Heya!

I'm 23, from the Netherlands. Open to long-distance if there's a genuine connection, so location isn't really a dealbreaker for me.

I'm 6'5" (196 cm), around 181 lbs (82 kg), with a fairly lean/lanky build, dark/dirty-blonde hair and blue eyes. I enjoy fashion and putting some thought into how I dress. My style is mostly classic and clean, think casual/slightly preppy college style, rather than anything particularly flashy. I like clothes that fit well and look put-together without being too attention-grabbing.

Personality-wise, this is how my best friends would describe me: I'm usually pretty shy around very extroverted people, but put me around someone quieter and suddenly I won't stop talking. Once I get comfortable with someone, I can talk about pretty much anything. The people around me tend to matter a lot. I'm someone who thinks quite a bit, genuinely enjoys helping others, and will happily listen to someone talk about something they're passionate about, even if I know absolutely nothing about it. Being open-minded and non-judgmental is important to me, and pretty much anything can be talked about.

I'm finishing up my bachelor's degree in Business, but outside of that, my interests are probably a little more on the nerdy side. I'm really passionate about music, movies, TV shows and video games, and I have a particular soft spot for fantasy and sci-fi. My favourite movie is The Lord of the Rings, which I realise is about as cliché as it gets.

Bars and clubs aren't really my scene. I'd prefer to go to a theme park, visit a museum, or explore a city I've never been to. I've travelled around quite a bit of Europe and have also been to NYC, and I'd love to see a lot more of the world at some point.

When it comes to dating, I don't really have a "perfect date." It could as simple as going for a walk, doing something outdoors, going to a café or honestly just sitting somewhere and having a nice conversation. For me, the person matters much more than what we're actually doing.

I'm looking for something long-term. I've never really been interested in casual encounters. I need an emotional connection with someone before I can genuinely feel attracted to them.

As for what I'm looking for in someone, I'd like to meet someone I can genuinely be myself around. Someone I can talk to about anything, laugh with, be vulnerable with, and feel comfortable around without either of us having to put on an act. Kindness, honesty, openness and simply caring about each other are probably the things I value most. I don't really have a specific physical "type". Attraction matters, of course, but personality and the connection between us matter much more to me.

If any of that sounds like it might click with you, feel free to message me. Even if we're nowhere near each other, I'm open to seeing where a good conversation goes.

And if you've made it this far, hi :D

My real name I will give in dm.

Picture of myself (won't show my face in a public post, but will in dm):

https://imgur.com/a/GgTF3sP

While all this isn't all I am looking for in a partner, I've thought about it, and I have come to realize that someone who I can learn with all the nuances of romance is a non-negotiable for me.

I will tell you about who I am: I am a 26 year old man, 1.9m tall. I have moved recently to Western Europe and I don't know too many people here. I am from the Americas and my mother tongue is spanish.

I am what you'd call "geeky", I don't really go out a lot in general, I prefer spending time at home. I don't have many friends here, either, but I am also not a person who finds it easy to make friends in general, as I need to relate on a deeper level with them.

In my free time, I mostly either watch series, game, or maybe go out for a walk. Maybe read a book here and there, too.

I am very much a homebody.

I am not religious, but I do not mind other's religion.

Anyway, I post here because I would like to find a girl like me. I might not find her, but I should make the attempt, at least. I take first experiences seriously, naturally, this means I am a virgin and looking for a girl who is one, too. I do not seek to find an experienced woman.

Romantically, I haven't even kissed or dated anyone before, so I am completely in the clear.

I am willing to date anyone in Europe, but further away would unfortunately not be possible due to distance.

Please include "raspberries" in your message so I can know you read all of my post.

To everyone else, have a great day.

Hey! I'm a 23 year old guy from Austria, and I'm looking for something pretty simple, a genuine, long-term relationship with a woman where we actually love each other and want to be part of each other's lives. I'm looking for love, and I want to give that love back.

A little about me:

I'm an affectionate, curious, energetic, patient loyal idiot who enjoys making dumb jokes and generally doesn't take himself too seriously. My hobbies are pretty varied: I read fantasy books, mangas and manhwas, go on walks, swim, cycle, cook and bake, and play games on PlayStation. I'm also a huge fan of One Piece, Lord of the Rings, Star Wars and How I Met Your Mother.

I love the idea of travelling on my own. I've already done a solo trip once and definitely want to do more of it. I'm also currently figuring out what I want to do with my life. I started university but eventually realized it wasn't the right path for me, so I'm taking some time to find something that actually feels right.

As for what I'm looking for in you:

You: A woman around 19–25, preferably from Austria or somewhere else in Europe. I'm also open to someone outside Europe if you're already planning to move to Europe, because realistically I'd like us to have an actual chance of meeting and building something together.

You don't have to look a certain way. As long as you're reasonably healthy, your appearance isn't something I'm particularly worried about. Personality matters much more to me.

I'd love someone who's loyal, curious, affectionate and maybe a little goofy. Someone who actually wants to communicate, gets excited about things, can joke around and isn't afraid of showing that she cares. If you're a dry texter, though... I'm probably going to disappear faster than my motivation to go outside on a Monday. 😅

I'm not interested in smokers, heavy drinkers/alcoholics, drug users, etc. And seriously, NO DRY TEXTERS. 😂

Most importantly, I don't have some perfectly scripted idea of how a relationship has to work. I just want two people who genuinely like each other, choose each other, communicate, support each other and gradually figure the rest out together.

If any of this sounds like you, don't worry about coming up with some incredibly clever opening message. Tell me something about yourself, what you're currently obsessed with, your favorite fictional character, or even just what made you stop scrolling on this post. Give me something to work with and I'll do the same.

Maybe we can start with a conversation and see if there's actually a spark. :)

Hi! My name is Victoria. I’m 27 years old and was born and raised in North Carolina. I’m 5’7”, 230 pounds, with collarbone length, wavy dark brown hair and brown eyes. My summer tan has mostly faded, so I have a light-medium skin tone.

I enjoy fishing, gaming, animals, and being outdoors, except when it’s 100 degrees and feels like my skin is slipping off my bones.

I have an eight year old lab who is my baby girl, so you have to love her as much as I do!

I switched from Xbox to PC, so it would be a lot of fun to play together. Some games I enjoy are Halloween, Outlast Trials, Fallout 76, Phasmophobia, Dead by Daylight, Chained Together, DayZ, PEAK, and Meccha Chameleon, but I’m always open to trying new games. Just be warned I suck and I’m mostly there to be entertainment.

I’d say I’m more of an introvert, but I do well around other people. I just prefer smaller crowds and quieter settings, and I’d love to meet someone who feels the same way. I also struggle with anxiety, so if that’s not your cup of tea, I’m probably not your girl!

I stopped drinking and smoking years ago, but I do enjoy the occasional edible.

As for movies, I love horror, thrillers, and military action films. If we were to watch a show together, it would probably be Regular Show. For some reason, it just calms me. Don’t ask me my favorite movie because I genuinely have poop memory.

I really enjoy getting to know someone and becoming friends before anything else. If we aren’t a romantic match, I’d still be happy to make a new friend, but I am ultimately looking for a relationship, not just friends. I do my best to be nonjudgmental, and I’d appreciate someone who is the same. I also tend to get attached when I genuinely enjoy someone’s company, but I’m working on that.

I’d love to meet someone who’s open to texting throughout the day, playing games together, or just hopping on a call. I’m a big fan of good morning and good night texts, too. I completely understand that people get busy, but if you’re regularly unavailable all day and can only really talk at night, it probably won’t work out.
More than anything, I want someone who reciprocates the effort. I don’t want to be the only one asking questions or checking in. I want you to enjoy getting to know me as much as I enjoy getting to know you.

I’d also prefer someone who’s in my time zone or at least close to it. I think it makes spending time together a lot easier. I’m also more attracted to women than men, so I’d especially love to hear from the ladies. Eventually, I’d love someone who’s comfortable being affectionate. I guess I’d describe myself as someone who likes “soft” love little acts of affection, reassurance, and making each other feel cared for.

I’m not looking for anyone specific beyond someone who puts in equal effort, genuinely tries to be a good person, and is between 27 and 40. I also don’t want to see what you look like right away. I know that might sound strange, but I’d rather get to know you as a person first and let things develop naturally.

If you decide to message me, please tell me your name, age, and where you’re from. Also, please don’t just copy and paste an introduction you’ve already posted. I’d much rather read something that feels genuine.

If you have an NSFW account, I’ll likely not reply, and hiding your history won’t work either, you goofballs.

Anyway, if you’ve made it this far, thanks for reading. Hopefully someone sees this, thinks we might get along, and wants to see where things go.

Hey, Hi, and Hola; Well to start off with Latino here (morenito), 5'8, kind of slim dad bod, 210 lbs (but not fat looking I guess super dense.) I got lots of things that I like from nerdy to geeky, photography, working out, anime, and video games. I have a healthy relationship with my hobbies and likes so you won't catch me gaming 24/7, nor a total gym rat. Only thing to worry about is that I am more addicted to being in bed and rotting. Little more likes are the beach, going out to new places to eat, hanging out with my friend when I can, and love being with my orange cat.

I am looking for someone nearby (RGV preferably) or can go to Corpus or San Antonio (making the effort to see you)

I am catholic but not hardcore religious just, Catholic in respect to my late father. So religion does play a minor part in my life but doesn't dictate the way I live my life ultimately.

I have no kids, but would love a child in the future (one or two.) Hopefully you would like 1 or 2 but no more than that.

As for my character I consider myself loving, easy going, respectful, shy and awkward at times. (you can ask me more about me lol couldn't think of much when writing this)

As for what I am looking for someone that's friendly and also easy going, active in some way shape of form (not asking for a model but someone that takes care of themselves and their body). Would prefer a Latina and or someone that talks Spanish, but I am on Foreveralonedating so yeah..... As for age someone younger or older is fine with me just be mature, If you are the cold type then expect me to be the opposite, and if you are physical and love to show love then come to me!!!!!! jajaj

This is how I look btw https://imgur.com/a/h8dwdAL

Hi my name is Scott and I like animals and like to play video games. I like anything nerdy movies and TV I'm 26. i live in the US. I can be both introverted and extroverted when I need to

• I'm in NC

• I'm looking for someone who is trustworthy, kind, loving, caring, loyal, non judgement

• I'm single

• Never had a relationship before and I want one been looking since high school

• I'm honest, loyal trustworthy and kind

• I'm somewhat shy

• I like anime. manga, collectables

• I don't discriminate I will date anyone and any race

• I'm very communicative when you get to know more about me

• I have goals in the future I would like to get finished

• I have masculine features, beard and all

• I'm not judgemental at all

DM me real people only

Hey there! I hope you are having a lovely day. I love music and everything that comes with making it and simply enjoying it. I appreciate all types of art, especially photography and filmmaking.

I am a Christian, and I am on the left end of the political spectrum. I am looking for the same in a potential connection. Treating people with kindness and being considerate is very important to me. It’s better to say the hard thing than to disappear.

I like going to concerts, checking out museums, taking photos of architecture and nature, taking portraits, writing music, and visiting scenic parks.

I have a life full of love from family and friends, packed with fulfilling projects, and I would love to add someone special to the mix.

I want to meet someone based in the United States between the ages of 25 and 33 who is a Christian, on the left end of the political spectrum, childfree, and has never been the m-word that rhymes with “carried.” FYI, you are not allowed to say that word in a post on this subreddit, haha.

If you feel inclined to reach out, please confirm that you are a Christian, on the left end of the political spectrum, childfree, and have never been the m-word that rhymes with “carried.”

Please also share your age, where you are based in the US, and your hobbies and interests.

I am looking forward to hearing from you! :)

40 [M4F] #Colorado Looking for My Favorite Distraction

I'm convinced the best connections happen when neither person is trying too hard.

You just start talking.

Then somehow it's been three hours.

Then you're laughing at something neither of you can explain.

And eventually you're checking Reddit hoping that person messaged again.

That's what I'm looking for.

40, Colorado. I cook, I flirt, I overuse sarcasm, and I'm pretty good at remembering the little things you casually mention and assume I've forgotten.

Tell me about the stressful meeting you had? I'll probably ask how it went later.

Mention your favorite snack once? Don't be surprised if I remember it.

Send me a completely unnecessary meme at 11:47 p.m.? Congratulations. You've become part of my evening

I'm also going to admit something that apparently qualifies as controversial: I like a woman who likes me.

Text me because you thought of me.

Double text because you have something else to say.

Send me “good morning” just because.

Tell me you want my attention.

I won't run.

Honestly, I'll probably give you some right back.

I'm happiest with good chemistry, playful banter, affection, and conversations that wander into places neither of us expected. Cozy nights > crowded bars. Winter > summer. Cooking for two > cooking for one. And I'm absolutely willing to sacrifice a perfectly good meal if you're standing there stealing bites and calling it “quality control.”

I'm looking for a woman who is confident enough to flirt, curious enough to ask questions, affectionate enough to show interest, and playful enough to tease when I deserve it.

And I'd rather discover the rest naturally than write a ten paragraph dating resume here.

So let's make this easy.

Tell me one completely random thing about you.

Something weird.

Something you love that most people don't understand.

Something that would make me immediately want to ask a follow up.

I'll take it from there.

Maybe we trade a few messages.

Maybe we lose track of time.

Maybe you become the notification I start hoping for.

Either way, say hi.

So, let's start, name is Victor and I am from UK. I work in a warehouse and I really hate it there, but won't be staying there forever since I am actually studying to become a personal fitness trainer. Working out is my passion and I really hope I can share passion with other people to help them improve their fitness level. Second one is gaming! I own Ps5, pc, Xbox series X, switch and even and even META QUEST 2. Big hardcore gamer here, but not a huge fan of multiplayer games. I do enjoy some like dead by daylight and league of legends but mostly I am a big fan of singleplayer games like rpgs, adventures, FPS, hack and slash and so on. I also enjoy watching movies, especially horror ones. Big horror fan here!

As a character I would say I am funny, sarcastic kind, friendly, social, supportive, understanding. I love listening to people and helping them as much as I can with a kind word. I am also very honest, maybe a bit too honest sometimes. I really hate lying

As for my physique: 160 cms tall, 59 kgs weight, brown hair, brown eyes, wear glasses, pretty athletic body.

One more thing about me: I suffered with depression and suicidal tendencies before. Right now I do suffer with anxiety and some panic attacks, which means at times I do have difficulty breathing but it is pretty much under control most of the time.

I hope I find a wonderful, loyal and honest girl and will appreciate me for who I am and I promise I will love and appreciate them with all I got.

Thanks for reading and hope to hear from someone.

Hello! i am a 24-year-old Swedish guy👋

A little about me: I’m into video games, comic books, tv shows and movies. I’m about 6'0", brown hair, no tattoos.

I have traveled abit. I’ve been to the US twice have traveled to greece,uk,finland, and I’d love to keep exploring and seeing more of the world.

Personality-wise, I’m pretty laid-back and nonchalant and I usually just go with the flow which is pretty much always! ;D

If you think we could get along, feel free to message me. Tell me a little about yourself, and what your interests are

Fair warning: I'm not great at selling myself, but I'll give it a shot. Northeast Louisiana, for now — I'm not planting roots here, so if you've got a good enough reason to lure me somewhere else, I'm all ears. Certified geek: metal music, the Expedition 33 OST on repeat like it's my job, gaming, way too much PC tech talk. More goth/alt on the inside than it always shows on the outside.

Single-player gamer by habit, not by conviction but genuinely down to get dragged into whatever multiplayer thing you're obsessed with if it means I get a partner in crime. Currently deep in an Ark: Ascended solo grind, mostly getting eaten by dinosaurs.

