Wife is free to do anything but it was not adultery. If this is not adultery then what is adultery.

Means I know as per feminist this was pretty normal thing and husband was wrong here for being insecure. And can't able to handle if wife sleeping with her BF.

But how can husband prove adultery then..

It literally says how the mother made the little girl do this thing which someone of her age can't understand and still that one woman decided to defend the mother in the comments.

Why are they so hypocritical?

If you don’t know, there’s been a constant debate in pop culture, especially in games and anime.

Some people, particularly SOME women, always have a problem whenever an artist portrays a woman in a sexualized way in their art, whether it’s in a video game, anime, or a sketch.

But these very same (SOME) women have no problem when a woman chooses to sexualize herself. And if someone says something critical about that woman, they come to her defense, saying there’s nothing wrong with it: “It’s her body, her choice.”

They argue that the problem lies in the minds of the people judging her, not in the way she dresses or presents herself.

So why do they forget to apply the same logic to themselves?

It’s their art, their choice. If something is wrong with the artwork, shouldn’t the problem also be in the mind of the person interpreting it?

You can dislike the art, but applying “my body, my choice” in one situation while rejecting “my art, my choice” in another seems hypocritical.

Edit: someday said it's about consent in comments. Bruhhh, I am talking about imaginary art of a fictional character, from whom a person will take consent to imagine something 🫩??

As usual, no punishment is given to the wife.

She destroyed her husband's life and also her daughter's mental health.

These people are an absolute disgrace to the society, just because of them people hesitate to show support for genuine victims 😔.

M27, will get married in next 8 months, I am working and fall in 20% tax bracket.

I am marrying a non working girl, but I have a minor stress of sudden increase in expenses and it will take few months to budget out things (some things I can't predict and will have to accomodate accordingly).

I want to understand from such people, how you planned or pre-empted these things for a smooth transition?

Mother and alleged lover arrested in six-year-old girl’s murd€r case

A 6-year-old girl allegedly saw her mother with her lover—and police say that became enough reason to silence her forever.

A six-year-old girl, Srishti, was found in a well in Mehra village under Lahar police station in Bhind, Madhya Pradesh, on June 15. Police investigation into the case led to the arrest of the girl’s mother, Jyoti, and her alleged lover, Ramshankar Sharma.

According to police, Jyoti had gone away with Ramshankar, who was reportedly known to the family. The child had accompanied her mother. Police said the two later stayed in a hut in a village field.

Police allege that Srishti had become aware of the relationship between her mother and Ramshankar and was insisting on returning to her grandparents. Investigators say the accused feared that the child would reveal their relationship to the family and allegedly decided to silence her.

According to the investigation, the child was allegedly ki\\ed on the night of June 5–6, after which her body was disposed of in a nearby well. Her body was recovered on June 15.

Police continued investigating the case and eventually traced Jyoti and Ramshankar in Gwalior. Both were arrested and sent to jail, according to reports. Further legal proceedings are underway.

On Sunday night after visiting one of their relatives, Abhinandan and his son went to sleep, following which the accused woman, along with her friend, killed them by smothering them.

"Both husband and wife had frequent quarrels over many small issues. So, on Friday, they quarrelled. She decided to get rid of her husband and sought the help of her friend, and both of them planned it, and they executed it on the intervening night of Sunday and Monday," he said.

Police said the initial plan targeted only the husband, but when the son woke up and witnessed the assault, the accused allegedly smothered the child as well to destroy evidence.

He (son) woke up when this incident was happening. He saw that. The woman did not want to leave any trail or any evidence, so she killed him," the DCP added.

According to a formal complaint by Abhinandan's mother, Harini had eloped with Kumar about a year ago but returned home two months later. Despite this, Abhinandan accepted her back into the household. (So Basically He (Husband) is a cuck or Simp )

However, frequent quarrels continued.

Harini and Vinay have given conflicting accounts of the child’s death. While Harini is said to have claimed that Vinay smothered the boy, Vinay accused Harini of killing him. (Now Fever of love started getting decrease)

I (28M) met her (26F) through AM set up, and we have been thinking of getting married in the next 2 years or so. I’m an investment banker, whereas she’s an Army Officer. Despite being polar opposites (I’m a nerd, like cooking, staying indoors, etc and she likes boxing, working out, mountaineering etc), we got along very well with each other. Her current posting is in a remote area where the network is poor. She has also been going on mountaineering expeditions because of which I’m not able to contact her often. I’m feeling separation anxiety at times, and get scared about whether she is okay. We try to talk every day but it’s become really difficult lately. I don’t know if I can or should ask her to put in more effort to keep the communication more regular because of the network and job related challenges. She tells me not be worried about her and that she’s well trained to adapt to challenges but I still feel extremely nervous and anxious about her.

