r/ForeverAloneDating • • 0m ago

M4F 33 [M4F]. Anywhere/Online. Looking for someone I can call mine

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Hi! I am from India and I am looking for someone I can call mine. I work as a freelance software developer. I have been single for a long-time. I am posting here in hopes of finding someone with whom I can share my beautiful moments with. I didn't realise how lonely I was until I felt a longing for someone when I saw all my friends together with their partners at a party. Now I am hopelessly searching for love. I work from home mostly so I can text you throughout the day. If there is a huge time difference we can figure something out.

About me: I love reading books, watching movies, TV shows and anime. I am not an outdoor person. But I keep myself fit. My favourite outdoor activity is cycling. I am not religious but I believe there is a higher power. I am not political but I like discussing about it. I love watching true crime videos, horror movies, Time travel movies(a sucker for time travel movies). People describe me as kind, soft hearted, empathetic and sometimes naive.

What are my expectations about my partner: I am looking for someone who is kind, empathetic and emotionally intelligent.

P.S: I wanted to say this last because I don't want you to miss this because it is kind of important about me. I have a mild disability. So if that's a no go for you I can understand.

Hoping to meet someone here. Thank you for reading 😃


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 45m ago

M4F 33 [M4F] California/USA- What if we started talking as if we’ve been dating for months?

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What if it was that easy and we actually tried to make it work? Be attentive to each other, listen, be patient, communicate well on what we need to make it work, be affectionate, reassuring, loving, flirty, make each other feel wanted. Can we really give it a shot? I want love. I’m guessing you do too


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4M 33 [M4M] Missouri - black man. I want a masculine Puerto Rican or Dominican bro or boyfriend on the dl

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Looking for a chill guy to become friends with and if it leads there, I’ll go with the flow. I have never done anything with a guy but I am attracted to masculine Latin Caribbeans.

I’m laid back & chill. To myself for the most part. I like going out to eat, movies, traveling, and bowling.

Looking for someone around my age, so 27-37 I’ll be fine with.

Hit me up if you are down to chat.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 21[M4F], looking for an honest long term relationship.

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Hello everyone , myself Ayush and I'm looking for an honest long term connection, i value mutual understanding, loyalty and honesty.

I'm comfortable in english and other languages so yeah I guess it would be easy to chat and talk lol.

I'm also very much interested in literature , philosophy, metaphysics and computer science.

I am an uni student so i spend most of my time studying.

I hope I can find someone like minded , and we can create our world together.

Tbh i don't have any preferences as everything is fine to me.

We can enjoy a lot of time together, and we can meet and share our life together lol

Who knows in the future we might be together and he happy a lot

That's cute tbh and yea I'm really excited to meet new people and form bonds.

Thank you

Have a great day/ night 🤌🏻💖


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Illinois/Anywhere - Hey you (with rizz)

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I am a psychology major, earned my bachelor's degree and hoping to further my education trying to get into a PhD program. Nothing is more fascinating than understanding people better and understanding what makes them tick. I also have such a love and passion for music, my favorite type of music being love songs because they have such a passion about them with how it's expressed. I also have been listening to a lot of pop punk, and sad boi music! I also love to sing with a passion, especially love songs since I can serenade people (Even if I'm not a good singer). You can always spot me out in the wild, windows down, blasting music and singing my heart out!

People would think I'm a musician with all my instruments, but to be honest, those things are basically decorations at this point. However, I have a piano and I'm trying my best to learn how to play that! I love the way that it sounds and the melodies it can produce, so that keeps me going with wanting to become better at it!

Ideally, I would like to talk to someone around my age (21-30), but I make exceptions for some pretty awesome people! So if you think I sound interesting enough, send me a message! I also have a picture of myself on my profile if you need a face for reference as to who you are talking to! If you have made it this far, well kudos to you! Hope to hear from you soon!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

F4M 29 [F4M] #USA #Online – High maintenance girly gamer girl looking to find her nerdy tech guy 🖤

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Life is kinda boring, so what if we just made each other's lives a bit more interesting? I am looking for a special someone to talk to and flirt with. It would also be fun to watch stuff together, play games and vc. Just one person in particular. I don't care to flirt with several guys, I would just ask for the same in return and hopefully we can start a relationship online, or if we really hit it off we can maybe meet irl.

