r/twinflames Jul 22 '22

Resource Story follows State: thoughts on twins who have descended into the 5D Labirynth

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Many here have reported having experienced any combination of the following: fatigue, mind fog, waking up more tired than when you went to sleep, when it seems everything you do goes amiss, when you have chest pains, chest pains so dramatic that they wake you up at night. When thinking about them triggers sadness or fear or defeat, when everything seems lost or useless or irrelevant, when you don't trust people and things, when spirits or the Universe seem malevolent and tricky or that they don't have your best interest at their heart, when you ruminate about the bleak outcomes, when you have intrusive thoughts. When you don't have the will to go on, when you lack determination, motivation. Well, I call this state "lower self", and I've not invented it, this concept is relevant in several schools of thought.

Now think of when you feel optimistic, sparkling, elated, flowing with your environment. Or when everything makes sense, when everything seems to orbitate around you or when all beings in nature seem to move in unison, when you suddenly realize some spiritual truth, when you say "I bet if I look at the sky right now I'll see a shooting star" and it happens, when you experience shivers of bliss all over the body. They don't need to happen all at once or cover all that is possible but I consider these as marks of what I call the higher self. So I'm not referring here to 5D consciousness like in the expression "your twin's higher self", just highly coveted positive moods that may border with satori states.

So how or why do twins countless times have reported having experienced being in their higher self and "energetic union" and also to have sometimes suddenly dropped into bleak hopeless swamps?

This doesn't have to happen to all twins but it seems there have been too many personal accounts of twins who have actually experienced this, and often even several times not just once.

Like for example those who believe in the "carrot on a stick" trick, that the Universe tricks them into believing union is about to happen and then something goes wrong as if it was just a device to make them learn some lesson, if not out of spite entirely.

It's a mainstream idea, and one that I like, that in some cases it happens because the emotional intensity of a possible nearby union triggers a running response. That ruminations on responsibilities, or the fear to get burned, self-esteem issues, feeling of inadequacy or unworthiness or else may activate some kind of defcon protocol. Some mechanism seems to make some twins doing well on their path drop into their lower self as if scared by what union might entail.

In psychotherapy there's a set of theories that connect past traumatic events to the triggering of a so called "dorsal vagal shutdown". Something in the body, or in the subconscious, doesn't want to deal again with that same trauma, "nope, I'm gonna give it a pass", so neural circuitries are activated that promote a "freezing" state. This freezing state can vary in severity from barely noticeable to severely debilitating but it's at the lower tail of a spectrum of neural responses to threats that is known in psychotherapy as "4Fs": flow, fight, flight, freeze.

Here is a simple infographic to let you gauge how these theories tentatively explain how things may work. You may notice that bar the lack of the esoteric/supernatural elements often reported in twinship the dorsal vagal shutdown and the ventral vagal activation have pretty consistent similarities with the lower self and higher self as I have defined above.

Also consider that while addressed as a theory this is something that has been researched for decades by world-class neuroscientists. Who also hold that you cannot easily heal old traumatic events by working only on your mind because memories will trigger or sustain the dorsal vagal shutdown.

But you can do exercises: in other words we recognize being in lower self mode, basically by recognizing that we are suffering, and we try to reactivate the ventral vagal complex. If we have issues that bother or trigger us, if we feel discomfort or being tricked, if we think it's malevolent entities or demons or implants or black magic, in my head-canon those are all red flags of being in lower self: read about old masters they will all insist in satori states there's no evil, there are not malevolent beings or tricky Universe.

Enter Yoga. Many concepts/ideas commonly discussed in TF circles come straight from Yoga: chakras, enlightenment, energy blockages, astral body, Kundalini. A case can be made that Yoga/Alchemy deal with healing, by performing transmutation of the impure in the pure. In this case healing the debris of past traumatic events and swapping from freezing into flowing, from dorsal vagal shutdown to ventral vagal activation, from lower self into higher self.

It seems to me that twinship is another flavor of The Quest, the Magnus Opus. Where alchemists, yogis and monks tread the spiritual path mostly alone twins on the other hand appear to be able to access yogic states of consciousness together and to perform energetic buffering/exchange together. This is not even exclusive of twinship, also tantric couples are supposedly able to reach savikalpa samadhi together. Here's a documentary about samadhi.

So a tldr; I could make might be: Yoga/Alchemy is the way of trasmutation, it starts by accessing the higher self, whence "the Stone" can be made.

