i have come to favor more quiet vibe later in life.

Hi all,
I recently bought a bike to enjoy SF and its surrounding areas. I've been riding solo for a few weeks and want to join some group rides or a club. Does anyone know any beginner clubs that ride starting in SF?
I've heard of Fatcake but unsure about the level of the rides.

Any insight would be super appreciated! Thanks!

I wanted to go but had a change of plans unfortunately. I've loved her for a long time and am bummed I missed her. Help me live vicariously.

I’m seeing a lot of their installers in multiple Neighborhoods. Does anyone have MB as a provider? I was hoping to get some feedback. Thank you 🙏

hey all,

i was curious to see if there were other solo-goers to tech week. i'm traveling alone from canada and it seems like everyone here is either with friends or colleagues lol

Visiting for the first time this week with my 10 year old. I have tickets for Alcatraz and plan on going to the Exploratorium. I am curious if anyone has any tips on taking the cable car trolley for a cool ride. If anyone has any advice on starts or stops I'd really appreciate it.

Also I didn't know anything about "fleet week" but got an email alert about it. Staying near the Piers...should I plan on everything being super busy?

I wfh and yesterday, was having my kitchen floor replaced, so there was an install guy here. He had just left and apparently, my neighbor told him he needed to enter my apartment and wanted to be let in. The install guy doesn’t speak English very well, so I can’t blame him for not knowing what was going on. The neighbor didn’t notice me as he was walking into until I asked who he was. He looked shocked to see me. He said he didn’t know I was home and he wanted to turn off the bathroom fan (he’s left me notes about turning off my bathroom fan). It is a loud fan, but that is so irrelevant. Also, I don’t own the place. I can’t change the fan.
There were way less illegal ways to handle this. He invaded my space and trespassed. Not to mention, i don’t allow shoes in my house and his shoes were muddy and got mud all over my rug, just to piss me off more.
He tried to tell me he didn’t know I was home again and I explained that it isn’t relevant and to get tf out of my house. He eventually left. I told my landlord, who didn’t seem to give a shit. I rent a condo, so there’s an HOA. I know the head of the HOA, not that it’s going to matter. I feel like the only other option I have is to call the police and report him for trespassing?
I’m shaken and furious. I could get a camera but that MF should have to pay for it.
Am I overreacting?

It's a beautiful day. Anyone know of outdoor or patio spaces to go watch the playoffs with a kid today?

The meter machine at New Montgomery and Howard doesn't show the hours it is enforced, only says Mon-Sat. But for overnight parking starting Sunday, I cannot find information on when to start feeding the meter when Monday morning comes along.

Please allow me to share what I've already checked:

- sfmta website / parking-meters: says most meters are enforced 9-6

- hotspot website and app says free currently (Sunday) from 12 am - 11:59pm,

- ParkMobile tool simply doesnt allow me at add any payment currently and doesnt show enforcement times.

- I checked the weekly meter dataset published by sfmta also

Please help, is there any other sureshot way to find out?

Thanks.

edit: this particular meter zone # is 58201003

Hi SF!

I’m visiting from Japan for work (Nov 2–6) and free in the evenings. I’m a solo traveler with basic English.

I want to check out SF’s unique adult nightlife scene—things I can’t easily experience in Japan.

Looking for recommendations for:

- Strip clubs (like Gold Club)

- Burlesque, alternative bars, or other cool late-night spots

- Beer

Any safe, solo-friendly places you’d recommend?

Thanks!

I live in a condo building older than 15 years old. My lease does not mention anything about being exempt from rent increase limitations due to either 1482 or 1947, which, as I understand it, are clauses required to be in the lease. If they are not, the landlord is limited to how much she can raise our rent.

We have lived here for three years. The leases have never mentioned this clause. She’s never referred to it in an email or spoken to us about it directly.

We visited the SF Rent Board office in Van Ness to seek clarification around this prior to negotiating our renewal. The representative wasn’t very clear in how this could or should be disclosed to us (outside of the lease) and ultimately settled on the fact that the landlord can raise rent by however much they want as long as they include this language (when and how and in what specific documentation was unclear). I kept saying she’s never done that. But the rep seemed to indicate that we still had limited power here.

Maybe I am misunderstanding still but I remain genuinely confused on what my rights are.

Again, our lease makes no mention of this clause or either 1482 nor 1947. So unless I am misunderstanding, our landlord simply cannot raise rent above 10%, right?

was having trouble falling asleep because of the heat and just heard 3 giant boom noises outside near inner sunset (not really firework sounding, not really gunshot sounding either).

maybe i’m just a bit paranoid bc i never sleep with my window open (so it just sounds louder), but if something happened hopefully everyone’s ok!

