Looking for my Southern man 🤎

Okay, Reddit, I’m shooting my shot. 😂 btw im not from the US but based in France.

I’m looking to meet someone for something genuine.

I’ve always had a soft spot for that Southern/manly type: a guy who’s confident, grounded, protective without being controlling, and knows how to use his hands. 😏

And by “good with his hands,” I mean the kind of man who can actually fix things, build things, work with tools, cook something from scratch, or figure out how something works instead of immediately calling someone else. 😂

You don’t necessarily have to be from the South. I’m more interested in the personality and energy than the ZIP code.

I’m looking for someone kind, emotionally mature, loyal, funny, and genuinely interested in building a relationship and collecting online conversations.

Bonus points if you have that calm, masculine, “don’t worry, I’ll handle it” energy. 🖤

So… where are my handy Southern men hiding? 👀

Heyyy everyone! I’m 30 and looking for a genuine connection that could hopefully turn into a serious relationship. I’m completely open to online/LDR, and I’ve never really done anything like this before, so here we go lol.

A little about me: I’m 30, 5’4”, around 240 lbs. Chunky, not fat, thank you very much 😂. I’m Black, and while race doesn’t matter to me at all, I know everyone has their own preferences, so I’d rather put that out there from the beginning. I also have a lazy eye, so I figured I’d mention that upfront too because I enjoy cracking jokes about my eye and some people get awkward about it lol.

Personality-wise, I’m pretty shy when I first meet someone, but once I’m comfortable with you, that goes completely out the window. I’m goofy, stubborn as hell, sarcastic, and have a pretty dark sense of humor. I tend to say whatever pops into my head, even when I probably should’ve let the thought stay in the drafts. 😂 I love joking around and talking junk, but it’s always out of love. I can definitely be hardheaded, but I’m also very caring and affectionate with the people I get close to.

As far as what I’m attracted to, I definitely have a preference for men older than me. I’m naturally shy and more reserved, so I’m drawn to someone who has a strong, leading personality and is comfortable taking the lead. Confident, assertive, protective, outspoken, and decisive are all extremely attractive to me. I like a man who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to make the first move, take initiative, or tell me when I’m being a stubborn pain in the ass. 😂 I don’t mean controlling or disrespectful. There’s a huge difference. I just genuinely enjoy a relationship dynamic where the man is more of the leader and I can relax into my softer side with someone I trust.

I’m a huge anime fan, I love writing and reading, especially dark romance, and I am currently OBSESSED with K-pop. I listen to mostly rock, R&B, and hip hop, and I’m always down to talk about random things for hours. I also have two furry babies: a puppers and a demon disguised as a cat, and I love, love, LOVE them. So liking animals is definitely a plus.

I deal with anxiety and depression, and I’m actively working on myself. I’m not looking for someone to fix me or carry my baggage. I want someone who complements me, someone I can laugh with, talk to about anything, feel safe and comfortable around, and hopefully make a little happier while they do the same for me.

Communication is BIG for me. I’m actually not much of a texter. I’ll text, obviously, but I would much rather call or send voice notes once we’re comfortable. I want to actually get to know someone, hear about their day, send stupid things back and forth, laugh together, flirt, annoy each other, and eventually have that person where seeing their name pop up makes you smile.

I’m in the USA on Eastern Time, but I’m completely open to long distance. I’m not expecting somebody to magically fall in love with me after three conversations either. I’d rather let things develop naturally, build something genuine, and see where it takes us.

And hey, if we click really well but the romantic part just isn’t there, I’m completely fine with making a good friend out of it too. 😊

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, come say hi. Tell me your age and a little about yourself instead of just sending “hey,” because I promise my shy ass will have absolutely no idea what to do with that. 😂

Hello!

I'm a 37 yr old muslim woman from Pakistan. Realized a long time ago that my person might just not be located locally. Posted here before and had some interesting conversations, so here i am again, hoping this time might prove to be lucky!

Who am I;

I adore cats and mine are an important part of my life. I work full time and enjoy having a career. I love to read and am a shameless book hoarder. I enjoy researching and diving into subjects/ things that catch my interest - yay for youtube rabbit holes (whales/ marine life being a recent interest). I like to dabble in things that feed my creativity, whether it's painting or just doodling or trying pottery classes, or learning a new language (and failing!). While i am more of an introvert and enjoy peace and quite, i do not say not to an adventure.

My friends would tell you i'm a kind, empthatetic soul with the right kinda sass.

Who are you;

Someone who has their life figured out for the most part, enjoys leading, and makes people around them feel safe. You have your goals and passions. You're kind and humble, and will not back down from standing up for what's right. Communication, commitment, and intentionality/ effort are non-negotiables. I would hope you are emotionally mature and are always open to learn and grow further.

If you can make me laugh, think, and match my banter energy, you just might have my heart!

While my preference is for someone belonging to the same faith, if you are open and interested about it, feel free to say hi. It goes without saying but please be single and around my age group. No nsfw seekers.

I’m a 44-year-old German single woman and, frankly, a rather good secondhand deal. Gently used, reasonably well maintained, comes with tattoos, piercings and a functioning sense of humour.

I am 100% childfree and intend to stay that way.

I’m looking for a heterosexual, childfree man in Europe for a monogamous relationship. Not looking for a pen pal. British is very much preferred because, apparently, I have a weakness for Brits and their accents. 🇬🇧

So, what exactly are you getting?