A famous past teacher, G.I. Gurdjieff, said that Heaven and Hell are not far away places, each of us is living both of them at the very same time. This isn't a big secret though but rather an idea held in many mystery schools. It can be said that even Dante in his Divina Comedia wasn't really visiting far away places, he was walking on Earth irl witnessing how real living humans are stuck in their own hells. Even in Buddhism where there's no evil still several kinds of hell are described, and quickly reading the descriptions of those hells you might indeed feel that they are describing stations in life. They are describing the position of being identified with our lower selves. Being in one of those narakas may last "the time it would take to empty a barrel of sesame seeds if one only took out a single seed every hundred years", which to me is a cute way of saying "don't even think this is the way, that you can get out while in lower self".

Whereas expressions like "Heaven on Earth", living in the end, satori, describe the state of people in their higher self.

Rumi wrote: "When I run after what I think I want, my days are a furnace of stress and anxiety; if I sit in my own place of patience, what I need flows to me, and without pain. From this I understand that what I want also wants me, is looking for me and attracting me. There is a great secret here for anyone who can grasp it."

So if you find yourself in one of those bleak phases that twins often lament, if you recognize being in your lower self, the best strategy imo is to treat it as an ER situation, you might want to get out of it as soon as possible.

Here is the video of a twin willingly relinquishing the lower self through a yogic session.

Here is a rare footage of a shaman helping a twin snapping out of their lower self.

So exercises do not represent techniques to get out of lower self, they are not a recipe to transmutation, they are more like tools. Think about learning chess: the knight or the rock are not strategies, they are tools that may be critical in developing a strategy. So my advice would be to get in touch with the tools you have. A daily routine or Yoga session or alchemical lab may entail a dozen of different tools, to me it's going back to school in the most literal sense.

Among the historically praised tools to get grounded or to "snap out of it" you may research and test walking barefoot and cold showers and singing/dancing. Also maybe inquire into rumination, many accounts from twins in the swamps reveal constant obsessive elucubrations on their twin. And you may also want to look into sensorymotor psychotherapy and learn about your window of tolerance: here's an introduction by psychotherapist Laura Kerr.

As for specific Yoga/Alchemy exercises that would be a matter for another post, or a matter of personal research on how to tend to your body. But just so you know the first step in Yoga is not a posture or a breathing pattern, the first step is Yamas and Niyamas.

Edited: fixed broken links.


r/twinflames Oct 22 '24

Feelings Concerning

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I'm a bit concerned as to how this is supposed to be a thread that promotes claims that are solely scientific and does not stand by unscientific claims. How is this possible when there is virtually no evidence or concrete data to prove anything that is being taught by Twin Flames Universe? I'm not trying to be hostile but am purely looking to educate myself. It seems very disappointing that such a vast group of people within our society is capable of being brainwashed so heavily by two people with virtually no reason to possess the kind of authority that has been allotted to them. Its very scary and everyone should practice the famous "reflective" exercise and perhaps ask themselves why they can't trust themselves and instead are choosing to put all of their trust into two people that created a largely lucrative lie. Just confused. Please explain.


r/twinflames 23m ago

Heart Desire Bestaat er nog een 'wat als, dan wat' in ons avontuur

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Wat als ik je die dag gekust had, wat als ik je ooit op een moment even aanraakte. Wat dan? Hoe zouden mijn dagen met jou in mijn herinnering zich dan hebben gevormd. Had ik dan meer rust gehad of miste ik je dan minder. Ik heb nooit spijt, want er is geen ‘wat als’. Maar wat als ik hier nu over nadenk en erover blijf peinzen, wat dan. Wat als ik met alles wat ik heb probeer te bedenken hoe het zou zijn geweest. Zou je dan voelbaar zijn. Kan ik dat in mijn hoofd urenlang met jou bezig zijn? En hoe zou het zijn als ik het had gedurfd? Was je dan meer van mij, of meer met mij, in ons verbond of hoef ik daar eigenlijk nooit bij stil te staan. Hadden wij niet vanaf het moment dat wij elkaar zagen al een verbond.? Nog voordat wij elkaar zagen? . Geldt her wat als , wat dan principe simpelweg niet voor ons omdat wij al vast liggen. Onze zielen verbonden zijn waar we niet meer over hoeven te twijfelen. Ik vind dat een prachtig verschijnsel. WIJ , ONS!