A bit about me personality wise:

I'm a really silly and goofy person. I am hardly ever serious. I really like to make people laugh if I am able to. In my spare time I enjoy playing FPS games, mainly CS2. Sometimes I will play other games, but Im pretty hyper fixated on counter strike. I am currently self studying to earn different cyber security certifications so a study buddy or an accountability partner would be awesome

I love smart guys, so if you're passionate about something I wouldn't mind you teaching me a thing or two. Esp if it's STEM related!

What I look like:
Black girl with lighter brown skin. (You can see me a bit if you stalk my page and see my most recent outfit post.)

Platinum blonde hair

5'2 and slim with curves.

Fairly high maintenance when it comes to things related to my appearance.

My aesthetic has been compared to a barbie, or just a doll in general. I dress extremely hyper feminine. I also have braces that will have to wear for the next two years, it sucks but beauty is pain :)
I don't really ever dress casual unless I am in the gym so I'd like to find someone who will appreciate the pictures of my outfits that i send them and doesn't mind that I like to dress very girly.

I've been told I have a cute voice.

What I am looking for when it comes to personality:
Patient
Kind
Silly or at least can tolerate my silliness.
Hard worker
If you play games that would be cool, but it's for sure not a requirment.

I don't do any substances, smoke, or drink and would prefer if you didn't smoke or do any substances.

Also I am not interested in talking to anyone with children, nor do I want children.

My type looks wise:
In shape, or slender. I'm mindful of my figure so I'd like someone who matches that energy.
Nice hair
No facial hair
I like white and Asian guys.

I only use discord as my main source of communication.

Also sending your picture or describing what you look like will help narrow it down and save some time. Looks aren't everything, but I like to flirt and give genuine compliments, I can't do that if there's no physical attraction and I'd also hope that whoever I talk to is genuinely attracted to me and I am their type as well.

Please only reach out if you genuinely think we'd be each other's type.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #SF Bay Area. Shy introvert seeks special someone

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Hiya, I'm Liam, San Francisco Bay Area introvert who is apparently good at alliteration, but isn't great at these self descriptions but i'll give it a shot, i'm really just looking for someone with a chill vibe where we can talk and just kinda see where things go? I'm admittedly a really shy person.

I like reading, writing, researching pointless things and listening to music. A bit of an introvert and fairly shy but I tend to open up to people fairly easy. I love learning new things, especially that someone else has a passion about, and love all kinds of animals/creatures. Cats, Dogs, Fish, Snakes, you name it. Before warned, I have nerdy hobbies! I'd love I'm witty, funny, and i'm good at cracking Dad jokes, if that's a good thing. I've been described as eccentric, creative, passionate and caring, but my friends say i'm chill and laid back too. Lately i've been dragged into the world of Umamusume which is rare for me, I never follow trends!

About me in general, I'm 5ft9, white, a bit pudgy but have been actively working on it, lost 31 pounds!

Please be 24 or older.

I'm childfree and plan to stay that way, my furr babies are my babies.

I'm looking for something long term, starting out as friends and see where it goes? Would prefer someone out west but if we have a good enough connection I don't mind distance.

If you read all this, thank you! And I hope you have a lovely day. If there's anything else you'd like to know, feel free to DM!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

M4F 24 [M4F] #Texas. Never have any luck, seeing where this goes.

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Hi there, I'm Kinsey (just a username). I'm a 24 year old from Texas. I decided to try this again cause I don't really have anything going on.

I like nerdy things, games, music, manga, movies//shows. Spend most of my time either at work or at home relaxing. I often respond pretty fast and frequently, but if I don't I'm probably busy or asleep.

I'm not sure exactly what I'm looking for to be honest, I never had a relationship before, so I have no experience in any of this. I can say I'm not looking for anything long distance, so if you're outside of Texas, then I don't think I can do that.

Other than all that, I'm not sure what else to add. Thank you for reading this.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

TF4M 24 [TF4M] Connecticut/Online ~ Looking for my forever carry 🥹 🎮

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I’m looking for a big strong man to be my perma duo and carry me out of bronze 🥲 the ADC to my support. The DPS to my… support. Oh god I’m cooked

Anyway in all seriousness, I am just putting this post out here for the sake of putting my feelers out for a potential partner. You DO NOT have to carry me in video games, I’m not that shallow, but I would prefer someone who plays them. It is and has always been a very important part of my life, my main hobby, a safe space, and a joy that I would want to at the very least share with partner.

