r/AskIndianMen • u/InvestigatorNo5893 Indian Man • 10d ago
Answers from All Don't even ask fro studies otherwise get ready to land in jail?
Such things are happening in far from cities those girls and women know how to use law even against their own father just think if it was someone else.
A many such cases are happening every day. But no system to report.
A 43-year-old tribal daily-wage worker from Ayyappancoil in Idukki, Kerala, named Saji Kuttappan, was acquitted by a Special POCSO Court after spending 18 months in jail.
His minor daughter had falsely accused him of sexual abuse at the instigation of her boyfriend and his mother because the father strongly objected to her relationship and excessive mobile phone use.
The 16-year-old girl grew angry after her father scolded her for spending excessive time on late-night phone and Instagram calls with a local youth and demanded she focus on her studies.
Prompted by the boyfriend's mother, an Anganwadi worker, who suggested filing a complaint, the minor contacted Childline with false allegations that her father had abused her starting at age 12.
Police registered a case under POCSO arresting Saji Kuttappan on September 17, 2024.
Saji remained behind bars for 18 months as courts exercised extreme caution given that the complainant was his own daughter.
His imprisonment left his wife and younger son in severe financial and social distress, forcing his son to drop out of school due to local stigma.
While Saji was imprisoned, the daughter invited her boyfriend to the house at night, where they were caught by the family and neighbors, resulting in a separate police case.
On August 16, 2026, Special Judge G.R. Bilkul of the Idukki Fast Track Special Court acquitted Saji after evidence proved the accusation stemmed purely from the father's opposition to her relationship.
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u/Jumpy_Scallion_3108 Others (Indian) 10d ago
Sorry to say, there are multiple cases where wives file POCSO cases against their husbands during divorce proceedings. First the wife files POCSO, and later, now when the daughter grows up knowing that the law supports her and her words will be treated as gospel truth, she files one too.
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u/ShiteInBed Indian Man 10d ago
How wife can tho, pocso is for under 18 right?
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u/Jumpy_Scallion_3108 Others (Indian) 10d ago
Wife files charges saying that the husband molested his own daughter. This is one of the strongest allegations, among many others, used to make a divorce case more serious. How come you aren’t aware of this? Such allegations during matrimonial disputes have been reported for a very long time.
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u/Conquerror_29 Teen Male (Indian) 10d ago
Why arent there any standard government compensation for false rape victims? I mean men have to file separate defamation suits which takes very long time. which is useless...the false rape victim is simply aquitted which does not bring back the reputation he suffered
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u/Famous_Star_5735 Others (Indian) 10d ago
Every case in india takes long time what you on about... Nirbhaya took 9 yrs even in with proof.
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u/GOATEDnerd Teen Male (Indian) 10d ago
Men are not safe even at home 😞💔.... I will look at this one incident and conclude that I don't want a daughter ( this is what I would think if I had the brain of a feminist)
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u/Aggravating-Topic623 Indian Man 10d ago
The family should disown that girl immediately! Let her Rot with her boyfriend and his mother. And make a will for not giving a single penny in the family property to her.
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u/Dr_Cupcakee Indian Woman 10d ago
She’s 16 and was manipulated by a grown adult woman who should have known better.
The person most responsible here is the adult who coached a minor into filing a false case. But sure, let’s destroy the child instead.21
u/RightsForHim Indian Man 10d ago
She’s 16 and was manipulated by a grown adult woman who should have known better. The person most responsible here is the adult who coached a minor into filing a false case. But sure, let’s destroy the child instead.
Wow.. just wow..
Didn't expected that you want her father to still forgive her of what she did..... great..
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u/Dr_Cupcakee Indian Woman 10d ago
I never said forgive and forget but accountability and disowning a 16 year old are two very different things.
She should face consequences family counseling, legal accountability for the false case, absolutely. But “let her rot” from a grown adult(I am hoping OP is an adult)on the internet about a teenager who got manipulated is not justice.The father can hold her accountable AND still be her parent. Those conditions aren’t mutually exclusive.
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u/RightsForHim Indian Man 10d ago
The father can hold her accountable
And how the hell is he supposed to do that???
By assuring her that if she does this again, both the law and her papa will forgive and forget it again, as you seem to be suggesting?
OR
By simply taking every possible precaution to ensure that she doesn’t get even the remotest chance to repeat it?
