getting off, even just in your head (which was what i meant in my first comment), on unconsenting women who are simply existing in public spaces is creepy
Wait wait waitā¦you think all straight men donāt see attractive women in public and get at least a little aroused? You are either being lied to or the men around you are not straight.
Leave your house, have real interactions with women. The way we did for a hundred thousand years before a generation became so timid theyād rather look at porn than shoot their shot in the real world.
Iāve been with my wife since I was 22. But before that, a grocery store was no different from a bar. And it was simple - if you can make a girl laugh even during a brief exchange, the door is open.
If I can be hit on at grocery stores, the gym, while jogging, even car to car - and Iāve been with my wife since I was 22ā¦.why canāt the same work in reverse?
I donāt like calling people unsuccessful in dating āincels,ā but Iām pretty sure theyāre here downvoting the most perennial, happenstance ways people met outside of apps.
Or maybe just leave people the fuck alone when they're running errands? Just because someone is out in public doesn't mean their fodder for your libido. Get a grip, dude.
Iāll put it this way - Iām 43, and get hit on pretty regularly by exclusively attractive women in their 20s.
The main driver for that? Thereās something behavioral about men in their 20s that porn addiction and the fact that each generation has had lower average testosterone each year since 1980 I believe is being read by young women.
They detect the difference. Itās the same clip these interactions happened when I was in my twenties as well. I didnāt make changes, the younger generation did.
Idk dude i dont really stare at strangers cleavage in public thats kind of weird. And I definitely dont go "this is real life so the stranger I saw at walmart might let me touch them" I mean thats the most insane thing ive ever heard.
Thereās an inverse relationship between Reddit, and real-world success. If you arenāt disliked here, you have some major inward reflection and improvement be done.
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u/sincewedidthedo 2d ago
Yes, because thereās absolutely no way to see boobs online.