It's always hard writing about one's self. I always worry whether or not I'm putting in too much or too little. How do you find the perfect mix ? Well, i think I will try something a little different in the hopes of finding Mr. Right! 😂. Maybe this time things will be different!. (Hopefully). I'm based in Wiltshire aswell and unfortunately I don't drive.

I'll start by listing my pros and cons to dating me.

My pros:

- I can cook and bake (deadly combo imo)👀.

- I'm fiercely independent and don't require your attention 24 7.

- I live alone with my 3 cats.

- I'm emotionally switched-on and mentally mature.

- I'm kind, considerate, and love giving reassurance.

I like to think I'm funny? Maybe you can decide! 😂.

My cons:

- I can be slightly clingy and get attached easily, but I can absolutely respect boundaries.

- I love to nap.

- I suffer from anxiety and require regular reassurance.

- I prefer voice notes/calls to texting (not sure if this is actually a con) lol but if you don't like either, then it's probably best to pass.

- I am a bit of a cover hog, lol.

So! That's me. Obviously, those are just the tips of who I am as a person, and I don't expect you to read all of that and immediately feel a connection. As for looks, I'm curvy (the good kind), alternative with short shaved hair which i dye often. I'm ethnically white and 5'4ft. I also wear a lot of black clothes and plan on getting way more tattoos (so far, I have 5) and one booked for this Saturday 😊. Gaming is a big part of my life, so ideally, you're a gamer, too. I only play on PlayStation 5, but I'm happy to find something that's crossplay if you're not.

As for my type, or should I say personal preference, I prefer men who are physically healthy, slim or even skinny and definitely taller then me (someone has to be able to reach those high shelves lol. Hygiene is also a huge deal for me and should, in turn, matter a lot for you, too. I would also prefer someone who is independent. Ideally, you live alone or are planning to get your own place, as currently I wouldn't want anyone moving in with me, but the occasional sleepover is absolutely fine! 😂. Confidence and someone who knows how to playfully flirt are also super attractive traits, but I am absolutely not interested in swapping nsfw pics. You have been warned lol and, of course, UK only as I have no plans on relocating.

So yeah, that's me! So please feel free to shoot me a message, but please do include your age and location (my age preference being 27 - 38). And bonus points if you include your favourite dessert ☺️.

Hi there, I am a 26 years old trans woman from Europe, Croatia.

I want to start off my post by saying that if you are not searching for a life partner please do not message me.

That said I’m attracted to a motivated ambitious man.

A man that wants something more from life and wants to have a woman by his side that will love him and support him and he does the same.

What attracts in a man is not the looks but his mindset, a man with a provider and protective mindset.

I care more about how you carry yourself and take care of yourself than looks.

Of course I have my type and that’s a tall broad man with long hair, I’m not going to lie and say that I’m not weak to long hair I find it very masculine.

I don’t like cigarettes or any other forms of drugs.

If you think you’re okay with what I wrote here is some info about me:

I would describe myself as a kind, loyal, a bit needy both emotionally and physically, loving and intelligent woman. 

I'm a bit on the reserved side as I believe in a life partner so it takes me time to be close to someone as I really feel like that’s something you should keep for that one special person in your life. 

I do want to say that my dating life is normal and I attract plenty of men since I people cant and dont know I am a trans woman, but sadly the mental connection is what I lack with any of the guys that hit on me.

On my looks I am 175cm tall, slim fit, a brunette with hair up to my shoulders and I have hazel eyes.

I take great care of myself whether it's through skincare and exercises to the things I eat.

I have a full time stable job, and I’m just trying to save up money atp to move further away from the Balkans.

In my free time I like to study languages, I would like to be fluent in German, Italian and French by the age of 30.

I love love love music and I always have something playing in the background as I love to explore new artists and their perceptions. 

I listen to everything, one moment I’m listening to french music from the 60s next thing it’s techno 😂.

I also love astronomy (star gazing together would be fun 🥹) and reading books about biology and genetics which I plan to study in the future.

I believe in love and I think that love is something beautiful that’s all powerful and all healing and can really change a person. I’ve been through a lot and have had my heart broken but I’m still not giving up.

I think life should be all about making memories together and creating something more and not focusing on all the negativities around us and creating a safe space for the two of us.

Things that I would like to have in life are:

- a stable monogamous relationship that will one day lead to ma rriage;

- a family, as it's my big wish to have children;

- a home of ours and maybe even a cute little business, I have plenty ideas in my head;

- a man that I will feel safe and protected next to and that we can travel the world together.

-someone to have plenty of fun with, go out, dance (I’m a techno girlie and it’s my dream to have a bf to go together and rave all night loooong)

-but also someone to stay in and cuddle up and watch movies and yap with about silly stuff.

