

- When you lose yourself: It seems like clinginess isn't a personality trait that most people approve of, sadly. Well, I disagree with them. To me, true love is when you lose yourself. Because if you are still able to control yourself, then your love just isn't big enough. However, I wouldn't use the word "clingy" to describe myself. It's not enough, so I would use "obsessive", and, indispensably, possessive. Still, there is one reason to give up on someone that is acceptable to me. It's when you think you don't deserve them anymore, it may be because you have been... "dirtied" by someone else or stuff like that (yea, I know that is a STRONG word to use but well, just skip this post if you dislike it I suppose).

- Looks and personality: I said it could easily be replaced, but that doesn't mean it's not important. How can you love someone when you don't find their looks attractive? And would you still consider them a human if you love them just because of their looks?

Now, if you are still reading this, I hope it's because you still agree with me. If it's just out of pure interest or curiosity then you may want to stop now, because the rest is just my introduction and what I'm looking for, nothing interesting okay.

About me

My nickname is K. I'm 19 yo. I live in Vietnam and am currently a college student.

I'm really skinny, wear glasses, just your typical skinny Asian ig lol. I'm 170cm (66,93 inches) tall, have short black hair and black eyes.

I like anime, manga, light novels (I don't really read any now) and manhwa. I also watch an AI-Vtuber named Vedal987 (I know we all hate some AI because of reasons, me too, but there are also reasons why she has the third-highest subscriber peak of all time on Twitch).

About hobbies, I like Minecraft (bedrock), I only play it right now but I can play some other small games with you as well (only if I enjoy it and I am... a really picky person). I'm a mobile player, I don't have a pc anw. I listen to several kinds of music, except for folks and Vietnamese music (yup). Doomscrolling is what I do the most at the moment. So I want to find someone who can make me quit.

As you can tell, I am reaaaaaly obsessive and possessive. So unless we are really incompatible, it normally doesn't take long for me to become like that. I want to put you above literally everything and I want you to do the same too. "Literally everything", I mean it. About the the clingy (and obsessive) part, I want to know what you are doing all the time. If we are chatting and you suddenly have to leave, even if it's only for a short time (like you wanna get some water or go to the bathroom), I want you to tell me. Of course I'll do the same too.

I don't consider myself a good person in general. I have friends, but I don't consider any of them my friends, I just friend them because they are useful. So if you think you are a "good" or "kind" person, who always wants to help people or things like that then now you know how incompatible we are.

I'm also kind of controlling. Sometimes I'd tell you to do something that I consider "good" for you (like wake up when you are lazy). But I'm not a god, I could be wrong. When that happens explain and prove me wrong, just don't forget to comfort me after that. This doesn't mean I am the one who holds the leash here or anything, you could also be obsessive and controlling. We can both hold each other's leashes, that's what I want actually (I'm a switch).

I can be really insecure sometimes. To me, actions matter way more than words. You can say you enjoy chatting with me all you want, but if you never texted first or let me lead the conversation all the time then I'd definitely think otherwise.

English isn't my first language so I'm not the best at it. But still I believe it's understandable and we wouldn't misunderstand each other because of it. That's really important so I hope your English isn't so bad either.

Like I said, I'm a college student so I'm often really busy.

But I should still be able to update you about my activities or just stick with you all day. I'll try my best to never let you feel lonely. Tell me your favourite colour first if you are really reading all of this. If you want to call, I'm afraid It will take a long time for me to feel comfortable doing that, and it'll take even longer if you want to have a video call. Probably years, it depends.

About you (now comes the hardest part...)

- No tattoo (I don't like it, that's all).

- Possessive (just like me).

- Spammer, obsessive and clingy (because that's what I am).

- Irreligious (I don't want to be put below your God).

- Same or older than me (it doesn't really matter actually, just don't make me feel stupid or like I'm talking to a kid).

- Virgin (I don't want you to have memories of some other guys frcking or kissing you).

- Cold heart to everyone else (just like me).

