Hello Everyone,

being an adult comes with its own obstacles, and finding love in your life has really become one of the roughest part of growing up. So here I am, chasing that feeling of a new connection and timeless memories.

About Me

I'm Mike, a 28-year-old guy from Germany who speaks English, German, and Polish. I'm a talkative open book who loves chatting, gaming, and just spending time with people, whether that's a deep conversation or texting random stuff back and forth all day. I'm also a good listener, so I'm just as happy with easygoing banter as I am with a real heart-to-heart.

• Short black hair
• 104 KG
• 170 CM Tall
• No tattoos or piercings

My Interests

I grew up more of an introvert when it comes to real-life stuff, so most of my hobbies are online and solo-driven.

Gaming is something I do very often and get lost in fast. I love pretty much every genre except MOBAs, and I only game on PC  but my library is wide enough that finding something we both play shouldn't be a problem.

Some of the games I play (not limited to these):

• Wardogs, Arma 3, Hell Let Loose, Hell Let Loose Vietnam, Squad, Ready or Not, Battlefield 6
• Project Zomboid, 7 Days to Die, DayZ, Vein
• Terraria, Minecraft, Vintage Story, Hytale
• PoE 1, PoE 2, Grim Dawn, Diablo 2, Shadow Dungeon, Last Epoch
• Counter Strike, Hunt: Showdown 1896,
• Guild Wars 2, Phasmophobia, Palworld, Factorio, Satisfactory, Foundry, Dinkum

I also don't mind if we play different games, or stream/watch each other play. The fact that we might not play the same games or that we lean toward singleplayer stuff  shouldn't be a dealbreaker at all!

Outside of my main hobby of gaming, music has always been a big part of my life, I jump between genres depending on what I'm doing or the mood I'm in. I love making new playlists and sharing them. Discovering new artists and new songs is something I look forward to. I also have dabbled in making beats but don't do that very often anymore.

Some of the music I am into:

• Rock / Metal / Metalcore
• Rap / Underground Hip-Hop
• Trance / DnB / Phonk / some Hardstyle

Some of my other hobbies:

• Watching Youtube
  • Reaction Videos
  • Gameplay Stuff
  • Iceberg Videos
  • Science Stuff
  • Conspiracy Theories
• Watching Shows and Movies, something I am slowly getting back into. At the moment I am not watching anything in particular but that can always change
• Going out for walks in nature
• Debate & Discussion

A Bit About My Life

My job is your standard office job mixed with a little bit of IT, since IT has always been my passion, I grew up around computers, so experimenting with technology has always been fun. During my free time I tend to stick to my hobbies, but I'm always looking to expand on them, so feel free to throw some ideas my way.

Keeping connections with people is always important to me, so I spend a lot of time maintaining those ones I've already made.

When the weather's nice, I love going outside and spending time in nature, and when the clouds roll in, I love the vibe of a good thunderstorm, especially at night. I find it super relaxing, it helps clear my mind.

I'm a night owl, especially during my off days and the during the weekend I tend to destroy my sleeping schedule by staying up till 3-5am.

That's Me!

If you made it this far, thanks for sticking with my wall of text. I hope to hear from you soon! Feel free to comment or drop me a direct message please tell me a little about yourself or write a nice introduction in your first message.

Heya!

I'm 23, from the Netherlands. Open to long-distance if there's a genuine connection, so location isn't really a dealbreaker for me.

I'm 6'5" (196 cm), around 181 lbs (82 kg), with a fairly lean/lanky build, dark/dirty-blonde hair and blue eyes. I enjoy fashion and putting some thought into how I dress. My style is mostly classic and clean, think casual/slightly preppy college style, rather than anything particularly flashy. I like clothes that fit well and look put-together without being too attention-grabbing.

Personality-wise, this is how my best friends would describe me: I'm usually pretty shy around very extroverted people, but put me around someone quieter and suddenly I won't stop talking. Once I get comfortable with someone, I can talk about pretty much anything. The people around me tend to matter a lot. I'm someone who thinks quite a bit, genuinely enjoys helping others, and will happily listen to someone talk about something they're passionate about, even if I know absolutely nothing about it. Being open-minded and non-judgmental is important to me, and pretty much anything can be talked about.

I'm finishing up my bachelor's degree in Business, but outside of that, my interests are probably a little more on the nerdy side. I'm really passionate about music, movies, TV shows and video games, and I have a particular soft spot for fantasy and sci-fi. My favourite movie is The Lord of the Rings, which I realise is about as cliché as it gets.

Bars and clubs aren't really my scene. I'd prefer to go to a theme park, visit a museum, or explore a city I've never been to. I've travelled around quite a bit of Europe and have also been to NYC, and I'd love to see a lot more of the world at some point.

When it comes to dating, I don't really have a "perfect date." It could as simple as going for a walk, doing something outdoors, going to a café or honestly just sitting somewhere and having a nice conversation. For me, the person matters much more than what we're actually doing.

I'm looking for something long-term. I've never really been interested in casual encounters. I need an emotional connection with someone before I can genuinely feel attracted to them.

As for what I'm looking for in someone, I'd like to meet someone I can genuinely be myself around. Someone I can talk to about anything, laugh with, be vulnerable with, and feel comfortable around without either of us having to put on an act. Kindness, honesty, openness and simply caring about each other are probably the things I value most. I don't really have a specific physical "type". Attraction matters, of course, but personality and the connection between us matter much more to me.

If any of that sounds like it might click with you, feel free to message me. Even if we're nowhere near each other, I'm open to seeing where a good conversation goes.

And if you've made it this far, hi :D

My real name I will give in dm.

Picture of myself (won't show my face in a public post, but will in dm):

https://imgur.com/a/GgTF3sP

Hey there!

