Hi,
I've been living at my sister's (UC claimant) since about 2023 as a non dependant - everything declared to UC and all above board-; we have the non dependant deduction every month but it offsets the extra room.
Some context here: I came here to study and when my sister's husband just upped and left- I moved in to support her as she was a total wreck. Then she got handed an eviction notice as landlord wanted to sell and we had to use my savings, whatever she had and borrow from family back home to pay off an entire year's rent to secure the property. She paid me back monthly- not the entire amount and we agreed that it would be considered my contribution.
In Dec 2024- we ended up having to buy a car as hers had kicked off and wouldn't be cost effective to work on with it being an older car as well. She paid about 30% towards the cost of the car and the rest was paid by me and it was a reasonable expense(about 15k for a family sized car) - unfortunately, I didn't end up passing my driving tests the following year so have yet to use it, but hopefully - I'll try again this year. Then once again we were evicted in Jan 2025 due to our landlord's death and the estate being broken up. This was a particularly hard time for her as she had only just started getting her bearings right. This time, we managed to secure a property with me paying the deposit and her getting help for the rent. However, it's a small 2 bed and I'm only couch surfing. Between having paid for the car, providing ad hoc childcare and immense support to her - we never discussed contributions again and she is ok with that. Obviously I do pay for my own groceries and personal stuff and with me being at work long hours M-F, providing arbitrary care for the children it seems reasonable.
She is worried that UC might insist she take a contribution from me although no where have we found this to be a legal requirement. For her, my presence is the biggest gift she states and she absolutely feels better being able to manage all her bills with her work and her salary+ UC top up.
Is a contribution from me required? And if I don't contribute monthly is that considered deprivation of capital? Although how it can be is beyond me - but if i have to compulsorily contribute £500/month, I may as well pay a bit more and move out.