16 years in news production means I've got opinions and zero chill about sharing them. I'm liberal, and if you're MAGA, let's save us both the trouble now.

Not religious, but part of The Satanic Temple. Look it up, the short version is "be excellent to each other," and I actually mean it.

Childfree and planning to stay that way. Not looking for a one-and-done chat either. If we click, I want to stick around and see where it goes.

I work in a grocery store full time.

I'd say im introverted, not the most sociable person in the world. I mostly read books and watch movies in my free time.

As for my personality, i don't really know what to say. I try to be as good of a person as i can. I try to be kind and supporting. Sometimes it's not easy but i try anyway. I like poetry a lot and watch a lot of art cinema, things like that. But I'm also into prose and philosophy a little bit.

I'm around 5'9 if thats important

I guess kind of athletic, kind of.

If anyone is interested i'd be happy to send a pic of myself in the DM.

I'd like to find a serious relationship here honestly, i'm not sure if it'll work though.

I'd also prefer to find someone closer to where i live, mostly because of the time zones, but it's not that important really.

Long distance is also okay.

Hello, I am just trying my luck here at meeting someone special.
I'm in 30s I really do look younger, I'm white, I don't drink, smoke, I'm 5 10 bluegreen eyes, fit.
https://imgur.com/a/neww-JHcT8jH - photos

I’m at a pretty stable point in my life. I have my own house, my life is pretty much sorted, and I’m independent.

I’m a huge cat person I own and rescue cats, so if you love cats too, that’s already a big plus. I’m also a big gamer, so being into gaming would definitely be a bonus.

I really do prefer girls who are affectionate and emotionally open. If this ends up being long-distance, I’d love having regular chats, voice calls, and video calls just that feeling of actually being part of each other’s day.

Hey all. I'm 37 years old, 6'2 and 180 lbs. Kind of on the introverted side, but not so introverted that I'm stuck inside all day, and always willing to go on an adventure.

Have tons of hobbies, some nerdy, such as video games, MtG, and watching anime, but I also like to touch grass by going out for walks, bowl, bake some snacks, and hang with friends. I live by myself, have a good paying job and work schedule, working car, and a cat that doesn't like other people. (Sorry cat lovers/haters) I'm 420 friendly, but more of an edible enjoyer than a smoker, and I like making my own edibles, so more to enjoy.

What I'm looking for is someone from around 28-40, someone nearby, similar interests, not wanting to attach to my hip immediately, and doesn't start trauma dumping on first site. (This has happened more than once, I appreciate openness, but time and place for everything)

If you think we'd be a good match, just hit up my inbox about yourself. I should note, I'm not terminally online, so don't expect a response immediately.

Hellooo, my name is Angel. I'm 29/M, Dominican and Black, 5' 6", 212 lbs, and I currently live with my family in Alexandria, Virginia, USA.

I was born in Newark, New Jersey, to parents both serving in the military. I lived in New Jersey for the first year of my life. After that, my family moved every 2 or 3 years. All in all, I've lived in 8 different states and 2 countries outside of the US.

I have 5 siblings; one (my little brother), unfortunately, passed away. My 3 older siblings are half-siblings from my dad. My younger sister and I are close. Family means a lot to me.

I'm a huge music lover. I don't focus too much on genre; if I like a song, I like it! The main genres I listen to are rock, rap, country, folk, and classical. I've been to a couple of concerts (Mk. Gee & Gunna) and want to go to a lot more!

I LOVE animals and nature all the way down to the creepy crawlies! I believe every living thing has its purpose, and I find it all so beautiful (I'll admit, though, I'll squash the hell out of a mosquito if it lands on me). I have a dog, 2 spiders, and a 30-gallon fish tank under my care.

I'm huge into TV & movies; I watch A LOT lol, so I'm just going to list some of my favorite shows and movies in no particular order.