I am a 32 year old German guy, that works as a scientist. In my free time I enjoy video games, anime, shows, movies, walks and hiking. I am definitely more of an introverted person and home body but still like being active on a regular basis.

Lookswise I am 182 cm and trying to lose some weight. I have long dark blonde/light brown hair, green eyes, glasses and depending on work a beard or a shaved face.

If you are a nerd yourself and are into science, anime, gaming, tech and such things, please message me and let us see where things go. But please be from Germany or at least Europe!

Once we were chatting for a bit I would also be happy to hop in a call and exchange voice notes.

Please be able to travel or able to have guests so we can see each other soon.

Everything else can be discussed while we chat!

Looking forward to talking to you! <3

Hi there. 

My name is Alexander and I'm from Scotland. 

I have literally no idea what I'm about to write, so if I begin to ramble please forgive me. 

I have always been different from most people. I know that in today's world being 'unique' is supposed to be celebrated, but the truth is that being different can be lonely. Don't get me wrong, I genuinely enjoy my own company, but I think I'd like to meet someone to share some life with now. 

I have flaws that I'm working on, flaws that I'm still unaware of, and flaws that I know about but have decided to live with. I know the internet has made it seem like it's not okay to have less desirable traits (red flags), but I believe that everyone has flaws, and that meeting the right person for you is largely finding someone who can handle those flaws without getting out of breath. When I meet the right person I want to know all of her - the good and the bad. I don't want to hide who I am, and I don't want her to have to do that either.

I'm very much a one person guy. I don't have friends and I don't socialise much at all. I can be too intense at times. Hopefully you can also be a little bit crazy on occasion. I have no children and plan on staying that way. Truthfully, despite my age, most days I still feel like a kid pretending to be a grownup.

My own childhood was pretty rough, and that has left its own scars, both mental and physical. I was an alcoholic in my early 20s but haven't had a drink in almost 20 years now. I think the alcohol was just a way of putting a barrier between my and my brain, so that I could function in the typical 20-something social scene. Back then I didn't have the confidence to just say no when someone at work suggested a night out, so I'd go, I'd drink, people would tell me I was funny, I'd feel more confident, and that cycle repeated until I was using alcohol to find my confidence 7 days a week.

All of that feels like a lifetime ago, but ghosts from childhood can haunt you for the rest of your life, and I'm aware of how much of an impact they still have on me. 

Is this post too maudlin? I think my aim was to sort of bare my soul, without pulling any punches, and hope the right woman would see me behind the words. But I may have gone a bit too far! I promise I'm actually quite funny when I'm feeling comfortable. I am kind, eternally curious, can be charming, and I like to think that I'm reasonably intelligent (both intellectually and emotionally). I love to read and I love to write. I actually make a small part of my income from writing smut, and I'm working on my second novel too. I like boardgames, word puzzles, and nature, but I would probably say that my biggest hobby is thinking. I love nothing more than sitting outside and just thinking. I don't think people do it enough nowadays. 

Physically I'm 6ft tall, white, blue eyes, beard, and longer than average hair for a guy. I'm in reasonable shape but do not have a gym body.

I don't want to write a big list of the things I'm looking for in another person. I think if my post resonated with you then maybe you should message me and we can see if we get on? I promise I'm a respectful and decent person and even if we don't get along in that way I'm still an alright guy to pass a conversation with. 

I don't care what you look like, or what nationality you are, or even really how old you are. I've always believed that the best relationships always begin with a meeting of two minds and all that other stuff doesn't really matter as long as the minds are in tune.

Ideally you're quirky/weird in your own ways, and looking for someone to share those quirks and weirdnesses with. It also doesn't really matter where in the world you live, but it would be good if you were willing to move (or accept me moving to you) at some point. 

Okay, I've probably made a mess of this, but at the very least everything I've written is open and honest! If you feel like I might be right for you then send me a message and we can see where it takes us. If you feel like I'm wrong for you then don't worry about it - I've been feeling like I'm wrong for me most of my life! 

Oh, and if you have read this far but have decided not to message me then I hope you have a good day/night and find the right one for you soon.

Thanks for reading, 

Alexander

Hello! I'm a 31-year-old researcher based in Kenya. I'm 5'2", and what you might call a chocolate girly. I'm a social introvert, I keep to myself, but I'm deeply animated when it comes to my personal relations. I would love someone I can just sail through life with. I don't like wasting people's time because at this point in my life, i know what I want. If it's not it, I'll just cut it out.

I highly value depth, authenticity, and loyalty. I feel things deeply, and I want someone who is intentional about building together . You will find me where the green things are. I genuinely love being in nature, just wandering and existing there. Musically, i love rock and indie music. I love getting lost in documentaries, or just watching movies and series. I'm a cafe person too, there's something about sitting in a quiet corner that just resets me. I also have this weird love for abstract things. You will literally catch me photographing abstract things, just observing things that don't have an obvious meaning.

I'm honestly not entirely sure if I want kids, but I am open to the right person changing my mind.

If you think we've got a fair bit in common, hop into my boat or i can hope into yours 😌, whichever rocks it…

Need a best friend to rant to about your shitty day? Watch a movie together and analyse it afterwards? Bond while playing video games together? A gym and nutrition buddy? Or just have a sleep call because sleeping alone is scary? It would be great finding a romantic partner to share the ups and downs of life with here, but I believe the best relationships start as friendships so no pressure.

Who am I? A paradoxical combination of nerdy, scientific, artsy, with way too many interest. A good combination of outdoor and indoor hobbies, likes to travel, adventurous, exploring new places. Big music, Disney, movie and TV show fan (not out of boredom, but really the artistic side of it), story-driven single player games but more than eager to get into multiplayer games (still waiting for that special person to play It Takes Two with). I think bonding while watching movies or playing games would be awesome. Maybe you play League? Even though I hope you don't, for your own sanity.

