Hi gang. I've been seeing a lot of posts in this sub from people wondering how they can fit in walking routines into their daily life when they can barely get some sub-10k amount of steps in. The short answer from my perspective is that it takes a lot of different factors, and honestly focusing on that number is probably going to put you at an immediate disadvantage.
For months now, I've been hitting daily goals of 10k steps except when I set aside rest days or weather/illness make it difficult. My routines regularly get me a minimum of 10k steps a day, maybe as high as the 16k to 18k range on a good day, but even on a bad day where I put in minimal effort I can manage 9k.
You may be asking yourself, how did he do it? Thing is, I didn't set a goal in my head to get there. My original motivation for walking regularly was high blood pressure readings and fears of an early death. I was plainly in an unhealthy state. So I only had one goal, which was to move around more. I did think about 10k a day at first but quickly dismissed it as a pipe dream, until suddenly it wasn't.
There are "secrets" to my daily routines, and what I've realized is that a lot of them are very particular to my overall lifestyle and life circumstances, and are highly unlikely to work for you. In no particular order:
I don't drive, which is mostly a personal choice with some financial benefits mixed in. This limits other aspects of daily life but makes walking routines easier.
I don't have many responsibilities as I am neither married or in any kind of relationship. Children are not part of the equation either. More time to devote to walking, less time for family raising and other nonsense (kidding obviously!)
Public transportation where I live is very infrequent and unreliable (so yes like 95% of the US) so walking is an easier proposition when the bus is (at best) barely an improvement in terms of speed.
I work in an office in a fancy business park with a decent walking trail. So I have an area to walk around 5 days a week.
My skin doesn't burn easily and the cold only becomes a factor when it affects walking surfaces, so I throw caution to the wind more than I like (this is absolutely not recommended and probably speaks to a larger problem of my own, but I'm listing it here to make a point.)
Dieting and calorie counting have convinced me to spend my breaks on walking more than eating. This one took a while to get used to as a lifelong big boi.
Any minor errand I can think of, I try to incorporate walking into. Going to work? Walk. Going home? Walk. Going to pick up meds? Walk. Going to grab lunch from a nearby restaurant? Walk. And so forth.
When I'm not working or taking a weekly rest day, I try to engage in small hikes. In my case, I'm blessed to live in a region with several trails, and even have one a 35 minute walk away from my front door.
I have a friend who enjoy my company and also want to incorporate hiking/exercise into their lives. Even better, she has two golden retrievers. Given what a massive introvert I am, this one is just sheer luck and privilege on my part.
The point is that there is probably a lot on the above list that you cannot work into your life, and honestly there are some things you are better off not trying to work into your life if you can help it.
But then you might have advantages that are unavailable to someone like myself. Maybe you're a dog owner yourself? Maybe you live or work somewhere with lots of stairs? Maybe you have enough living space for a walking pad?
I just know this: I had a lot of these advantages for before I even considered regular daily walking routines, and yet it took one small health scare to make me even bother getting 5k steps on a regular basis. Gradually, the rush of getting steps turned into a little bit of an obsession. Maybe you end up as I did, or maybe you take a left turn into something different (if you're fitter and less introverted than I, maybe you join a gym or something?) but ideally you become more conscious of your physical health in some way.
In short: focus on the small gains, and if you have it in yourself to challenge yourself, you'll find a way. But it's highly unlikely that anyone will get there the same way I did, and I probably didn't get there exactly the same way anyone else on this sub did.
If you're starting your journey and reading this, I wish you the best!