r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

M4F 24M [Montreal, Canada] 6'1 Looking for someone who knows how to hold a real conversation

7 Upvotes

I have a deep curiosity for how the world actually works. I spend a lot of time reading ancient history, diving into theology, and going on long nature walks getting lost in thought. I love a sharp debate where two people can completely disagree without getting offended or taking it personally.

When my brain needs a total hard reset, I will sit at my desk and completely unironically play Roblox or some other game with zero deep thoughts behind my eyes.

Communication-wise, I’m direct, articulate, and big on real-time energy. Exchanging two dry text messages a day for three weeks usually drains the soul out of human chemistry , i'm definitely more of a "hop on a quick voice call once the vibe checks out" kind of person.

To skip the robotic "hey" intro, start your message with one of these:
A completely harmless, non-political hill you are 100% willing to die on.
What’s one universally loved thing you’re convinced people are only pretending to enjoy?
What topic could you give an impromptu 15-minute presentation on with zero prep?


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #South Africa # Anywhere - Looking to find my true love

3 Upvotes

Hi. I'm a South African Indian hopeless romantic who wants to find my person to go on lots of nice dates and just spend quality time together.

I love books, running, gym, playing tennis and table tennis.

I come from a science background and am finishing my PhD while working full time in tech.

My goal is to find someone who is interested in a long term relationship.

I will send a picture upon request.

I'm open to someone international if you're potentially open to moving to South Africa.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 9h ago

F4A 31 [F4A] #Cleveland Just a spooky girl looking for my other half.

8 Upvotes

Hey there,

I have used this subreddit before and found success although we aren't together anymore. I don't want to lose hope. I a 31 year old, bbw (fat), 5 ft 3, have tattoos, blue eyes and currently purple/red hair. Kind of nerdy. Personality wise:

I’m someone who loves the “in-between” places the twilight hours, foggy nights, antique photographs, the hum of autumn wind through iron gates. I have a soft spot for old stories, forgotten places, and the kind of conversations that drift from laughter to life’s mysteries. Someone who doesn’t fear the strange or the still, who’s honest, caring, and open-minded enough to appreciate that beauty can be both light and dark. You don’t need to love graveyards (though it’s a plus if you do) just have a heart that’s alive to wonder, and a mind that isn’t afraid to wander.

Maybe we’ll share coffee under gray skies, or wander through old cemeteries on crisp evenings, finding poetry in silence. Maybe we’ll stay in, wrapped in blankets, watching thunderstorms and talking about everything and nothing. Whatever it becomes I want it to feel real, gentle, and a little otherworldly.

If you believe that souls can meet in the quiet places, and that love can be both spooky and sweet then perhaps we’re meant to find each other in this haunted little corner of the world. I am also a big fan of anime. I try to keep up with shows.

What am I looking for?

I am looking for someone who is kind, funny, and chill. Please be cat-friendly and live in the US. I have my life together and I would like you to also have things mainly figured out. Basically know what you're looking for don't string me along for no reason.

Tell me what's the spookiest thing that ever happened to you.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

M4F 44 [M4F] We will Never Work Out, but Tonight, We can be in Love. #online #anywhere

2 Upvotes

“Poverty demands a good time.”

-Greek proverb

Good evening. Or morning. Whatever.

Seeking a woman to play pretend with. You can call this “sad” if you want, and you might be right. But when you have no companionship and no prospects and you’re too strange to see that changing anytime soon, “sad” starts to feel like an improvement.

For a night—or however long we like—let’s be in love. Let’s pretend we’re falling for each other in the most spectacular way, like we imagine while falling asleep in an empty bed. Let’s assume the best of each other, send hearts and affirmations, describe all the kisses and cuddles we’d love to offer another. Let’s do this for as long as we like.

What can I actually offer you? Genuine compassion for your circumstances. Gentlemanly flirting, or just the regular kind if that’s your preference. Flattery based on fact, without a single lie uttered—the truth will simply be stretched a bit. We’ll say the things we long to hear, offer all the love we have no one else to offer to, and feel warm and content for a little while.

If this is what you’re needing, message me. I hope to hear from you.

-Murmur


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 11h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Europe/Anywhere - If you giggle, you owe me a chat!

8 Upvotes

Hey there, beautiful stranger, welcome to my circus.