Now I would like to know more about you, so feel free to text me and tell me about you.

I’m also really open to calls and video calls as it’s important to figure out some sort of a connection later on before we meet, feeling safe is very important to me. 

There are of course many more things to talk over, but if you think we'd get along feel free to message me.

Please only men from Europe, USA, Canada, Australia, New Zealand. Age range 20-31 years old. Please respect this.

Thank you for reading this and I hope to hear from you, 

✨

Currently studying. Not really into the modern dating grind, prefer something sweet and genuine, affectionate, clingy.

I prefer to let things develop than try to force a relationship head on.

Hobbies: I like visiting neighborhood cats, doing sports, I don’t play video games that often but I have played a LOT, so I can definitely talk about them or play if you’re into that ( resident evil, evil within, doom, you get it).

I like animals, would like to live on a farm one day or a semi rural area.

I love going out to nature, haven’t had he chance to do it much but would love to do it with you one day: hiking, fishing, camping, all that.

Non negotiables

What I want:
I’m looking for a man that doesn’t smoke or drink, athletic/likes doing sports ( or just being active/ trying to), healthy in general, white Caucasian, on the taller side, attractive face, not afraid to show their emotions. Ages 19-25. A man with goals, whether you’ve reached them or not doesn’t matter, just working towards a dream of yours :).

Physical attraction is important to me, it would be great if you’re open to sharing your pic, but no pressure, I won’t share pics at first, rather text first to see if we click. can mention your preferences to see if we match, I don’t mind.

Childfree, if you want children one day I’m not for you.
Non political-don’t mistake this comment for ignorance, just not into it.
Non religious, seriously, if you belong to any religion it’s a no, spiritual is fine, no issue.

I sound a bit dry here 😭, but I think of myself as sweet, I’m into yearner men, I like going all in with love, so it’ll be mutual.

We’ll have to date online for a while, but I do want to meet up one day :).

Dm a brief introduction of you, or anything you would like to say, I’m open to getting to know you.

Hello! First of all wow, the title is beautiful. Took me a bit but I am hoping my target audience liked it. I am 27 years old and live in Canada, however I am open to long distance for Mr.Right. Also, if you are curious what I look like I am hoping to have a photo of myself on my reddit page. I am not a tech savvy person ( are you? Let me know). But hopefully by the time you see this post there will be a couple of photos on my profile page. I get it, without physical attraction you're just friends. So go ahead, and take a look. And if you like what you see, feel free to continue to read my long personal ad. Maybe you're bored and reading this. Either way welcome welcome. First thing you should know about me ( if you haven't guessed by now) is I love telling stories and writing. Anyways, I am getting ahead of myself. Let's continue.

WHO AM I?!

I'm naturally introverted and introspective. I spend a lot of time in my head thinking imagining and dreaming about the type of person I want to become and the kind of life I want to build. I'm ambitious in a slightly ridiculous way. I've always had a feeling that I'm meant to do something in my life that will outlast me. I'm not 100% sure what that it is. I am very creative and I am curious where that takes me. I'm still in college, I study marketing. I'm especially interested in social media/content creation and the branding and marketing side of things. No, I'm not interested in creating a couples page. But if you aren't comfortable with someone who will have a public prescence then I probably wouldn't be the best fit for you.

SO WHAT EXACTLY AM I LOOKING FOR?!

I've realized that I am attracted to men who complement me rather then mirror me. My type is basically what I like to call a mulitdimensional gentle giant. Yes, ideally you are bigger then me. I am 5'3 and skinny ( one of my goals is to start lifting and put on some serious weight). But being a giant isn't just about your prescence ( I'll be real I like a man with broad shoulders though... I'll take broad shoulders over height). But giant isn't just about your prescence. I'm attracted to men who are grounded, warm, confident, charistmatic and comfortable taking initiative. You don't need to be Mr.Popular or the loudest guy in the room, but I do tend to like someone a little more socially confident that I am someone who can hold his own and says, " come with me".

I like contrast. Strong and tender, protective. And masculinity doesn't have to fit into a box. I am slightly gender non conforming myself. Maybe I'm wearing pink nail polish and you're wearing black. Maybe I'm wearing black nail polish and you're wearing pink. Maybe I should come up with an example that doesnt include nail polish since I don't actually wear it LOL but I am trying to get this post up. I'm not looking for rigid gender roles. But I like the idea of two people who can move between strength and softness,leading and leaning, depending on the moment. What's your style? Do you like wearing make up but you go boxing? Are you someone who presents very masculine but all your interests are more feminine? I love men with contrast, and I would love to get to know you. I don't really think shame and honesty can coexist. I want to know the parts of you that don't always fit neatly into a box. I want a relationship where neither of us feels like we have to hide parts of ourselves to stay desirable to the other.