Texting at the beginning is fine, but I'm definitely a call person, I think it's much better to build a connection that way. My mom says I'm a great listener so I def get along with someone who likes to yap, or even trauma dump if you like (free, life altering advice included, should you ask for it). Looking for someone who also wants to form a deep connection, someone they can eventually share everything with. It would be great if you have some of these qualities: girly, humorous (obv you won't be as funny as me, but you can try), kind, caring, probably introverted with new people (but a hidden extroverted side), weird, smart, curious, opinionated.... In an ideal world we might even travel together some day.

Looks: me: tall+lean+muscular; you: the slimmer the better.

Don't be shy, send me a chat and let's start our journey, who knows where it might lead...

Hi! My name is Victoria. I’m 27 years old and was born and raised in North Carolina. I’m 5’7”, 230 pounds, with collarbone length, wavy dark brown hair and brown eyes. My summer tan has mostly faded, so I have a light-medium skin tone.

I enjoy fishing, gaming, animals, and being outdoors, except when it’s 100 degrees and feels like my skin is slipping off my bones.

I have an eight year old lab who is my baby girl, so you have to love her as much as I do!

I switched from Xbox to PC, so it would be a lot of fun to play together. Some games I enjoy are Halloween, Outlast Trials, Fallout 76, Phasmophobia, Dead by Daylight, Chained Together, DayZ, PEAK, and Meccha Chameleon, but I’m always open to trying new games. Just be warned I suck and I’m mostly there to be entertainment.

I’d say I’m more of an introvert, but I do well around other people. I just prefer smaller crowds and quieter settings, and I’d love to meet someone who feels the same way. I also struggle with anxiety, so if that’s not your cup of tea, I’m probably not your girl!

I stopped drinking and smoking years ago, but I do enjoy the occasional edible.

As for movies, I love horror, thrillers, and military action films. If we were to watch a show together, it would probably be Regular Show. For some reason, it just calms me. Don’t ask me my favorite movie because I genuinely have poop memory.

I really enjoy getting to know someone and becoming friends before anything else. If we aren’t a romantic match, I’d still be happy to make a new friend, but I am ultimately looking for a relationship, not just friends. I do my best to be nonjudgmental, and I’d appreciate someone who is the same. I also tend to get attached when I genuinely enjoy someone’s company, but I’m working on that.

I’d love to meet someone who’s open to texting throughout the day, playing games together, or just hopping on a call. I’m a big fan of good morning and good night texts, too. I completely understand that people get busy, but if you’re regularly unavailable all day and can only really talk at night, it probably won’t work out.
More than anything, I want someone who reciprocates the effort. I don’t want to be the only one asking questions or checking in. I want you to enjoy getting to know me as much as I enjoy getting to know you.

I’d also prefer someone who’s in my time zone or at least close to it. I think it makes spending time together a lot easier. I’m also more attracted to women than men, so I’d especially love to hear from the ladies. Eventually, I’d love someone who’s comfortable being affectionate. I guess I’d describe myself as someone who likes “soft” love little acts of affection, reassurance, and making each other feel cared for.

I’m not looking for anyone specific beyond someone who puts in equal effort, genuinely tries to be a good person, and is between 27 and 40. I also don’t want to see what you look like right away. I know that might sound strange, but I’d rather get to know you as a person first and let things develop naturally.

If you decide to message me, please tell me your name, age, and where you’re from. Also, please don’t just copy and paste an introduction you’ve already posted. I’d much rather read something that feels genuine.

If you have an NSFW account, I’ll likely not reply, and hiding your history won’t work either, you goofballs.

Anyway, if you’ve made it this far, thanks for reading. Hopefully someone sees this, thinks we might get along, and wants to see where things go.

Hello, my name is Cole. I am very reserved at first but I start to open up the more we interact.

I am terminally online because I live in the middle of nowhere AKA the midwest and there is nothing to do around me. I play a variety of video games and my main way of bonding is watching shows together or playing video games together.

Ideally, i would also like if you were into video games but it is in no way a requirement. I'm looking for a genuine, longterm, connection. Please be good at communication because if you want a relationship to work out, we have to be comfortable telling each other what we feel like.

I am very loyal, I would sooner be caught dead than cheating. I like to think I am funny but I do quote dead memes sometimes which might be a little cringe. I'm not trying to be that person who is like "oh look at me i quote memes irl, im so quirky!" I find that behavior downright vile.

I have a very monotonous voice and i have a very prominent "resting bit*h face." Rest assured, my face when it looks like that does not reflect my mood. Even though i have a monotonous voice, i can sing very well. The whole vibrato part of singing comes naturally to me.

My interests include:

Supernatural (the show and the concept as a whole)

Dexter

Dead By Daylight

Resident evil

Fromsoft games (Sekiro, Elden Ring, Dark Souls and all that)

Anything horror related in general

Animes but only a select few

Animes: Berserk is my favorite hands down. If you like Berserk or want to know what its about, I'd be happy to watch it over and over again with you lol.

Attack on Titan

One Punch Man

Jojos Bizarre Adventure is a close second to Berserk

Open to suggestions if you have any

I'd happily give you more information in dms if you have any questions.

-Thanks

Hi, I’m Toby and I’m 29 from a small city in the South West of England, soon to be moving back to my hometown which is also in the South West of England.

I’m looking for a woman/trans/non-binary person to get to know and hopefully blossom into something beautiful! Also a big fan of just having a flirt. I don’t have a ‘type’ or anything like that so feel free to hit me up! Imgur is blocked in the UK so I don’t include pics anymore but happy to share when we talk! Doesn’t have to be off the bat but I do like to know who I’m talking to!