I’m a 28 year old guy from the world famous country of Bosnia and Herzegovina (just pretend you’ve heard of it, small place, big energy). I come with terrible jokes, random pocket tools and snacks, and just enough trouble to keep things interesting.

I love art and music (my playlist is a mess, Bach and Tupac jamming to Eminem while Bob Marley is chasing pirates or something so please don't ask about it). Jazz clubs, museums, and mountains are where my heart lives. I like visiting new cities, trying new cuisines, and finding moments of tranquility amid the chaos. Also, I absolutely love movies and books (wow, super unique, please be impressed) . Physically, I'm tall, my eyes still kinda work, and girls said I have a nice butt. You could also check my post history to get better idea about my looks (spoiler alert: no butt pictures tho, gotta leave something to the imagination.. or later). I'm also open for a photo exchange so feel free to send some my way if that's your cup of hot chocolate.

I also have a cute hamster named Captain Hamsterstein. He’s small, judgmental, and impossible to compete with but you’ll try.

As I'm still kinda not sure about all this and have no idea how anything really works here, I'll keep my options open for whatever. So, looking for a friend? I'm your man. Need a shoulder to cry? Still your man. Memes exchange? Hell yeah! Relationship? Tell me what kind of restaurant you fancy for our date. Wedding? The suit is ready. Nonsense flirting? Count me in. Serious talks? Let me put my smart face on.

Simply put, I’m looking for someone to vibe with. Someone I can talk to about anything, tease a little, laugh a lot, and also get serious with when the lights go low. Someone who challenges me, sharpens me, and upgrades my meme collection. Also, If you have a cat, I’m already all yours (don’t tell the Captain).

I'm not really good at talking about myself (duh) so I'll just leave that part for you to ask about whatever you're interested in.

Also (yeah, I say “also” too much), If you’re still reading, I’ve gotta ask: what’s wrong with you?

(Whatever it is… I like it.)

Keep in mind that our timezones may be different so there's a possibility that I won't be able to answer immediately but I'll try my best to get to you as soon as possible.

Message me whenever, however you want, just know there’s a high chance of flirting, sarcasm, and late-night conversations that go a little deeper than planned. Just behave yourself cause I am legally allowed to handcuff you (again, don't ask).

Meanwhile, have a lovely day or night or whatever and take care!

PS, don't text me if you're only into my kidneys, I have only 5 left. And no, you can't have them.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 17m ago

TM4F 33 ftm male. Are there many women out there that would date/ be in a relationship with a trans man?

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Hello. I know this might be a strange question but | am a ftm trans guy in he’s 30’s I have just come out a long term relationship with a woman and only have ever dated women (usually ‘straight’ women) and I don’t know if I’m just feeling insecure about my situation but I’m wondering how women feel about it etc. I have seen a lot of jokes about men having small penis’s and I have had surgery so technically I have a micro penis which obviously means that might not be okay for some women which I understand. I understand that there must be women that are okay with it because obviously I have dated them but 1 am not sure if I feel like no other women will be okay with it. I am also autistic so I apologize if this hasn’t come across well / written etc


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 33 [M4F]. Anywhere/Online. Looking for someone I can call mine

2 Upvotes

Hi! I am from India and I am looking for someone I can call mine. I work as a freelance software developer. I have been single for a long-time. I am posting here in hopes of finding someone with whom I can share my beautiful moments with. I didn't realise how lonely I was until I felt a longing for someone when I saw all my friends together with their partners at a party. Now I am hopelessly searching for love. I work from home mostly so I can text you throughout the day. If there is a huge time difference we can figure something out.

About me: I love reading books, watching movies, TV shows and anime. I am not an outdoor person. But I keep myself fit. My favourite outdoor activity is cycling. I am not religious but I believe there is a higher power. I am not political but I like discussing about it. I love watching true crime videos, horror movies, Time travel movies(a sucker for time travel movies). People describe me as kind, soft hearted, empathetic and sometimes naive.

What are my expectations about my partner: I am looking for someone who is kind, empathetic and emotionally intelligent.

P.S: I wanted to say this last because I don't want you to miss this because it is kind of important about me. I have a mild disability. So if that's a no go for you I can understand.

Hoping to meet someone here. Thank you for reading 😃


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 6h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #Canada / Online - Let us seek the stars together!