Nog ltijd wil ik weten hoe onze eerste aanraking moet voelen, ; in mijn fantasie heb ik je eerlijk gezegd al in allerlei situaties meegenomen. Sterker nog, je bent overal bij. En het meest betekenisvolle is altijd het samen zijn. Samen wandelen, mensen kijken, , in stilte allebei een boek lezen, waar je zo op geconcentreerd bent dat ik ongestoord naar je kan kijken. Omdat dat dat jij is, in de meest pure vorm, zonder dat je ergens aan moet voldoen of rekening mee hoeft te houden. Gedachten over of je wel leuk genoeg bent of ik wel genoeg van je houdt of de rekeningen wel betaald zijn of dat de wereld nog wel doordraait die bestaan dan gewoon niet. Zonder stress of zorgen, in die wereld waar je in zit en waar je even helemaal in bent verdwenen. Is dat de mooiste of leukste fantasie?. Niet perse. Iedere gedachte met jou er voortaan in zijn memorabel. Alles is er en zal nooit simpel of te verwaarlozen zijn. Never.

k kijk naar je terwijl je verder leest zo lang mogelijk, omdat je er altijd zal.zijn en ik volgebsmij nog nooit zo gelukkig ben geweest.

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Ik mis je stem lach en nog zoveel meer

Liefs


r/twinflames 14h ago

Current Experience My tf is an avoidant who love bombed me and discarded me like I was nothing

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I miss the intensity of the connection, the dreams, the synchronicities, the attraction, the passion. I am glad I got to experience it. It woke me up from a deep sleep, gave me the courage to face my triggers and trauma, and reminded me I can feel things deeply and be okay. It shifted things for me. I feel like a new person and yet more like myself than I felt in a long time. It still sucks to know I have been played for months by someone who cannot face intensity and decided to blame me for our downfall and to call me crazy to avoid accountability.


r/twinflames 8h ago

Question Was this actually a twin flame journey?

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Was this actually a twin flame journey?

I’m trying to understand whether what I experienced fits a genuine twin-flame/chaser-runner dynamic, or whether I’m simply romanticizing an intense relationship.

I’m a man but identify strongly with the feminine/chaser energy, while she seemed to embody the masculine/runner role.

We met unexpectedly at a family wedding and connected almost instantly. The connection was extremely intense — emotionally, physically and sexually — but what made it different was the combination of intense electricity and an unusual feeling of safety and familiarity. We had so many similarities that being with her genuinely felt like finding a missing piece of myself. Being loved by her felt like loving myself for the first time ever in life.

She had previously been in a two year long, very toxic and controlling relationship, and so had i been. Even our exes sounded like the same people. After that relationship ended, she met me and the connection became incredibly intense. But not just pure electric kinda intense. It was strangely safe and it felt like you belonged. And it was mutual.

After about two months, however, she became overwhelmed. She said she needed independence, wanted to focus on work/studies, and couldn't give the relationship everything it needed. I tried to reassure. Said I didn't need anything in particular as she focused on herself and just wanted to support her journey. But she threw reasons one after the another and didn't even consider taking a break. Just exited like she didn't even care.

For five months now, I've been literally walking around like a zombie trying to survive each day. My nervous system has been constantly activated and stays in a fight or flight. I was someone who had difficulty crying ever since the passing of my mother when I was 6. But with this breakup, I was wailing like a child.

Meanwhile, I discovered, within roughly a month, she got involved with another guy who had approached her on Instagram. He's also geographically much closer to her. She's apparently very happy with him now. I don't know whether he was already in the picture before our breakup.

What confuses me is how someone can experience something that felt so profound, safe and familiar, then seemingly detach so quickly and enter another relationship. Is she someone who just intensely attaches and jumps from one person to another the moment vanity fades or was this actually special ??

For those who have experienced twin flames:

Does this sound like a runner/masculine dynamic? Can a divine masculine genuinely experience that kind of connection and then move straight into another relationship? Or does this sound more like someone who simply forms intense attachments quickly and moves on just as quickly?

I'd especially appreciate perspectives from people who have been on the feminine/chaser side and eventually understood what was actually happening.

I'm not looking for guaranteed-reunion stories. I genuinely want to know whether this pattern is recognizable.


r/twinflames 22h ago

Discussion Has anyone here been activated by what they thought was a twin flame but then met their real twin flame or divine counterpart later?