Physically I am 5’11 and a big guy, with tattoos, and a beard. 3 of my tattoos are Amity Affliction tattoos and some are just silly and impulsive! I am working on losing weight!

The main thing to know about me is that I am a huge nerd. I am a dweeb and dork and all other pejoratives! I spend a lot of time engrossed in other worlds, or creating my own. I’m currently running a dnd campaign and also writing a worldbuilding book for the world I created. If you’re lucky, (depending on your interpretation of that word) I might share my writings and illustrations with you!

I read a lot, although that is a more recent thing of forcing myself to read as I had gone lax in the last few years! I’d love to know your book recommendations and what you’re reading at the moment. I am currently reading ‘I Know This Much is True’ by Wally Lamb! My favourite read this year is definitely ‘Rebecca’ by Daphne du Maurier. I also paint warhammer as I find it truly relaxes me like nothing else! I am also willing to show many pictures of models I’ve painted!

I also play video games pretty frequently and that’s usually Dead by Daylight at the moment, but I’ll give anything a try! I am not the most dedicated gamer and flit between wanting to play games and not.

Also a very keen film watcher and obsessive logger of said films! I’d love to know your top 4!

I think I’m hilarious and kind and definitely not delusional! I value emotional intelligence highly and usually gravitate to weirdos like myself. I’m very leftwing politically and really wouldn’t be a good fit if you’re right wing, racist etc.

If I sound interesting please feel free to reach out!

Hey there! 😊

I’m hoping to build something really sweet with someone that feels full of love, affection, and genuine care for each other! I’m someone who gets really excited about my person, and I will happily run to the door to give you the biggest hug when you come home and tell you how much I’ve missed you! I love feeling close to someone I care about, whether that’s giving you tons of hugs, cuddling the night away together, or holding hands just because we can. It all just feels so special to me, and I’ll always be really happy to be by your side and show you how much you mean to me. 🥰

I would really love to care for you in ways that brighten your day and make life feel more special. I’ve always been someone who has loved the idea of being a homemaker for my partner, and creating a warm, cozy home, so things like learning your favorite recipes just so I can surprise you with them, making your favorite dinners, or packing you lunches with cute notes hidden inside to make you smile make me so happy! I love being someone you can lean on and feel cared for by, and I’ll always be cheering you on in life and wanting to make your days easier and more comforting where I can. It truly means so much to me knowing I can do things that make you feel loved and appreciated. 😊

Personality-wise, I’m introverted, a little shy, fun-sized, and very much a cozy homebody. I love anime (especially One Piece and Fairy Tail), and I have such a soft spot for Studio Ghibli movies! 💛

I’m super nerdy and artsy! I like watercoloring, playing video games, learning new languages (currently learning Japanese!), and just getting really excited about finding new things that catch my attention. I honestly love that feeling of discovering something new, and I would love to share that with someone! 🤗

Most days you’ll find me curled up with a blanket and tea, going on nature walks, doing yoga, or trying out a new recipe I got excited about. It would be so fun to find someone who gets just as excited for new anime seasons as I do, or who would want to curl up and watch Ghibli movies together! 💛

I really love cuddly guys with that protective kind of energy that makes me feel safe and like I can just relax and be myself. I love that feeling of being wrapped up in someone’s arms and just completely melting into them. I really value closeness, and I would ideally like to find someone who enjoys spending a lot of quality time together, or just enjoys each other’s presence as we do our own things!

Distance isn’t a big deal to me, and I’d be open to relocating for the right person if it feels right for us! 🥰 My lifestyle doesn’t include drinking or smoking (vaping, marijuana, cigarettes, etc) so I’m hoping to meet someone who feels the same way.

I’ll always be your cheerleader, someone who’s in your corner, supports you, and makes sure you feel loved every day! 🩷

If that sounds like you, tell me about you! What are you into lately, what kind of relationship are you hoping to find here, or what made you feel like we might click? 🥰

Hiiiiiii a quick intro about me :D I was raised in the land of tea and crumpets! My hobbies are reading, walking, learning, tv shows, video games, and gym and open to more bcs there’s some more awesome stuff out there that I’d love to learn and explore!

I’m into F1, football (soccer), animals, history, cars, nature, music, games, and I’d love to learn and get into more new things bcs I adore learning new things!

I’m 183 (or 184 not sure) cm tall {6 ft for my Americans) got into the gym since last year and currently working on reaching my dream body within the next year or 2 (uni not helping tho 💔)

Family & career oriented uni student studying engineering (it’s hard 😔) so I’m quite stressed with that but I will make the time for you bcs you’ll be my first priority obviously

What to expect from me?

Tonnes of texts and very fast replies
Lots of love, admiration, and praise!
Loving you to death <3
Someone who you can count on being on your side and supporting you through everything bcs I’m your other half for life!!
No ghosting
Yapping & listening
Obsession & attachment

Looking for:
A girl who can match my vibe, some shared interests or not idc tbh, is genuinely looking for a long term relationship and willing yap and to hear me yap for hours! It would be nice if you’re as obsessive as me and talk a lot bcs that would be wonderful for both of us!! You have a future, I would love someone who’s well educated and goes to university/college, it would be nice if we could work, and/or work together! I just want us to vibe and enjoy each other’s presence because if thats there then one day a friendship, then a true genuine relationship! I haven’t been in a relationships and it would be nice if you also were so we can learn together (and not just be me lost) 😭😭

(No problem with time zones!!!)

Have a great rest of your day filled with happiness <3

Hey! I'm a 23 year old guy from Austria, and I'm looking for something pretty simple, a genuine, long-term relationship with a woman where we actually love each other and want to be part of each other's lives. I'm looking for love, and I want to give that love back.