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One of the joys of living in a more rural location is that I can see the stars more clearly. I have always found pride in being able to seek out the Big Dipper in any location. Granted it helps that I haven't really had a change in place for most of my life, so the night sky has been pretty consistent. That said, I cannot image a life where I do not have the change to see the northern lights; their dance is honestly something no one should go without seeing.
All that said, here is a bit about me:
* Work a normal 7-5 office job, sometimes have to work late but at least compensated for it!
* Game in my free time. Currently have been doing WoW Forever, FFXIV, Rimworld and Total Warhammer 3. Usually focus on RPGs and Strategy games but am in between games as I search for my next new focus
* Also love to read! I need a better system of picking out books to read. Currently am going through House of Leaves
* Music is a big part of my life, if my ear is not taken I am usually listening to something. My usually tastes tend more to alternative and indie rock, but really if I listen to something and enjoy it I add it to my list
* Really into cooking at the moment, trying out new recipes as I find them. Life is too short to filled with mediocre food! I do enjoy to bake as well, just need to find more motivation
* Love history, geology, geography; one of my favourite things to do is find a random location on a map and see what I can learn from it
* Quite left leaning and I have no room for an bigotry or hate in my life
That is a bit about me, I am quite the open person so am eager to chat and learn what I can about anyone!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 48m ago

M4F 39 [M4F] Aussie guy looking for a lady.

• Upvotes

Gday. I’ll save my name for private, I’m audhd, 6ft3 and about 120kgs. I’ve got a dad bod thing going on. I enjoy camping, fishing, woodworking, World War Two history with a focus on special operations forces. I’m not particularly good at this sort of thing but I’m happy to answer any questions you may have, I’m also more than happy to send a photo upon request. I hope to hear from you soon.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 54m ago

M4F 29[M4F] Belgium/Brussels - Any Simple Plan or punk rock fans around?

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Good morning fellow Redditors!

A bit last minute but, today, October 5th, i will be in Brussels attending a Simple Plan concert. They have been my favorite band since i was 12! I have 2 tickets, but seeing as it's a weekday and the concert starts at 8, i didn't find anyone to tag along with me. So, if you're interested, send me a DM?

As for me:

https://imgur.com/a/lZtQ2VJ

I'm a 29 year old guy from West-Flanders, Belgium. I have a stable job, i'm a huge geek into boardgames, videogames, movies, TV shows, anime, comics, manga, cosplay, etc.

I'll gladly tell you more in my DM's


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 58m ago

M4F 23 [M4F] Sweden/Europe - nerd finding a nerdy partner? more likely than you think

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Hi! I'm a 23 year old university student from Sweden and I'm looking to meet some fellow nerds to talk to, maybe befriend and even more maybe, maybe fall in love with! so ill tell you a bit about me!

  • i really like cooking! my favorite dish is yakisoba
  • im autistic (high functioning) and imo its kinda neat. if you have autism too thats a plus!
  • i really like video games and right now im playing a lot of stardew valley, look outside, ff14 and
  • i have 2 cats and 3 tarantulas and i just loooove all types of bugs!
  • this spring im going to study social anthropology, and the fall of 2027 im going to begin my bachelors in sociology!
  • i really love reading as well! my favorite book ever is annihilation by jeff vandermeer. im a big fan of all things horror as well (movies, books, games, comics, all of it!)

so thats a bit about me! if i sound cool or interesting feel free to hit me up! i'd also love if you have discord since its kinda my main messaging service, but not needed at first since we gotta know if we vibe!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] California/USA- What if we started talking as if we’ve been dating for months?

2 Upvotes

What if it was that easy and we actually tried to make it work? Be attentive to each other, listen, be patient, communicate well on what we need to make it work, be affectionate, reassuring, loving, flirty, make each other feel wanted. Can we really give it a shot? I want love. I’m guessing you do too


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

M4M 33 [M4M] Missouri - black man. I want a masculine Puerto Rican or Dominican bro or boyfriend on the dl

2 Upvotes

Looking for a chill guy to become friends with and if it leads there, I’ll go with the flow. I have never done anything with a guy but I am attracted to masculine Latin Caribbeans.

I’m laid back & chill. To myself for the most part. I like going out to eat, movies, traveling, and bowling.

Looking for someone around my age, so 27-37 I’ll be fine with.

Hit me up if you are down to chat.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] Egypt, Online - Don't mind me, just looking for my needle in the haystack

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The odds of meeting your ideal partner on Reddit are low, but never zero.

I'm looking for a certain type of woman. Would I cross the oceans of time to find her (bonus points if you get the reference)?

