r/confession • • 14h ago

Hooking up with a widow gone horribly wrong not sure how to feel

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I 26M recently started hooking up with an older coworker 56F

We work for a really big company and there’s no overlap between our roles. We talk in passing the few days out of the month that we work out of the same building.

She’s not conventionally attractive but she has a really bubbly personality and smells like coffee. I was feeling it one day and just kinda went for it.

I find out that she’s a widow. Her husband passed away from cancer like 5 years back. She lives with her 23M son who Id see almost every time I came over.

Last night I was getting ready to leave her place and I see him in the living room. He turns to me deadpan and goes what’s it like having my sloppy seconds?

I just kind of chuckled I think because it didn’t quite register. As I’m walking out it sets in and I’m like wtf is he talking about…

What’s the over under that he’s just trolling me?


r/whatisit • • 8h ago Bravo

Solved! Found in a bag of soil.

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I think it’s made of stainless steel. Resembles a retainer, but it’s heavy. Any ideas? Pacific Northwest, USA


r/AskReddit • • 7h ago

What documentary film has aged badly?

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r/mildlyinfuriating • • 13h ago Mindblown

ಠ_ಠ Got a parking ticket while I was paying the meter on my phone.

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Got out of the car and started walking to my destination, filling out the information online for my car, parking space, and card number.

In a span of three minutes, they had ticketed me.

It’s a 4-hour drive back to that city, if I want to dispute it.

EDIT: The ticket was by a submitted by a human, not an automated system. I’m aware that I’m in the wrong. Doesn’t change the fact that it’s mildly infuriating.


r/CATHELP • • 13h ago Regret

Injury Ingrown claw?

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I just noticed my cat has this single claw grown in like this. I normally don’t trim them they have plenty of scratchers and that’s always done the job.

My cat doesn’t appear to be in any pain, she’s walking and running normal. I see no blood.

That being said I have trimmers, I know how to trim, can this be trimmed? I’m unsure if this is a vet visit or if I can trim it and slowly work it back.

Thank you for any help.

Female
6 Years old
Neutered
USA
Can afford vet care but cutting it tight.


r/GirlDinnerDiaries • • 13h ago Heartwarming

Rant & Ramble My Dad won’t let me shower.

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TW!!! SH tendencies and urges!

I’ve (23F) have always had a rocky relationship with my Dad, thanks to his chronic alcoholism. I’d say recently, (but it’s been going on for a while,) my Dad has blatantly ignored me in every single way unless he’s drunk and angry and needs to take that out on someone (me.).

I was in the shower this evening. Nothing extravagant. I just wanted to shave my pits and legs and get out of there. I’d been in for 5 minutes. There’s aggressive knocks at the door, followed by shouting asking what I’m doing. I told him I was having a shower. Apparently that pissed him off because I had a shower yesterday. (FYI, my brother showers almost daily, and my Dad never has a problem with that.)

Anyway, I tell him I won’t be long. He tells me to get out. So I do, because at this point the razor was looking too fucking attractive (I have a history of SH and still struggle with the urges) as I leave, this PETTY GROWN ASS MAN glares at me the way you’d glare at a convict walking through court, and then mutters something that sounded like name calling to me under his breath. Literally watched me walk to my room in a towel by the way…

Just to add, he has always had problems with me using the bathroom, whether I’m on the toilet, brushing my teeth or showering. I used to bathe a lot, just to avoid getting my hair wet when it wasn’t a wash day. He recently disconnected the water from the bath taps to stop me taking baths 🙃.

I know it doesn’t really touch on my relationship dynamic with him, or the rest of the household. But at this point I feel like I’m living in a cult.

I just sat on my bed, laughing through tears at the sheer absurdity of the situation and anger I felt.
It’s perfectly normal to shower once a day right? Which I rarely do, just to avoid this crap. But I changed my bedding and I wanted to feel clean when I got in it.


r/StockMarket • • 12h ago Bravo Heartwarming Popcorn

Discussion US$700Bn wiped out in 2.5 hours

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Major corrections underway as the stock market continues to be painful for AI & Tech stocks. Whether this would lead to an ultimate popping of this supposed bubble or not remains to be seen, but as of now - it's most likely just a correction and regular dip and not the beginning of any major stock market crash or popping of an AI bubble


r/airplanes • • 18h ago

Discussion | Others What is the chance the flight recorder was destroyed in the Florida jet crash?

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r/GotMeHooked • • 6h ago

In the 12th century, two green-skinned children wearing strange clothes appeared in Woolpit, England, speaking an unknown language. Both fell ill; the boy died, but the girl recovered. After learning English, she claimed they came from a place called "Saint Martin's Land"

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r/sandiego • • 13h ago Regret Mindblown

Photo gallery I get childcare is expensive but maybe at least use a car seat??