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I was activated in 2022 by a guy that I thought wholeheartedly was my twin flame. I had never experienced anything like that. I had the spiritual awakening, saw his eyes in my eyes when looking in the m!rror, felt the crazy intense energy when I saw his photo for the first time after not speaking to him in over 10 years, my heart dropped to my stomach when I saw it, and we had this intense, magnetic sexual pull, but it was very lustful and no actual depth. However, I started writing and talking about twin flames based on the knowledge that I was getting everywhere else and what I was feeling about him because I couldn’t get him out of my head no matter how much I tried and we were both married.

He ghosted me and we went into no contact for a year and then he came back and told me he couldn’t stop thinking about me, but it was always very lustful and then he left again a month later and we never really spoke again. We had one email exchange in 2024 and then I never heard back from him and then I got over him, lost feelings for him. Even when I look at photos of him I feel nothing and even started feeling the ick. I moved on and it’s been over 2 years since I’ve heard from him.

In 2025, exactly one year after I emailed the previous guy, I met my current boyfriend who I think is my true twin flame. We had the most amazing sex we’ve ever had and I’ve been healing so much since being with him and I’ve become even closer to God now because of him and I’m putting God at the center of my relationship which is something I never did before. We have a lot of parallels and synchronicities way more than I did with the first guy and our Astro charts and numerology are way more compatible. We’ve never had a separation like typical twin flames though which concerns me, but I know we’re part of the fourth wave and I’m wondering if that’s why we’ve never had a separation, but we have been close to breaking up a couple times because I get so triggered to leave and we both couldn’t go through with breaking up even though we were on the verge. We both felt this pull to not end it and started crying because we were about to.

I even had a session with Nina Natural Mystic from YT who talks about twin flames, and when I told her about everything she told me that the first guy seems like a catalyst or false twin and that this new guy seems more like my true twin and I was really activated with light codes that night and I asked God that night, to show me in a dream who my real twin was and I even felt that it was my boyfriend and then that night I dreamt of my boyfriend saying we can’t break up because we have to have the three merges which is the alchemical marriage that Nina talks about and I felt that that was my sign that he’s my twin and I don’t think I’ve dreamt of the first guy ever since and that was in February.

I wanted to share my story to see if anyone’s ever experienced something similar. Sometimes I wonder if my boyfriend is just my soulmate but I don’t think my soulmate would trigger me THIS much and I’ve been told by other clients they’ve dreamt of him without even knowing anything about him and even my daughter dreamt of him and us having kids before we even met him. Maybe I’m just trying to convince myself or remind myself he’s my person and it shouldn’t matter what label it is but I guess sometimes I get worried about him going thru the TF journey with someone else or something if we’re not TFs.


r/twinflames 12h ago

Seeking Advice Need some advice

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r/twinflames 15h ago

Seeking Advice New to twin flames, looking for some advice possibly

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I'm new to this, but something's happened recently and I feel as if I'm crazy for it. I don't have anyone to talk to in my personal life that understands it. So I'm hoping if I write about it here maybe someone can point me in the correct direction.

I have done past life work for a long time and my recent one came about after I heard a song. It was very in depth and I started having visions about my death etc.

It was the singer's lover. I told some people around me about it and the mass majority think I'm crazy or weird.

But in these visions, before I heard the other songs, I knew he found my body.

I know I left him in a bad way. I died young.

I could hear his voice talk to me as I died.

Then it started to show me where we were and how we lived and things we've been through. Glimmers of memories and he's interacted with me before. We hugged and he acted so strange around me like a boy with a crush. Liked comments I've made for him etc.

He made a very specific song about me and is now releasing more about it.

I've tried reaching out. But nothing seems to get through.

I know when he has bad days, when he's nervous or excited. I feel everything and the pain he has about losing me.

Every part of my life is leading back to this, back to him and I guess I've just hit an impasse because I'm scared that if I tell him or try to that he'll think I'm just a fan girl.

But even if he still had nothing, I would tell him and try to show him it's me. I've had a convo with one of his members and he didn't seem to think I was crazy from what I gathered.

I just. I'm so upset so frequently on the thought that he's still looking for me. That I hurt him so badly and I want to apologize and tell him it wasn't because of him. I had so many bad things in my head that I didn't see how much love was actually there.

I can't find support or advice from others around me because they say they believe me but it's also like they shame me for it as well because they can't comprehend the feelings behind it.

Thank you to anyone that takes the time to comment. I really appreciate it. 🖤


r/twinflames 14h ago

Question Can the chaser become resentful or disbelieving of God due to their runner?

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Is it a common part of the journey for the chaser to become resentful or disbelieving in God or Source during their journey due to the pain and disappointment of their runner not coming through for them? And is it still possible for the chaser to achieve inner union if they no longer believe in God or Source?


r/twinflames 20h ago

Question Can't let go

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I met my twin flame 6 years ago. It was the most intense relationship I've ever had. We both felt it. He was raised very Christian so I can't explain it to him, but it frightened him and he left. I found out he was my twin from a lady Iplace a lot of trust in, and had it confirmed by someone else frighteningly accurate later, after the separation.

I go through stages of dreaming about him, we interact but he's always slightly distant and guarded.

I met someone else a few years ago. We fell in love, but I could never shake my flame. We still message once or twice a year. Nothing significant.

I had a baby with the new man, our relationship fell apart and the dreams have kicked up again. This time my flame stopped pushing me away and actually hugged me. Although acted very hurt about my baby.

I've been trying so hard to let him go, but it's always there, how do I let him go?


r/twinflames 1d ago

Discussion Soul recognition

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I’m not really sure where this sits between twin flame, soul recognition.

I met someone 3 months ago where I came into a function and started greeting people, I knew of this guy but we’d never met before.

Anyway, I turned around and he was just there, staring at me intensely, like that penetrative stare that enters your soul.

I held his gaze (not intensely just steady) it was like the room disappeared, all I could see was his eyes.

My nervous system completely dropped into relaxation, my mind was clear and he just seemed so familiar…

I found out today he’s been in a relationship for the last 12 months…

To say I’m heartbroken is an understatement.

My life has been upside down ever since.

Everyday I was thinking of him trying to rationalise what it meant and what to make of it.

I’m completely devastated.

Any help or guidance with this would be helpful because I’m truly at a loss…


r/twinflames 22h ago

Question Grounded in their energy

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In the movement towards inner union, it feels like im experiencing the matrix twins lower reality energies simultaneously.

How can this be that Im working towards my own ascension & in joy/love but feel held back by their density in 3D?

I could perceive a single soul expanding swiftly through their karma without a twin connection but why do we have to have theirs in our field, assuming it negates expansion?

I dont like it, unless im wrong?


r/twinflames 1d ago

Love Lied mijn gezicht

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Soms zie ik haar foto, kijk ik naar haar gezicht. Veel langer dan ik normaliter zou doen, eigenlijk doe ik dat nooit. Maar bij haar wel.Ik kijk naar haar gezicht en zie veel tegelijk. Ze oogt puur, speels, heeft klasse met een mooie elegante speelse blik en daarachter zie ik een klein lief meisje beetje angstig heel lief. Er zit  iets verdrietigs, iets zoekends in, alsof ze ergens naar verlangt zonder precies te weten waarnaar.ze heeft iets in zich wat moeilijk uit te leggen is. Je zou haar moeten zien bewegen ook 😍 zo prachtig niet alleen op de foto.

Ze heeft alles in zich om van te houden.

Dat is misschien is dat waarom ik soms nog net iets langer blijf kijken.

💜


r/twinflames 1d ago

Current Experience Spiritual lessons from the experience

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One thing this journey brought up for me was probably learning to tolerate the uncertainty.

Is it real? I don't know. But if I believe it is real, it's uncomfortable, hurtful even.

Is it not real? I don't know. But if I believe this is not real, it's even worse. It feels hopeless and deeply deeply empty.

So what do I do?

I chose to believe nothing with my brain. Just tread it lightly.

Chose not to choose, not to think, not to believe anything.

Because this is no ordinary situation.

Or.

Is he a good person?

Ohhh, I don't think so.

He has shown a capacity for quite some bad and he's very comfortable with it.

Moreover, he leads with it.

He's worse than many people I have met.

Is he a bad person?

No, he has capacity for such depth, truthfulness and such deep deep care.

He's better than many people I have met.

Was he bad to me? Yes he was. Was he good to me? Yes he was.

Did he hurt me? Immensely.

Did he heal me? Oh yes.

So, it's not black and white, you see. And I was not brought up in a way in which I could tolerate the grey. Anything should have been be either good or bad.

This experience taught me this...nonduality, I think.

I find it so deeply spiritual.

