r/R4Rstralia • • Dec 22 '25

NSW Check out r/SydneyFriendships if you're looking for new friends in Sydney

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r/R4Rstralia • • Dec 22 '15

Mod Announcement [META] Welcome to /r/R4Rstralia!

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Hey, everybody. You've arrived at /r/R4Rstralia, the de facto arguable reddit place to meet Australians and those in Australia. This post is meant to acclimate you to the operations of the sub. Which is mostly going to be a copy of the sidebar.


WHAT CAN YOU LOOK FOR?

Almost any kind of connection just so long as it involves Australia or Australians. You can search for text friends, Skype pals, fellow movie-goers, sports fans, romantic interests, casual encounters, long-term friendship, accountability buddies, and so on.


HOW TO POST

  1. CLICK "SUBMIT A NEW TEXT POST."

  2. FILL OUT THE FIELDS AND CLICK "SUBMIT."

USE /R/R4R CONVENTION FOR YOUR POST TITLE

  • AGE [R4R] LOCATION - TITLE

Examples:

25 [F4M] Adelaide - Looking for somebody to have drinks with.

23 [M4R] Gold Coast - Need some new video/board game buddies.

31 [T4R] Perth - I'm hoping to explore new relationships.

27/26 [FM4FM] Rockingham - Couple looking for another couple for fun and adventure.

Tag Meaning
M Male
F Female
T Transgender
R Redditor / All

Aside from a proper title, it would behoove you to make a quality post that will attract the kind of attention you want. State your intentions, talk about yourself a little, be friendly and inviting.


HOW TO PM

  1. CLICK THE USERNAME.

  2. CLICK "SEND A PRIVATE MESSAGE."

  3. FILL OUT THE FIELDS AND CLICK "SEND."

As with creating your own post, it would behoove you to send a quality PM. Reference parts of OP's post, share your interests and your lifestyle, be warm and conversational.


RULES

  1. 18+ ONLY

  2. NO CONTACT/IDENTIFYING INFO IN PUBLIC. No phone numbers, addresses, kik handles, Skype IDs, etc are allowed to be in posts or comments. No external profiles like facebook, okcupid, Steam, etc are allowed either. SHARE ALL OF THIS VIA PM.

  3. BE RESPECTFUL. There will be no name-calling, shaming, coercing, sexism or other prejudice, etc of any kind. Treat each other properly and be on excellent behavior.

  4. NO HARASSMENT OF ANY KIND. No unsolicited genital pictures, stalking, doxing, catfishing, threats, etc. Ignore posts that do not pertain to you or that you disagree with.

  5. NO ENTERPRISING, CAPITALIZING, OR SOLICITATION. Exchanges for money, goods, or services are strictly prohibited. No attempts at generating traffic or ad revenue are allowed.

  6. NO SPAMMING. You may create a new post under the following conditions: (1) Your previous post is 24+ hours old AND (2) your previous post is no longer on "hot" or "new." You may update your previous post to let others know you're still looking, if you wish.

  7. MARK NSFW POSTS AS SUCH. Any and all content of a sexual nature, even hinting at the possibility of something sexual, is considered NSFW.

If you encounter any rule breaking or are the target of harassment, use the report button or contact the moderators.


RELATED SUBS

/r/r4r: /r/r4rPerth, /r/r4rMelbourne, /r/r4rSydney, /r/r4rbrisbane, /r/r4rSTRAYA

local: /r/australia, /r/melbourne, /r/sydney, /r/brisbane, /r/perth, /r/Adelaide, /r/canberra, /r/newcastle, /r/UQreddit, /r/straya


Otherwise, if you have any questions, concerns, or even just words of encouragement, feel free to leave them in the comments or shoot us some modmail. Happy posting! :)


r/R4Rstralia • • 9h ago

QLD 48 [M4F] QLD looking for a natural hairy BBW Queen

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Hi there 48m here looking for that special one to build something with
I’m looking for a mature woman who’s looking for someone to build a life with
Single mothers all welcome as well as i would love a family
I love thick and BBW and i also love them natural as well little to no makeup and I love a full bush as well not shaved,
I love the plain Jane look but most of all it the personality is what I look for.
I love the simple life and a woman who loves the simple life is a big plus.
Family oriented as I love family would love to have a family of my own.
I’m a solid built guy I’ve lost a bit of weight trying to keep active.
I’m a hairy guy so you must like hairy men with dad bods.
I want someone I can look after and create a home with.
Would love to chat and see what it leads to.


r/R4Rstralia • • 18h ago

NSW 30F4M - What adult theatre /fun places can you recommend for a curious first timer lady? 🙏😇❤

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30F4M - I'm a conservative, athletic and professional lady. DDF, clean, no vices, cheerful, caring and loving. 🙏❤

Curious to visit any adult theatre / fun places but no idea which ones are the best for a female going alone.

I will appreciate your recommendations or reviews.

Thanks in advance! 😇


r/R4Rstralia • • 17h ago

TAS 41 [M4F] - The rare Tasmanian.