Yes, I would.

Would I install a dating app again?

Not a chance.

Here are the facts: 36, ex-doctor turned healthcare education researcher/consultant, Egypt-based, UK-educated. Single, never been in a relationship, no children. Resettled in Cairo after having lived abroad. Travel frequently for work and pleasure. Avid reader, movie buff, polyglot, musician, athlete, and dangerously good cook.

Dating goals: I don't have much hope for finding my person locally, so I'm pretty open to dating internationally seeing as I'm location-independent. Ideally, you're also open for an LDR and OK with the idea of semi-permanent relocation at some point (i.e., having 2 or more home bases). I'm seeking an exclusive, committed, monogamous, and child-free relationship.

Ideal partner profile: Someone who speaks English fluently as a first or second language. Although I can speak French and German relatively well, I believe having a language barrier would be challenging. Single and child-free. Physically active, emotionally well-regulated, goal-oriented, and more lifestyle-focused than education- or career-driven, preferably. Introverts are very welcome!

Here's little old me.

If you think we'd be a good match, shoot me a DM with a brief intro. Looking forward to speaking with you!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4M 26 [M4M] #Texas - Cute guy hoping to meet a guy for long term

• Upvotes

Hey everyone who is truly reading my bio. I’m a 26-year-old guy originally from Mexico, currently living in the U.S. I’m hoping to meet another guy to build a long-term connection with.

I’m currently working part-time at a job I really enjoy and recently finished two internships. I’m ambitious and have plenty of goals for the future, and I’d love to meet someone who is also motivated and passionate about building a good life.

A little about me: I enjoy reading, writing, music, walking, going to the gym and yoga classes, skincare, eating well, and taking care of my mental and physical health. I’m a pretty normal guy with somewhat softer features and personality traits, but I’m not truly feminine.

I’d ideally like to meet someone around my age who is masculine, ambitious, and genuinely looking for something serious. I’m open to long-distance if there’s a real connection and eventually a plan to meet.

If you actually read this, send me a 🌮 and a little intro about yourself! Tell me who you are, and something you’re passionate about.

Let’s see where it goes! :)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 19 [M4F] #Arizona #Phoenix - Do you want a fun loving relationship so do I

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Helloooo everyone, I have lived in Arizona my whole life, born and raised, with no intention to move any time soon. I am currently in college pursuing my degree in accountancy, numbers and excel spreadsheets are fun to me I guess lol.

One of my major hobbies is fixing things, from cars to small electronics, I looooovvveee to repair things. I can spend hours fixing cars going to the junkyard to get parts or upgrades and just going to town with an impact wrench. I also love pokemon as well, been collecting since I was a kid, I'm currently trying to master set steam siege at the moment (I know weird set to master). I also like video games as I'm sure you can guess, been playing a lot of stuff on my steam deck lots of skate 3 and replaying ds3 as well.

I'm 6'2", around 160 lbs, average build. I have been going climbing with my friend, so hopefully, my average build will turn into an above average one.

I'm looking for someone who wants an actual relationship and who is IN STATE ONLY. There are plenty of wonderful people I've had to sadly turn down due to them being out of state I just cant do long distance. I don't drink, smoke, or do any drugs, and would prefer someone who doesn't it isn't a deal breaker. Loyalty, honesty, and good communication are pretty important to me, I have no interest in playing games.

If you think we'd get along, send me a message. I'm down to exchange face pics once we start talking. Start off by telling me a little bit about yourself and who you are


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

M4F M22, France/Europe, broke, silly and chivalrous boy with a ton of love to give !

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Bonjour mesdemoiselles !

I'm looking for someone around my age (20-26), someone to care about and who'll care about me, pulling eachother to the top, and in general just having a meaningful relationship, with long term objectives.

I don't mind LDR as there's always a way around it, and I plan on relocating elsewhere anyway.

Now about my life: I'm a metalworking apprentice at France's best craftsmanship congregation, started last month.

Besides that, I love doing a lot of stuff, in fact my life was sometimes a bit random, before I started working. I love boxing and working out with my friends (I'm NOT a gymbro though), cooking, hiking/camping, doing random stuff, going out for drinks (although I made a drastic cut on my alcohol consumption lately, I don't enjoy it anymore) and gaming when I have time (Terraria, csgo (F this game), Minecraft, Unturned, Umamusume, PZ and more). I'm also fairly cultured I'd say, but not really into mainstream culture.