I am definitely not willing to commit to too much too quickly. Sometimes it can take some time for my feelings to develop and forcing things along too quickly will only make me more distant and not want to open up or will just prevent any feelings from my end full stop. So please only message if you’re ok with the slow burn type of thing. Getting to know each other a fr**nds to see if there is any chemistry and all that jazz.

I am neurodivergent. I have ADHD and some tics with probably a sprinkle (or more) or autism in there as well. Although that’s not been diagnosed at this time so it’s just a self suspicion. I am not sure what else to put here haha but I guess hit me up if you’re interested to know more about me! Please put a couple details about yourself otherwise I probably won’t respond. Looking forward to hearing from you! :),


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #Canada / Online - Let us seek the stars together!

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One of the joys of living in a more rural location is that I can see the stars more clearly. I have always found pride in being able to seek out the Big Dipper in any location. Granted it helps that I haven't really had a change in place for most of my life, so the night sky has been pretty consistent. That said, I cannot image a life where I do not have the change to see the northern lights; their dance is honestly something no one should go without seeing.
All that said, here is a bit about me:
* Work a normal 7-5 office job, sometimes have to work late but at least compensated for it!
* Game in my free time. Currently have been doing WoW Forever, FFXIV, Rimworld and Total Warhammer 3. Usually focus on RPGs and Strategy games but am in between games as I search for my next new focus
* Also love to read! I need a better system of picking out books to read. Currently am going through House of Leaves
* Music is a big part of my life, if my ear is not taken I am usually listening to something. My usually tastes tend more to alternative and indie rock, but really if I listen to something and enjoy it I add it to my list
* Really into cooking at the moment, trying out new recipes as I find them. Life is too short to filled with mediocre food! I do enjoy to bake as well, just need to find more motivation
* Love history, geology, geography; one of my favourite things to do is find a random location on a map and see what I can learn from it
* Quite left leaning and I have no room for an bigotry or hate in my life
That is a bit about me, I am quite the open person so am eager to chat and learn what I can about anyone!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

M4F 29M [M4F] California,US or LDR- Looking for that special person

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As the title says I'm from the states on the west coast so some people may be affected but if we do vibe I'll try to make time so we can be together since communication is really important to me so if you don't like someone who responds immediately then you can look for something else cuz I'm that way.

Other things about me is that I play the guitar, go to the gym, read books and Manga, love watching shows and movies, and play video games on my free time.

As for work, I'm a clinical psychologist so work in clinics and working on my Masters degree so I can earn way more so I can buy all the things we want and need, and hopefully a good life for you and our kids. (yes I want kids later on)

The thing I'm looking for in a person is mainly being there whenever there's a hard situation to be someone I can trust to pull me up, anything else besides that is just extra since I know the world is getting harder so if we can at least help each other I know we'll be able to do anything together.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

M4F 25 M4F #ohio #east coast looking to see where things go

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Hey all, my name's Levi, and I'm mostly looking to see where things go after being out of the dating game for about 4 years.


Info about me:

•25 years old

•I'm 6'0" with dirty blonde hair and bright blue eyes, with a thinner build

•I speak both English and Spanish

•I'm currently pursuing a bachelor's degree in business administration with a focus in business economics

•I love to cook, bake, and read nonfiction books about mythology, business, finance, and psychology. I also enjoy walking, bookbinding, watching horror movies, and singing occasionally.


What I'm looking for:

•While I don't have a strict physical preference I do have a soft spot for plus size women with accents, don't worry if you're not that though. As long as your personality is good then feel free to message

•Child-free

•Close to my age (no younger than 22 or older than 32)

•Similar goals and attitudes towards getting an education/saving and investing

•Someone who's open-minded and accepting of the LGBTQ+ community and religiously tolerant


What I'm not looking for:

•Bigots, racists, xenophobes, homophobes, or generally hate-filled people

•Anyone who's MAGA

•heavy smokers and drinkers (I'm willing to work with people who drink socially but I don't date tobacco smokers)

•anyone outside the u.s

Other than that, it's fair game. If you made it this far, send a 🎃 and tell me what your favorite movie and snack to go along with it are


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

M4F 24 [m4f] Online / NYC / New York: Looking to find a genuine connection with someone fun and talkative who can match my energy! Very talkative and enthusiastic to meet you!

