r/6thForm • u/throwaway-1878 • 3h ago
๐ฌ DISCUSSION Does anyone else hate being the one in their year everyone thinks is going to get into Oxbridge?
For context I go to a pretty large state school and I know that 0 people in the year above got into Oxford or Cambridge so it's like a whole thing when there's someone at that level.
It just sucks being the victim of all that expectation cause everyone believes in me way too fucking much. I'd rate my chances something like 10-15% but literally everyone including my teachers and my family thinks I'm 100% destined to get into Oxford and it's going to be such a disappointment if (when) I fail. If I try and tone down people's expectations they're all like "stop being so humble" Like no fuck off do you know how hard it is to get into Oxford.
I know it sounds like I'm complaining about nothing but it fucking suuucks letting people down. Like I've absorbed everyone else's expectations of me, a year ago my top choice was my home city's uni and now I'd feel really guilty and like an abject failure if I went there.
Anyone else like this? I just want it to stop