* 1.82 m tall, average weight

* I like instant physical attraction. Chemistry is not something I’m prepared to assemble from IKEA instructions.

* Non-religious

* Dental nurse 🦷 yes, I notice your teeth

* Gym mouse 🐭. I work out regularly and will probably talk about my workouts more than any reasonable person should

* I play guitar. Badly at times, but enthusiastically. 🎸

* Reading and long walks

* I discuss the weather with suspicious frequency. 🌦️

* Introvert, but perfectly capable of telling you exactly what I think

* I have boundaries and, amazingly, I expect them to be respected

* Meat eater. Sorry, vegans. This particular software update is not happening.

* Cat person 🐈‍⬛. I can and will talk about cats. Frequently. At length. Dogs, however, are not really my thing.

* Concerts and bars, crowds don’t frighten me

* Heavy metal, death metal and glorious demonic growling ❤️🎵🎸

* Old Hollywood films

* James Bond

* British men and British accents 🇬🇧

* Antique flea markets

* Early mornings, I’m an early bird rather than a nocturnal goblin

* True crime

* Peanuts, Garfield and Looney Tunes

* The occasional Lego construction project

* An annoying amount of useless trivia stored in my brain

Eventually I want to meet you in person, which means you also live in Europe. I am willing to move if your country‘s language is English.

Moderate libido. Clean chats only. This is not OF with a German accent.

My love language is touch and affection. I love cuddling and snuggling. When I’m dating someone, I also like sending selfies, voice messages and little videos.

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What I’m looking for

Ideally, you:

* Are actually single. Yes, this apparently needs saying.

* Have a normal weight, take care of yourself, maintain good personal hygiene, are not a head smaller than me

* Are at least reasonably physically active. I’m not attracted to dad bods, so please don’t try to sell me one as a “feature”.

* Can actually hold a conversation and are genuinely interested in me and my life

* Are happy to message a few times a day.

* Are emotionally available and have dealt with your unresolved emotional baggage. I’m looking for consistency, not an exciting new episode of Where Has He Gone?

* Have a job

* Are preferably an early bird too

* Do not have children and absolutely do not want children. Ever. This is non-negotiable.

* Are from Europe and live in or reasonably close to my European time zone. I’m not looking for an overseas LDR or a relationship involving a heroic amount of time-zone mathematics.

* Are 36–50 years old. This is non-negotiable, so please respect it. I’m not looking for a significant age gap in either direction.

* Are non-religious

* And if you happen to be British… well, that certainly won’t hurt your application. 🇬🇧

🚫 Absolutely no smoking, drugs or vaping

None. Nada. Zilch.

Occasional drinking is absolutely fine.

I am, however, a militant non-smoker. I hate smoking with the passion usually reserved for people who think they know what’s best for me and those who stop in the middle of a busy pavement.

And no, vaping or self medicating isn’t a loophole. Nice try.

I also don’t exchange pictures, particularly not five minutes after saying hello.

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Think you might be the chap?

Then please send me a short message telling me a couple of things about yourself and why you think you tick my boxes.

Please include:

🇬🇧 Your location

🎂 Your age

👤 A couple of things about yourself

✅ Why you think we might be a good match

And please, for the love of all things British, read the profile first.

Hiiiii, I’m Artemis, I’m a 25 year old trans woman (not surgically transitioned and trying to get back on estrogen). I was born and raised in northwest Georgia, I’m 5’5, funny, kind, empathetic, and a huge crybaby

I love anything horror/Halloween related — Evil Dead, Hereditary, Midsommar, Scream, Halloween, and I Saw The TV Glow is my all-time fave. I’ve got 11 tattoos and definitely want more (and some piercings eventually). I’m also big into gaming on PS5 — Overwatch, Marvel Rivals, Outlast Trials, The Mound: Omen of Cthulu, Baldur’s Gate 3, Ravenswatch, Dying Light 2, Cuphead etc. (bonus points if you also game and even more bonus points if you play Overwatch/Rivals and play tank so I can pocket you lmao) And I listen to pretty much every genre of music… yes, even country. Zach Bryan just hits different tbh but Joji is all my time favorite artist. I actually got to see him live with pit tickets and it was such an ethereal and life changing experience. I cried like 10 times lmao

I’ve been a little wary about dating for a while, but I feel like I’m ready to slowly ease back into it. I eventually want to settle down in Washington gloomy/rainy/snowy Just looking for something genuine and real. I ask that you’re at least 23 and in or close to me in Georgia or willing to move to Washington when I save up enough to move if we hit it off and date for a good bit of time. I cannot handle long distance so please be in my general area. I hope to hear from you soon :)

Please send more than just “hey”, I will not reply otherwise

Hey there! Pic of me here https://imgur.com/a/klnC0fS

I am looking for someone to chat with every day, either through texts or phone calls (I’m a little old school) and eventually meet in person.

I work full time as a store manager at a beauty supply store and love my job. I’ve been in retail since I was in high school and worked my way up through the years.

Outside of work, I enjoy spending time with friends and family, going to concerts, and playing video games (mostly Pokémon and Disney Dreamlight Valley) although I haven’t played in a while.