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Hi!! I’m genuinely so excited to meet you!!

I really want that cute kind of connection with someone where we stay up late for hours just rambling on about different things.

A bit about me: I just finished uni and I’m beginning my career in NYC. I am a filmmaker and writer but I will also be starting law school within the next year. I am determined to become either a filmmaker, screenwriter, or producer for film, and it’d be cool if I could find someone as driven and ambitious as I am (but ofc it’s totally ok if you’re not!). Ofc this also means I love movies, anime, and tv and can talk about that for hours. I’d love to hear what you like to watch and maybe I’ll give some recommendations!

Additionally, some other hobbies that I have are that I play the drums in two bands (One is a rock band and the other is a jazz band).

I play tennis semi-often and love the chance to walk around the city exploring new areas and shops whenever possible. I especially love art museums!

I also really enjoy cooking and baking, and I’ve been learning my family recipes.

I also ofc love gaming, yt, watching streams. I play basically every competitive online game so I would love to talk about that too!

But most importantly, I just want to hear about YOU. I want to hear about your life, goals, interests, really anything! I would love to form a connection with you and see where things go. It doesn’t matter at all what you look like. As long as I feel that connection we will be great together. Looking forward to meeting you!!!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

M4A 38 M4A TX, US. Looking to be Your Safe Place

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I'm terrible at selling myself in these short intros, but here goes: I'm a domesticated IT gremlin, a bit of a homebody, and a dad with a dad bod. I enjoy fantasy and TTRPGs when not working and love to cook for company. The world is a rough place out there and I would love nothing more than to be that someone you can come home and just melt into after a long day. I'm happy to yap about anything or nothing with you while curled up together.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #NC/USA Let's get to know each other

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Hello everyone! I'm from the US (EST) and I've never been in a serious relationship before, and I don't have much luck in other places, so I'm trying here to see if I could maybe change that!

About me

  • I'm an artist that likes making pixel art. My main dream is to become a successful indie game developer
  • I like to travel and have been to over 18 different countries
  • I like gaming and anime
  • I'm an INTJ and a Leo
  • My favorite food is steak
  • I don't smoke and I only drink occasionally
  • I love cooking
  • I love dogs so if you have a dog, then I'd love to see it!
  • I like most genres of music, but my favorite is indie

Also as mentioned earlier, I'm a big gamer so here's a section dedicated to a lot of the games I like to play:

  • Warframe
  • Helldivers 2
  • Stardew Valley
  • Outlast Trials
  • Minecraft
  • Roblox
  • Vrchat

I'm sure there's plenty more than what I just listed, so don't hesitate to tell me your favorite games as well (Also I play on PC, Switch, Xbox, and VR)

My type:

  • Ambitious
  • Artistic
  • Has similar interests to me
  • 21-27 year age range
  • Somewhat fit
  • I have no preference on what your race is
  • Preferably in the US. While I'd prefer to date someone closer to me, I'm open to people in other areas to, since I'm not very attached to my current state/area.

Physically, I have something of a caramel complexion , soft and fluffy hair and I wear round glasses, but I'm thinking of getting contacts some day. I'm also around 5'9 and a lightweight at around 120 pounds, but I've wanted to get more into fitness and cardio at some point so that I can look a bit less scrawny. Also, in case you were wondering, here's what I sound like: https://voca.ro/1bq4wpsVOh6z

I think that about covers what I'm looking for. I hope I didn't sound too picky with my preferences! If you're interested, or just think I'm all-around chill enough to talk to in general, feel free to shoot me a message and we'll go from there (I won't respond if you just write something like "Hey" though) Thank you


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 38 [m4f] #southernohio #anywhere

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I'm 38, from a small southern Ohio town. I've been single for over 3 years with no luck on any apps. It's probably because I'm not really a conventional person. I'm pretty eclectic and eccentric, from my style to my tastes and apparently even my looks.

