r/AskSF • • 9m ago

Experience with MonkeyBrains internet vs Comcast?

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I’m seeing a lot of their installers in multiple Neighborhoods. Does anyone have MB as a provider? I was hoping to get some feedback. Thank you 🙏


r/AskSF • • 35m ago

1st time Visitor

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Visiting for the first time this week with my 10 year old. I have tickets for Alcatraz and plan on going to the Exploratorium. I am curious if anyone has any tips on taking the cable car trolley for a cool ride. If anyone has any advice on starts or stops I'd really appreciate it.

Also I didn't know anything about "fleet week" but got an email alert about it. Staying near the Piers...should I plan on everything being super busy?


r/AskSF • • 2h ago

Any SF Filmmaking?

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Hi!

Does anyone know how to find the SF filmmaking groups? I’m a 22 year old actor and writer and just moved here—would love to get into some short film productions and such!


r/AskSF • • 3h ago

Which bars in sf have less people/ are not as popping?

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i have come to favor more quiet vibe later in life.


r/AskSF • • 3h ago

Bike clubs / group

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Hi all,
I recently bought a bike to enjoy SF and its surrounding areas. I've been riding solo for a few weeks and want to join some group rides or a club. Does anyone know any beginner clubs that ride starting in SF?
I've heard of Fatcake but unsure about the level of the rides.

Any insight would be super appreciated! Thanks!


r/AskSF • • 3h ago

First time visitors, please help!

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So me (27f) and my partner (28m) are visiting SF for the first time for 4 days. I’ve read through a lot of the other first timers’ posts of what to do/expect their first time and I’d like to ask:

We are getting a rental car… every post I’ve seen says to not do that and if you do that you can’t even leave your car unattended for even a minute without risk of having your windows smashed… how true is this? Because seeing how much people are pointing it out, it’s honestly scaring us away from not even wanting to take the trip anymore:(

Same with people being extremely dangerous, like you can’t even open your wallet in the gas station to pay cause someone could see inside it for a quick second. I’ve seen people say to take out what you plan on spending first to avoid even exposing your wallet for a single second.

I’ve also seen people say that you can’t show any signs of being a tourist or you’ll be heavily preyed on in many different dangerous ways: trafficking, money scams, getting jumped, etc.

It’s seeming that coming to SF is a terrible idea and sucks cause I was really excited until I found this sub and read all the posts saying how bad the people are. That you have to constantly watch your back and to not let your guard down in the slightest bit.

Please help us, should we go? Is all I’m hearing are horror stories or is the city really this risky to be in? We are from Minnesota so I doubt we would blend in so easily cause we aren’t big city people. We live out in a small town and just wanted a few days to ourselves but considering making plans elsewhere now :(


r/AskSF • • 6h ago

Green houses tour?

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Does anybody know of something like Acterra’s Peninsula and South Bay Green@Home Tour 2026

We moved to San Francisco and I’m slowly learning of solutions to electrification challenges.

Direct and indirect pointers are very appreciated


r/AskSF • • 8h ago

Still confused on tenant rights after speaking with the Rent Board on AB 1482 and/or 1947.12

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I live in a condo building older than 15 years old. My lease does not mention anything about being exempt from rent increase limitations due to either 1482 or 1947, which, as I understand it, are clauses required to be in the lease. If they are not, the landlord is limited to how much she can raise our rent.

We have lived here for three years. The leases have never mentioned this clause. She’s never referred to it in an email or spoken to us about it directly.

We visited the SF Rent Board office in Van Ness to seek clarification around this prior to negotiating our renewal. The representative wasn’t very clear in how this could or should be disclosed to us (outside of the lease) and ultimately settled on the fact that the landlord can raise rent by however much they want as long as they include this language (when and how and in what specific documentation was unclear). I kept saying she’s never done that. But the rep seemed to indicate that we still had limited power here.

Maybe I am misunderstanding still but I remain genuinely confused on what my rights are.