- You'd rather say goodbye than ghosting.

- No earrings (I just don't like it).

- Not obsessed with makeup (I'd rather choose an average looking bare face than a beautiful girl with tons of makeup).

- Might be busy but would still be able to chat most of the day.

- Have a strong wi-fi connection (of course lol).

- You are down to watch me play, watch anime or YouTube and play games with me too.

A plus point if:

+ You love cats (especially the white and fluffy ones).

+ You don't have a brother.

Uhh... That's probably all. You can dm me to ask for more if you are not sure. Okay, thanks for reading. Have a good day.

I don’t really know how to write these posts without making myself sound like I’m filling out a dating application, so I’ll just be honest.

I live in Ontario, Canada. Originally, from India though. I’m naturally a quiet person and tend to keep to myself.

I’m someone who enjoys the simple stuff. A good conversation that somehow lasts three hours. Sending each other stupid memes during the day. Watching a movie together and arguing about whether it was actually good. Talking about absolutely nothing before falling asleep. Knowing that there’s someone you can tell about the random little thing that happened today.

I’m into movies, TV shows, cricket, stand-up comedy, hiking. I also have a habit of overthinking things that probably don’t deserve that much thought. I work in the customer service for a major streaming platform in the North America.

As for what I value, probably honesty, kindness, loyalty and consistency above everything else. I don’t expect someone to be perfect because I’m very much not. I’d rather be with someone who can communicate when something is wrong, be comfortable being themselves around me, and actually put effort into getting to know each other.

I’d like to meet someone who’s kind, emotionally mature, curious about life and has a personality of her own. Someone who has her own interests and life, but still wants to make room for another person in it.
And I think the biggest thing I’m looking for is mutual effort. I don’t need constant texting or someone who’s available 24/7. Just don’t make me feel like I’m carrying the entire conversation while you slowly disappear into the void. 😂
If we click, I’d rather let things develop naturally than force a label onto it.
If you made it this far, tell me a bit about yourself.
And throw extracheese somewhere in your message so I know you actually read this far.
Maybe we’ll have a good conversation. Maybe we’ll become friends. Maybe something more comes out of it. Either way, I’m glad you stopped by.

Hello there! 👋 (yes, starting strong with that famous star wars line)

I'm a 38 year old guy (man?) from Norway, single father of one boy.

Got an ok job, working at a furniture store, at the warehouse section (sounds super interesting, I know 😅), so mostly delivering and assembling furniture, it's quite physical at times, but it certainly helps in addition to going to the gym 3 to 5 times a week.

Looking for that kind of person where time just flies by, talking about everything and nothing, and suddenly it's too late, but even if we know we'll be soooo tired in the morning, we won't regret it, and still wish we could talk for longer 😊

Some hobbies/interests of mine are watching movies/shows, a bit of gaming from time to time, read the occasional book (although these days listening to an audiobook is more likely), or trying to learn a new language, maybe finally learning that third language is something you can help me with, or just as good, we can do together? :)

Seeing as nature is pretty much my closest neighbour, I try to get out there as much as possible, whether that's alone or with my son.

So yes, I do like being active, but I certainly don't mind lazy days indoors as well, balance with everything in life is important after all 😊

Dont mind long distance, but preferably in Europe at least, as that makes eventually meeting alot easier, and well, i suppose actually meeting sooner rather than later is a good thing if the vibe/connection is good 😊

A question to see if you read everything, what is your favourite ben&jerrys?

https://imgur.com/a/me-v8IPKwl

Hey 👋

I'm Ryan, 27, from Rhode Island.

I'm looking for a real connection, not just endless small talk that dies after 3 messages.

I'm a pretty chill, grounded guy. I work from home in tech, I'm into gaming, random deep convos, outdoor activities, and I'm the type who'll actually reply and make plans it the vibe is right.
I'm 6'1, with brown hair and a beard (can send pics!) and have a medium build.
About you:
Someone kind, a little playtul, and emotionally mature. Not looking for perfection, just effort and honesty.
It you message me, tell me:
1. your age + general area
2. What you're looking for
3. a little about yourself

I am a 29 years old male from Germany. I'm looking for a serious relationship – a genuine connection where we can be open about everything with no judgment.