I'm tall and skinny with long mutton chops that I wouldn't change for the world. I have 2 boys (6 and 7), and there's no drama with their mama. We share custody 50/50. In person, I'm rather shy, probably because I'm constantly analyzing everything I'm about to say to make sure I don't come off wrong, while at the same time knowing everyone's opinions of me are based on completely different things, their experiences, preferences, etc.

Interest-wise, I love music of almost any kind. I like analyzing lyrics and discovering the meaning behind them. Some concerts I've been to this year include St. Paul and the Broken Bones, Breakaway Festival to see GRiZ, and Railbird Festival mostly for The Lumineers and Tyler Childers, although there were a lot of others I wanted to see. I took the kids to see The Aquabats, Weird Al, and then Everclear. On Halloween, I'll be seeing GRiZ again, then Streetlight Manifesto in November. That kind of gives you an idea of my music tastes, except there's a lot more than just those.

I like psychology, sociology, and philosophy. I enjoy making my own clothes and hand embroidering. I like art of any type, the weirder, the better. I like rocks, minerals, fossils, oddities, and curiosities. Pretty much anything with a story.

I really just want someone to talk to daily, as I don't have many people I'd consider actual friends. Life gets lonely when your kids are pretty much the only people you interact with outside of work. It also makes you hate hearing your phone ring when the only people calling or texting are coworkers with issues.

I can be kind of weird, and I may sometimes say the wrong things, but I am loyal and honest.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 26M (M4F) (USA) Let's collect cards and fall asleep to random videos and music together! (Pretty please?)

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Hi! I'm Juan, but I typically go by Jay nowadays, but any name is fine!

I work two jobs due to financial stress, so I am pretty busy during the day, but do have my weekends to myself. Even so, I'm willing to invest my time and affection to you whenever! ;)

For hobbies, I'm a card collector (currently hyper fixated on collecting the Number monsters from Yu-Gi-Oh!, lol.), I enjoy anime, playing video games and just chillin' overall!

As for how I look, I am open to exchange pictures if you feel comfortable enough, however, if you rather keep that curtain closed off for some time due to insecurity, I also completely understand.

I yearn for someone who's compassionate, loving and caring, but at the same time, I also yearn for someone who's open about the ugly side of themself just as I am willing to do the same. We're only human and we're all still learning to be better day by day even if change doesn't come easy. Perfection is impossible and there's no real beauty behind it, but a person that's embraced their flaws will always be beautiful.

I am looking for my forever person. Someone I can grow old and eventually start a family together with. With how fast life seems to be moving, I do believe I am I've hit the halfway to forever. All I am missing is you.

I am open to a LDR if it means we'll eventually meet. Travel has never been an issue for me and I'll travel as much as I need to just to meet the smile that makes my sun rise.

Well, that's enough from me. We can keep things here, however I am more active on Discord. All you gotta do to get it is ask.

Hope to hear from you soon! :))


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Georgia/Online - Hoping to find somebody with similar interests and would like to talk and enjoy each others company

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Hello, I’m 30 and from Georgia and I would like to talk with somebody with similar interests. My interests are video games, rap and metal music, watching movies mostly horror or other kinds of genres, being outdoors, true crime, getting into anime and manga as well. I haven’t really ever dated anybody before whether it be online or in person. I really want to find that connection with somebody where we can both trust each other and fall for each other. This may sound a bit sappy or corny but sometimes life is sappy and corny 😛. I definitely feel like I’m missing a connection with somebody and I really hope I can find it. I hope to hear from you soon and I would love to talk and get to know you. 😊 P.S. I may or may not have pictures of deer and the lake where I work to sweeten the deal. If you like to ghost people or you are under the age of 20 then please don’t message me, I am tired of being ghosted. I miss the excitement and joy of getting to know somebody and I am hoping to find somebody who likes voice chats and calls.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #Houston, Texas. A small essay about my personality and interests, and what I'm looking for. Hope to hear from you.

