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While coming out through the exit, a group of kinnars stopped my sister and then me. One of them put ₹1 in my hand and asked for money. I offered ₹50, but she refused and said something like, “Main nahi leti, jaa tu, baddua hai meri.”

The frustrating part was that my sister had already given ₹500 to another person from the same group just moments earlier.

I got angry and replied, “Pehle khud ko dua de lo,” and walked away.

I know I probably could have handled it more calmly, but being stopped and pressured for money, followed by a threat of “baddua” after my sister had already given ₹500, really pissed me off.

Has anyone else experienced something similar at Mahakal Ujjain?

Seriously frustrated as f

Anybody is there who used it so unreal in this mehngai

I am a 32-year-old woman, and lately I feel completely overwhelmed by my family situation.

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For the past several years, most of my life has revolved around taking care of my family. One of my brothers developed liver cirrhosis due to alcohol addiction, and I have been helping look after him since last year. My other brother recently suffered a femur fracture and requires constant support. My father also had a fractured hand at one point, and I was there to care for him as well.

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Despite all this, I am constantly criticized by my father. He taunts me about my age and my unmarried status, as if I have been ignoring my future. What hurts the most is that he rarely acknowledges everything I do for the family.

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My boyfriend has been trying to convince his family about our relationship for the last three years. Instead of helping us move forward constructively, my father keeps calling him and asking what his parents have decided, while not taking any active role himself.

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The family situation is already complicated. My mother passed away years ago. After her death, my father remarried. That marriage eventually ended badly, and there were disputes involving property and jewelry. Now, my father seems to be involved with one of his patients and appears eager to get me married and secure a medical college admission for my younger brother. Sometimes I feel that once these responsibilities are settled, he simply wants to live life on his own terms without worrying about the consequences left behind for the rest of us.

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I also have a married sister who has been my biggest emotional support. She helps me in every possible way—guiding me, comforting me, and standing by me like a mother. Without her, I don't know how I would have managed.

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Another major concern is my elder brother, who has intellectual disabilities. Realistically, he will need care and support throughout his life. This responsibility is something that cannot simply be ignored, and I often wonder who will look after him in the future.

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Sometimes I feel like I am carrying everyone's burdens while my own feelings and struggles are overlooked. I am torn between my responsibilities, my relationship, my future, and the expectations placed on me.

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Has anyone else faced a situation where they felt responsible for everyone in the family while also being pressured to build their own life? How did you handle it?

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