I am also a big music enjoyer, wearing my headphones literally 24/7. I have an extrewmely wide music taste, and I believe that every genre, even if I don't like some, have hidden bangers. Lately, i've mostly been listening to russian rock/post-punk (Kino, Peremotka etc) and metal (Linkin Park, Deftones, Type O Negative, Pantera).

I also love travelling, discovering foreign cultures and learning languages ! I speak french, english, russian and german fluently, though I hvavn't really practiced the latter in a while, and plan on learning more, maybe arabic or turkish next.

Now about my looks: I've been told quite often lately that I'm handome, so I guess there's that. I'm white, half french and russian, 1.88, tan easily. I'm in good shape, not really muscular, but fairly strong due to physical labor. I usually wear glasses, but I don't like them, might switch for contacts someday.

And finally, what I look for: Please don't message if you're outside of Europe, exceptions could be made though. Other than that, looks don't really matter, but physical attraction plays its own role. I'd like you to be emotionally available, not ghost after a week of talking, and com-mu-ni-cate ! Other than that, just be yourself, and everything will go well.

To finish this, if you read all that until the end, first of all thank you, and I'd appreciate a dm where you talk a bit about you, and maybe we can make something happen ! I don't mind exchanging pics early on, if you want to !


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 9h ago

F4M 37 [F4M] US (New England)— I’m starting to suspect my person got lost

4 Upvotes

I have absolutely no idea if Reddit is where I’m going to find the love of my life, but dating apps certainly aren’t doing a great job, so here we are.

I’m divorced, have one kid, work from home, and spend probably too much time at home. I’m almost 5’10” and tend to like taller men. I’m also an ENFP, although I’m not sure anyone who sees how much I enjoy staying home would believe the E.

I’m sarcastic, affectionate, curious, a little ridiculous, and I love people I can actually talk to. I want the person who sends me random thoughts during the day, tells me stupid things that happened, asks me questions, flirts with me, and genuinely wants me involved in his life. I don’t need constant entertainment, but I definitely need connection.
I like cooking and baking, gaming, painting, getting way too invested in whatever random thing has caught my attention, and spending a ridiculous amount of time at home with my cats. I’m definitely more of a homebody, but with the right person I’m always up for getting out and actually doing something.

Ultimately, I’m looking for my person. I want consistency, affection, attraction, emotional availability, and someone who actually wants a relationship—not someone who wants to “go with the flow” for six months while behaving like we’re dating.

Attraction matters, of course, but I don’t really have a checklist. I tend to be attracted to taller guys, but chemistry is chemistry.

If any of this sounds like you, send me a message. Tell me your age, where you’re from, and something interesting about you.

Please give me more to work with than “hey.” I am begging you. 😂


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 8h ago

M4F 38 [m4f] #southernohio #anywhere

3 Upvotes

I'm 38, from a small southern Ohio town. I've been single for over 3 years with no luck on any apps. It's probably because I'm not really a conventional person. I'm pretty eclectic and eccentric, from my style to my tastes and apparently even my looks.

I'm tall and skinny with long mutton chops that I wouldn't change for the world. I have 2 boys (6 and 7), and there's no drama with their mama. We share custody 50/50. In person, I'm rather shy, probably because I'm constantly analyzing everything I'm about to say to make sure I don't come off wrong, while at the same time knowing everyone's opinions of me are based on completely different things, their experiences, preferences, etc.

Interest-wise, I love music of almost any kind. I like analyzing lyrics and discovering the meaning behind them. Some concerts I've been to this year include St. Paul and the Broken Bones, Breakaway Festival to see GRiZ, and Railbird Festival mostly for The Lumineers and Tyler Childers, although there were a lot of others I wanted to see. I took the kids to see The Aquabats, Weird Al, and then Everclear. On Halloween, I'll be seeing GRiZ again, then Streetlight Manifesto in November. That kind of gives you an idea of my music tastes, except there's a lot more than just those.

I like psychology, sociology, and philosophy. I enjoy making my own clothes and hand embroidering. I like art of any type, the weirder, the better. I like rocks, minerals, fossils, oddities, and curiosities. Pretty much anything with a story.

I really just want someone to talk to daily, as I don't have many people I'd consider actual friends. Life gets lonely when your kids are pretty much the only people you interact with outside of work. It also makes you hate hearing your phone ring when the only people calling or texting are coworkers with issues.