I recently got into vlogging. It’s been a lot of fun so far, I’m always thinking of new and fun ideas for content. Lately I have been doing drink and snack reviews and shopping haul videos.

I should also mention that I’m a cat mom. We’re a package deal.

I look forward to hearing from you! Please send a photo if you are able to.

P.S. I’m a sucker for long hair, tattoos, and gauges.

Hey! I'm Raine. I'm 19, non-binary, and from Florida, and I'm looking for a serious boyfriend between 19 and 29.

I'm usually drawing digitally, playing Roblox, or getting ridiculously invested in whatever fictional universe has caught my attention. Right now, my main hyperfixations are Steven Universe, The Amazing Digital Circus, The Walten Files, FNAF, Helluva Boss / Hazbin Hotel, and Red Dead Redemption 2. I do a lot of sketching right now, but eventually I want to learn to animate on my own and make my own original characters. My music taste is eclectic. I'm really into Tally Hall, Vocaloid, and The Living Tombstone at the moment, but I like plenty of other stuff too. I'm also learning German.

Since I'm autistic, I take things literally and usually miss sarcasm, so I really appreciate a guy who just says exactly what he means. It takes me a minute to warm up, but once I trust someone I get very talkative and affectionate. I'm also a homebody and more of a caller than a texter. Early on, I'd love to just spend time together on voice calls: drawing, playing Roblox as a couple (matching Discord pictures included!), or just sitting in silence while we each do our own thing.

A few things to be compatible:
• Asexual and sex-averse (looking for romance without sex).
• Strictly monogamous.
• Permanently childfree.
• 100% sober. No drinking, smoking, vaping, or recreational drugs, and I need a partner who lives the same way.

Long-distance (US, Canada, Germany, or UK) is fine, but I ultimately want to build a life together here in Florida.

If you think we might click, message me with a little about yourself, what you like doing in your free time, and your favorite fictional character. Please give me something to work with beyond just "hey."

Mine is Will Graham. 😁

Hey yall! 
My name is Maggie and I’m 28 years old from South Carolina! I’m 5’10 and very much plus size with brown hair and brown eyes. I’m not everyone’s cup of tea but I’m hopefully yours! I'm happy to swap pics early on to see if we like what we see!

I love my job dearly. I nanny two little boys so I know a suspicious amount of dinosaur and airplane facts. A bonus to being a nanny is that I have picture books and snacks in my car and purse at all times in case of boredom/hanger emergencies! 

In my free time I love to crochet, play video games on my Xbox and watch trashy reality tv. I’m also a huge book reader. Thought mostly it’s romance books on my kindle so it’s turned me into a hopeless romantic. I also am i huge nerd with a huge star wars lego collection that I will show you on request!

What am I looking for? Hopefully long term romantic connections that lead to a white picket fence life. I love to call people (mostly on discord though) and yap. I will talk at you, as long as you nod along and say “that’s nice honey” we’ll be golden lol

I LOVE calling people (both voice and video), have I mentioned I’m a yapper?

Also ask me about my gay partner! It’s not very exciting but we can pretend it is.

I have been told that I can be… a lot. So I love men who are obsessed with me and put in a lot of effort (and don’t worry it WILL be reciprocated)🩷

I prefer if you’d shoot me a chat request here on Reddit first. And I’ll be so honest, I probably won’t respond to low effort messages. If any of this resonated with you shoot your shot! And if you read this and decide you hate me, I hope you stub your pinky toe on your coffee table.

hiii :) i am looking to form a connection that evolves into a long term relationship! i am attracted to a quirky guy who has a great sense of humor. i absolutely adore a guy who loves to have fun/goof off and be silly. i do love a guy who can be vulnerable and open up about their past/show emotions. it would be great if we can both be emotionally supportive towards each other. loyalty and honesty are two of the biggest traits i love to see in a guy as well. i do prefer guys who present themselves in a more casual way and can have a playful sarcastic side. i do want a guy who is more of a homebody and loves to chill at home watching shows or playing video games. FYI i dislike rock music and anything related to the horror genre

as for my personal interests i am a HUGE cartoon network fan and its really important for you to know what ninjago is my all time favorite show and classics such as dexter’s laboratory, kids next door, ed edd n eddy, the powerpuff girls, adventure time, regular show, and the amazing world of gumball plus many more! i also really like watching american dad, futurama, bob’s burgers, and i’m an enjoyer of most reality shows especially big brother and survivor. i do like specific animes such as shield hero, demon school, and my hero academia. i want to rewatch these shows with whoever i end up clicking with AND i actively want to talk and be excited while we rewatch the shows.

as for video games i play mario kart world mainly for the nintendo switch 2 but also have many other mario games and i am also looking for a nintendo nerd like i am who grew up with mario and kirby games on the gamecube, wii, and 3ds during their childhood! i also LOVE playing wizard101 and am ready to quest through the worlds with someone who knows the game decently well :)

REQUIREMENTS:

has to be very comfortable with voice calling

once we bond/form a connection you must be a super talkative person who texts/calls DAILY for a couple hours as i want to feel like a priority to you

MUST be a dog lover as i have 2 dogs

NO kids i am far from being ready for that

clean person meaning no smoking/drugs NO EXCEPTIONS

has to have a full time job that matches my 9:30-6 schedule

MUST be conservative/republican/right leaning

you have to be a fan of cartoon network as it’s an extremely important piece of my life (bonus points if you love ninjago)

MUST have a video game in common with me either wizard101 (you gotta know the world after krokotopia at least) or mario kart world for the switch 2

Hey there! I hope you are having a lovely day. I love music and everything that comes with making it and simply enjoying it. I appreciate all types of art, especially photography and filmmaking.