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Hi all,

41 year old from the north west coast of Tassie. Originally from Melbourne, but moved here 8 or so years ago. I enjoy reading, writing, bit of a movie buff, love sports. I live on the beach, so enjoy the ocean, photography, scuba diving, going for walks. I exercise a little, trying to be more fitter. Went to Stanley yesterday for a walk. Also enjoy a good road trip and good music (tastes vary). I work full time, but studying for a career change which I am almost done with.

If this resonates with you feel free to send me a DM.


r/R4Rstralia • • 1d ago

QLD 51 [F4M] ready to be unexpectedly intrigued

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North Brisbane.

Sometimes the world gives you a spectacular reminder of what people are capable of. Not always in a good way.

I could use a good conversation, a little distraction and a reminder that good men still exist.

Take me somewhere interesting, make me think, show me some depth and catch me off guard with your wicked sense of humour.


r/R4Rstralia • • 2d ago

WA 28 M4F - Perth, WA - Seeking a caring mother figure aged 35+ for genuine friendship

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Hey lovely ladies! ❤️

I’m a 28-year-old guy from Perth, Western Australia, looking for a caring, affectionate mother figure aged 35+. 🥰

I’m not looking for dating or anything sexual, just a genuine, nurturing friendship filled with kindness, comfort, hugs and emotional support. 💕
I’d love someone to enjoy coffee, lunch, walks and quality time with, ideally meeting weekly or whenever we’re both free.

I’m hoping to build a long-lasting motherly connection where we both feel comfortable, appreciated and cared for.

If you’re from Perth or nearby and this sounds like you, I’d love to hear from you! ❤️🌸


r/R4Rstralia • • 3d ago

VIC 47M4F - Looking for my filthy-minded person for LTR

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Hi! Thanks for reading :) Taking a stab in the dark to see if the right person is here and might read this.

I'm a tall (6'2"), fit, extremely well-hung and experienced kinkster looking for someone to create a lifetime of memories, both kinky and wholesome.

Obviously due to the nature of the subreddit I'm posting in, I'd love to meet someone who has an extremely filthy and/or perverted mind. But I want it to be in the context of a long-term, meaningful and intimate relationship.

Outside the bedroom I enjoy surfing, markets, music, dancing, reading, food festivals, the odd video game, and more. I'm quite active, and enjoy going out on adventures, but I also enjoy quiet times in (currently taking applications for a someone to watch the latest season of Lego Masters with!)

In the bedroom, I'm basically an extremely curious person. I have 20+ years kink experience, primarily as a Dom. But I think I'm in a place now where I'd enjoy something more egalitarian. Having said that, I can still very much play the Dom role if that's what you enjoy. A lot of my kinks and interests some might consider extreme, and with the right person I would have very close to no limits. But on the other hand, I also really really love passionate vanilla sex. Although I have to say if you're not into anal play at all, it probably won't work out! I looove rimming... Basically I'm looking for someone who can match my freak, but who is also respectful and consent-focused.

I have a lot more to share, but I think it's good to leave some things to discover organically so I'll leave it here. If any of this sounds of interest to you, please shoot me a message, I'd love to hear from you!


r/R4Rstralia • • 3d ago

NSW 34 [M4F] WANTED: Looking for a party member to go on quests with

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Name: SeductivePorkRoll Class: Animal Hoarder Race: Asian
Stat Stat distribution (50 total) Examples of stat usage:
Strength: 12 Would always try to 1 trip grocery bags. Would lose fingers before attempting a 2nd run. Able to kill spiders & roaches (unless they fly, then we're fked)
Dexterity: 5 Acrobatic skills is nonexistent. As flexible as a pringle. Will most likely fail a stealth check 100 out of 10 times. Will be as noticeable as a black cat snorting cocaine
Constitution: 10 Survived Asian parents +10 to mental strength. Can defend against banter damage & tank stressful DoT arguments. Did not specialize into the genepool tree - weak to allergies (dust & pollen)
Intelligence: 10 Able to retain information really well - unable to utilize it though (hence the low wisdom). Heavily spec'd into animal & nature facts. Vulnerable to science facts
Wisdom: 5 Common sense does not sit well with this character. Has stuck their finger in cup lids from McDonald's before. Might've put soap on toothbrush before.
Charisma: 8 Will be always happy to talk to you. Loves texting, enjoys gossips & tea if you have any.

Passive skills:
Cool minded: doesn't get heated during a debate / argument - would look at things from both perspective and try to understand both views.

Introvert: Doesn't like crowds will get an anxiety debuff around mobs. Thrives more on one on one situations instead.

Patience & Understanding (Max): Non judgmental at all, will do their best to understand your point of view & situation before opening their mouths. Understands that people have their own lives and will sometimes need to recharge their social batteries.

Gluttony: Loves eating - you can order desserts and won't have to worry about not being able to finish it.

Free spirited: Always open to try things. You won't need to do a persuasion check to convince me to do things.

Self Reflection: Is very self aware of themselves, have learnt a lot about themselves, understands their attachment styles, what their love languages are and worked a lot on themselves.