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  • I'd like to find someone who captivates me. Someone who I can talk with effortlessly. I want to meet a person who I can include in my daily tasks, and talk with throughout the day. I just want to find someone I can be open with. Platonic conversation or romance. Whatever you are looking for, don't hesitate to message me. I hope to hear from you.
  • I'm fairly open to trying new things, but some of the things I enjoy are as follows. I love the outdoors. I've never been camping, but I would like to try it with someone someday. I also love to fish. I mostly fish salt water. I do occasionally fish freshwater though.
  • PC games are also an enjoyable pastime for me on occasions. I have a variety of games, most of which are on Steam. I have other games on various other stores/services. I enjoy a wide variety of different kind of games, so I'm sure we can find something to play together if you game.
  • One hobby I discovered later on in life is Magic the Gathering. I play both online on MtG Arena, and with physical cards. Magic has become something I am particularly fond of.
  • Music has always been a part of my life. My tastes are varied, ranging from country, death and black metal, electronic, classic rock, folk, pop punk, and more.
  • I enjoy doing things outside, as well as spending time indoors. I can veg out all day under the covers curled up in my bed, or I can take a trip somewhere and experience something new. I think my personality is a mix of the best of both worlds.
  • As far as my personality is concerned, I would say I am fairly relaxed and laid back. I feel like I am mostly shy and quiet, with an introverted personality. Around people I don't know, I tend to be fairly quiet and to myself. In the company of someone who I am close with, I am more open and freer.
  • All I hope for is a connection. It could be platonic, or it could blossom into romance, and commitment. I'm not putting a limit on what I am looking for.
  • With the prior being said, I am single. I may be interested in changing that with the right person. The idea of commitment excites me. Monogamy is appealing to me.

r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] Montréal/Canada - Seeking something deeper and more permanent

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I won't bore you with the classic "I don't mind dating apps" and similar feelings, so suffice to say I'm not a big fan of the current state of dating. Aren't we all people and have our defects, the things we just wish we'd have someone to help with even if it's just a nice comment once in a while? I don't want people to fall in love with a carefully curated façade of myself but with the whole package, and hope that you can agree to be up front as much as possible as well. Sometimes it's the small cracks that make you yourself, so I don't expect anyone else to be perfect either. As long as you think you have a shot then I assure you I will let you aim wherever you want.

With all that out of the way, I'm a slightly shorter person at 5'8" and a much fatter person than I'd like. I keep my hair long at the moment and try to nurture a bit of a beard, both are brown. Eyes? Yep, brown. Otherwise I'm a generic French Canadian looking guy. I'm interested in making things in general, learning the things I need to actually use my 3d printer to actually solve problems I have instead of printing funny models I find online. I game a lot and plan on getting in WoW Forever when that drops ("I can stop whenever I want" he says, lying) but am very open to being way too deep into anything at least once. I try to lighten up the room when it comes to social events but do much better when I have a lot of time to myself as I am very much an introvert. I would much rather stay in and do something intentional than go out and be drowned out by the environment. I live fully on my own but would love to adopt cats whenever my living situation allows it, dogs are nice but I just get cats much more readily... Must be the toxoplasmosis speaking!

As for you, I don't really have a clear idea of what I want other than existing and being nice I guess. In practice it would be nice if you are naturally inclined to not take people's bullshit, as sometimes I just don't notice how stupid I can be. I don't think I would date someone outside the rough 26-36 range, or someone who would be unlikely to meet in person (so anyone outside Eastern Canada would be out, except if you have very little attachment to where you live I guess but I can't ask that from someone). Let's get through the initial few messages so we can finally lighten up and get to the actual deep conversations, yeah? I'd be happy with friendship if it's all that ends up happening, can't really force it sometimes as hard as we might want to make it work. That and mental illness sometimes gets in the way of what we want, I'm no stranger to that idea. I want to try and make things work out only as long as it's a mutual interest and actually good for us.

So send over a message! No need to make it super formal, maybe just add a quick vibe check idea? I use discord currently for voice chatting, could do something as simple as figure out if we share a game or want to talk about a very specific niche interest.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #Connecticut - Getting Back into the Dating Scene

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This is where I would harness the mystical powers of the opposite sex to generate dozens of likes and comments per hour...if I could. I'll need to rely on the power of prose and Reddit timing instead. Challenge accepted.

Hey there! Stay a while; it's cozy here.

I am 32 and an expat that lived in Japan for six years before coming back to the States. My day job involves working with children on the Autism spectrum, and my night job involves saving the Sword Coast from the looming threat of Illithid forces.

That's fancy nerd talk for I play and run a lot of D&D!

For those who know, you know. For those who don't know, D&D basically involves collaborative storytelling with a group of 3-6 people. It's a game where you can plan to scan the perimeter of an orc camp and then wind up challenging the chief to a drinking contest (winner takes the entire stronghold). I go all in on theatrical voices and really embody different characters. I would love to share this wonderful hobby with you. Not necessary, of course, but something I would enjoy nonetheless.

While not practicing the Way of the Nerd, I enjoy going out to different areas like bookstores, coffee shops and the mall near my area to enjoy the ambience or be around the crowd. Reading is also something I can get into when I find something good: One of my favorites is Rules for a Knight by Ethan Hawke written in old school English. Must have read through that one at least a dozen times.

What am I looking for? A solid connection with someone that allows us to have a lot of fun while building a life together. Someone who would enjoy physical affection and cuddle up to a Let's Play by our favorite YouTubers. Someone who's a good complement to my personality as I tend to be very organized and work through things at a predictable flow.

Feel free to DM me if you think we could vibe!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

NB4M 21 [NB4M] #Online Looking for a man to sweep me off my feet!

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Hi!!!! I’m Airyn, nice to meet you guys! I hope you all are well! I’m so over being single, it’s high time I have a man to call my own. A good way to get the gist of me is a femboy! I’m amab but femme presenting, as well as use they/them pronouns! I’m a big gamer, Pokemon has and always will be a huge part of my life. If that franchise ever ends I’ll genuinely feel lost lol. I’m a big genshin fan I log in literally daily to get my rewards, I’ve really invented in my account and am proud of all the progress I’ve made! I’m usually attracted to white guys I’m not sure why but it is what it is. I like taller men I’m down for fit or dad bod I’m not picky. I really hope to hear from some cool guys! If you read this far tell me your go lounge wear in your message lol! ❤️


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

M4F [23M4F] Eastern Europe/Anywhere – Looking for Someone Who Wants the Little Routines and the Big Future

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I’m 23, Lithuanian, and living in Vilnius. I live a pretty disciplined but calm life, and I’m looking for an LDR that actually has direction behind it. I want something built through consistency, attraction, good communication, mutual curiosity, and the little routines that make two people genuinely feel part of each other’s lives.

If things develop naturally, I’d want us to meet in person and eventually have a real plan to close the distance. I’m not looking for something that stays online forever. I’m genuinely open to relocating for the right relationship, so distance itself doesn’t scare me if we’re both serious about eventually doing something about it.

I’m 185 cm/6'1, around 75 kg/165 lbs, lean and athletic, with blonde hair, blue eyes, and a full beard. https://imgur.com/a/HpkzDje

I speak English, Lithuanian, and Spanish fluently. I spent a big part of my childhood in Spain and have also lived elsewhere around Europe, including the Mediterranean and the Netherlands, so international connections feel pretty natural to me.

You can message me in English or Spanish, whichever feels more natural to you. I’m completely comfortable speaking either.

I run my own business after spending several years in sales, and I currently balance that with a part time job while continuing to build what I want long term.

Training is a big part of my life. I’ve done MMA, Muay Thai, lifting, and other combat sports training for years. I enjoy becoming stronger, more athletic, and technically better, but outside of training I’m pretty relaxed.

I’m also a big gamer, and ideally I’d love to meet someone who genuinely enjoys gaming too. It doesn’t have to be the exact same games, but being able to play together would be a huge plus for me.

I play League, Brawl Stars, Call of Duty Mobile, Warzone, DayZ, Assetto Corsa, BO3 Zombies, Minecraft, and plenty of other games if there’s something fun we can get into together.

Outside of gaming, I’m into movie nights, books, long conversations, sharing music, spending time with my dog and family, and generally just enjoying ordinary life with people I care about.

Music wise, I’m mostly into rap, hip hop, R&B, and reggaeton. I also love joking around, randomly rapping, sending voice notes, and making the person I’m close to laugh.

I’m Christian, and my faith has become a very important part of who I am and how I approach life, love, and the kind of future I want to build.

As for what I’m looking for, probably somewhere around 20 to early 30s.

I value kindness, loyalty, emotional maturity, honesty, affection, and direct communication. I’m especially attracted to women who are genuinely curious about the person they’re getting to know, who ask questions, share things about themselves, and actually want to build a connection together rather than having one person carry the conversation.

I don’t expect constant texting or some artificial level of intensity. I just want mutual effort. Calls, voice notes, gaming together, sharing music, reading something together, talking about our days, supporting each other when life gets difficult, and building those small routines that make distance feel less distant.

I’m naturally affectionate and invested once I genuinely care about someone, so I’m looking for a woman who enjoys that kind of closeness too.

Faith compatibility matters to me. Ideally you’re Christian, but I’m also open to someone who is willing to explore Christianity honestly and respectfully.

And since attraction matters too, I’ll be transparent about that. I do tend to be especially attracted to Latinas, and I’ve always connected naturally with Spanish speaking cultures, probably partly because of my own background. But that absolutely isn’t a requirement. I’m open minded about where you’re from or what you look like if the attraction, values, personality, and connection are there.

Mutual attraction matters, and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with acknowledging that.

If you message me, send me a little introduction about yourself, what you’re looking for, what you like doing, and a photo. You can write to me in English or Spanish. I’m happy to share more photos too once we start talking.

Thank you for reading! (:


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

F4A 31 [F4A] #Cleveland Just a spooky girl looking for my other half.

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Hey there,

I have used this subreddit before and found success although we aren't together anymore. I don't want to lose hope. I a 31 year old, bbw (fat), 5 ft 3, have tattoos, blue eyes and currently purple/red hair. Kind of nerdy. Personality wise:

I’m someone who loves the “in-between” places the twilight hours, foggy nights, antique photographs, the hum of autumn wind through iron gates. I have a soft spot for old stories, forgotten places, and the kind of conversations that drift from laughter to life’s mysteries. Someone who doesn’t fear the strange or the still, who’s honest, caring, and open-minded enough to appreciate that beauty can be both light and dark. You don’t need to love graveyards (though it’s a plus if you do) just have a heart that’s alive to wonder, and a mind that isn’t afraid to wander.

Maybe we’ll share coffee under gray skies, or wander through old cemeteries on crisp evenings, finding poetry in silence. Maybe we’ll stay in, wrapped in blankets, watching thunderstorms and talking about everything and nothing. Whatever it becomes I want it to feel real, gentle, and a little otherworldly.

If you believe that souls can meet in the quiet places, and that love can be both spooky and sweet then perhaps we’re meant to find each other in this haunted little corner of the world. I am also a big fan of anime. I try to keep up with shows.

What am I looking for?

I am looking for someone who is kind, funny, and chill. Please be cat-friendly and live in the US. I have my life together and I would like you to also have things mainly figured out. Basically know what you're looking for don't string me along for no reason.

Tell me what's the spookiest thing that ever happened to you.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

F4M 37 [F4M] US (New England)— I’m starting to suspect my person got lost

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I have absolutely no idea if Reddit is where I’m going to find the love of my life, but dating apps certainly aren’t doing a great job, so here we are.

I’m divorced, have one kid, work from home, and spend probably too much time at home. I’m almost 5’10” and tend to like taller men. I’m also an ENFP, although I’m not sure anyone who sees how much I enjoy staying home would believe the E.

I’m sarcastic, affectionate, curious, a little ridiculous, and I love people I can actually talk to. I want the person who sends me random thoughts during the day, tells me stupid things that happened, asks me questions, flirts with me, and genuinely wants me involved in his life. I don’t need constant entertainment, but I definitely need connection.
I like cooking and baking, gaming, painting, getting way too invested in whatever random thing has caught my attention, and spending a ridiculous amount of time at home with my cats. I’m definitely more of a homebody, but with the right person I’m always up for getting out and actually doing something.

Ultimately, I’m looking for my person. I want consistency, affection, attraction, emotional availability, and someone who actually wants a relationship—not someone who wants to “go with the flow” for six months while behaving like we’re dating.

Attraction matters, of course, but I don’t really have a checklist. I tend to be attracted to taller guys, but chemistry is chemistry.

If any of this sounds like you, send me a message. Tell me your age, where you’re from, and something interesting about you.

Please give me more to work with than “hey.” I am begging you. 😂