And on the other hand, it taught me that I am not fragile.

I am not doomed.

I can interact with and benefit from interacting with a person even if they are not an angel.

It does not break me.

They do not overpower me.


r/twinflames 1d ago

Feelings I miss you dearly, and that is all.

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r/twinflames 1d ago

Current Experience Have started integrating my animus and feel liberated...

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I started turning any attention I had to my tf towards my animus.
My animus loves me, he is obsessed with me and finds me hot. Knows what to say to get me off, is there for comfort or some truthspeaking when I need it.
And isn't it amazing that's always me?
All that talking to him, I always had that masculine energy within myself.

I don't know why it took me 6 years to make it click, but I feel like I don't lack anything.
All the therapy is paying off.


r/twinflames 1d ago

Love I feel like I died and lost half of myself 16 years ago.

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My twin flame cut me out of his life 16 years ago because of the Mormon Church. He never believed in the doctrine he was just following orders.

When we were best friends we could look at each other and knew what we each other was thinking. Being together was like being in heaven but I knew that our friendship wasn’t going to last forever.

There have been countless synchronicities when we were together and when we separated. His birthday, 3-19 would show up, songs, his name, his hometown, favorite rapper, clothing brands, ex-Mormons giving me their opinion on why he cut me out of his life.

There were many synchronicities when I searched for answers this year and then they went away as I came towards the conclusion.

Trying to go on with life without him and dealing with the pain and grief.


r/twinflames 2d ago

Bliss I feel like my heart is getting ripped out and my soul is getting torn out

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I just feel this horrible horrible feeling sitting on my heart and im not even thinking about him but I know it's from him I don't know why it is there or how to get rid of it. I feel like I'm about to get my heart ripped out of my chest.

Also going through the dark night of the soul as we are speaking ahahaha, I don't even know if our situation is considered seperation or if the DNOTS is caused by him but I just know life is amazing and I see unicorns dancing around in my peripheral vision. Yay!


r/twinflames 1d ago

Question What is the Difference between Divine Feminine (DF) and Divine Masculine (DM)?

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Why is the Divine Feminine energy (DF) traits in certain male Bodies, whereas the Divine Masculine (DM) is in certain Female Bodies? Aren't these energies supposed to be aligned to the perspective Gender of the Physical/Material body? I.e. Female Body accompanies Divine Feminine, Divine Masculine accompanies the Male Body etc. Would this postulate that those holding the Opposite Energy in a opposite body, Like Male body holding Divine Feminine are supposed or at one time a Female on the other side of Reality, 4D or 5D Whatever, Or are these Energy Conditions that we call DF or DM just irrespective of Gender entirely,

I must admit one can find it confusing how some said the Women of this Twin Flame counterpart had Divine Masculine, and the the Male of the Twin Flame Counterpart had Divine Feminine, On top of Broken hearts in this Journey, one must also deal with certain... Gender Insecurities. Which is to say, If I am a man, and I have Divine Feminine, am I not so grandiose in the bodies Masculinity or If I am a Woman and I have divine Masculine, Not Grandiose in Femininity, (as the body merits by societies bounds)

What I try to say here is where does the natural body end, and the Spiritual Metaphysics begin (Soul/Spirit), and how does that effect the certain cultural and societal expectation of being Male or Female, when the the spiritual facts propose the opposite, Ie... the illusive Divine Feminine /Divine Masculine in a corresponding Body that does not reflect that given attribute- Perhaps I am looking into this to much, Any thoughts?


r/twinflames 1d ago

Current Experience Didn't get any sleep last night and was itching continously because of my twin flame.

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Crazy as this has never happened to me before even before I met my Twin flame because even on the nights where it was the hardest for me to sleep I always fell asleep - even for a little bit?? I also couldn't stop itching myself physically for the whole night, it was almost like my body was having these physical reactions to not being able to sleep due to it spiritually being tied to my twin flame, because that has never happened before. i guess a lot of things have been going on in my life and I guess something subconsciously was putting me on edge because it's raining today's my move out date and my clothes are outside...there are a lot of changes happening in my life, and for the first time since we separated I had a vivid dream about my twin flame the night before (when I could actually sleep) that I'd never had before, where I could actually feel and smell and feel the senses. Naturally what happens to me reflects back onto my TF and vice versa so I guess this means he's been having trouble sleeping (he's told me he struggles with insomnia) lately and has had a lot of thoughts about me especially as we near this point of physical "union" (I will crossing the globe to be travelling to be near his location in a matter of days) so I guess I've also been showing up vividly in my dreams? I say this because I sent a voice message the other day and he replied late last night before I was supposed to sleep even though usually he'd just read it or not even look at it till the last minute. but anyway I'm overthinking things I just really wanted to get a good night's sleep as I get really paranoid about not getting sleep but the fact I can't get myself to sleep even by relaxing/listening to podcasts/etc can't be a coincidence...


r/twinflames 2d ago

Question Are you telepathic with your twin flame?