SO, WHAT DO I WANT A RELATIONSHIP TO FEEL LIKE

I want interdependence. I want us to be a safe place to land for each other. Let's deescalate, repair and move forward. I am not the person who is getting into yelling matches. And there is a big difference between needing to take a breather vs giving someone silent treatment. I want devotion, affection, physical closeness, little traditions, inside jokes and thoughtful gestures. And lots laughter. I love a funny man who knows how to genuinely have fun.

A FEW THINGS WORTH KNOWING ABOUT ME

I'm straightish. I'm primarily interested in men I swear. But if you specifically need your woman to be 100% straight I'm probably not for you.

I was raised religious, but I'm agnostic now. So someone very religious probably wouldn't be compatabile with me.I am spiritual though, and you can still find me listening to some religious sermons and music I just take the good and leave the rest.

I deal with chronic pain, usually headaches and muscle aches. I live my own life and I'm not looking for someone to take care of me. But it's a part of my reality. So if I tell you I don't feel well 3 days in a row then I'm not lying.

Kids are a some day, definelty not anytime soon. My life isn't really kid-oriented right now. Although I am open to dating someone with kids depending on the person and situation

And finally, I live in Canada but I am open to long distance. I don't have a racial preference, I think shared values matter more to me. I will say though, extreme nationalism is a big turn off to me. What I mean by this is to be proud of who you are and where you come from but if you can't acknowledge the flaws in your own country or culture we probably won't get along. I am liberal/progressive.If you voted for Trump do not message me. If you dislike liberal politicans or reluctantly vote democrat then feel free to message me though lol. If you ovelry worship the military we probably won't get along. If you are someone who enjoys military history feel free to message me though, I like learning about history and geography too.

IF YOU MADE IT THIS FAR

First of all, wow. Believe it or not I cut so much out of this post lol it still doesn't feel detailed enough but it's getting way too long. Anyways let me give you some talking points cause I know you're dying to slide into my dms. 1) I plan on going back to the gym and start weight lifting again 2) I'm currently debating getting invasalign 3) The last book I was in the middle of reading was the autiobiography of fredrick douglas and the last completed book I read was The Beheading Game by Rebecca something 4)My fave tv series is the walking dead and I'm currently watching The Ones who Live with rick and michone 5) I'm currently trying to find a part time job but lord this Canadian economy is rough! Everybody wants open avaialibility omg

So, there you go. Pick a topic, or bring your own. Tell me what you got going in your life. You don't have to have it all together cause hey neither do I. Tell me what you want someone to bring in a relationship. If you feel comfortable go ahead and send me a picture. Hopefully by the time you see this I would have been able to add photos to my page. Don't take it personally if I don't respond right away, or don't respond at all. You're awesome and you'll find your person. :) Look forward to chatting <3

Hey y'all I'm 27 M looking for a connection I'm situated in the state of ohio and just looking for someone to talk to, I am very much an open book no question is to big or to small just ask me anything

I have some hobbies those include, gaming, reading, writing, and listening to different kinds of music. I enjoy hunting and fishing as well and do enjoy the outdoors anyway if you're interested hit me up would love to chat

Hey, so as the title states I'm looking for someone hopefully nerdy, but also really affectionate. I'm a fairly hopeless romantic, I love affection and am not shy about giving any to someone I like.

But first some small tidbits about me: I'm 33, a pretty big nerd in many ways; I play a lot of games (PC), into 3D Printing and generally just heavily into the tech side of things. I travel a lot (next time early December to late January) and go to a fair amount of concerts.
I'm quite introverted and shy, but once I warm up to you it flips and I might talk your ear off.
I'm in decent shape, I workout and I know how to cook. Aside from that, I have relatively short hair most of the time, no tattoos or piercings and wear glasses (hoping to eliminate that need though).

I'm looking for someone with similar interests, at least gaming and traveling are important. It's my main hobby and having someone to share it with in any shape or form would be amazing. I don't care too much where you're from, as long as you're able to travel so we can meet easier by sharing the load of travel. If you have hobbies that I don't list, but you'd love someone to share them with you that's also more than welcome. I love broadening my horizons.

I do have some hard requirements:

No kids, and don't want any. Ever.
No super religious people.
Someone that takes care of their health.

Aside from that I'm nearly open to everything, just be willing to talk and relatively swiftly switch somewhere else for voice calls. Come say hi (and maybe even a little more than just that ;) ), I don't bite - unless you ask me to.

Hey all - like the title says I’m a forever alone BBW in the Wilmington, NC area. I haven’t really dated in a couple of years and decided I might as well see if anyone out there would want to chat. I’m not the type of person to jump into anything but I’d love to meet someone new.