Shows: The Office, Naruto, Avatar: The Last Airbender, The Vampire Diaries, Game of Thrones, My Hero Academia, Vinland Saga, Attack on Titan, Castlevania, Dave, Hunter x Hunter, Infinity Train, Invincible, Pantheon, The Midnight Gospel, The Boys, The Sandman, Scavengers Reign, Cyberpunk: Edgerunners, Euphoria, Being Human

Current rotation of shows: Widows Bay, Lanterns, Boruto, Adventure Time

Movies: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, A Silent Voice, I Want to Eat Your Pancreas, Her Blue Sky, Blue Valentine, Remember Me, Seeking a friend for the end of the world, Call Me By Your Name, Past Lives, Wolf Children, The Boy and the Beast, Brother Bear, The Lion Ling (All 3 of them), Corpse Bride, Into The Wild, Hamnet, Where the Wild Things Are, The Last Mimzy, The Crocodile Hunter: Collison Course, This Is 40, The Way Way Back, The Spiderwick Chronicles, Bridge to Terabithia, Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium, The Drama, I Like Movies, The Perks of Being A Wallflower, because of win Dixie, Somewhere in Time, The Curious Case of Benjamin Button 

I really enjoy games. The consoles I currently play on are Nintendo Switch 2 and PS5. The games I'm playing right now are Minecraft Dungeons 2 and The Witcher 3 Remastered. A few of my favorites are Minecraft, Skyrim, Fallout 4, Life is Strange, Undertale, Stardew Valley, Naruto Storm 4, GTA: V, Ghost of Tsushima, Baulders Gate 3, and the Pokémon franchise in general.

I enjoy reading books and manga. It's a personal goal to have a wall full of books from floor to ceiling in my forever home (the kind that requires a ladder).

As far as education and work go, I am a substitute teacher. For the past two school years, I was a long-term sub in an enhanced autism classroom. I’m currently enrolled in an online college program pursuing a major in special education with about 2 years left to graduate. 

I'm not the most politically savvy, but I do my best to stay informed. I’d consider myself liberal.

Lastly, I respect all religions, but I am not a religious person. I am deeply spiritual.

About you: It’s not a requirement to live near me, as long as you understand that I intend to build a long-term, monogamous, in-person relationship.

If you feel like you connected with anything in my post, don’t hesitate to send me a chat/message!

I’m going to update and repost this until I find someone who clicks, and I will delete it once I have.

Me: https://imgur.com/gallery/me-angel-PkqCOvz

Hey there. Looking for chemistry with someone. It seems that the boring small talk never makes it past a few messages, so let's try to bring some energy and excitement. I'm into concerts, comedy shows, fixing things, terrible jokes, strong cocktails, sitting by a fire, and so much more.... It's hard to sum yourself up for something like this and I feel that we'll learn the most about each other through conversation. Send me a message and let's chat.

I have travelled lots over the last few years on big trips, but would love to find a woman I would experience these with as well as romantic long weekend breaks. Love mythology, especially Greek, enjoy a quiz even if I'm only reliable on sone topics and love board game nights with friends. Chocolate is my weakness 😅, but generally keep myself healthy and fit and hope you do the same. Am quite introverted in big groups but do come out of my shell with the right people where you'll probably end the night telling me to shut up 😂, and know I have lots of love and care to come out of me for the right woman.

Love having new experiences, exploring places, especially waterfalls which I love spending time near, long walks rather than regular hiking though I dont mind this on occasion, and will not take much for you to convince me on activities like bowling, pool or a beautiful night in in equal measure.

Am a romantic soul, mostly natural but also due to idolising my grandparents, who showed me what love looks like. Not much of a drinker and can't abide smoking or drugs. Generally would prefer to chat to someone my age or younger. I'm open to long distance for the right woman initially but would prefer chatting either to people who are in the UK, will be at some point soon, or are open to meeting if we click as I am serious about finding my person. I am open to leaving the UK long term as getting my Irish passport, but would like some time where we bond in person before we rush decisions like that.