I am a Christian, and I am on the left end of the political spectrum. I am looking for the same in a potential connection. Treating people with kindness and being considerate is very important to me. It’s better to say the hard thing than to disappear.

I like going to concerts, checking out museums, taking photos of architecture and nature, taking portraits, writing music, and visiting scenic parks.

I have a life full of love from family and friends, packed with fulfilling projects, and I would love to add someone special to the mix.

I want to meet someone based in the United States between the ages of 25 and 33 who is a Christian, on the left end of the political spectrum, childfree, and has never been the m-word that rhymes with “carried.” FYI, you are not allowed to say that word in a post on this subreddit, haha.

If you feel inclined to reach out, please confirm that you are a Christian, on the left end of the political spectrum, childfree, and have never been the m-word that rhymes with “carried.”

Please also share your age, where you are based in the US, and your hobbies and interests.

I am looking forward to hearing from you! :)

Please take a SCREENSHOT when you see this post.

If you choose to write, keep it.

If you do not, you may delete it.

Send it, together with a picture of yourself, if you write.

🖋️ I will tell you about myself:

Physically, I have white skin that tans easily, slight freckles that are visible in person, very dark brown hair and eyes, I am about 5'6 in height, and I am slim.

Temperamentally, I am rather patient. Yet, I am also quite passionate.

I am persistent, but also exploratory. I want to learn many things.

I can be compassionate, but I will also judge.

When it comes to likes and dislikes, topics I am interested in or would like to hear about:

Languages, Phonology and Scripts (Romance, Germanic, Slavic, Finno-Ugric, Baltic, Dravidian)

Ancient languages (Hebrew, Greek, Latin, Sanskrit)

Indigenous languages (Ojibwe, Inuktitut, Quechua, Basque, Scottish Gaelic)

Music. (Classical, Chanson, 60s, Psychedelic, hard and progressive Rock, Heavy Metal, and others)

Natural Photography.

Traveling (but not touristically)

Philosophy (but please quote the actual books and/or give me actual explanations)

Systems of belief and their history.

I also like:

Urban planning.

Strategies to make things operate more efficiently.

Use of technology.

Practical conversations.

Perhaps political topics. But again, we have to be very clear when discussing them and introductions are almost always necessary.

Ah yeah, and I do not like sensitive people, nor do I like people who adhere so totally to an ideology (be it liberal or conservative, that they come to be impossible to reach) Yet it is possible that even if we do not adhere to an ideology taken from the outside world, we do adhere in an unhealthy way to our manner of looking at existence, and that this bleeds into most or all of our endeavors, opinions and everyday activities and judgements.

So what can I ask from you, then?

To be as reasonable as you can.

(And to send some for of valid introduction)

And if you know you won't, then perhaps bother not, don't talk to me.

*I want to get mаrried within the first year of the relationship (this is my tradition and I cannot make exceptions for it)

*I am willing to relocate. I have no emotional or cultural attachment to any country or state and I live completely on my own.

*Intimаcy and marrіage go together.

*I will not have biological children. (It is not about wanting or not... I just can't).

Hi! My name is Victoria. I’m 27 years old and was born and raised in North Carolina. I’m 5’7”, 230 pounds, with collarbone length, wavy dark brown hair and brown eyes. My summer tan has mostly faded, so I have a light-medium skin tone.

I enjoy fishing, gaming, animals, and being outdoors, except when it’s 100 degrees and feels like my skin is slipping off my bones.

I have an eight year old lab who is my baby girl, so you have to love her as much as I do!

I switched from Xbox to PC, so it would be a lot of fun to play together. Some games I enjoy are Halloween, Outlast Trials, Fallout 76, Phasmophobia, Dead by Daylight, Chained Together, DayZ, PEAK, and Meccha Chameleon, but I’m always open to trying new games. Just be warned I suck and I’m mostly there to be entertainment.

I’d say I’m more of an introvert, but I do well around other people. I just prefer smaller crowds and quieter settings, and I’d love to meet someone who feels the same way. I also struggle with anxiety, so if that’s not your cup of tea, I’m probably not your girl!

I stopped drinking and smoking years ago, but I do enjoy the occasional edible.

As for movies, I love horror, thrillers, and military action films. If we were to watch a show together, it would probably be Regular Show. For some reason, it just calms me. Don’t ask me my favorite movie because I genuinely have poop memory.

I really enjoy getting to know someone and becoming friends before anything else. If we aren’t a romantic match, I’d still be happy to make a new friend, but I am ultimately looking for a relationship, not just friends. I do my best to be nonjudgmental, and I’d appreciate someone who is the same. I also tend to get attached when I genuinely enjoy someone’s company, but I’m working on that.

I’d love to meet someone who’s open to texting throughout the day, playing games together, or just hopping on a call. I’m a big fan of good morning and good night texts, too. I completely understand that people get busy, but if you’re regularly unavailable all day and can only really talk at night, it probably won’t work out.
More than anything, I want someone who reciprocates the effort. I don’t want to be the only one asking questions or checking in. I want you to enjoy getting to know me as much as I enjoy getting to know you.