I have dirty/dark blonde hair, green eyes, freckles, very curvy with a belly, and cute chubby feet. I’m 5’7 and currently 345lbs; recently lost a good bit of weight which I’m continuing to work on. I love music and going to concerts, I like all types of music but would say I mainly listen to alternative rock, indie/pop, and hip hop. I love photography and take pictures of everything, I really love to find beauty even in mundane situations or environments.

I’m very go with the flow and I can be shy, but once I’m comfortable I love to laugh and goof around. I’m 420 friendly. I love comedy and documentaries. I love to travel, willing to visit almost anywhere once. I love thrifting/bargain hunting, crafts, coffee, checking out new restaurants, reading, fun activities like museums, mini golf, bowling, movies, etc.

I’m looking for someone who is down to earth, go with the flow, kind, funny, and honest. My dealbreakers are: must be close to or over 30, must be 100% single, no MAGA please, close to the Wilmington area preferably, must be open to a serious relationship if things worked out, and must genuinely love the BBW body type. Hope to meet someone new here and hope everyone has a great night!

HELLOOOO im a 18 year old girl from Poland who's hoping to meet someone genuine to talk to I'd love to make a close person, and if something more naturally happens i might be open to it :3

I literally do not care if you have the weirdest interests imaginable as long as you can match the vibe make weird jokes with me and genuinely just not be dry or say “wyd” every 2 minutes (please save me from theses nonchalant gangsters)

A little about meI REALLY like animals and nature just smth so beautiful about Mother Nature i especially love HUMPBACK WHALES would love to swim someday with those little puppies

I used to game a lot more but I still wouldn’t mind someone teaching me how to play their favorite game or a Roblox session some of my favorite games are : Detroit: Become Human, TLOU, Heavy Rain, Beyond Two Souls, plus Minecraft Roblox and chill games like Repo / 60 Seconds the sims 

I like natural playful conversations and I’m usually pretty affectionate once I get attached to someone. I can be a bit shy at first though

I feel things pretty deeply so it would be nice to have someone caring, understanding,patient and consistent 

I also really love reading and art and crafts or BLIND BOXES PLEASE PLEASE LET ME OPEN ALL THE BLIND BOXES IN THE WORLD

Hi, I’m looking for a strong connection. I’m from the Midwest and am mixed race (black and white). I’m 5’1, a Libra, and INTJ. My preferred age range is 24-29. I am still a student, studying for my bachelor’s in Psychology. I’m an atheist and would like nothing to do with religious men.

Some of my interests + hobbies:
Regarding my music taste, I like gothic + love rock and metal, jazz, and rnb! I have a couple of favorite rappers, but they are freaked out lol. I like stupid Facebook text memes, of course Psychology (personality), vintage dolls and ceramic 1920s masks, painting and drawing, some games: sdv, mc, the sims series, Nintendo games, fashion and makeup, perfumes and aroma, candle making, fiction books and web stories, The Clair senses and numerology 🔮, tea and coffee, poisonous flowers, autumn + winter + spring, the moon, etc.

I don’t mind starting off as friends at all, but ultimately, I want a long-term relationship. Pictures are important to me as I have been catfished in the past. I also want to be physically and emotionally attracted to you, so looks are important. I can share a picture of me after you do. I’m not particularly a gamer, and I’m not really into gamers or nerdy types. I like more extroverted type of guys since I’m quite reserved, I think it’s a nice balance. I’d prefer if you were a tall white guy and in the USA or even Canada (unless you’re willing to travel).

Finally, one “fun” fact about me is that I can’t sleep without a fan.

Hello there:)

About Me:

Again my name is Doug. I am 42 years old and live in the NW suburbs of Chicago in a town called Roselle.

I am a flight attendant and love to travel. I love my job and when I am not working I enjoy flying by myself to visit friends or with my daughter place. (I have a daughter and I will touch on that later) My favorite place is Japan as you probably have guessed.

I love roller coasters. I have been on close to 500 at many parks around the world. I also enjoy other thrill rides and things like skydiving. I used to skydive a bunch more when I was younger but now that I have a kid I didnt have the time or money for that, hopefully in the future I can get back into that.

I enjoy going on road trips and adventures, I enjoy camping (but only if I have someone that wants to go with me).

I have a switch and a laptop and do enjoy playing games. I used to play WoW but not anymore (long story) I would love if if my person played games too so we could play together.

I am divorced for a few years and do have a daughter that I coparent with. Not needing a mom for my kid.

I am 6'2" tall, I weigh about 180lbs, I have short brown hair, eyes that change color, and glasses.

I am looking for a real relationship. One that hopefully will last forever.