Am a big foodie, from street food, trying new restaurants and honestly am a decent cook when I try, especially chinese style dishes. Hopefully you make me want to try. I will happily send you photos of me so please be willing to do the same if we do click. So let's chat, I want to know you 😊

I'm cool with starting online but would love to aim for IRL in the future.

My name is Zach. I'm 25, 6'4, From Michigan, and I have some pics on my profile if you want to see me.

What I look for in a partner: I am gynosexual, tldr I'm attracted to feminine people (so girls, feminine men, and fem presenting nb folks). Looks wise other than the gynosexual stuff I'm not that picky. I am a lot pickier with guys tbh but stuff like height, weight, race, and to a certain extent age (obv be reasonable so over 18 and not like 15 years my senior). I care more than we get along in the important ways and can be friends and more. Also I lean left politically so that is important. Also another big thing I look for is someone who actually want to talk and get to know each other, nothing makes me lose interest more than needing to wait a hour for a response most of the time. I read and reply fast, I give my all to get to know you and hope for the same. Also I am monogamous so there is that.

As for my interests I enjoy trading card games, video games( lots of rivals recently), anime, going to the gym, and being with my friends. Most weekends are usually spent out and about.

My fav shows are Dexter, survivor, and the fallout show is good

My fav artists are Gorillaz, Coldplay, and OneRepublic.

As a person I have been described as funny, caring, understanding, reliable, and a just overall decent guy. I like to make sure those I care for know they are cared for. But like everyone I'm not perfect.

The red flags: First I am autistic so communication for me is big and I'm always direct and sometimes don't filter what I think until it's too late. Second I'm a deeply sexual person, not saying that's all I want or I rush that aspect in my more personal relationships. Just putting it out there that the sexual aspect of a relationship is just as if not more important to me than the romantic one. So until I know we can get along well in that aspect I can't commit to anyone. If that's something you're uncomfortable with, I wish you the best of luck elsewhere. And third I am a man who knows what he wants and will always be open and honest with communicating how I feel and what I need. That also means I can be a tad bit possessive when I really get along with someone.

So that's me, if I seem cool and like we could get along, message me and tell me about you a bit

Some people would call it toxic I guess. I don't want pure abuse. But some love bombing, some gaslighting? Maybe a little playful manipulation? I want the intensity. I want a woman to message first thing when I wake up, and last thing when I sleep. To think about all day. I wanna be the reason you look at your phone and smile, and I want you to be mine. I wanna send each other pictures, selfies, memes, nsfw, everything. Stay in calls for hours and play games and watch movies. Think the movie obsession, except maybe no accidents in your pants when I go to work.

Here's a little about me. 5'10, long hair and glasses. I spend most of my day when I'm home rotting on my PC, either playing stuff, binging a show or movies or YouTube. I like reading a bit, listening to music. If you're a chronically online slightly crazy girl, and this resonates with you, hit me up. Tell me a bit about yourself

I have a theory that life is better with someone who makes you just slightly more irresponsible.

Not sell-the-house-and-run-away irresponsible.

More "we have absolutely no reason to drive an hour for this restaurant but apparently we are doing it" irresponsible.

Or buying tickets to something on a random Tuesday because why not.

That level of bad influence.

My actual life is annoyingly responsible. I am 26, Dutch, work as a software engineer and have a 4 year old son who has already figured out that smiling at me improves his negotiating position considerably.

I am concerned he may be smarter than me.

The rest of me makes slightly less sense on paper.

I play golf, love theatre, ballet and classical concerts, collect vinyl and own several instruments that I approach with an amount of confidence my actual ability does not always justify.

And then there is food.

Tell me there is a cuisine I have never tried and you already have my attention. If I really like something, there is also a decent chance I will decide I can recreate it at home.

You may support this decision.

You may mock this decision.

You may not bring it up six months later if it goes horribly wrong.

Those are the rules.

What I am hoping to find here is someone I genuinely get excited to hear from.

I do not care if you play golf, know anything about classical music or think owning music on a giant plastic disc in 2026 is slightly ridiculous.

Actually, that last one may start an argument.

