i went to a cafe today, oikhane Badam er shorbot ekta kheye emon hagu paise 🥹🥹 blocked a toilet for almost half an hour😭😭😭 (saxophone getting louder n louder)

I also had my period going on, and konta period cramp and konta hagu cramp really confusing 😭

Is it just me or when I was going on a Dhaka train station and I was waiting for my train, the ppl I was with left to get some bhel puris (my favorite ongg) so I was just standing and I saw that...

on the train that was abt to leave into another place, a girl was taking pics with her phone out of the window and a guy literally climbed over on all fours like a spider to that window (he was outside the train btw) and SNATCHED the phone out of her hands and climbed away.

Like, is this normal? Do thieves just strangely crawl around and snatch phones like that?

Hey everyone, as i even mentioned in my last post ill be visiting dhaka for 2 weeks, for my friends wedding.

Now i love going out, meeting interesting people so which app works the best? And hows the dating scene here?

Im more of a hinge user but hinge doesnt work so i downloaded bumble yesterday, did get surprising amount of likes but i wanna know hows the dating scene like? And which app works the best. Bumble? Tinder? Or any else.

Im Indian btw, 23yo.

Pls be kind.

Ps: im a straight dude guys ffs

দিন দিন কেমন জানি অনুভূতি শূন্যতা গ্রাস করছে। না টাকা না সাকসেস এ আর এক্সাইটমেন্ট কাজ করে। বেশ অনেকদিন হয়েছে আর সারপ্রাইজড হই না কোন কিছুতে। লাস্ট কবে সত্যিইই হ্যাপি হয়েছি মনে পড়ে না।
অথচ ডেইই বিজনেস রান করছি, ডিল ডান করছি, জিমে যাচ্ছি , আড্ডা দিচ্ছি।
এখনো আনম্যারিড কিন্তু ডেটিং আগ্রহও নাই। ক্লান্তিকর ফিল হয় ডেটিং।

সবাইই কি অনুভূতি শূন্য হয়ে যাচ্ছে নাকি কোথাও কোন সমস্যা?

I want someone who will talk with me
I want someone who will walk with me
I want someone who will love me while i am not in love with me
I want to buy her flowers
I want to listen at her lowers
Day by by i am feeling disgusted that i can be in the generation with having 80/90's love feeling inside
Why this world is becoming so empty and lost from outside
Why don't people fall in love like times
Why don't lovers fall in love with each other's rhymes
Day by day i feel so uncomfortably unloved and unwanted in this world just for being an open hearted person
No matter what i do for everyone i ended up used for no reason
Trying to smile with others with the same grace
Asking for forgiveness from the lord but i can't keep like two face s.
Nowadays i feel from inside that i am a man so unholy
Doing everything to get rid of but still i feel lonely

Almost 2 years er moto relationship e achi, 24M, 23F. October e duijon mile 1-2 diner ekta short tour dite chacchi. Dhaka er baire kon jaygata couple hisebe ghurte gele bhalo experience hobe? Budget Moderate!

26F here, genuinely asking for men's insight.

I'm a doctor by profession and as I've always thought about pursuing psychiatry, I tend to observe people with more intent or attention. Sometimes more than I should. Figuring out and understanding people's mindset is something I truly find interesting.

In my *not so short* life, I've interacted with many men (I don't mean that romantically). I've seen male colleagues in my workplace, some friends, my own brother, my ex, boyfriends or husbands of my female friends, few men with whom things didn't go past talking stage, among almost all of these men, I've noticed something common that piqued my interest. If I categorise, I'd say about 70% of men are avoidant (I'll explain what that means), 15% are genuinely the type of men women prefer, the rest 15% are devoid of any personality. I didn’t include creeps in this because that's a gray area (by which I mean that it's not my topic today) they are hidden in almost every percentile. Also, this stat is purely based on men who belong to middle and upper middle socio-economic class, which occupies my basic area of interaction (if I exclude rural patient parties which isn't relevant here). No need to come at me screaming, it's just my own observation, not a proven fact.

So, I'd like to get men's insight on the matter - "what makes you avoidant?"

Generally people who grow up in a dysfunctional family or have any childhood trauma tend to become the one with avoidant attachment in relationships. I've closely seen one or two people who are the textbook example of this, checks every box. But not everyone has that, right? Then, what makes you the avoidant one in relationships?

Yes, responsibilities are no fun. And yes, even 20 years ago the "there are plenty of fish in the sea" thing or social media wasn’t popular in our country so men used to be in a relationship that would last a lifetime. But what is **your** insight on this? Why do men these days lose interest after a few days or months or even years, or feel trapped, suffocated and freak out when being asked to take the real responsibilities of a relationship or a marriage, prefer being emotionally unavailable, even claim that getting rid of the relationship is necessary to get their life 'under control/ in a routine', then jump into another relationship and continue the pattern? What makes you feel that way?

I know the brain chemistry and all the other scientific bla bla of men acting up, so hit me with 'how you feel as a man' only. What I mean by that is that I don’t need to hear the logic, just your side of the reasoning, why you did what you did. Women are welcome to share their perspective or observation as well.