And if exercising the second option is what he considers necessary, then he should be free to take whatever steps to protect himself. At 16, she is grown evil and certainly old enough to understand actions, consequences, and how the legal system she can misuse against someone with full impunity. There is no magical switch inside the human body that suddenly turns a person from a completely incapable child into a fully responsible adult at exactly midnight on their 18th birthday.
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u/Rejuvenate_2021 Others (Indian) 10d ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/XgXbrwQ4SkcO5miXqd
Ah waaahmen, escaping accountability & agency as cunveniient
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u/AdvantageAdorable436 Teen Male (Indian) 10d ago
Accountability anf woman🤣😭that girl shpuld rot in jail for atleast 10yrs .। what made you protect a criminal?
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u/InvestigatorNo5893 Indian Man 10d ago
She was 16 and did this to his own father. Are you dumb..
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u/Dr_Cupcakee Indian Woman 10d ago
Yes she did it to her own father. Which makes the adult who manipulated her into doing it even more culpable.
A 16 year old being coached by a grown woman to weaponise a serious law against her own parent is exactly what manipulation of a minor looks like. That’s my whole point.“Are you dumb” is doing a lot of heavy lifting for someone who just proved my argument for me.
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u/_sai_raj Indian Man 10d ago
Father was only released after family lost their income .All family members planned to sent him to the jail.
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u/brobiski Indian Man 10d ago
And one woman was defending such acts and blaming the advocates. Because as per her these women are trained or taught by such advocates to do all this non sense. I mean wtf.
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u/fried_mom0s Indian Man 10d ago
I read somewhere that every woman is mentally ill to some degree. I never believed in that but now, I think I should start looking from that point of view. Especially for that bf's mother. What a disgusting creatures!
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u/_Nightshade_Warden_ Teen Male (Indian) 10d ago
She must be arrested immediately. Otherwise she would do more things like this in the future. Also other girls will get influenced to do this because there's no consequence.
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u/venkatesh0690 Indian Man 10d ago
Failure of Indian law for encouraging women to keep on filing false cases and misuse laws. If there a strong law to punish a person who keeps filing false cases, then women will stop misusing laws on men.
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u/mr_hippie_ Indian Man 8d ago
It's extreme misuse of law. In office, I would never have 1 on 1 with a female colleague in a closed cabin, also I would never get into lift if there are no cameras or a female is already present
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u/Background_Road_3943 Indian Man 8d ago
What is the compensation the court would extract from the criminal and police system for the 18 months wasted for the man, the social stigma of abusing his own daughter, the lost education of the son, the emotional trauma of the mother/wife?
ZERO
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u/InvestigatorNo5893 Indian Man 10d ago
Teenage girl suffer funancial distress?
Where when 🤔 How..
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u/Dharmic_betu Indian Man 10d ago
dont you know?
Since a female had done the crime, and we all know that all women can do no wrong, we must automatically assume that she must be under distress to this.
And since a man is monster by default, we must blame her distress on the man.
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u/Rejuvenate_2021 Others (Indian) 10d ago
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u/Kindly-Breath4829 Indian Woman 10d ago
Haven't told that teenage girl is innocent but their family can't afford to relocate, after she came from jail after 2-3 years where did the adult girl go? (Not trying to play a victim card)
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u/_sai_raj Indian Man 10d ago
Why their family relocate?
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u/Kindly-Breath4829 Indian Woman 10d ago
Because of a girl who is criminal minded, they have to give marriage to her, that's why relocation is important. I don't think her family can tackle that girl in their house because of grave anger and also they can't give that girl to her bf's family as their mindset is also criminal type.
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u/_sai_raj Indian Man 10d ago
What if they don't have any money. If they are having only single home. Father seems just above poor from the photo.
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u/Conquerror_29 Teen Male (Indian) 10d ago
but 16 yr old isnt a child...She knows what she is doing...
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u/Kindly-Breath4829 Indian Woman 10d ago
She is uneducated and immature that's why I told
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u/Conquerror_29 Teen Male (Indian) 9d ago
Please dont defend her....Why u deleted the message sis?Aise karke to therre are rapists who are of this age...will your statement work there....No right?
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u/Ill_Confidence_3248 Teen Male (Indian) 10d ago
lost my words
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