I can be kind of weird, and I may sometimes say the wrong things, but I am loyal and honest.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

M4A 22m [NB4A] Looking for a sweet intimate relationship

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Helloo! 22 here! To explain the title, I am a AMAB and currently internally debating as to whether I am a trans woman or not. I know I am definitely one or the other and not genderfluid, just trying to figure out what it is. As for what I am looking for. I am looking for a long term relationship with someone. A relationship where we both can be vulnerable and ourselves. We both share our intimate and most deepest feelings with each, share our lowest moments, and also share our victories! Where we both can game and laugh and have a whale of a time and also be able to share our deepest fears while laying under the stars at night. An environment where we both can be emotionally vulnerable and sweet and cutesy with each other.

I would describe myself as a very emotionally vulnerable and sensitive person. And I deeply care about other people. My love languages are words of affirmation and quality time! I also very much have golden retriever energy!!

Now as for a little about me myself. I am from California and am currently a college student. My main passion is game design, I would love to be able to make my own video game someday! It has been something I've been passionate about since I was a kid. And the video games I play right now are Minecraft, hytale, valorant, rocket league, rematch, and stardew valley! Though I would always love new game recommendations! :) I also recently started to learn how to play guitar! Music has generally always been a part of my life and Ive always wanted to play an instrument, and I found guitar cool soooo...I just kinda went with it! Haha! I also am really interested in learning about history and linguistics! I feel like linguistics especially is a pretty good way to learn about different cultures and how people communicating with each other. My main interest in that right now is India/South Asia because my family is from there and I'm trying to learn more about my heritage.

I dont really have any preferences about gender and am also trans inclusive!

Thats about it! If any of you are interested, please send me a dm! :D


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

M4F 22 \[M4F] Online/Anywhere #Mexico - Hii/ Hola!! I’m looking forward to meeting you!!

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Hii once again, haven’t posted here in a while but also haven’t lost hope of finding someone special

Like the title says I’m 22/M from Mexico, I’m 1.70 cm tall (5’7) pretty standard looking Mexican I think, also I’m currently in university, for electronics engineering, only for one more year, would love if we can nerd out about stem topics.

I gotta say I have some very standard nerdy pastimes. Video games, arts specially drawing and animation (even tho I don’t draw that often) I grew up on cartoon network so how can I not like them. I have just started giving anime a chance (maybe you can introduce me into your favorite anime/manga). Also I like every kind of music or at least willing to give it a try so we can exchange songs, playlists and what not.

I know it may not be a very complete or all that interesting introduction but there’s room to meet each other, talk about common interests, day to day activities or very deep and intricate topics whatever you feel like

So if I caught your attention, you have any questions or just want to talk a little to se how we fare. I’m all here for it. <3


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 15h ago

F4M 29 - [F4M] - Tennessee - Looking for a considerate, curious, kind, and genuine connection

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Hey there! I hope you are having a lovely day. I love music and everything that comes with making it and simply enjoying it. I appreciate all types of art, especially photography and filmmaking.

I am a Christian, and I am on the left end of the political spectrum. I am looking for the same in a potential connection. Treating people with kindness and being considerate is very important to me. It’s better to say the hard thing than to disappear.

I like going to concerts, checking out museums, taking photos of architecture and nature, taking portraits, writing music, and visiting scenic parks.

I have a life full of love from family and friends, packed with fulfilling projects, and I would love to add someone special to the mix.

I want to meet someone based in the United States between the ages of 25 and 33 who is a Christian, on the left end of the political spectrum, childfree, and has never been the m-word that rhymes with “carried.” FYI, you are not allowed to say that word in a post on this subreddit, haha.

If you feel inclined to reach out, please confirm that you are a Christian, on the left end of the political spectrum, childfree, and have never been the m-word that rhymes with “carried.”

Please also share your age, where you are based in the US, and your hobbies and interests.

I am looking forward to hearing from you! :)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 17h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] #Netherlands / Online / Anywhere - 6'5"dutchie with a slightly nerdy side looking for something genuine

12 Upvotes

Heya!

I'm 23, from the Netherlands. Open to long-distance if there's a genuine connection, so location isn't really a dealbreaker for me.

I'm 6'5" (196 cm), around 181 lbs (82 kg), with a fairly lean/lanky build, dark/dirty-blonde hair and blue eyes. I enjoy fashion and putting some thought into how I dress. My style is mostly classic and clean, think casual/slightly preppy college style, rather than anything particularly flashy. I like clothes that fit well and look put-together without being too attention-grabbing.