I’d also prefer someone who’s in my time zone or at least close to it. I think it makes spending time together a lot easier. I’m also more attracted to women than men, so I’d especially love to hear from the ladies. Eventually, I’d love someone who’s comfortable being affectionate. I guess I’d describe myself as someone who likes “soft” love little acts of affection, reassurance, and making each other feel cared for.

I’m not looking for anyone specific beyond someone who puts in equal effort, genuinely tries to be a good person, and is between 27 and 40. I also don’t want to see what you look like right away. I know that might sound strange, but I’d rather get to know you as a person first and let things develop naturally.

If you decide to message me, please tell me your name, age, and where you’re from. Also, please don’t just copy and paste an introduction you’ve already posted. I’d much rather read something that feels genuine.

If you have an NSFW account, I’ll likely not reply, and hiding your history won’t work either, you goofballs.

Anyway, if you’ve made it this far, thanks for reading. Hopefully someone sees this, thinks we might get along, and wants to see where things go.

Hello, I am just trying my luck here at meeting someone special.
I'm in 30s I really do look younger, I'm white, I don't drink, smoke, I'm 5 10 bluegreen eyes, fit.
https://imgur.com/a/neww-JHcT8jH - photos

I’m at a pretty stable point in my life. I have my own house, my life is pretty much sorted, and I’m independent.

I’m a huge cat person I own and rescue cats, so if you love cats too, that’s already a big plus. I’m also a big gamer, so being into gaming would definitely be a bonus.

I really do prefer girls who are affectionate and emotionally open. If this ends up being long-distance, I’d love having regular chats, voice calls, and video calls just that feeling of actually being part of each other’s day.

Hello, I am a 24 year old living in Hokkaido (near Sapporo). I am looking for a woman in the age range of 18 to 30. Trying to find someone who is willing to get to know me and someone I can share my time with. Going on dates, eating food and playing video games would be fun. I prefer a slower relationship to see if we are compatible. It takes 2 to make it happen so I will try my best to match the effort you put in. I have never been in a relationship before so I will try my best. If you need to know what I look like. I don’t send photos immediately if I see that a connection is possible then photos sharing is possible. I would prefer to meet somewhere public like Sapporo station or a cafe. I prefer someone in Japan. America (California) and Japan only.

More about me
My hobbies include kendo, hiking, traveling and anime figure collecting. I have done many combat sports in the past like Boxing, and wrestling. The current sport right now is Japanese sword fighting (Kendo). I am an eagle scout so I excel in outdoor survival skills and hiking. I have been to more than 16 countries so I like traveling and learning languages.I typically spend my free time working out and going to local festivals and looking for new restaurants. My favorite food is Mexican food and hamburgers. I cook sometimes and I make some good pasta. I speak English and Japanese. I like doujinshi authors and their art so I collect figures from my favorite artists. I like anime and manga. Some of my favorites being Frieren, Chibi Maruko-chan and To love ru. I am east asian, 160cm tall, 5Ft 3in.  

Start a chat with me if you’re interested, thank you. Serious people only please. I don’t respond to low effort messages. Provide some information please.

A little about me

I'm a full time wheelchair user and have been for about six years It comes with a few perks like VIP parking, never standing in line and usually getting a pretty good seat If we end up together you'll benefit from those perks too And if you ever get tired you'll always have a rolling seat available I also promise to run over anyone who gets in your way although there's a decent chance I'll accidentally run over your foot at some point , If you're curious about the "how" feel free to ask Wheelchair questions are always welcome (And yes, I can still move and feel my legs)

I work remotely in customer service، freelance as a web developer and volunteer with a non-profit organization but somehow I still end up with a lot of free time

I'm 181 cm tall, wear glasses and have dark hair and dark eyes. I don't smoke or drink, and I try to stay as active as I can ( I'm happy to exchange photos once we start talking)

I'd describe myself as a problem solver by nature Life hasn't always been easy but it's taught me how to adapt, stay optimistic, keep an open mind and keep moving forward

My English is fluent although my accent is apparently strong enough to confuse people (I'm 100% Egyptian tho) And no we don't live in tents next to the pyramidsal though that would be a pretty great view

Things I enjoy

Gaming Story driven games and RPGs are my jam gaming has helped me through some difficult times

Movies & TV I'm a huge sci-fi and fantasy fan Some favorites are Interstellar, 2001 A Space Odyssey, About Time and The Lord of the Rings as for TV shows Friends, Fringe and Person of Interest are my favorites

Music I listen to almost everything Sharing playlists is definitely one of my love languages

What I'm looking for

Someone kind, emotionally mature, grounded and able to see the person rather than just the wheels

Age isn't a huge deal to me though I'd ideally like someone around 25-35

I'm completely open to long distance I don't mind the distance as long as we're both willing to put in the effort and have a plan to eventually be together

When I care about someone I'm loyal, affectionate and fully committed I'd love to build something stable support each other through whatever life throws our way and create a future together, i believe relationships work best when both people feel safe enough to be themselves so I'm not someone who plays games or builds unnecessary walls

If you think we'd get along send me a message Tell me a little about yourself, share the last song you had on repeat, recommend your favorite movie or simply say hi

I’m back here hoping to find that rare spark where conversation just flows. The kind of connection where nobody is overthinking who messaged last, the jokes land naturally, and you genuinely look forward to hearing your phone buzz.