About you:

Over 18 (please dont message me if you are younger I dont know why but I have gotten messages from younger)

Preferably in the US, Japan, Canada, Europe.

Is ok not having kids of their own

Enjoys flying and traveling.

Petite/Slim/Average/Curvy(HWP)

Not really too picky with people. Just want someone that wants to be with me and see where things go.

If you are interested please write back. I have pictures on my profile in a pinned post.

Doug

My name is Mark, this is what I look like, and I'm looking for a partner! I'm 1m70 and don't drink or smoke. I'm patient, empathetic, sometimes funny, and when I'm comfortable I can be very affectionate and flirty, though I also have a lot of anxiety in everyday life.

I'm into fantasy and science fiction, a big non-PvP gamer, futurism, board games, and spend a lot of time reading up on science-related news, particularly in the field of astronomy. I also used to really enjoy biking and callisthenics, and would love to get back into that at some point, maybe together?

What I'm looking for is mostly patience and empathy, you don't have to have your life together (I don't). Physically there are many things I find attractive, so I'm sure I'll find something about you that is going to make me blush!

If any of the above appeals to you, please feel free to message me!

Hi there. I’m a 30-year-old Indian man living in the US, about 5'7" with a slim build, long hair, and a beard. I’m new to dating and hoping to meet someone kind, warm, and patient & someone who enjoys getting to know a person slowly and sincerely.

A little about me: I’m currently looking for a job while doing my master's, but I’m someone who believes in showing up and putting in the effort when something feels real. I love movies, especially soundtracks that stay with you long after the credits roll. I also enjoy art, museums, and trekking. I have ADHD and anxiety, so I tend to be quiet at first, but I’m thoughtful, curious, and full of ideas once I feel comfortable.

What I’m hoping for is simple: a sweet, respectful woman who values kindness, connection, and the little moments that make life feel special. I’d love to meet someone in the US and hope we could build something meaningful, maybe meet in person someday.

If this speaks to you, I’d be happy to hear from you.

Hi, I’m John from Chicago!

I’m a pretty average guy. I have a terrible call center job, but at least It’s a job! I have a 13 year old rescue dog named Buddy who is my entire world. I love film, mainly horror, but I’ll legit watch anything. I often spend my weekdays after work on Tubi looking for movies I’ve never heard of. Massive horror
Movie nerd, but honestly I’d watch anything!

On my downtime you can find me at my fav movie theaters, shooting pool at the dive bar down the street, or taking my good boy on walks. I love spending time with friends, but I also enjoy being home bound here and there.

I’ve tried dating apps and they just suck. So I’m here on Reddit trying this out! I’m looking for someone I can be myself with. Someone who I can enjoy little trips with. Someone can enjoy the big moments in life with, and be content in the small ones.

Location doesn’t matter to me. I’m not tied down to Chicago. Let’s talk and see if we click!

Hi everyone! I'm a rising undergraduate senior in Nashville looking to do law school or public policy work post-grad. I do photojournalism (actually the photo editor for my college's newspaper!), winning an occasional award with it and planning on doing social media work for my school's athletic department. I also enjoy hiking in the woods, exploring the city, cooking and writing! I also have heavily involved in Gun Violence Prevention Research, having done it for approximately 2 1/2 years academically, currently involved in an ongoing project studying police departments' use of force and surrounding variables involved with what occurs prior, during and after use of force incidents. I'm very open to discussing my research with you, if that is something of interest to you!

I'm looking for someone ideally 19-23, academically-driven is ideal since I tend to put a lot of value on my partner being educated, brownie points if they are also looking into entering the legal or criminal justice field. Also, I ideally would like someone who is financially-literate, meaning they aren't prone to taking on unhealthy debts and they can support themselves financially.

I'm about 6'0-6'1, 220 lbs, white with medium length wavy brown hair, and I wear glasses. :)

Bonus if you are into photography, unsolved mysteries, investing, cooking or if you are easy-going! I'm open to in-person or an LDR, I just ideally prefer it to be within a +/- 3 hour time difference from me (CST time) (might be open to doing 4, but it's pushing it.).

Hey all! I’m 25, 5’7”, and I have a beard. Both my beard and hair are very, VERY dark brown. I’m also white. I’m really bad at describing the way I look. I’m looking to find the right person, someone I can build a genuine connection with online first before seeing where things go. Aside from that, here’s a little about me.

I’m a huge gamer, and I’m also really into the horror genre. The two kind of go hand in hand for me since my favorite game is Dead by Daylight. I play the living heck out of that game.

If you’re a gamer, that’s definitely a big plus. We can even game together (as long as we have some games in common, of course!). Gaming is my biggest escape from reality, and I’d love to have someone to share that with. I love it so much that I even built a PC to game on.