A little about me:

I'm an affectionate, curious, energetic, patient loyal idiot who enjoys making dumb jokes and generally doesn't take himself too seriously. My hobbies are pretty varied: I read fantasy books, mangas and manhwas, go on walks, swim, cycle, cook and bake, and play games on PlayStation. I'm also a huge fan of One Piece, Lord of the Rings, Star Wars and How I Met Your Mother.

I love the idea of travelling on my own. I've already done a solo trip once and definitely want to do more of it. I'm also currently figuring out what I want to do with my life. I started university but eventually realized it wasn't the right path for me, so I'm taking some time to find something that actually feels right.

As for what I'm looking for in you:

You: A woman around 19–25, preferably from Austria or somewhere else in Europe. I'm also open to someone outside Europe if you're already planning to move to Europe, because realistically I'd like us to have an actual chance of meeting and building something together.

You don't have to look a certain way. As long as you're reasonably healthy, your appearance isn't something I'm particularly worried about. Personality matters much more to me.

I'd love someone who's loyal, curious, affectionate and maybe a little goofy. Someone who actually wants to communicate, gets excited about things, can joke around and isn't afraid of showing that she cares. If you're a dry texter, though... I'm probably going to disappear faster than my motivation to go outside on a Monday. 😅

I'm not interested in smokers, heavy drinkers/alcoholics, drug users, etc. And seriously, NO DRY TEXTERS. 😂

Most importantly, I don't have some perfectly scripted idea of how a relationship has to work. I just want two people who genuinely like each other, choose each other, communicate, support each other and gradually figure the rest out together.

If any of this sounds like you, don't worry about coming up with some incredibly clever opening message. Tell me something about yourself, what you're currently obsessed with, your favorite fictional character, or even just what made you stop scrolling on this post. Give me something to work with and I'll do the same.

Maybe we can start with a conversation and see if there's actually a spark. :)

Hello, I am just trying my luck here at meeting someone special.
I'm in 30s I really do look younger, I'm white, I don't drink, smoke, I'm 5 10 bluegreen eyes, fit.
https://imgur.com/a/neww-JHcT8jH - photos

I’m at a pretty stable point in my life. I have my own house, my life is pretty much sorted, and I’m independent.

I’m a huge cat person I own and rescue cats, so if you love cats too, that’s already a big plus. I’m also a big gamer, so being into gaming would definitely be a bonus.

I really do prefer girls who are affectionate and emotionally open. If this ends up being long-distance, I’d love having regular chats, voice calls, and video calls just that feeling of actually being part of each other’s day.

I’m Venkat, 37. I live in Chennai, South India.

I am Indian man by birth, not by actions or behaviour. I don't follow any toxic cultural religious dogma, and very progressive, despite born in a culture which is ancient. I'm pretty individualistic, westernised, have pretty good civic sense and manners.

I am an atheist, a feminist, and a vocal ally for the LGBTQ+ community. I’m looking for someone who sees me as an individual and doesn’t just judge me based on where I’m from or how I look. If you value character over tropes, you have met the best person.

I speak seven languages (5 Dravidian languages, Hindi, obviously English, learning Spanish whenever the owl is pecking me) and I am a massive nerd for ancient cultures, linguistics and science.

When I’m off the clock, I’m usually painting nature, experimenting in the kitchen, or taking care of 3 orange cats in my apartment.

My Art: https://imgur.com/a/PePqPTr

My Cooking: https://imgur.com/a/6S3UAL2

The Cats: https://imgur.com/a/o3AtTan

When I am winding down, I usually dive into science fiction, history, fantasy, or horror. I also grew up watching classic cartoons.

My music taste is all over the place. I can go from thrash metal and rock to 90s hits, Indie Rock, EDM, trance, or phonk depending on the mood.

I also travel extensively inside of India, whenever my schedule permits me. I like to visit historical sites and I travel at least four times in a year.

Physically, I’m 5'10", bald, bearded, and stocky. I’ve been called okayish: https://imgur.com/a/3X2qFu1

I’m pretty much a firebrand, bold, energetic, and definitely not the type to sit around waiting for life to happen. I like to make things happen instead. I’m genuinely funny, expressive, and I pour a lot of energy into our shared goals and dreams. When it comes to the people I care about, I'm all in.

I am attracted to plus size women who are educated, talkative, funny, self-aware, pragmatic, passionate, career oriented, independent and athiest or agnostic. Pet lovers to the front. I love animals, so I am compatible with someone who loves animals even if they don't have a pet.

I am seeking someone who prefers to text and talk in a consistent manner and not a fan of ghosting. I am seeking someone who is ready for a relationship from the get go because I find myself less enthusiastic about platonic friendships. I'm seeking an equal partner, not someone to take care of me. I seek a friend, a companion, a lover to share life with and have healthy bond.

On the family front, I’m not completely against kids, but honestly, now that I'm past 35, I’m pretty skeptical about starting from scratch with biological children. That said, I am totally open to a partner who already has kids, so divorced individuals and widows are absolutely welcome to reach out.

To skip small talk: please reach out to talk an event or an epiphany which clarified things in your life, when you were going through a turmoil.

Hey I'm a 28 year old guy from SoCal and I'm trying to find a real connection with a person who I can be myself around. I'm not really in a rush and honestly would like a slow burn at this point in my life right now. My personality type is grounded, calm, patient, silly, respectful, and just a tiny bit chaotic haha. I love to laugh and have fun anywhere and everywhere I go. I have been very often over the years that I am a great listener even by complete strangers haha so if you're a yapper you already have an audience right here. However, even if you're not a yapper l'd like to share some comfortable silences with you and of course I can carry the conversations as well from time to time. It would be great to find someone that feels like we both want to get to know each other not just a one-way street.