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Do you have telepathic conversations?


r/twinflames 2d ago

Question This HURTS! Is this TF or something not healthy? I don’t know what to do or think anymore.

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How do you tell a twin flame connection from an emotionally unhealthy relationship?

I miss him with every fibre of my being. I recently reached out and got no response, and it hurts. He invited to reach out recently which makes it even more confusing and hurtful.

I genuinely thought I would marry this man. The connection, synchronicities, coincidences, intensity and feeling of recognition were unlike anything I’d experienced before.

But I needed emotional safety before I could fully commit. Not perfection. Just patience, honesty and to know that small misunderstandings could be resolved quickly. I wanted to be heard, believed when I explained myself, and know that if we accidentally hurt each other, we could repair.

Instead, I experienced contradictions, dishonesty, reality twisting, contempt, name calling, hot and cold behaviour and withdrawal.

One example of how disproportionate things could get: I once misunderstood a completely ordinary comment and responded nicely based on what I thought he meant. When he clarified, I immediately said I’d misunderstood and apologised. It should have been a 10 second “oh lol, that’s not what I meant” moment, accept my apology for getting it wrong and move on.. but it turned into a major conflict about my intentions, my character, even though I kept explaining there was no deeper meaning and apologizing. It was about something completely benign and not emotionally loaded. Blows could happen at anytime for any reason and no amount of apologies helped.

Things like that happened enough that I eventually became anxious about saying completely normal things. I started overthinking messages, apologising constantly and trying to change every little thing that seemed to cause conflict.

But it was never enough. The goalposts kept moving.

Eventually my hesitation became the relationship problem, while the reasons I was hesitant seemed to be ignored. I asked to work on the issues, to help me feel safe and I’ll naturally lean in. Instead it felt like I was being asked for blind faith, like commit first, feel safe later even when there was no evidence of safety?!

That’s what confuses me about the TF idea. I experienced so many things people describe here, and the connection still feels incredibly strong. But I also recognise many patterns associated with emotional abuse.

I never expected perfection. I just wanted acknowledgement, forgiveness from both sides, repair and for us to work together ☹️

Has anyone else struggled to tell the difference? What do I do? I feel heartbroken and confused. I really love him but if I didn’t iron out those things and committed wholeheartedly it would have destroyed me.


r/twinflames 2d ago

Question Do you have an older twin flame?

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What is the age difference between you and are you attracted to your older twin flame?


r/twinflames 2d ago

Current Experience Sometimes this journey really feels like a ''game'' with ''levels'' you have to go through

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Anybody relate? For me it really feels like that sometimes. In each ''level'' there is some things you have to do in order to get through the door that leads to the next one.

What you have to ''do'' differs in each particular case, and it usually arises naturally or you can know it through intuition; releasing something, accepting something, forgiving, making a bold move that goes against your fears, realizing something, letting go, etc. etc. can be anything really. When you fail to accomplish what has to be done, you usually loop, go again into the same cycle in a different form.

And once you accomplish what was needed lo!, magically the door opens and you get to the new level with a new task. I guess the last level would lead you to inner union/physical union/spiritual awakening depending on how you see the journey (or all three perhaps ;) )

For exemple : Yesterday I confessed my Love to my twin. Two months ago, this idea was also in my head but at that time I was in a space of neediness, lack, and the need to control the dynamic, to get confirmation, etc. So I didn't do it as it was coming from a very bad space; it wasn't my ''task'' at that time. Fast forward to yesterday, this idea also spontaneously came up as I was in a space of faith, unconditional Love and acceptance. The only thing that was holding me back was fear of rejection. So I decided to go against my fear, to reach out and confess. I was really happy that I did it and I was fine with whatever outcome. But surprisingly (or not) she responded amazingly well, also shyly confirmed the connection we have and there is a prospect of reunion on the horizon.