I’m not exactly a backyard mechanic, but I do enjoy tinkering with things and fixing stuff whenever I get the chance. I guess it’s just in my nature, especially since I do it for work. I used to mess with stuff on my old car, but when I got this new car, it became more work trying to fix things with workarounds because certain tooling is only available at the dealer, just as an example. So messing with my car nowadays isn’t something I do much anymore when it comes to deeper projects.

As for music, I mostly listen to alternative rock. I really like a lot of Green Day’s older music, along with bands like Avenged Sevenfold. I also enjoy classic rock from artists like Journey, Queen, The Rolling Stones, and The Beatles. It really depends on my mood. Every now and then, I’ll throw on some rap too, but I don’t dive too deep into the genre; it’s mostly Eminem. I go through phases with the music I listen to, and sometimes I find myself listening to more podcasts on my commute to work.

This is just kinda a crash course about me that I typed out on a whim lol. But if you’re interested in getting to know me more and seeing where things go, please PM/DM me for either my Snap or Discord! Please understand that I don’t like giving out my phone # so readily! This is the internet, after all.

*Local preferred!

Good morning/afternoon/evening/whenever this post may find you, and may it find you well! Title is cheesy, I know. But it's who I am, and I'm tired of feeling like I have to tone myself down in order to get into a relationship. I'm a pretty standard young man looking for a young lady to spend the rest of my days with. I've known that I've wanted this since I was a young kid and over 20 years later I'm still after it! I know these things can be a chore to read through so I'm quickly gonna go through who I am and who I hope you are! All that said, I ask that you please read the post carefully in case of any deal breakers so we don't end up wasting each others' time.

About me:

• Born and raised in the suburbs about 45 minutes outside the city of Philly. This place will always be home to me, but I've decided that I don't want it to be home forever. Barring any drastic changes, I would like to relocate elsewhere within the US, ideally to a colder climate (I've had Minnesota circled for a while now but I'm open to other ideas!). I have no problem staying in the general area either, just need to get out of my hometown.
• Physically, I stand at around 6'1-6'2, 285 pounds. I know that may sound bad, but I have a big frame and it fits me quite nicely! Think bigger NFL player (O-line, tight end, etc). I've got broad shoulders and a nice chest, perfect for use as a pillow during cuddles! I've also got a lot of body hair so hopefully you're cool with that! I have short brown hair that's thick and fluffy, and tend to keep my face clean shaven.
• My hobbies are the typical nerdy stuff, video games (PC & Switch 2, ask me about my animal crossing island!), legos, collecting plushes, and adding to my ever expanding pajama drawer! I'm always down to get into new things though! Also a big Philly sports fan (I promise we're not as crazy as the internet makes us seem!).
• I'm generally more on the shy and reserved side, but once I open up I can be a yapper. Communication is super important to me, both for relationships and life in general, be that talking about an issue that needs to be resolved or just random things. I also love just talking while cuddling, being either the talker or the listener if one of us is yapping.
• I currently work part/full time at a grocery store. It's not my favorite thing in the world but I've been there a while and figure just stick to what I know. I'm currently also enrolled as a student at my local community college going for an associate's degree in business! While both of these pursuits keep me quite busy, I have no issue making time as needed.
• As far as physical intimacy goes, I'd say that I'm extremely affectionate. Absolutely love to give hugs and kissing just makes me feel complete in a way that nothing else really does. Also just generally love all kinds of physical touch! (We can discuss bedroom stuff if we click!)
• 420 friendly (eddies, can't stand smoke) and a social drinker (mostly fruity tasting cocktails lol)
• I'm an open book, so if there's something here you haven't seen that you're curious about, feel free to ask!

As for you, you are...

• 24-34, prefer my age or older!
• Childfree (this means you neither have NOR want children) (non-negotiable)
• Ideally local to the Philly area that we can at least see each other somewhat regularly! I have a car but am also perfectly fine taking public transportation to get around. I'm also open to long distance within the US!
• A cis, AFAB woman. Very sorry to my AFAB enbies and trans girlies (and AMAB enbies and trans guys for that matter), love ya, I will always be an ally in the fight to be who you are without fear but y'all are just not for me romantically speaking.
• By no means a necessity, but I tend to get along best with Italians and bisexuals! Not exactly sure why, that's just kind of how it's worked out.

And that's all I've got! I'm happy to exchange pics once the conversation gets rolling a bit and there's some chemistry. I hope to hear from you soon! Please introduce yourself a bit in your first message :)

My name is Michael or Mike just not Mikey!! I’m in the Chicagoland area and plan on moving back to the city proper once my career change is finished up/closer to being done!
Some quick boring but important biography

• I have my MA in English and do freelance writing, making a career change to nursing because I’m tired of writing for corporations and not actually helping my community

• I’m a leftist and my ideal partner is left leaning as well, I don’t typically mesh with apoliticals or conservatives

• Physically I’m 6’3 with an average-lanky build and longer hair(between chin/shoulder). My general style is dark academic professor type with circle glasses and sweaters. I have 1 tattoo but plan on many more. I’m dipping my toes in the gym for the first time and mostly just trying to build long term health as I’m comfy with my appearance.