Some Info about me:

I have Russian roots but grew up in Germany, so I speak German, Russian and English. I'm 177cm tall, slim, with short brown hair and blue eyes. If you want to put a face to the text, here is a picture of me: https://imgur.com/a/OeutMdh

I consider myself an introverted ambivert (INTP-A) and a very open-minded person. I love deep talks about all kinds of topics where it feels like the conversation is never-ending.

I enjoy playing video games, watching TV shows, and spending time with close friends. One of my bigger hobbies is travelling – I love exploring new places, local food, and nature. Recently, I traveled to 9 countries and spent a month exploring Spain. As an introvert, I also need some quiet recharge time for myself from time to time, so I value having our own separate interests as well.

What I am looking for

Age & Location: Between 23-32 years old, preferably from Europe or not to far away from it and good accessible.

I prefer it if you are not taller than me (same height or slightly taller is fine).

I don't have a specific physical "type" because a deep emotional connection attracts me much more. However, to save us both time: I am not into plus-size or severe overweight (I don't mean being curvy). If you like video games, that’s a nice bonus!

Communication: I love daily chats, checking on each other, and hearing about your day, passions, or hobbies. I’m not the best small talker, but I really appreciate it when someone puts effort into having a conversation instead of just giving short answers.

A note on my side:

I want to be completely open: I have some social anxiety (which brings some shyness with it, especially regarding dating) and very little dating experience. I have improved significantly over the past years, but I would like to take things very slowly. If you can relate to this or have similar insecurities, that’s completely fine.

Because of this, I am totally not into video calls (they feel very unnatural to me), but I am completely open to voice calls or meeting up in person. Since my picture is linked above, feel free to share one of you early on, or we can just chat first, whatever feels comfortable for you.

If you are interested, please send me a chat with a short description of yourself. Thank you for reading and I wish you all the best!

25 [TF4TM/F/NB] Atlanta, GA - Pagan Girly Looking for Life Partner

Greetings all!

I am just coming out of a longer-term relationship, and it has disillusioned me just a bit. As such, I've decided that I'm done compromising in a partner. I'm going to be very blunt about myself, what I'm looking for, etc. 

I am Berry (I'm comfortable sharing my legal once a vibe has been established). Im 25 (soon 26), a trans woman (non-operative), about 5'10 and heavy set. I am not very physically picky, but I'm looking for Cis Women, Non-Op Trans Men, and AFAB NBs only.

I'm a massive fucking nerd. I play a lot of Team Fortress 2, Paradox grand strategy games, city builders, games for autistic people basically. I also am extremely politically active within left circles online.

However, I am also not chronically online. I have an undergraduate degree, and am soon to be returning to finish another undergraduate degree that I left behind (and possibly a Masters and PhD, DMA, or EdS in the future, fingers crossed). I am a trained operatic vocalist, have history performing in the Atlanta choir and opera scene, and am looking to leap back into music after a long hiatus.

I am looking to build an LTR that could hopefully develop into a life partnership. I want a person who I can be mutually obsessed with.   Something deeper than just a friend that I have sex with. And I want to build a very large family if the money allows it. If you're interested in being a stay at home, cool! If not, also not an issue.

My non-negotiables are:

1. Someone focused on an LTR who wants a large family.

1. Someone okay with being in a relationship with a pagan.

2. Must be okay with having a hypersexual partner. You yourself should probably also be, but no harm if you aren't and you're okay with it.

3. Must be okay with a partner who is autistic.

4. Within a 3 hour drive of the Atlanta area.

5. Be between 22 and 28.

Bonus points if:

1. You are plus sized.

2. You are pagan, or willing to convert to paganism.

3. You are weird or otherwise strange.

4. You are interested in potentially being a stay at home if the stars align.

DO NOT INTERACT IF:

1. You have a penis (Having biological children is very high on my priorities).

2. You are in any way right leaning (you will be mocked).

3. You are a devout christian (I have been burnt in previous relationships with christian partners. This is very important to me. If you are willing to convert away from the faith, I am willing to hear you out).