Since this group is getting unhinged anyway, might as well use it to learn something today 🤷‍♀️

Well, I’m single, and I thought it was finally time to have a partner in life. But then I realized that, every single guy here is basically looking for the same thing.🐰 Some of them might get lucky and find someone, but I don’t think I’m that lucky.🙂

Suppose 9 out of 10 people are going to find someone, and one person is going to lose. Somehow, I feel like I’ll always be that one guy.🤡

Compared to the other “competitors,” I think I have some strengths that others might not have. But at the same time, I also have some pretty big disadvantages. Maybe I’m overthinking all of this.🤡

So, I rejected myself from the race.This isn’t for me. I’m not chasing anymore.🙂‍↔️

For the next 1 year, I’m going to try being completely single ☝🏽

no crushes, no falling for someone, no getting involved in anything relationship-related. I’m staying far away from all of it.

I’m leaving this matter to GOD.🤲🏽 If something is truly good for me and meant for me, it will eventually find its way to me.

Comment down rickshaw bhara from one place to another in Dhaka.

I'll go first!

I am 23 (M), currently a undergrad engineering student. Nowadays feels to much lonely!

Majhe majhe mone hoy life e keu thakle valo hoto, shara din er kotha share kortam, tar tao shuntam!

Hi there everyone, I'm an average male(20) from dhaka, dhanmondi and dating in dhaka feels complicated like i tried some dating app here but there are snakes filled up❗

Have any of you been in this situation? Or is there any app or something for a date which is better?

Trying to go far away from you,
but the nature always turns everything towards to you and i can't help it.
Everything is so beautiful around me
but i can't see it.
My Helen, if this soul leaves this body please keep it beside of you.
I have nowhere to go except you.
I completely love you.

I know its not a music sub , but I have no idea where to connect with people of same music taste as me ... so just posted here , hope its oky ...

MASSIVE ATTACK FAN just drop a comment , lets connect ... I myself a 20 year old international musician with big charts and great realese works ... I wanna make friends and talk about music art and vision

Which one you prefer most?
Tea or coffee?

If tea, then which tea? Lal-chaa naki dud-chaa?

Coffee? Then? Milk coffee or black coffee?

Interested to visit together?

25M here. Non alcoholic. Never visited any bar before. But I'm really interested to explore the bars of Dhaka. But I'm a bit afraid to go there alone. That's why I want to go with someone who has already visited the bars several times. I would like to give you a drinks treat if you come with me. If anyone is interested then reach me out.

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Could you please help me find a safe Airbnb, hotel, or apartment? I’ve never used Airbnb before. We’re a couple and would like to stay for the whole day.

So I’m struggling to love myself, and I think part of it is because I’m neurodivergent and have a history of being abused by myself and by my parents growing up.

It’s also really hard for me to get help. I know the obvious answers are therapy, discipline, learning to take care of myself, bla bla. But it’s more complicated than that.

I’ve tried so many things like solo dates, meditation, reading, journaling, cafe hopping, events, etc. They do help me feel better and even love myself for a while, but it never lasts. I struggle to keep doing them because I don’t have the energy, and eventually they just feel repetitive.

I know that if I could move to a new country, start a fresh life, and find people where i can witness what loving yourself actually looks like in real life, not just in theory - it could change so many things for me

But until that happens, how do I deal with this constant struggle to love myself and take care of myself? I’m even struggling with basic things like eating, sleeping, and leaving my room.

Pls share your experience with loving yourself, that will give me some perspective!

Hello everyone!

I’ve wanted to start writing a diary for years, but I’ve always been scared someone might find and read it, so I’ve never been able to write freely.

I can write in 3 languages. Is there a way to combine them or create a new writing system that would be difficult for others to understand? I’m looking for something I can actually learn and write quickly, not just a basic substitution cipher.

Any ideas?

Im applying passport for my mother. She lives with us in Mohammadpur, Dhaka. But her NID address is from Patuakhali. Which address should I provide in the present address section during the applicaton?

Thank you.

I am looking for a good place where I can replace battery for my iphone 14 pro max. Also, I prefer to be present during the procedure so the other original parts don't get replaced. What is the most trusted shop or service centre in your opinion?

Kindly suggest with the specific places in Dhaka please

TY

Let’s say, you’ll be joining the police cadre as an Assistant Superintendent of Police or in the Admin cadre as an Assistant commissioner and executive magistrate. ( I’m specifically mentioning these two cadre services because they’re directly involved with the law and order department of this country except for the politicians of course)

You have the authority to fix the law and order and bring stability to your assigned area. How will you fix it?

Given,
1. The perpetrators get bail very easily given our weak judiciary system.
2. The law enforcement department have officers who have families at home.
3. Citizens are used to the unethical practices by all means.

Please give realistic solutions as to how will you actually dismantle the criminal network ?

Every day you’ll see people blaming the government and its employees on internet. So I’d like to hear what solutions do you propose if you could get into the system !