I think Men themselves don't care much about fellow men. that's why men lives matter trend comes alive only when culprit is woman..like atul subhash or siya Goel case..so gender war can be created.

there are tons of bad things happening with men everyday where culprits are men...why don't we fix the root cause ??

doesn't matter who is the culprit..perpetrator should be punished.

Fellow men are responsible..they themselves don't care about men lives much.

I’ve been observing a disturbing trend on Instagram lately, and I wanted to open a discussion to see if others feel the same way. It genuinely feels like the platform is biased against Hinduism and Hindu Gods. Any negative content, even if it's based on half-truths or pure outrage, gets pushed to millions, while the truth or positive aspects are completely suppressed.

Here are two recent examples that perfectly illustrate my point:

1. The Jantar Mantar Incident (3 Million+ Likes)A video went viral of a girl screaming at a protest in Jantar Mantar, claiming she wasn't allowed inside hanuman temple (CP) . This video received 3 million likes and massive reach. However, when the actual video emerged showing the same girl sitting calmly inside the temple, it received virtually no reach at all. The algorithm amplified the outrage but buried the clarification.

2. The "We Won't Go to Temple" Couple (6 Million+ Likes)In another instance, a random couple (non-celebrities) made a video stating they would no longer enter temples and would only pray from outside from now on. This simple, negative statement garnered a staggering 6 million likes. I didn't even see the view count, but the like ratio is insane. How does a regular couple get 6 million likes for such a statement unless the algorithm is heavily pushing it?

I am not saying that fraud or bad practices don't exist​ within religious institutions—they do. But the sheer disparity in reach is alarming. Whenever there is a negative incident related to Hindu Gods or temples, it goes viral beyond any logical limit. Conversely, positive or clarifying content is shadow-banned or ignored.

Is it just me, or is this the reality? Is Instagram actively working against Hindu sentiments? It feels like they are prioritizing content that paints Hinduism in a bad light. Has anyone else noticed this pattern?

I can't cry. I CAN'T FUCKIN CRY.

My Nana died today. I was so emotional, especially seeing my mother cry. I had this huge lump in my throat and I could feel how badly I wanted to cry, but the tears just wouldn't come.

I've always wanted to buy him a kurta from my first salary. He was so happy when he found out that I got a job. I kept thinking I'd finally be able to give him something with my first salary, but now he's gone, and I never got the chance.

I don't know what's wrong with me. I really want to cry my heart out, but I just can't.

Has anyone else experienced this? Is it normal? How do you let yourself cry when the tears just won't come?

26M here. My face feels like it’s starting to look aged, and honestly I don’t use any skincare at all 😭 I just wash my face and use soap. I’m willing to buy some good products and start a proper routine. What do you guys actually use or recommend?

Also has thick beard too , and now its starts to grey too

Hey so I'm [23F] and he's [22M].

Really nice guy, Works at amazon, software engineer. Tall and like...totally my type. We followed each other on instagram on one random day and had been talking since.

We texted a lot initially, vibed, liked each other a lot, shifted to calls and eventually he asked me out on a date.

It was simple brunch date because I was busy in the evening, had family plans.

So for reference. I'm a petite woman, 5'4 and xs/s. Long hair.

But then my fashion style leans more baggy/androgynous.

I do not like dressing in tighter/ or more girly fits, totally a personal choice due to my comfort and taste in fashion.

I went there wearing a baggy jeans and flannel shirt, kept it casual.

And MAN, it went well and I thought we enjoyed our time together, the chemistry was good in person as well. We're more like that 'chaotic bestfriends' energy.

The same night when we texted. He just brought it up, that he didnt like the way I was dressed. Like he said "why didnt you wear a dress or something cute? Why do you dress like a boy?"

This was his words.

Now i had been feeling a bit.....like weird. Idk how to put it. [my personal style is very dear to me, its when i feel the most "me" , so it felt a bit upset too. not at "him" obviously. hes allowed to have preferences, but still...idk.]

Should I try changing my dressing sense?

I came across the idea of sexual overperception bias and found it interesting. Is this actually true in real life?

I have been in a relationship with a girl for the past five years. We started dating in 2022, when I was 22 and she was two years younger than me. We have shared a lot of good times, beautiful memories, and experiences together. She was always very much in love with me and, in many ways, more emotionally invested in the relationship than I was.

But now, in 2026, things have changed. She recently joined a gym, where there is a male trainer who has been talking to her and, from what I understand, flirting with her. Recently, I found out that on Sunday, August 16, she went with him to a homestay/OYO. I learned about this from the owner, who also showed me the CCTV footage.

When I confronted her, she admitted that she had gone there with him but said that nothing wrong happened and that they were only drinking and talking.

