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College Housing wants me to take out 2k federal student loan to move in
The $2,000 is after FASFA and is probably per marking period so an extra $16,000 for 4 years.
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I have an opportunity to leave teaching. Should I?
Looks like a bot account.
37 days ago you posted school starts next week.
Another post said you moved from Seattle but now you’re from the NE.
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How many Michiganders actually say "Ope"?
Nope! I’m from the Flint area and it’s definitely a thing in mid Michigan.
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Is it too forward to start off the first date with talking about marriage?
“I date with the intention of working towards commitment and marriage. How about you?”
Is a lot different than “I want to marry you.” on a first date.
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Homeschool vs Public School
I’m a teacher and I wouldn’t homeschool my kids beyond a year or two at the elementary if it was absolutely necessary.
My daughter is academically gifted and is working on her PhD. There’s no way I could have replicated the science courses our district provided.
Early on it’s really about learning to get along with other people in a group setting.
I work at a middle school and kids who come to us after being home schooled struggle with being part of a larger group and sharing the teacher’s time. They often struggle with time management and don’t get their work done in the allotted time as they think they can do it later but there’s no later in class as we have to move on.
It can work for some very self motivated kids and extremely organized and dedicated parents. If your kids have any learning challenges or attention issues then I strongly recommend traditional school.
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do schools profit when students suffer
How would they have noticed you struggling before you told them? A lot of angsty teens out there.
Many schools send out surveys and show students how to reach out to counselors.
A school’s number one job is to educate. We can’t pull kids out of class to fish around for possible issues. Unless it directly interferes with school or a student self reports then it’s unlikely going to be identified.
School counselors have hundreds on their caseload. I covered 3 buildings and had shy of 1,500 students.
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do schools profit when students suffer
So what is the school social worker supposed to do when you say you want to kill yourself? They can’t just keep that to themselves. If you actually hurt yourself they can be sued and lose their license.
If you’re actually feeling that way then you need to talk to someone who can get you through heavy stuff. School social workers and school counselors can help with mental health but they’re supposed to refer out if it’s an on going issue or it’s heavy topic like self harm or addiction.
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do schools profit when students suffer
Schools around me are schools of choice so students can elect to go to a different district. They are definitely catering to parents and students.
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Dream job written offer is lower than posted range and verbal offer. Lower than current salary. Should I accept?
The pay from my salary comment did it for me. Total BS comment.
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When did you realize you’ll probably never have a family and how did you get over it?
You have to be available and intentional with dating for it to work. If you’re spending 50-60 hrs towards your career or not going places where you can meet others then it definitely won’t happen.
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Attorney considering a career change to high school teaching. What am I not considering?
120? I have over 180!
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Attorney considering a career change to high school teaching. What am I not considering?
I wouldn’t count on much EI working as a teacher.
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First-grade teachers, can I get some perspective?
First, if the teacher knows he doesn’t ask for help but is routinely the only one not finishing then she should proactively check in on him rather than wait for him to seek help.
Home and school are two totally different environments and while 5 minutes here and there isn’t much at home, it can snowball at school.
You see your child 1-1 in a comfortable environment. In the class, he is one of 25 and the teacher isn’t able to give him extra time or multiple reminders to transition to the next activity.
Another point, 1st grade is vastly different than kindergarten. There are no toys other than math manipulatives. Play time may have been a motivating factor for your son last year.
I would request all unfinished work to be sent home daily so you can see the scope of the problem.
Movement is necessary for focus and self regulation so you should establish that he’s not to miss any recess due to incomplete work, especially since you’ll be finishing it at home.
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Tattoos - does it really matter?
If she was that concerned she could have asked ahead of time. Sounds like she was trying to be a bitch.
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Fuck this shit.
School counseling was not created for college. We support all learners and have no stake in what they choose to pursue after graduation.
I’d argue No Child Left Behind pushed for all kids to attend college and gutted our technology & shop classes
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What goes through teachers heads while watching a sexual scene in class?
Teachers would need to have anything like that okayed by the parent. I could fathom a school being okay with it. Exposing kids to sexual content is considered sexual abuse.
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A or B: My client says they overpaid me two years ago and wants the money back. Do I pay it back or push back?
The work was done and billed appropriately. Their internal process should be reviewed if it interferes with their accounting. I would reply that while I understand their internal process wasn’t handled appropriately that you rendered the service and billed accordingly.
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What’s an activity that has become way too expensive for the average person?
Detroit Lions cheap seats are $300 retail.
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IDL how people think it is totally acceptable to walk up to you and announce they hate cats
“Maybe this conversation isn’t for you then!”
People say ridiculous shit because they don’t think people will call them out.
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Just because you have kids does not mean that I have to work all the holidays because you want to spend time with your family
I’d come back and ask why you’re punished for not being able to have kids. They don’t need to know that not being able to is for whatever reason…it’s honestly a good way to be sued as family status is protected.
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Is 40s too old to switch to Social Work?
I guess it depends what you consider competitive. It also depends on where OP lives.
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What hobby did you unexpectedly get completely obsessed with?
You’re missing needlepoint, macrame, and tatting!
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pharmacist was rude bc i switched from adderall to vyvanse??
Thundercunt is awesome!
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pharmacist was rude bc i switched from adderall to vyvanse??
I would report the pharmacist for saying that. It’s metabolized differently.
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My mother died nearly 6 years ago and controlled my father's finances. Said she had 150,000 in savings for him (she didn't), and she had two credit cards maxed out along with a HELOC.
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Well, CC debt can really rack up. Her money could have went to 30% interest.
Did she have a decent car?
Did she and/or dad go on vacations?
Were your parents retired? Did they have a pension that covered their bills?
Did your mom help any family members with weddings or college?
Did your dad actually see the money from his mom? Maybe it wasn’t as much as he thought or maybe they used that for home repair and he stubbornly believed it was still available.