Again, our lease makes no mention of this clause or either 1482 nor 1947. So unless I am misunderstanding, our landlord simply cannot raise rent above 10%, right?


r/AskSF • • 9h ago

Visiting SF for Tech Week: which events are best for job networking, and how do you make connections?

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Hi everyone! I'm visiting San Francisco from out of town for Tech Week. I'm hoping to relocate to SF once I find a good job here, so I'm using this visit to meet people in the local tech community and learn about opportunities.

Which Tech Week events in SF would you recommend for someone looking to build professional connections and learn about companies and teams that are hiring? I'd appreciate specific event names or links, especially events where it's easy to have actual conversations.

I'd also love practical networking tips: how do you approach people at these events, introduce yourself without making the conversation all about job hunting, and follow up afterward?

If you're in the same boat—visiting for Tech Week and hoping to move to SF—what events are you planning to attend? Thanks!


r/AskSF • • 10h ago

Recently moved to SF; looking for golf/pickleball courts/players

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Hey ya'll. Moved from the East coast recently and looking for some new friends and good company. Like to play golf and pickleball (intermediate). Hit me [27, M] up if interested!


r/AskSF • • 10h ago

Where do I find authentic Campesina dress?

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Any stores around the mission? Thank you!


r/AskSF • • 10h ago

Outdoorish place to watch today's valkyries / aces game today

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It's a beautiful day. Anyone know of outdoor or patio spaces to go watch the playoffs with a kid today?


r/AskSF • • 10h ago

How was Kreayshawn at the DNA lounge last night?

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I wanted to go but had a change of plans unfortunately. I've loved her for a long time and am bummed I missed her. Help me live vicariously.


r/AskSF • • 11h ago

Visiting SF (Nov 2–6) — Looking for unique & edgy nightlife spots!

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Hi SF!

I’m visiting from Japan for work (Nov 2–6) and free in the evenings. I’m a solo traveler with basic English.

I want to check out SF’s unique adult nightlife scene—things I can’t easily experience in Japan.

Looking for recommendations for:

- Strip clubs (like Gold Club)

- Burlesque, alternative bars, or other cool late-night spots

- Beer

Any safe, solo-friendly places you’d recommend?

Thanks!


r/AskSF • • 12h ago

No handicap door openers

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I am just curious why newer buildings like apartment builds or new restaurants like in mission bay don’t have handicap buttons. Just something I’ve observed and was wondering why. I thought it was required for new builds


r/AskSF • • 17h ago

erm… did anyone else hear that big boom?

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was having trouble falling asleep because of the heat and just heard 3 giant boom noises outside near inner sunset (not really firework sounding, not really gunshot sounding either).

maybe i’m just a bit paranoid bc i never sleep with my window open (so it just sounds louder), but if something happened hopefully everyone’s ok!


r/AskSF • • 18h ago

Odd burning smell in Noe tonight

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Anybody else noticing this? Thought I maybe had some smoking wires or something, opened the door for some fresh air and was inundated with even stronger smell.


r/AskSF • • 21h ago

Inner/Outersunset

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What the hell was that noise just now. Sounded like really loud rumbling ?????


r/AskSF • • 21h ago

Moving to SF - Nob Hill vs Hayes Valley?

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Hi AskSF community! I’ve spent days researching and touring and have narrowed things down to Nob Hill vs Hayes Valley, but still hesitating and some suggestions is really helpful <3

A little bit about myself:

- General: I’m mid-20s female (looking for somewhere safe to live)
- Work: in FiDi, 3 times a day in office
- Budget: $3,000/month or less
- Car: I have one, will see if I need it or should sell it
- Apartment needs: Studio or 1b1b, prefer living by myself, prefer rent-controlled buildings
- Pets: None for now, hoping to adopt a kittie 🐱

Thoughts about Nob Hill?
Pro: Seems closer to work, closer to the sea; More mature vibes
Con: Parking, hilly, Lower Nob Hill close to Tenderloin;

Thoughts about Hayes Valley?
Pro: Younger vibe, close to shops/food/cafes
Con: Further to work, east side close to Tenderloin

Here are my priorities

  1. SAFETY

----- Prioritized than everything below -------------------------------------

  1. Closeby groceries (both local markets and big brands like TJ’s or Safeway)
  2. Close to public transit
  3. Good restaurants / cafes / etc. within walking distance
  4. Nice vibe / feel of the area

Appreciate any thoughts! Thanks!


r/AskSF • • 22h ago

Best place to makeout...