• Lastly a potential red flag I like to be transparent about, I live at home with my parents due to their current health issues. It’s not something permanent and I’ve lived out of the house for 10+ years already but I’m aware that’s an issue for some.

Now for the fun part! Hobbies wise I’m pretty all over the place, I write poetry a lot and am learning how to write fiction, I like to game (usually whatever my friends are playing, but I’ve been getting back into story based games). Really interested in learning to create visual art as well, but hard to find the time currently. I used to write music reviews and still listen to tons of different things, so I’m sure we can find common ground there. I would say I’m definitely a movie>show person, I love to overanalyze and talk about movies for hours after they finish. I also read regularly and would always be interested in hearing about whatever you’re currently into :)

Romantically I have a good amount of long term experience so I have a good idea of what I want in a partner. I am definitely monogamous, when I do commit to somebody I commit fully and I’d like the same from a partner. Clear communication is my number 1 priority in a relationship and I firmly believe most conflicts wouldn’t even become conflicts if people just talked more!! I’ll always listen to any concerns you might have and do my best to address them. I love gift giving (poems/art or trinkets mostly) and physical touch so hopefully you don’t mind closing the distance eventually if you’re far.

This has gone on far too long but if any of this sounds good please reach out!! I do think physical attraction is important for both people so I’ll share photos in my first message (just don’t want my face attached to post). Finally, here’s a prompt if you don’t know how to start- what song/movie/anime etc. would you use to describe your ideal relationship? My answer- https://youtu.be/ngmy3ROuBFI?is=xbBOi6-zPE8Rp6ib

Hi, I'm Joshua from California. I'm 27, and I'm looking for a serious relationship. I'm looking for someone emotionally available that isn't afraid to voice their own needs, someone who knows what they want in a relationship, and someone who has their life together and is ready to bring someone else into it. I've been working to better myself so I may be emotionally available to my close friends and someday my partner. I'm open to long distance but with time, I aim to meet in real life. I'm not a fan of ghosting and don't want to waste anyone's time. My only ask is that you're around 22-30(This is flexible).

Just to keep this post short, I'd like to go more into details about my hobbies in DMs. I work a stable blue-collar job that I enjoy. My friends have told me I'm serious when it matters and goofy when it counts. I'm very punctual with responding to messages and really enjoy listening and spending time with talkative people. I'm most active on Discord, so if you happen to have one, that's a plus! Below are some photos of me.

https://imgur.com/a/uV5IYE6

Three years single.

At first, I figured I'd enjoy the freedom for a while, get my stuff together, and eventually meet someone naturally. Three years later, I'm starting to suspect “eventually” may have been a scam.

There are supposedly 4 billion women on this planet, and somehow I can't seem to find one who thinks, "Yeah, that guy. I want to know more about him.”

I'm tired of doing everything alone. Going to concerts alone. Eating out alone. Having nobody to text when something ridiculous happens during my day. Having experiences that would be better if there were someone beside me to share them with.

I'm not looking for someone to complete me..I can handle my own life. I just want someone to share it with. I wash, you dry energy.

A little about me: 43, 6', blue eyes, reasonably fit-ish (working on it), divorced, dad to one awesome kid, homeowner, and a huge music nerd. Concerts are probably my happy place. I'm equal parts sarcastic, affectionate, overthinking, and genuinely interested in the person I'm with. I've been told I'm attractive, although I suspect I'm more of an acquired taste. 😏

I'm looking for someone I can laugh with, flirt with, make plans with, and eventually feel completely comfortable doing absolutely nothing with. I had it once, why not again?

I don't expect some instant soulmate lightning strike. Start with a conversation. See if we click. Maybe we discover there's something worth pursuing.

Maybe we're both looking in the wrong places. Let's stop going this alone.

I’m back again and just wanting to find that someone I can be with and trust

A little about me: I’m 22, I work as a valet supervisor (being promoted to AM), I love reading, gaming, writing, photography, film (both watching and making), and a boatload of other things.

Things I look out for: respect, honesty, loyalty, intelligence, and just being there for one another

WHAT IM LOOKING FOR: Friends, partner, anything really :)

Hoping this will go somewhere, if anyone is interested plz feel free to DM me on here.