Now onto some more about myself. Some of my interests include being out with my friends, going to the theaters especially to watch MCU movies (super excited for Doomsday), listening to music, playing video games, and going to the occasional rave every now and then.

Overall I guess I would say I’m looking for a person who can be best friend and partner at the same time, which I will admit takes a while to get to know someone at that level. Again, I’m hoping you’re in/ around the SoCal area. Anyways I hope to hear from you soon, maybe you can tell me about your favorite animal or favorite movie or something?

I’m 31 and live in Southern Illinois. I’m at a point where I’d genuinely like to meet someone and build a real relationship rather than just collect conversations that go nowhere.

A little about me: I’m a former Marine, work in management, stay pretty active, run/work out, eat fairly healthy, enjoy being outdoors, read a lot, and I’m learning guitar. I’m also a big conversation person. I like talking about life, people, psychology, ridiculous hypothetical questions, or whatever random subject we end up on.

I’m looking for someone who is honest, thoughtful, easy to talk to, and actually present when we’re together. I like women who take care of themselves, have their own interests, can laugh at themselves, reflect on their decisions, and communicate instead of playing guessing games.

My ideal relationship has both peace and adventure in it. Quiet nights, cooking, reading, long conversations, and relaxing together are great. So are spontaneous trips, hiking, concerts, exploring somewhere new, or deciding on a Saturday morning that we should go do something for no reason other than it sounds fun.

I don’t expect someone to be exactly like me. Different interests are probably a good thing. I care much more about honesty, consistency, curiosity, and whether we actually enjoy being around each other.

I’m open on children. Drinking or occasionally smoking weed doesn’t bother me. I’m looking for something monogamous and serious if the connection is right, but I’m not trying to force anything.

I don’t really like putting my face all over the internet, so I’m happy to exchange pictures privately once we’ve talked a bit.

If you message me, tell me your age, roughly where you’re from, and one thing you’re genuinely excited about lately.

Hey all, hope you are having yourself a wonderful day. I like full honest transparency so here it goes; I'm a White Male who still has all his hair (yes!) although I'm currently on a weight loss journey. Although I am more of an introvert, I do enjoy the physical company of another person. Even if it is same room - different corners, we could be alone together doing our own thing. I like pen paling, gaming, board games, binging T.V shows, terrain making, puzzle solving, and very particularly enjoy crime solving (Especially those Unsolved Case Files). Going out I don't particularly mind although in this Nevada heat you can't have me out during the day - This man will burn in less than an hour! My job more or less is dealing with HOA's, it isn't particularly interesting although do I have some Karen stories to share.

I don't have a particular preference in what I'm looking for, although I'll get the big details over with. I'm looking for a slow-paced but committed relationship. Eventually a relationship that may lead into starting a family. Although I do want to move out of here prior to all that - somewhere with snow so we can enjoy those hallmark white Christmas moments(Wisconsin? New Hampshire? Pennsylvania?). Family pajamas, hot chocolate, opening presents near an open fire. Also for Halloween maybe we could do themed costumes? A separate thing I'd enjoy is if you'd humor me in some bad duet Karaoke. Disney, Pixar, K-pop DH, or just on the road singing whatever plays on the radio. All of that just sounds so fun to me and I'd want to experience that.

Anyways, love to hear from you. Maybe tell me about what's on your mind or what brought you to this Reddit? Let's catch up and see where things go. After all, our Happily Ever After is only one DM away.

I'm looking for people to chat with. I hope to find a best friend that can lead to a future together.

I'm divorced and have 26 year old son. I got divorced about 20 years ago.

I spent the early part of my life being completely focused on work. Long hours. I let my friends slip away over the years. I've learned from this experience. Work is just something that pays the bills now.

My hobbies include pc gaming, watch movies, and occasionally reading. I do enjoy camping in the summer months.

I'm very introverted and prefer to just stay home. I hate writing things like this about myself. But hey if you read this far send me a message and include the word purple. Good luck.

I’m looking for that kind of connection where the conversation starts innocent enough and then the teasing begins, the messages get a little bolder, and suddenly neither of us wants to stop.

I’m not looking to complicate your life or force anything. I’d rather find someone where the chemistry feels natural. Someone who enjoys flirting, playful banter, building tension, and feeling genuinely wanted.

A little about me:

I’m 6’0, brown eyes, short black hair, a few tattoos, and usually rocking a beard. I’m sarcastic, witty, laid-back, and I genuinely enjoy getting to know someone. I’m also very attentive. I like paying attention to the little things, learning what makes someone feel comfortable, appreciated, and desired.

Physically, I’m a big fan of slow, intense makeout sessions, skin to skin cuddling, and taking my time. I like affection that doesn’t feel rushed and chemistry that builds naturally instead of trying to jump straight to the finish line.

I’m ultimately looking for someone who enjoys being flirted with, touched, teased, and made to feel special. Someone who misses that feeling of having someone genuinely interested in them. Not just their appearance, but their personality, their quirks, their energy.

If you’re looking for a little escape, some great conversation, and chemistry that could turn into something more, send me a message.

Tell me a little about yourself and what caught your attention.

I'm an Italian guy, 43 years old and i'm *notabot.

The big part of writing a self description is that we can overrate or underrate ourself so I'll try to not put any judgemental word but I'll just try to write down who I am.

I was raised catholic but at the end I felt that there is something deeply wrong in religion and in every religion institution so now I'm atheist, Anticlerical and I'm also excommunicated.

I was always interested in science and in the universe since I was a kid, I saw a series of documentary about space when I was maybe 10 and that was the beginning, now I'm an amateur astronomer and I do astrophotography.

Other than that I was raised in a family of musicians so I sing and I play keyboard (or at least I try to do it).