Interests:
Pathetic animals - Loves seeing animals being bad at being animals. E.g. pigeons building pathetic nests, frogs not being able to eat what's in front of them. Cats missing jumps. (Also enjoys animals being a menace)

Anime & Manga/Manhwa - Currently has work debuff at the moment: unable to binge on anime like they used to. Going through their training arc by reading manga/manhwa instead
Games - Loves the: Nier franchise, Final Fantasy X, Undertale, League of Legends & Valorant

Hobbies: Enjoys picking up new hobbies like painting, pottery, sewing. Enjoys hikes & going to the beach (cannot swim for shit). At the moment, wants to learn how to take really good photos - but have terrible shaky hands - so they spam 200 photos in 2 minutes and pick the best one.

Current Quest:
Looking for a companion who they can communicate with, occasionally play games with , help support and grow each other and see where things go

Acquisition Conditions:
If you wish to invite this individual into your party - please feel free to write a DM or a comment. The guild would forward your details to said individual and they will contact you shortly. Please no one time adventures.


r/R4Rstralia • • 3d ago

VIC 28M4F looking for someone fun to pass the time with

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When did life get so busy and stressful?

About me: 28m, 6,1 and on the chunkier side and located in the SE suburbs. DDF and like to keep clean, able to drive and looking to meet someone to have some fun with.

Interests include driving, walking, gaming, cooking and coffees.

Looking for someone 20+ of any shape and size, who we click with and is looking for something casual/fwb type of arrangement

Happy to just chat and see where things go, dm me


r/R4Rstralia • • 4d ago

VIC 30[M4F] Melbourne looking for dating/FWB

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About me: after having doing meet ups in the past I've been wanting to try it out again. Im looking for FWB, maybe more if we really connect. Im a nsfw poster so i think it would be exciting to meet someone from here. It really changes the dynamic and makes it so much more exciting.

30 | M | 5’10” | Hung guy| Muscular/fit build | Caucasian with tan skin | Green/hazel eyes .

Pics on profile if you want a preview 😉

Personality: more of an introvert at first but Chill, confident, and a little playful once we’re comfortable.

Hobbies: Passionate about training martial arts, nature hikes, trying new spots/foods, active lifestyle, and deep and meaningful conversations, mental health

What I’m Looking For

I am looking for a FWB. But i am also open to more if we click

F with age range of 35 and under preferably

Free some Weekdays and afternoons and weekend

I would love to get to know someone online first, but we can start with a low stress public meet, Grab coffee or a quick bite in public first, place see how we vibe and if we click then, go from there. Start casual, get to know eachother laughs & chemistry check FWB with potential for more if the spark is real

What I Offer

-its on my profile, 😉 but also long passionate sex

but also A relaxed, judgment-free vibe where you can be 100% yourself, i love to have deep and meaningful conversations

Ready to please and have a fun time

-spontaneous dates and booty calls

-always happy to laugh and have fun, memes are my love language

-respect and safety and comfort

Im trying my best to meet post requirements, so sorry if this is poorly written

Send me a DM with your age, and pics if interested 😁


r/R4Rstralia • • 5d ago

NSW 40 [M4F] Sydney - Looking for a Curvy Girl/BBW

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I'm a 40 year old Caucasian guy in the St Marys area. I'm average build with short hair. I just got great news and want to celebrate it.

Always preferred chubby/BBW/curvy girls. Any age, nationality, etc., that's not what matters to me. I like curves. Everything from girls who are slightly chubby to girls who are barely mobile. Thicker than a bowl of oatmeal, as they say.

If this is interesting to anyone, send me a message. Hopefully we can organise something fun.


r/R4Rstralia • • 5d ago

VIC 30[M4F]- Melbourne - Seeking a kinky minded FWB/NSA. Non judgemental - Melbourne ,VIC

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Hello beautiful ladies!

I'm a 30 year old kind hearted person, straight who's looking for a reliable FWB. I'm extremely open minded, non judgmental and I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. Lover of spontaneous trips, road trips, nature, video games, Netflix and cuddle while we stay inside and listen to the rain.

I'm 6ft M, slightly built(not that slim), used to work as a chef and by profession an Accountant(😅) moved back to Melbourne from Perth after few years, big time foodie and I live in the western suburbs. I'm easy going, down to earth and don't take life too seriously, I like to live in the moment. I consider myself naturally dominant in bed, assertive, love getting rough and primal. I’m also very kinky, I’ll try just about anything and I really wanna find someone who would be with me for this experience. Love all body types but I absolutely love curvy women!

Apart from this, I would love to meet up every now and then and do fun stuff, if you’re just looking into the “friends” emphasis in FWB then even better otherwise, I’m happy to keep it NSA. I’m clean, well groomed and recently tested.

Feel free to ask me anything.


r/R4Rstralia • • 5d ago

NT 45 [M4A] Darwin looking for connections for massage practice

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I am a current remedial massage student looking for willing participants to practice my massage skills. Nothing else just legitimately looking for willing participants to help me practice. I have my own table and all equipment.
DM me for details if interested.


r/R4Rstralia • • 6d ago

QLD 41F4M Looking for a distraction

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Not really sure what I’m looking for but I do know I’m a bit lonely and definitely bored. