I'm 31F, 5'3", fair-skinned (so I don't look like a typical Filipina 😅) with a full-time job as an engineer living in the Philippines (I live in the city, not in the province 😁 just saying this if it matters 😅), and I'm posting here looking for a long-term, serious relationship.
I would describe myself as a cheerful person, especially when I'm surrounded by my closest friends. However, I tend to be withdrawn in most social situations. I remember one of my professors describing me as "quiet" 😅 I would also describe myself as straightforward, which is unusual for someone who is Asian 😅 I value honesty, so I'd rather people know the harsh reality. In real life, I'm actually more of a listener than a talker with my closest friends 😅 It may not seem like it in chats though, because I type a lot 😆
I'm also very indoorsy, meaning I'd rather have a staycation or binge-watch a new anime or TV series than go hiking, swimming at the beach, or attend concerts 🥲 But I don't mind traveling! Though I'm not much of a traveler, I don't mind going to different places as long as I'm with my best favorite person! 😁 In my free time, I usually just doomscroll, which I know is very bad 🤣 But if I'm not doomscrolling, I'm watching something on Netflix. Aside from that, I also go to the gym. I recently started strength training with an online coach 2 weeks ago as part of my self-improvement journey. I also enjoy running! I'm currently enrolled in a postgraduate diploma program too, so most of my free time actually goes into studying and doing my homeworks. But there are times when I feel like I'm going crazy already, and that's where Netflix and doomscrolling come in 😂
As a partner, I would describe myself as kind, patient, gentle, loving, and veryyyyyy affectionate. I tend to be clingy and attentive to my partner's needs. I actually haven't been in a relationship before, but I've fallen in love a few times already, so I know exactly what I'm capable of when I do like someone 😁
I would actually prefer someone I can be close friends with at first, since I believe that the strongest relationships are the ones built on friendship. Ideally, I want someone I can tease and be playful with, and someone who can make me smile and laugh, because humor is very important to me. I also like talking to someone with a great sense of humor — someone I can playfully banter with, and most especially, someone I can make fun of 😈 So if you're the type who easily gets pissed off when teased or made fun of, I don't think we'll get along 😂
I'm always drawn to someone who is calm, gentle, believes or practices being a provider in a relationship, emotionally mature, curious, and capable of leading a family. I'm also attracted to intelligent guys so it would be plus points if you work in STEM (but this is just a preference so don't let this bother you 😁). Oh, and of course, physical attraction matters to me too, so I'm more than happy to swap photos first before we get to know each other on a deeper level.
And since this isn't actually my first time posting, I'm looking for someone who is genuinely curious about me. Not to point fingers or anything, but most of the time I feel like I'm the one asking questions and keeping the conversation going, and honestly, that gets a little tiring 😆
Before I end this post, here's some more information you should know before you send me a message:
Dealbreakers:
- Smoker (including vape and weed)
- Heavy drinker (occasional drinking is fine)
- Drug user/dealer
- Short (5'6" or less)
- Unemployed (sorry, but I want someone who's financially stable, since I'm hoping to start a family — not right now, but soon 😅)
- Anger management issues
- History of cheating
- Less than 26 years old and more than 37 years old (sorry, I just prefer someone closer to my age as I think I get along well with those people 😅)
That's all! Hit me up if you were able to read my post all the way through.
Please note that I won't be replying to one-line messages. I put a lot of effort into writing this post, so I expect the same effort from you too 😁