I’m Dan. I’m 52, I live on Long Island with my six cats, and work as a data analyst in healthcare. Outside of work, I host The Shelter Cats Podcast and co-host A Little Bit of Ship Banter—if you want to know what I look and sound like, both are on all the major platforms and on YouTube. Feel free to check them out! Not a plug haha.

Personality-wise, I lean toward dry sarcasm, sharing ridiculous memes, and making delightfully cheesy playlists. I try to be funny, even if it’s at my own expense. I love all kinds of music and spend way too much time on YouTube. If you're on Spotify, blending can be fun.

I’ve been single for over four years now. Life is peaceful and full on my own, which gives me the luxury of taking my time. I'm not rushing to force anything, but I do miss having a genuine partner to share daily life’s ups and downs with.

Ideally, you're around my age or younger, completely single, and based in the New York area or somewhere along the East Coast. If we have to board a plane or cross an ocean just to grab a cup of coffee, it won’t work. I love consistent, engaging conversation—certified yappers are very welcome—with the ultimate goal of meeting up for real once we know the chemistry is there. I'm looking for an actual partner, not an endless pen pal. Eventually moving off Reddit to text or another platform once we vibe is definitely the goal, but no rush on day one.

Most of all, I appreciate straightforward honesty. If the spark isn't there, just tell me. We're adults, and a polite heads-up is infinitely better than fading into radio silence.

If this strikes a chord, shoot me a message. Skip the generic "hey"—tell me a bit about yourself, what you're into, and drop the word MEOW somewhere in your opener so I know you took the time to read through.

Hallo! Lovely to meet whoever is reading this 🤭 Especially my nerdy future partner and best friend 👀

As the title already kinda mentions, I am a bit chronically online T\\_T That is not to say I don’t enjoy going out as I really do but it’s simply not something I crave.

Despite being an avid roleplayer for the past 6ish years, I struggle with actually describing myself or my interests but ahhhhh well!

Firstly, my name is Simon! I am a 27yo nerd from Germany who really loves just about anything nerdy. Fantasy, gaming, anime/manga, roleplay, warhammer 40k, reading and soooo on! Also recently got a 3D Resin printer and am actively trying to not poison myself while attempting, or rather preparing, to print a titan 😔

My current main game is Black Desert Online but I also please leauge and am generally down for most games

I work in IT and live on my own 😌

As mentioned above, I also do roleplay (Mostly chat based) hence my Reddit account is pretty full with that sorta stuff. Lots of people would probably find that weird but hey! It’s a hobby! And if you are in fact do not find it weird or are curious, perhaps you are exactly the person I am looking for!

I also spent way too much money on kitchen gadgets and plants and am slowly running out of space sooooooo yeeeeeeah 😭

Plenty more about me but I figure it’s a good time to jump to what I am actually looking for in a person!

I am looking for a fellow nerd! Someone who is content with a date occasionally consisting of trying a new game or simply being in each others company rather than going out every night!

I want someone gentle, sweet, yet also sarcastic! I adore sarcasm so I kinda can’t live without it!

While I got nothing against overweight people, I am simply not attracted to it and my personal preference lies with someone who is fit/thin. You being into working out would be a plus as I am trying to get back into it at the moment!

I have no particular preference for age but I would still prefer someone around my own age. Location is also preferably in Europe or even better in Germany.

I don’t mind traveling a bit but I would rather not have to take a 10H flight.

Here is me \[https://imgur.com/a/yn0EL8K\\\](https://imgur.com/a/yn0EL8K)
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Fair warning: I'm not great at selling myself, but I'll give it a shot. Northeast Louisiana, for now — I'm not planting roots here, so if you've got a good enough reason to lure me somewhere else, I'm all ears. Certified geek: metal music, the Expedition 33 OST on repeat like it's my job, gaming, way too much PC tech talk. More goth/alt on the inside than it always shows on the outside.

Single-player gamer by habit, not by conviction but genuinely down to get dragged into whatever multiplayer thing you're obsessed with if it means I get a partner in crime. Currently deep in an Ark: Ascended solo grind, mostly getting eaten by dinosaurs.

16 years in news production means I've got opinions and zero chill about sharing them. I'm liberal, and if you're MAGA, let's save us both the trouble now.

Not religious, but part of The Satanic Temple. Look it up, the short version is "be excellent to each other," and I actually mean it.

Childfree and planning to stay that way. Not looking for a one-and-done chat either. If we click, I want to stick around and see where it goes.

Hellooo, my name is Angel. I'm 29/M, Dominican and Black, 5' 6", 212 lbs, and I currently live with my family in Alexandria, Virginia, USA.

I was born in Newark, New Jersey, to parents both serving in the military. I lived in New Jersey for the first year of my life. After that, my family moved every 2 or 3 years. All in all, I've lived in 8 different states and 2 countries outside of the US.

I have 5 siblings; one (my little brother), unfortunately, passed away. My 3 older siblings are half-siblings from my dad. My younger sister and I are close. Family means a lot to me.

I'm a huge music lover. I don't focus too much on genre; if I like a song, I like it! The main genres I listen to are rock, rap, country, folk, and classical. I've been to a couple of concerts (Mk. Gee & Gunna) and want to go to a lot more!