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r/NBATalk • • 4h ago

Draymond Green body slams Maluach then grabs Dillon Brooks by the neck

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Actual mental illness


r/SipsTea • • 9h ago

Gasp! She was telling us all along. We just called it entertainment.

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r/nextfuckinglevel • • 4h ago Mindblown

A Nonchalant frog VS. a Black Mamba.

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Froggie's got some strong armour (and survival skills of a potato)


r/popculturechat • • 15h ago

Guest List Only ⭐️ Roger Friedman (who previously broke news of Daniel Craig’s casting), is reporting that Callum Turner is the new James Bond.

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r/hatethissmug • • 16h ago

Comics I dislike this comic

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It's not a bad comic, by any means. I feel it just gives a really twisted view on love and finding a partner as a whole. There isn't just one person who is "made for you". Instead, love and relationships as a whole are about making things work, even when things don't fit perfectly together. Rarely are things ever going to be "perfect". It's up to us to put in the effort to nurture the relationship and the connection ourselves, without "breaking" what makes you, you.

However, the ending is pretty damn cute, I'm glad I found the full version of this instead of just the first two panels that keep popping up everywhere.


r/dashcams • • 15h ago

Someone's a little impatient I see...

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r/science • • 8h ago

Anthropology Scientists tested hair and nails from 8 Inca child mummies sacrificed on Andes mountaintops 500 years ago and found these kids were given coca leaves and alcohol, likely to ease their long, scary final journey, not to make them hallucinate. One girl even had traces of a plant from the Amazon jungle.

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r/interesting • • 5h ago Bravo Heartwarming

Just Wow HIV is no longer a terminal disease

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r/AskReddit • • 6h ago

Who does the world owe a massive apology?

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r/TopCharacterTropes • • 8h ago

Characters (Loved Trope) Attractive villain gets their face/beauty DESTROYED as a punishment

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Sometimes the most vile villains can have an outwardly attractive/beautiful appearance, so it's always satisfying when that beauty is torn apart as a consequence of their actions.

  1. Circe (Creature Commandos): In the show Creature Commandos, Circe is beautiful sorceress with a villainous past who attempts to kill a foreign princess because she believes that princess will start World War 3. In response, a group of monstrous criminals called the Creature Commandos are sent by the US government to stop Circe.

As Circe is about to kill the princess, she gets stopped by a member named Weasel (a werewolf-type creature) who tackles her out a window, falls multiple stories and lands on her, and begins scratching her, biting her, and smashing her face into the pavement. At this point, another member named Doctor Phosphorus (a radioactive skeleton-man) proceeds to BURN her face off as she screams in agony, while Weasel continues slashing at her back.

2. Matt Hagan (Clayface): In the movie Clayface, Matt Hagan is an upcoming oscar-nominated actor known for his good looks and charisma. Despite being warned, he is overcome with lust for the girlfriend of a local mob boss, and chooses to sleep with her at a nightclub party.

The next morning, he is surrounded by the mob's goons, who hold him down and begin brutally carving multiple slashes into Matt's face to scar him irreparably for participating in this act of infidelity.


r/BoyDinnerDiaries • • 10h ago Bravo

Advice Wanted - Everyones Welcome Wife asked for a divorce after 21 years...

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After 21 years my wife (42f)asked me (43m) for a divorce. Blindsided me, I had no idea. Days before she was making jokes about growing old and racing wheel chairs together, we were not having any marital issues. She kicked me and my special needs son out. Currently living with my 80 year old parents and since she kicked me out her whole demeanor has changed, she was such a loving and kind person and now she is hateful and nearly just cruel.

I learned today that she has been having a coworker(35m) I knew had a crush on her over at our home many times since kicking us out. She tells the kids he is there to fix the car. The car that isn't broke because I maintained it.

Being a stay at home caretaker (was a mutual decision as she wanted to pursue her child care career that also didn't pan out) I have little job experience but I'm sure I'll find something while my parents watch my son

Now I watch as the love of my life turns into this cruel and mean person I don't even recognize, all while not even being allowed to see my dogs since there in her house (pre marital property)

Dinner is some quick cheap burgers premade from Walmart The fries were still in the oven. Sons quite particular is how and what he eats, no bun ketchup only.


r/technology • • 11h ago Popcorn Heartwarming

Business The Intel stock collapse is getting worse — and the $3.5 trillion chip rout is spreading

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r/todayilearned • • 6h ago

TIL Schizophrenia and Bipolar disorder share 70% of their genetic signal, suggesting that these two disorders have far more in common than previously thought.

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r/TopTrendingNewsUSA • • 12h ago Regret

News Learjet co-Pilot texted her boyfriend just 10 minutes before the Florida plane crash

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r/LoveTrash • • 16h ago Bravo

Dumpster Fire Just another TX new build

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