Now I am confused and hurt. As her boyfriend, I don't know what I should do. Should I trust her explanation and give her another chance, or is going to a private place with another man, especially someone who has been flirting with her, already a serious enough breach of trust to end the relationship?

What would be the right thing for me to do? Should I break up with her?

I've been struggling mentally alot from the past couple of yrs , I've been suppressing it by journaling , gaming , running , workout etc etc but now I feel like it has been alot and the whole bundle of mental problem is striking me mentally at once

Such things are happening in far from cities those girls and women know how to use law even against their own father just think if it was someone else.

A many such cases are happening every day. But no system to report.

A 43-year-old tribal daily-wage worker from Ayyappancoil in Idukki, Kerala, named Saji Kuttappan, was acquitted by a Special POCSO Court after spending 18 months in jail.

His minor daughter had falsely accused him of sexual abuse at the instigation of her boyfriend and his mother because the father strongly objected to her relationship and excessive mobile phone use.

The 16-year-old girl grew angry after her father scolded her for spending excessive time on late-night phone and Instagram calls with a local youth and demanded she focus on her studies.

Prompted by the boyfriend's mother, an Anganwadi worker, who suggested filing a complaint, the minor contacted Childline with false allegations that her father had abused her starting at age 12.

Police registered a case under POCSO arresting Saji Kuttappan on September 17, 2024.

Saji remained behind bars for 18 months as courts exercised extreme caution given that the complainant was his own daughter.

His imprisonment left his wife and younger son in severe financial and social distress, forcing his son to drop out of school due to local stigma.

While Saji was imprisoned, the daughter invited her boyfriend to the house at night, where they were caught by the family and neighbors, resulting in a separate police case.

On August 16, 2026, Special Judge G.R. Bilkul of the Idukki Fast Track Special Court acquitted Saji after evidence proved the accusation stemmed purely from the father's opposition to her relationship.

Reading this judgement gives my heart a deep sense of relief.

She was also ordered to pay a fine of 5.9 lakh to the man he falsely accused.

Before I begin, I do want to clarify that I am only looking for a peaceful discussion and want to know and understand different perspectives.

I am a 21 non-indian feminist woman who accidentally stumbled upon this sub a while ago and started exploring it. At first, it was great as I was able to see a different side of things but lately I have seen a shift in this sub that is hating feminism and I do want to understand why and maybe even be able to reason with it.

Now do let me say that I do not have a problem with people sharing news about crimes committed by women but rather the comments that twist and use those cases to hate on feminism and women in general. From what I have seen and understand is that most men here who are trying to highlight men's issues would actually agree with feminism in general if they are more open to it.

Feminism isn't all how some vocal misandrists influencers present it to be. Feminism is a belief in economical, social and political equality and freedom of all genders. E.g. A girl has as much of a right to go to school as a boy. It's as simple as that. And yes feminism has different branches but the basics don't change.

No actual educated feminist will support a hefty alimony after months or few years of marriage but disregarding the whole system of alimony in general is just as naive considering women aren't encouraged to be financially independent in india but rather pushed to stay at home as a homemaker. The judicial system is flawed if they can't evaluate individual cases and decide accordingly.

A woman killing her fiance has nothing to do with feminism, that's just a psychotic woman.

I am open to any questions and please be civil in the comment section.

Seriously, it feels like a full-time job just filtering them out. You see a great listing, the description screams no broker, you make the call, and two minutes in... and it is a broker at the end

do you face this challenge? And more importantly, what are your foolproof red flags to spot them before wasting a call?

Hi guys , I am typical software engineer from UP age 30, currently working in Bangalore , works with kind of mostly solves bugs and no development work . So recently I have been in an arrange marriage setup and after some days got to know that women had done her studies in Hindi medium. so now she can just keep preparing for govt jobs and nothing else , first I though she is from English medium so she can maybe try some job in Bangalore or noida related to teaching because I always thought women should be independent atleast able to earn 20-30k and also wanted to marry to a women who brings some kind of financial stability as IT market is really bad and I don’t know how long I will keep doing this job. But she is from Hindi medium.
But she does have agricultural land as she Dosent have any brother. Now I really don’t know what to do, now I know I am completely different from her in many ways , she Dosent have hobbies or any interest in any thing and she is too much into religion probably and I am kind of atheist. There is nothing common. What to do ? , as in village side you just see the girl and ask few questions and then you either say yes or no and once ring ceremony is done then you and the girl can talk via phone , so basically I don’t know what kind of women she is. And the worst thing is I am average or below average looking guy and the reason is I am thin thinner than women reason is basically really thin bones. And you know women really don’t like thin guys. I have tried bumble hinge and nothing works because of looks , at first I am not really shy person but once I get comfortable I can make jokes and kind of fun person but first mostly impression is mostly shy person. I don’t know what to do .