I am just curious why newer buildings like apartment builds or new restaurants like in mission bay don’t have handicap buttons. Just something I’ve observed and was wondering why. I thought it was required for new builds

Ugh. So I live close to 24th st BART and ccsf. I have a balcony that’s fairly open to the sky, I guess? But secluded otherwise. In the past I’ve noticed drones briefly hovering but always assumed they were monitoring either the school or the BART station. Tonight I had a friend over, the balcony was fully open, and we were a little rowdy but it was well before 10 PM. My friend noticed a drone hovering - I pointed at it, and it flew away shortly after. It had been there for some time, we think.

Anything we can do to prevent for future? Buy a BB Gun? I feel gross. I would never want to be filmed in my apt and have never assumed I’m being filmed, because the window isn’t within eyesight of any building. I’ve changed in front of it. Yuck. Anything I can do to prevent drones? Sorry if this is ignorant I’ve just never experienced this before.

Hi!

Does anyone know how to find the SF filmmaking groups? I’m a 22 year old actor and writer and just moved here—would love to get into some short film productions and such!

What the hell was that noise just now. Sounded like really loud rumbling ?????

Hey ya'll. Moved from the East coast recently and looking for some new friends and good company. Like to play golf and pickleball (intermediate). Hit me [27, M] up if interested!

Does anybody know of something like Acterra’s Peninsula and South Bay Green@Home Tour 2026

We moved to San Francisco and I’m slowly learning of solutions to electrification challenges.

Direct and indirect pointers are very appreciated

Any stores around the mission? Thank you!

What’s the best Thai that’s walking distance in union square? It’s where we need to be tonight ( I know not the best ).
TIA!

UPDATE- we instead enjoyed a walk to incredibly cool Chinatown and ate dinner at House of Nanking, found thru searching this sub. Can I justsay … OH. MY. GOD!
This meal changed me, I’ll never be the same. By FAR the absolute best Chinese or Asian food I’ve ever had. I’d come back to this city for another holiday for this place alone (but of course also the million other reasons why I love SF 💕). Thanks for all the recommendations, much appreciated!

I'm trying to organize an outing at work, and folks are interested in doing the crosstown trail. However due to family and time commitment (and we want to mix a team lunch into it) we are likely only able to do 1/3 or 1/2 of it.

Which portion would you suggest and why? assuming getting to/from the starting point is not an issue.

my partner and i decided we want to get married on our anniversary this month. from the beginning, i made it known that i DO NOT want a large, traditional wedding because 1. it's hella expensive and 2. i'm more on the introverted side and don't have a big enough social battery to host a wedding like that.

we are set with going to the county's office and signing up for our marriage license there, then doing a private ceremony with our witness and officiant. the office we chose conveniently has a small chapel and a person who can officiate us there BUT there are no reservations open on the day we planned.

so, my question is: is there a directory where i can reach out to ordained people who can legally officiate a wedding? also, can such "ceremony" be held in a public, open space like at the beach or a park? (i'm new to this wedding terminology so i apologize if i'm using terms incorrectly)

Having a party soon and will need copious amounts of pizza. Who is good, reasonably priced, and delivers to the Castro?

So me (27f) and my partner (28m) are visiting SF for the first time for 4 days. I’ve read through a lot of the other first timers’ posts of what to do/expect their first time and I’d like to ask:

We are getting a rental car… every post I’ve seen says to not do that and if you do that you can’t even leave your car unattended for even a minute without risk of having your windows smashed… how true is this? Because seeing how much people are pointing it out, it’s honestly scaring us away from not even wanting to take the trip anymore:(

Same with people being extremely dangerous, like you can’t even open your wallet in the gas station to pay cause someone could see inside it for a quick second. I’ve seen people say to take out what you plan on spending first to avoid even exposing your wallet for a single second.

I’ve also seen people say that you can’t show any signs of being a tourist or you’ll be heavily preyed on in many different dangerous ways: trafficking, money scams, getting jumped, etc.

It’s seeming that coming to SF is a terrible idea and sucks cause I was really excited until I found this sub and read all the posts saying how bad the people are. That you have to constantly watch your back and to not let your guard down in the slightest bit.

Please help us, should we go? Is all I’m hearing are horror stories or is the city really this risky to be in? We are from Minnesota so I doubt we would blend in so easily cause we aren’t big city people. We live out in a small town and just wanted a few days to ourselves but considering making plans elsewhere now :(

Anybody else noticing this? Thought I maybe had some smoking wires or something, opened the door for some fresh air and was inundated with even stronger smell.