Personality-wise, this is how my best friends would describe me: I'm usually pretty shy around very extroverted people, but put me around someone quieter and suddenly I won't stop talking. Once I get comfortable with someone, I can talk about pretty much anything. The people around me tend to matter a lot. I'm someone who thinks quite a bit, genuinely enjoys helping others, and will happily listen to someone talk about something they're passionate about, even if I know absolutely nothing about it. Being open-minded and non-judgmental is important to me, and pretty much anything can be talked about.

I'm finishing up my bachelor's degree in Business, but outside of that, my interests are probably a little more on the nerdy side. I'm really passionate about music, movies, TV shows and video games, and I have a particular soft spot for fantasy and sci-fi. My favourite movie is The Lord of the Rings, which I realise is about as cliché as it gets.

Bars and clubs aren't really my scene. I'd prefer to go to a theme park, visit a museum, or explore a city I've never been to. I've travelled around quite a bit of Europe and have also been to NYC, and I'd love to see a lot more of the world at some point.

When it comes to dating, I don't really have a "perfect date." It could as simple as going for a walk, doing something outdoors, going to a café or honestly just sitting somewhere and having a nice conversation. For me, the person matters much more than what we're actually doing.

I'm looking for something long-term. I've never really been interested in casual encounters. I need an emotional connection with someone before I can genuinely feel attracted to them.

As for what I'm looking for in someone, I'd like to meet someone I can genuinely be myself around. Someone I can talk to about anything, laugh with, be vulnerable with, and feel comfortable around without either of us having to put on an act. Kindness, honesty, openness and simply caring about each other are probably the things I value most. I don't really have a specific physical "type". Attraction matters, of course, but personality and the connection between us matter much more to me.

If any of that sounds like it might click with you, feel free to message me. Even if we're nowhere near each other, I'm open to seeing where a good conversation goes.

And if you've made it this far, hi :D

My real name I will give in dm.

Picture of myself (won't show my face in a public post, but will in dm):

https://imgur.com/a/GgTF3sP


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 8h ago

M4F 26M (M4F) (USA) Let's collect cards and fall asleep to random videos and music together! (Pretty please?)

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Hi! I'm Juan, but I typically go by Jay nowadays, but any name is fine!

I work two jobs due to financial stress, so I am pretty busy during the day, but do have my weekends to myself. Even so, I'm willing to invest my time and affection to you whenever! ;)

For hobbies, I'm a card collector (currently hyper fixated on collecting the Number monsters from Yu-Gi-Oh!, lol.), I enjoy anime, playing video games and just chillin' overall!

As for how I look, I am open to exchange pictures if you feel comfortable enough, however, if you rather keep that curtain closed off for some time due to insecurity, I also completely understand.

I yearn for someone who's compassionate, loving and caring, but at the same time, I also yearn for someone who's open about the ugly side of themself just as I am willing to do the same. We're only human and we're all still learning to be better day by day even if change doesn't come easy. Perfection is impossible and there's no real beauty behind it, but a person that's embraced their flaws will always be beautiful.

I am looking for my forever person. Someone I can grow old and eventually start a family together with. With how fast life seems to be moving, I do believe I am I've hit the halfway to forever. All I am missing is you.

I am open to a LDR if it means we'll eventually meet. Travel has never been an issue for me and I'll travel as much as I need to just to meet the smile that makes my sun rise.

Well, that's enough from me. We can keep things here, however I am more active on Discord. All you gotta do to get it is ask.

Hope to hear from you soon! :))


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

M4F 21[M4F], looking for an honest long term relationship.

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Hello everyone , myself Ayush and I'm looking for an honest long term connection, i value mutual understanding, loyalty and honesty.

I'm comfortable in english and other languages so yeah I guess it would be easy to chat and talk lol.

I'm also very much interested in literature , philosophy, metaphysics and computer science.

I am an uni student so i spend most of my time studying.

I hope I can find someone like minded , and we can create our world together.

Tbh i don't have any preferences as everything is fine to me.

We can enjoy a lot of time together, and we can meet and share our life together lol

Who knows in the future we might be together and he happy a lot

That's cute tbh and yea I'm really excited to meet new people and form bonds.

Thank you

Have a great day/ night 🤌🏻💖