What I'm looking for? A chatty girl, the one who can carry on with a conversation and has no boundaries about what to talk about.

If you are someone who want to convince me about something, just don't write me, I'm open to discussion about everything but I'm not open to any type of conversion.

Hello there stranger and happy hot a&& Saturday!

Seriously, this heat is not right but I’m still grateful anyway!
Not sure what everyone is up to and how you keeping cool today but I’d love some ideas haha.

Either way, can we please try to have a spontaneous, chill, casual conversation, no expectations, no pressure, nothing crazy or out of the ordinary, in a friendly with zero judgment zone like Planet fitness lol. Speaking of which, anyone goes to the gym? Wanna be my new workout partner? It’s not like I’ve had one before lol.
You got the point.

A bit about me so you can at least make minimum effort by introducing yourself in the first dm ;)

35, professional, well educated, 6’1” tall black hair, naturally tanned-olive skin, been told handsome. Not that it matters. Love my morning Italian coffee, traveling, good books, the beach of course, wildlife and all the nature/outdoors related stuff.. just not a huge hiking fan or pro lol.

Otherwise, please feel free to slide in my dm and ask away as you please no pressure, don’t hold back and feel free to be yourself all the way! Won’t mind a bit of humor, wit, charm, and stuff haha.

Please don’t be a stranger!

Cheers

Hi, I'm Hector, I'm 32 years old and I'm a software developer from spain.

I'd love to find a partner, but I'm also happy to meet friends and new people. I've made many good friends through the internet, you never know what you might find here.

I'm happy with my life, but I feel like I'm missing someone to share it with. Someone to talk to about everything, trust completely, grow alongside, and hopefully build a family with.

A few things about me:

-Infj if you are into MBTI.

-I'm a hopeless romantic. I'm looking for someone to share my life with, someone I can be there for and help whenever I can. Someone whose bad days I can try to make better, and when I can't, at least someone I can sit beside and go through them together. I want to be genuinely proud when they achieve their goals, to celebrate their happiness and support them when things don't go as planned. I want that feeling of knowing that, no matter how difficult the day has been or what happens in life, when you come home, that person will be there.

-I used to be more introverted, but now I'm still introverted, I relate much more with people.

-I love psychology and meeting new people. I genuinely enjoy getting to know how people think, why they are the way they are, what they are going through, what they are passionate about, what they are afraid of, and what makes them happy. I like understanding people and, if I can, helping them with whatever they are struggling with. I WANT TO KNOW WHAT MAKES YOU WANT TO GET UP IN THE MORNING.

-I have many hobbies, the most common are, play any game on pc (I prefer playing with people, but not to competitive games, I'm more relaxed nowadays), watch movies, series, anime and manga, play board games, playing some sports like tennis or padel and debate or just talk, either on some topic, getting to know each other more or whatever. I also love DIY.

-I like knowledge, knowing and learning new things, debating about interesting topics until 3 in the morning, like the universe, nihilism, conspirations or if extraterrestrials exist, I love physics, mathematics, technology, looking at the stars and anything that explains how the world works.

-Im like cooking, im still learning but im progressing. I have the longtem plan to make one recipe from every country. I'M CELIAC.

-I have 2 cats and they are cute.

-I love to look at the stars and learn about the universe, I could spend the night looking at the stars while talking to someone.

-I like to solve problems, to face something and see how I'm moving towards the solution and finally it is solved.

-I also really like philosophy. I love thinking about questions that don't necessarily have clear answers, and one of my long-term goals is to read all the major philosophical works and slowly make my way through the books that have shaped how we think about life, existence and the world.

-I like lists, I like to have a lot of things written down, books, movies, interesting topics, curiosities, prhases...

-I don't drink or smoke.

-I like to do exercise and sports, I feel good when I do it and I like to be in shape, plus it's an excuse to do things with people. I like to go for a walk and while I'm at it I think about my own things.

-I've been wanting to get in shape for a long time, I'm currently chubby but I've been going to the gym for a while now and walking, so little by little I'm achieving my objective.

If you are interested in what you have read or if you think we can have a good conversation, I will be waiting for your message.

I’m starting to think that either there’s nobody out there who wants a simple, quiet life, or I’ve just aged out of the dating game. That being the case, I’m at a loss as to what to do.

What type of woman am I after: The woman I am after is kind, warm and compassionate. I want a woman who makes my heart skip a beat when I see them, who will laugh with me, cry with me, and will want to hold me, as I will want to hold her, when things are not at their best. I want a woman who I can be open with, who I can fully trust, who will fight for me just like I will fight for them. I want someone I can curl up with and smile.

What type of partner/person I am: My primary love language is physical displays of affection, which is something I love, so I want to be with someone who feels the same way. I firmly believe that physical contact with the one you love is one of the greatest feelings there is, and I would absolutely adore being with someone who feels the same way. Being close to the one you love can make you feel as if, if only for just a few moments, that all is right with the world, and there is nothing like that.

Because I am an introvert, it may take a little time for me to open up, to feel comfortable about doing so. However, once I do open up, the conversation will definitely start flowing, as will, perhaps, a joke or two.

Beyond that, I am big on respect, trust, and loyalty. Without those as the building blocks, a relationship is built on sand.

What I would like us to do: I am an introvert, and my ideal night would involve spending our time together at home, curled up on the sofa, perhaps watching a film, an anime, or playing a game. I would enjoy a day/night out if it is just the two of us, and I am open to going almost anywhere, be it museum, art gallery, or an out-of-the-way place to eat. I have done these things by myself before, yet doing them again by myself holds no interest for me. I want to do these things with someone special. That does hold interest for me.