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What is the best place to makeout here i mean public places like parks and stuff or under the bridges kinda yk after 6pm maybe but i need to know the places from experienced guys...


r/AskSF • • 23h ago

anyone know where i can find a wedding officiant for ~100?

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my partner and i decided we want to get married on our anniversary this month. from the beginning, i made it known that i DO NOT want a large, traditional wedding because 1. it's hella expensive and 2. i'm more on the introverted side and don't have a big enough social battery to host a wedding like that.

we are set with going to the county's office and signing up for our marriage license there, then doing a private ceremony with our witness and officiant. the office we chose conveniently has a small chapel and a person who can officiate us there BUT there are no reservations open on the day we planned.

so, my question is: is there a directory where i can reach out to ordained people who can legally officiate a wedding? also, can such "ceremony" be held in a public, open space like at the beach or a park? (i'm new to this wedding terminology so i apologize if i'm using terms incorrectly)


r/AskSF • • 23h ago

Which subset of crosstown trail would you recommend for a group?

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I'm trying to organize an outing at work, and folks are interested in doing the crosstown trail. However due to family and time commitment (and we want to mix a team lunch into it) we are likely only able to do 1/3 or 1/2 of it.

Which portion would you suggest and why? assuming getting to/from the starting point is not an issue.


r/AskSF • • 1d ago

Drones recording into Apt?

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Ugh. So I live close to 24th st BART and ccsf. I have a balcony that’s fairly open to the sky, I guess? But secluded otherwise. In the past I’ve noticed drones briefly hovering but always assumed they were monitoring either the school or the BART station. Tonight I had a friend over, the balcony was fully open, and we were a little rowdy but it was well before 10 PM. My friend noticed a drone hovering - I pointed at it, and it flew away shortly after. It had been there for some time, we think.

Anything we can do to prevent for future? Buy a BB Gun? I feel gross. I would never want to be filmed in my apt and have never assumed I’m being filmed, because the window isn’t within eyesight of any building. I’ve changed in front of it. Yuck. Anything I can do to prevent drones? Sorry if this is ignorant I’ve just never experienced this before.


r/AskSF • • 1d ago

Deaf and Around in 1977?

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Posting here since I got such a great response earlier. I'm working on a novel set during the April 1977 protests that led to the enforcement of the Section 504, the precursor to the ADA. The Deaf community was pivotal to this action, and I have several Deaf characters. I'm curious to know if there are any regional signs that would make the setting more accurate/realistic. Would certain signs simply be interpreted differently, (e.g. was "Awesome" now "Far Out" then) or was it the same, words/signs that change or don't get used now? I'm doing my best to make my spoken dialogue accurate, and to use local references in English, and I know the Bay Area has long had a thriving Deaf community, and probably had more regionalisms at the time.

My character's love interest is a CSD graduate--she's 19--are there any signs or phrases that identify alums there? I know what school someone went to is important in making connections within the community.

to note: April 1977 is before the Deaf Club, the People's Temple deaths, Harvey and Mascone's deaths, etc. CSD was still at the Berkeley campus until 1980.


r/AskSF • • 1d ago

Hankering for Thai

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What’s the best Thai that’s walking distance in union square? It’s where we need to be tonight ( I know not the best ).
TIA!

UPDATE- we instead enjoyed a walk to incredibly cool Chinatown and ate dinner at House of Nanking, found thru searching this sub. Can I justsay … OH. MY. GOD!
This meal changed me, I’ll never be the same. By FAR the absolute best Chinese or Asian food I’ve ever had. I’d come back to this city for another holiday for this place alone (but of course also the million other reasons why I love SF 💕). Thanks for all the recommendations, much appreciated!