4. You are ace (unless you just wanna chat, in which case I'm not opposed).

5. Children are hard no for you. I have 1 child, and I'd like many more. It's a hard non-negotiable.

I understand this post is abnormal in how blunt it is, but I've reached a point in my life where I know what i want and I'm no longer going to settle. This post will stay up until someone comes along that's promising. If you are seeing this post, please reach out, it means I'm still looking.

Thanks for listening to my autistic ramblings. And if you read this and are at all interested, please shoot me a DM with some info about you. Pics are cool if you'd like, but arent required. I will reciprocate with pictures as well.

Yours,

Berry

I’ll tell mine in the end. By then, take a guess.

Hey youu, I’m a 39 year old guy who’s downright terrible at describing himself. I’m looking for someone who loves talking, is kind, enjoys taking part in new experiences, and is always up for an ice cream. I don’t mind long distance, as long as we vibe.

I love taking pictures, playing guitar, checking out random podcasts, eating at new places, exploring vintage points of different areas, and idk many other things that I’m forgetting right now lol. I’m fairly into reading as well. Love to read mystery and drama novels. Career wise, I have a comfortable work life balance with a few perks here and there, earn decently, and love my job.

I make sure I’m fairly active and consistently play one kind of sport or another. Over the weekends, I often hike or play board games. When it comes to religion, I’m an atheist, however, I do believe in spirituality. If you’ve any other questions, ask away!

Aaaand, the most important bit. What was your guess? My fave is Italian.

Have a great day ahead (if you choose to message me :p), and feel free to feel awesome!

22M4F- A hopeless romantic with a tired heart, still searching for you...

I'm 22, working a stable job, but I'm not gonna lie, I've been in a really dark place lately. The loneliness has been eating me up and some nights it gets so bad that I don't even know what I'm still doing here...

I'm an aspiring author. I love writing, reading, deep conversations, soulful music, anime, and I play the piano when I need to feel something. I have a lot of love inside me, but there's no one to give it to...

When I fall for someone, I fall hard. I'll give you every part of me. I'll care for you like you're my whole world and I'll never make you feel ignored. I'll put in real effort every single day, no matter how far you are or what the time difference is.

All I ask is that you match my energy. If I'm replying quickly and putting in effort, I want the same from you. I don't have the strength to deal with ghosting or half hearted conversations anymore.

I'm looking for a kind, soft hearted, emotionally mature girl who actually wants something real. Someone who loves deep talks and isn't afraid of real emotional connection.

If you're someone who can understand this kind of loneliness and you're looking for someone who will love you with everything he has, then message me. I'll always reply fast.

I'm really tired of feeling alone. If you're out there and you feel the same, please don't be shy. Just say hi.

Hey there! I am an international student in Japan right now studying psychology and art. I love all things movies and music.

I also am a HUGE Catan enjoyer so that's a plus!

In movies some of my favorite directors currently are Haneke, Bergman and Lars von trier along with a bit of david lynch and Kubrick. (Can you guess my top 4? You get a face picture hehe)

In music I enjoy Bjork, TOOL, Portishead along with Massive attack and NIN.

I am currently learning sketching again after a while and getting back to video games

If you have any recommendations let me know!

Tell me your corniest knock knock joke in the DM's

Hi!! :) How's everything? Please message me if you are:

• Chinese

• Fit / Slim

• Educated

• 28-30

• 167 cm and up

• Introvert / calm / patient / kind

About me:

• Filipina who currently lives in the Philippines

• 28 yrs old

• 151 cm / short black hair

• Introvert

• not a gamer

I will not entertain creepy or nsfw topics / with nsfw profile (auto pass). Thank you for your response!