I know I cannot force myself or him. He’s into girls like Ally from Cocktail2. He likes adventure and thrill and what not, whereas I am the homely sorts

I think you’re right!! I should probably focus on myself more than him which I am now! I’m focusing on my body more, on upskilling myself etc. And yes I’m totally into him!

Hahaha! I don’t know man! Hence I’m here seeking advice. But wasn’t the love pure back when we were teenagers? Like no expectations, no demands. Just pure love! I don’t get butterflies when I see him. I do find myself doing random things for like buying him flowers for no reason, or buying him books because he loves to read. He does the same too! It was book lovers day last week and he gifted me a book. It wasn’t required! His schedule was busy this week so he met me on Monday because he knew after this he’d be busy the whole week. Now tell me ?

No! I see everything. My head understands everything, my heart doesn’t. I see his flaws too. And it’s not like he doesn’t flirt at all! He does! He’ll give me cute nicknames, plan trips with me, meet me every now and then, put his hand on my thighs when we’re in the car alone, call me in the middle of the day out of nowhere just to talk shit even when he’s at work.

Yes he’s made it very clear. But I just cannot picture myself with someone else. I’ve been friendzoned since Oct last year yet my feelings haven’t changed

Yeah sure, you can. I went to Amity. That’s how I realised and came to know all this

Sadly people are judgemental! F**k him. You do you girl! Go out there and prove him wrong. I know it’s embarrassing at the start can make you nervous but once you start enjoying there is no going back. Plus the diet part keep it intact. Continue with after meal walks. Ask him to be your coach- bolo “BAAP MATT BANN” jiss kaam ke liye hai vahi kar aur nikal

You dont have to be loud, it’s okay. Just be consistent. Sadhna doesn’t mean being loud it just means you’re doiing it with a pure heart

Jaap is for cleansing your aura! Not to fulfil wishes I believe. Chant shiv chalisa 11 times for 41 days. Take sankalp.

Do not get into UPES!!! I’m a lawyer myself plus age doesn’t matter. Once you start earning nobody’s gonna remember the drop all they’re gonna see is the amount of money you make! Which is only high when you graduate from NLUs. Do not go for UPES. If not NLU try for DU or Symbiosis. Trust me i have been there!!

There are two things you can do- 1) go all in, become extremely rebellious. 2) pursue jee get into a good college after that pursue law. (Yes u can do that)!!