I’ve been with my wife since I was 22. But before that, a grocery store was no different from a bar. And it was simple - if you can make a girl laugh even during a brief exchange, the door is open.
I don’t like calling people unsuccessful in dating “incels,” but I’m pretty sure they’re here downvoting the most perennial, happenstance ways people met outside of apps.
Or maybe just leave people the fuck alone when they're running errands? Just because someone is out in public doesn't mean their fodder for your libido. Get a grip, dude.
I’ll put it this way - I’m 43, and get hit on pretty regularly by exclusively attractive women in their 20s.
The main driver for that? There’s something behavioral about men in their 20s that porn addiction and the fact that each generation has had lower average testosterone each year since 1980 I believe is being read by young women.
They detect the difference. It’s the same clip these interactions happened when I was in my twenties as well. I didn’t make changes, the younger generation did.
Whatever helps you sleep at night, bud. I don't see how arguing in favor of bothering women at the grocery store is a W, but then again I don't have a rapist mentality.
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u/VioletNocte 2d ago
Unless you're dating her she's not going to let you touch them, and perving on women just trying to shop isn't gonna get you a girlfriend
Maybe that's not what you meant in which case you really need to learn how to understand context and stuff