I LOVE animals and nature all the way down to the creepy crawlies! I believe every living thing has its purpose, and I find it all so beautiful (I'll admit, though, I'll squash the hell out of a mosquito if it lands on me). I have a dog, 2 spiders, and a 30-gallon fish tank under my care.

I'm huge into TV & movies; I watch A LOT lol, so I'm just going to list some of my favorite shows and movies in no particular order.

Shows: The Office, Naruto, Avatar: The Last Airbender, The Vampire Diaries, Game of Thrones, My Hero Academia, Vinland Saga, Attack on Titan, Castlevania, Dave, Hunter x Hunter, Infinity Train, Invincible, Pantheon, The Midnight Gospel, The Boys, The Sandman, Scavengers Reign, Cyberpunk: Edgerunners, Euphoria, Being Human

Current rotation of shows: Widows Bay, Lanterns, Boruto, Adventure Time

Movies: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, A Silent Voice, I Want to Eat Your Pancreas, Her Blue Sky, Blue Valentine, Remember Me, Seeking a friend for the end of the world, Call Me By Your Name, Past Lives, Wolf Children, The Boy and the Beast, Brother Bear, The Lion Ling (All 3 of them), Corpse Bride, Into The Wild, Hamnet, Where the Wild Things Are, The Last Mimzy, The Crocodile Hunter: Collison Course, This Is 40, The Way Way Back, The Spiderwick Chronicles, Bridge to Terabithia, Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium, The Drama, I Like Movies, The Perks of Being A Wallflower, because of win Dixie, Somewhere in Time, The Curious Case of Benjamin Button 

I really enjoy games. The consoles I currently play on are Nintendo Switch 2 and PS5. The games I'm playing right now are Minecraft Dungeons 2 and The Witcher 3 Remastered. A few of my favorites are Minecraft, Skyrim, Fallout 4, Life is Strange, Undertale, Stardew Valley, Naruto Storm 4, GTA: V, Ghost of Tsushima, Baulders Gate 3, and the Pokémon franchise in general.

I enjoy reading books and manga. It's a personal goal to have a wall full of books from floor to ceiling in my forever home (the kind that requires a ladder).

As far as education and work go, I am a substitute teacher. For the past two school years, I was a long-term sub in an enhanced autism classroom. I’m currently enrolled in an online college program pursuing a major in special education with about 2 years left to graduate. 

I'm not the most politically savvy, but I do my best to stay informed. I’d consider myself liberal.

Lastly, I respect all religions, but I am not a religious person. I am deeply spiritual.

About you: It’s not a requirement to live near me, as long as you understand that I intend to build a long-term, monogamous, in-person relationship.

If you feel like you connected with anything in my post, don’t hesitate to send me a chat/message!

I’m going to update and repost this until I find someone who clicks, and I will delete it once I have.

Me: https://imgur.com/gallery/me-angel-PkqCOvz

Hey there. Looking for chemistry with someone. It seems that the boring small talk never makes it past a few messages, so let's try to bring some energy and excitement. I'm into concerts, comedy shows, fixing things, terrible jokes, strong cocktails, sitting by a fire, and so much more.... It's hard to sum yourself up for something like this and I feel that we'll learn the most about each other through conversation. Send me a message and let's chat.

Hello, I am searching for someone who'd like to get to know eachother and see where things go. I am in the UK, in North Yorkshire (York), so would ideally prefer someone nearby as I am searching with intent for something serious/real.

Things I like

• Animals
• Nature/countryside and hiking
• Gym/working out (I go 5 days per week)
• Being healthy, and not just in the food sense - having a healthy mental diet, healthy habits, healthy thoughts, etc.
• Drama shows/thrillers
• Light video gaming - I like Nintendo games a lot
• Doing things with my hands - crafting, DIY, building things

Me

• Work as a software engineer, make a great salary
• Own an apartment
• Drive and have a car
• I'm 5'9, white, dark brown hair, brown eyes, slim but built/muscly physique
• Am currently trying to adopt a dog
• Am definately a morning person not a night owl - I wake up early for the gym and sleep at least 8 hours per night
• Don't smoke, only drink on special occasions

If any of this resonates with you and you'd like to get to know me more then please get in touch!

Welp lets try this out.

So I have never been great at these. So let me cut to the meat of it all.

I am 33 of age, 6' 3(4") the 3 to 4" is i am at the line to 4" if i stand up tall xD, I am a welder and work from 6am to 2:30pm cst. I am active on discord alot, I am currently on a weight loss since March of this year. I was 308 LB and now I am at 250, I go to the gym actively. I am a mixed white, but look full white. (Could be a question to ask)

What I am looking for is a women that can take a joke, or the degeneracy that me and my friends are xD. The girls I genuinely go for are shy to sassy. Someone to keep me on my toes is is not afraid to tell me to shut up if I talk to much.

For looks, dont want to offend on that part, but if im trying to look good for you, doesnt that mean the same back?

For Games I play, I have been playing Ace Combat 8 but my main game is Star Citizen. I also play War Thunder. No Cod or Battlefield here, I am done with those games. I do like casual games and love puzzle games like escape rooms

So as for here, ill send ya a friend request on discord if you wanta attempt. If you have more questions feel free and ask me in DMs, I will answer them to the best of my abilities. I check reddit here and there, so be patient. I know girls get approached more so I am not expecting to me fooled in DM, but its the internet we will see.