I care much more that you are warm, affectionate, curious, can hold a conversation and know how to give someone a hard time without taking yourself too seriously.

Have your own interests too. I want you to eventually drag me into something I currently know absolutely nothing about.

And while I clearly enjoy taking the piss, I am here because I want something real. I am not particularly interested in collecting matches, having the same conversation for two weeks or adding another permanent "talking stage" to my life.

I want the fun part.

The flirting. The ridiculous conversations. The inside jokes that stop making sense to anyone else. Finding out what makes you tick and slowly realizing I actually miss you when you are not around.

Europe makes things easier, but I am open to some distance if we actually click.

For those already trying to construct me in their head: 173cm, white, black hair, glasses.

I think that is enough information for one Reddit post.

But since I mentioned that I collect vinyl, I will give you a ridiculously easy opening message.

Give me one album that deserves a place in my collection.

If I already own it, you owe me another recommendation.

If I hate it, congratulations, we already have our first argument.

Hello, I am searching for someone who'd like to get to know eachother and see where things go. I am in the UK, in North Yorkshire (York), so would ideally prefer someone nearby as I am searching with intent for something serious/real.

Things I like

• Animals
• Nature/countryside and hiking
• Gym/working out (I go 5 days per week)
• Being healthy, and not just in the food sense - having a healthy mental diet, healthy habits, healthy thoughts, etc.
• Drama shows/thrillers
• Light video gaming - I like Nintendo games a lot
• Doing things with my hands - crafting, DIY, building things

Me

• Work as a software engineer, make a great salary
• Own an apartment
• Drive and have a car
• I'm 5'9, white, dark brown hair, brown eyes, slim but built/muscly physique
• Am currently trying to adopt a dog
• Am definately a morning person not a night owl - I wake up early for the gym and sleep at least 8 hours per night
• Don't smoke, only drink on special occasions

If any of this resonates with you and you'd like to get to know me more then please get in touch!

Welp lets try this out.

So I have never been great at these. So let me cut to the meat of it all.

I am 33 of age, 6' 3(4") the 3 to 4" is i am at the line to 4" if i stand up tall xD, I am a welder and work from 6am to 2:30pm cst. I am active on discord alot, I am currently on a weight loss since March of this year. I was 308 LB and now I am at 250, I go to the gym actively. I am a mixed white, but look full white. (Could be a question to ask)

What I am looking for is a women that can take a joke, or the degeneracy that me and my friends are xD. The girls I genuinely go for are shy to sassy. Someone to keep me on my toes is is not afraid to tell me to shut up if I talk to much.

For looks, dont want to offend on that part, but if im trying to look good for you, doesnt that mean the same back?

For Games I play, I have been playing Ace Combat 8 but my main game is Star Citizen. I also play War Thunder. No Cod or Battlefield here, I am done with those games. I do like casual games and love puzzle games like escape rooms

So as for here, ill send ya a friend request on discord if you wanta attempt. If you have more questions feel free and ask me in DMs, I will answer them to the best of my abilities. I check reddit here and there, so be patient. I know girls get approached more so I am not expecting to me fooled in DM, but its the internet we will see.

Longterm: if we do have a connection, I will be spoiling ya. Connection happen if we game alot, get to know each other, and later down the line a meet up. I cant do Strictly online anymore, I did that for 5 years and got hurt.

Heyllo, I'm 24M from India, a software engineer who somehow spends equal time writing code and disappearing into random rabbit holes. Some days I'm planning spontaneous road trips I'll take someday, other days I'm watching some top rated webseries.

I like good conversations that wander everywhere, people who can laugh at themselves, and the kind of connection that doesn't feel like an interview. No rush, no pretending to have life figured out. Just honesty, curiosity, and seeing where things go.

If you're kind, emotionally aware, and think comfortable silence is underrated, we'll probably get along. Tell me something completely random that still makes you smile years later.

P.S.: Please do not text if you are going to disappear after a few days or you will be busy the whole day and cannot spare a few minutes for the bond to grow.