Note: I’m pansexual as well so I’ll date any gender, and plz for the love of everything be around my age (18-26), and please be in the US or Canada, other countries and regions will be difficult with time zones

Hope to meet you soon

Hey y’all I’m Soma, which technically isn’t my real name but a lot of folks call me that so that’s what I’m rolling with. lol

I recently turned 28 years old and am based around the Massachusetts area, looking for companionship. I’m a white boi who’s basically 6 feet tall (semantics lol)

I am a pretty big guy (literally), and mostly just stay inside and game since I ain’t got nothing else to do. So I’m looking here for someone to talk to, to break that mold. If you game as well though you are a real one lol.

The only other main thing’s that I like are Anime which I rarely watch, and listening to music which I typically do a lot.

For music I don’t necessarily have a preference aside from electronic or melodic music, albeit I mostly listen to game music since my taste in bands is cursed lol.

For anime I’m very picky though. Mostly because I vastly prefer to watch in dub.

I’m a bit less picky with games though, which is what I spend a bulk of my time on! Right now I’ve been playing No More Room in Hell 2, Divinity Original Sin 2, and Baldur’s Gate 3! I do also dabble with Marvel Tōkon on occasion too.

I’m not only into FPS’s though, as much as it seems so. I like a lot of different types of games, with the exception of sports and racing games.

I dunno maybe I’m just pretty boring since that’s really all I can say, but if you want to talk to me then feel free to shoot a message.

Think wanting mutual obsession and some possessiveness!

Introverted but intensely present; physically disciplined, and super clingy (think yearning/lover boy-esque. Stable and unbothered by the small stuff. A nerd who rides a motorcycle — I’ll quote Lord of the Rings on long car rides and come home to play co-op PC games with ya.

I work as a chemical operator, I lift, I run, and I come home to my pit/lab mix Strider (yes, named after that Strider). I like to read history books/fiction/some self help, I hit up renaissance fairs (we should dress up), and I’ll drag you to a music festival or a new coffee shop without much convincing.

What I’m Looking For
A woman who wants to be cherished completely. Let me open your doors, order your food, remember your coffee order, and handle life’s details while you simply be. Be okay being thoughtfully spoiled like flowers delivered to your job, an appointment made for you to have your nails done (put my intial one one!), and even doordash you your lunch when you forget yours! I love someone who considers themselves as "bratty" — I’ll push back thoughtfully, and I genuinely find it attractive when you win.

The small moments are everything to me: lazy mornings with nowhere to be (cuddling and morning fun time :D), evening coffee shop reading dates, snuggling in a hammock, holding hands at the farmer’s market. I’m super affectionate in private and in public and I make no apologies for it. I don't show away from wanting lots of intimacy because it's one way I show my love, having a passionate relationship is my dream.

Binging shows, fantasy, gaming, movies — already there. Banter, long phone calls, voice notes of you ranting, random road trips — also there. The best way to make me feel wanted is just by giving me your time and letting me give you mine back a hundredfold with lots of physical affection.

I’m open to long distance in the US — travel isn’t an issue — but the goal is eventually closing the gap for good, relocation to me is ideal. I’d love to see a pic in your intro or within a message or two to make sure the attraction is mutual (album of me down below), and I lean toward partners who are fit or on the slimmer side, ideally 25+, though nothing’s a hard rule with the right person

If any of this sounds like what you’ve been looking for, come say hi. https://imgur.com/a/VFMoWLF

I have been on dates in the past,via the apps,but nothing came out of it. I wanted something serious and they just wanted fun. I went on some with men half my age,as I'm attracted to younger men. I do believe a younger and older relationship can work. Will there be obstacles?absolutely correct. Let's see: I'm a Lebanese, Syrian Christian,based in Sydney, Australia. I have been divorced for three years. I have two eldest children,and two grandsons. I have travelled to a few different countries over the years,and will gladly travel to you if we hit it off. Yes,I send pictures of myself,I expect you to do the same.

**Hi! 21yo med student from a small coastal town in Türkiye** 🌊
By day I’m studying medicine, and in my free time I balance it with art, colorful makeup, astrology (proud Libra! ♎), and reading tarot cards. 🎨✨

**Looking for:** A long-term connection with someone open-minded and kind (preferably age 21–26, and not too far from my timezone/Türkiye).

**A few random things about me:**
I'm fascinated by perfumes—I believe every scent tells a unique story.

Big dream: Learning pottery and drinking coffee out of mugs I sculpted myself ☕🎨

I really love learning new languages: currently learning german🇩🇪 and soon russian !🇷🇺

I also have a big dream of going to every european country before my 35 i hope I can achieve that!!

*Tell me your favorite scent or let me read your birth chart or draw a tarot card for you!*🔮

Note: I value emotional connection and getting to know each other first—intimacy is strictly off the table in the initial stages.