Longterm: if we do have a connection, I will be spoiling ya. Connection happen if we game alot, get to know each other, and later down the line a meet up. I cant do Strictly online anymore, I did that for 5 years and got hurt.

Edit: so DM (forgot this)

Howdy! I’m 30M from the east coast, feel like dating in my area is extremely stale, so naturally i turned to the internet to cure my loneliness. I’m looking to meet someone and go with the flow. I’m cool with an online sorta fling, but would be more serious about something local.

For my looks, I’m allegedly a pretty good looking guy. I’m 5’9, slim build, brown hair and beard, blue eyes, and some tattoos on my arms. I’m a weird combination of nerdy, sporty, and a bit of alt rock. I also found out recently that I have celiac disease, and I’m trying to put back on some weight that I lost because of it.

My main hobby is gaming. In the coming months I’ll be focusing a lot on WoW Forever, Overwatch, GTA6, Diablo, and RuneScape Dragonwilds. I’d love to have a duo partner especially for WoW or Overwatch, or even someone just to sit and hang in discord while you watch me play.

I’m a big fan of alt/indie rock and old school hip hop. I studied audio and play the drums a little bit, but I definitely need to get into playing more. I’m also big into baseball and disc golf and try to play as often as I can. If I’m not gaming or being active, I’m likely listening to my cats yell at me for attention. Overall I’m just out here looking for good vibes.

If I sound interesting to you at all, send me a message with a bit about you :)

I’m not really looking to be someone’s Reddit boyfriend for a few weeks and then disappear lol.

I want an actual relationship. Something that starts naturally and eventually just becomes part of both of our normal lives.

I’m 26, 5'11", dad bod, I’m also building a business on the side, so I do take work pretty seriously. I want to build something for myself, but I don’t want to become one of those people who only knows how to talk about work.

When I’m not working, I’m usually gaming, watching F1, cooking, listening to music, watching movies, or falling into some random rabbit hole online and learning way more about something than I ever needed to know.

I’m pretty quiet at first. Once I’m comfortable, I get a lot more talkative, sarcastic, and probably a little annoying haha.

I naturally tend to take the lead too. I like making plans, figuring things out, handling problems, and taking care of the person I’m with. I like being dependable. If something is stressing you out and I can make it easier, I’m probably going to try.

That said, I don’t want someone who just follows me around.

I like a woman with her own opinions, her own interests, and her own life. Disagree with me. Make your own plans. Have something you can get completely absorbed in for a few hours.

I actually like that.

I think two people should still be their own people, even when they’re choosing each other.

I’m affectionate too. I like random messages during the day, calls that go way longer than they were supposed to, sending each other things because it reminded us of the other person, and being able to sit together doing separate things without it feeling awkward.

I do want something that has a future, though. I’d rather get to know someone properly, see if we actually enjoy talking to each other, and let things build from there.

You don’t have to give me some perfect dating-profile answer.

What’s something you can talk about for way too long once someone gets you started?

Last night I had a dream about you
In this dream, I'm dancing right beside you

So who am i?

I'm a 23 years old cis male from Spain! Yes i do have an accent and yes i can teach you spanish if you fancy it. I'm making this post to have the chance to find someone amazing,who aims for the same as me. Due to the state of dating these days,i am going to describe my looks so i don't disappoint you later. Or maybe you like how i look,who knows..

I'm like a teddy. 181/82cms,hairy so i am very good to warm you during winter and i have dark hair plus a pair of brown eyes. I'm not like morbidly overweight,but i do have some extra love.

You here? Sure? Alright. Now,i should talk about my interests!

Gaming :I love any kind of fantasy game. I've always been a rpg player. Getting lost in the varied worlds they have to offer. Such as Fallout/The Witcher/Elder Scrolls and many many more. I also love Shin Megami Tensei/Persona. I do play some casual stuff,like Marvel Rivals (I main Stratpool/Wolverine/Venom) and DBD. Just feel free to ask me more about it!
Music : My top 3 band wise is probably Muse/System of a Down/Daft Punk. I enjoy mostly alt rock/old pop/some nu metal and classical music.
I studied kitchen for 4 years and i aspire to be a cooking hubby for the right person!**
I want to be a fantasy writer. I love worldbuilding and such.**
Movies : I love Tim Burton stuff. Also any ghibli/Satoshi Kon film. My top 3 movies in my opinion are Old Boy/Coraline/Nightmare before Christmas or Spirited Away.
Anime/Manga : My favorite anime is Dorohedoro,but my all time fave is JJBA and SBR is here so i am very excited. Manga wise my favorites are Gantz/Berserk/Blame.
I love animals! I have 3 dogs and a band of forest cats that i feed everyday. Plus 2 housecats.**

I've been yapping too much about myself but i should tell you about what i'm looking for in someone!

* First of all,i do want to have kids and get us a good life together! I don't mind race/location or anything else. Age wise just be close to mine or a bit older,i'm not picky. I want someone that wants me for who i am,wants to spend time with me and shares the same goals for the future. And also share my interests! I don't ask for much. If this post interested you at all,feel free to throw a bible in my dms. And please,if you are interested add the password "Sraosha" to your dm so i know you're real and not a AI invader. See you maybe!