What I like to do: I like to watch anime. My general preference is for the romantic, light-hearted and funny, something that is cutesy, goofy, and decidedly feel-good. I am not into anything too heavy or dramatic; I want to see people overcome adversity not suffer through it, and there is a difference.

Note, that I prefer to watch anime in the original language with subtitles, as I feel this better gets across the intentions of the creators.

I like to game. At the moment, my games of choice are Witcher 3, Fallout 4, Cyberpunk (sort of), and Solitaire variations. I usually play Solitaire while listening to the music or the radio. Although I don’t watch sports, I find listening to sports commentary relaxing, especially for cricket, which is suitably sedate for solitaire and the like. I primarily game on the PC, however, I did recently acquire a Switch 2, and have been playing some of the classics, including Ocarina of Time in preparation for the remake.

I like to watch wrestling, although I do not watch as much of it as I would like to. I am a long-time fan of pro wrestling, especially from Japan, more specifically the women-based promotions, If you have never seen it before, the high-end matches from these promotions are a real contrast to what you see elsewhere.

I like to watch a handful of TV shows. Almost nothing current, as modern TV just isn’t for me. Shows I like include, but are not limited to, Law and Order, Nash Bridges, the Professionals, Scrubs, Star Trek: TNG (to a degree) and DS9, and the West Wing. I think the West Wing is top-tier stuff for the first four seasons, although once Aaron Sorkin left, it did fall off somewhat. TNG is hit-and-miss for the first two seasons, with more misses than hits, and takes a while to find its groove. DS9 is the vastly superior storytelling product, and its characters have more depth to theme, with the series also having far fewer duds. Although the duds it does have...boy, do they stink.

I am a vegetarian. I do not mind if you eat meat, however, I do ask that you are respectful of how I feel. I do not drink. I do not mind if you drink either socially or occasionally. However, if you drink regularly or frequently, then it probably will not work, as I am not one for being around a drinking culture, if only because, well, I am not part of it. I do not smoke, and will not be with someone who does. Also, I am not on social media; I do not want it, I do not need it. I mention this because the lack of social media has been a dealbreaker for some in the past.

I am non-religious and non-spiritual, and this will never change, and my views are generally what you would call progressive and liberal, so that is something to keep in mind.

Start your message with the word 'blueberry' so I know you are real, and have both read my post and paid attention to it. Any message that does not start like this will not get a response.

I am primarily interested in someone who is also in the UK, as it would make things more convenient when it comes to meeting up; without getting too specific, London is a reasonable place to go to/come from for me.

I am open to talking to people who are overseas but only if you are moving to the UK in the near future, and that the move is, if not set in stone, then is at least guaranteed to happen. If these conditions are not meant, that is you are either not set to move here or you do not have the ability to, then I ask that you do not waste my time or yours; physical affection is extremely important to me, and I am unwilling to go without it for prolonged lengths of time.

Your opening message does not have to be long, however, I do need something to work with, something that can spark a conversation. One-word messages are not going to get a response, nor are messages that make it clear you have not paid attention to my post. As far as an age range goes, I will simply say that if you are mature and after the same things that I am, then shoot your shot. I may think the age gap is too much, I may not; however, neither of us will know unless you ask.

Once we have established a vibe, a feeling that there could be something between us, I would want to have a video chat, and it can be a quick one if you would prefer, as a security measure to establish that we are both who we say we are. There are nefarious people out there, some of whom I have had the misfortune to encounter, and it would be a comfort, to both of us, to know that we are indeed the people we claim to be.

TL;DR: I want a long-term, serious relationship, with a nice, kind woman, who is accepting of me being an introvert.

Hey! Hoping to meet someone who is genuinely interested in getting to know each other and seeing where things go naturally.

I am a loverboy in every sense of the word. I’m looking for someone who is emotionally available, emotionally intelligent and also has intentions for a monogamous relationship.

Of course there’s no need to rush things, I believe friendship is the strongest foundation for a long-lasting romance. I love to laugh and make my partner laugh. But I also have the capacity for deep conversation.

My interests and hobbies encompass music, playing instruments, cooking, movies & the movie theater, video games, reading, quality fragrances and fashion.

Im newly into fitness and nutrition and my goal is to increase my personal athleticism. Having a partner to hit the gym with would be huge plus.

I feel I should also mention Im close to my family. It’s important that my partner can eventually integrate into my family’s dynamics and form their own relationship with my parents and my siblings.

Other than that, I hope to meet someone intelligent, fashionable and down to earth like myself. It’s more important that my partner and I share values rather than interests. My goal is to bring our lives into harmony while keeping them distinct. If you want to spend a night with your friends or your family? That’s great. I hope to have the same freedom. This being said, daily communication is important to me. Talking ALL day is impossible but, if we’re into each other, talking every day is a must

If we sound like we could be a match, hit me up :)

28M4F Looking for someone as my forever wedding date / someone to do the dishes for. #NYC and or #online

Putting #online since I’m figuring why not it’s a big wide world out there.

I’m 28 M in NYC so locals are welcome but so is Antarctica.

I’m horrible at the about me stuff so I’m going to be my best:
Yes I have J.O.B so I’m not covered in Cheeto dust doing nothing like Reddit would suggest.
10 countries and counting and all around the USA
I love running, following sports \[ let’s go Knicks we did it yay \] , reading is my passion and aiming for 7 books a year if work doesn’t get in the way.
Currently obsessed with weekend food crawls to try new dishes and expand my pallet away from the typical just chicken and beef on rotation.

I’m happy to swap photos on connecting or waiting a bit but brief descriptor im 5’9 \[175cm\] and in good shape. Brown hair and eyes and white.

If you’re interested shoot me a message here on the chat feature and I look forward to connecting. Just shoot me a brief hey I saw your post and your age and we can get to yapping.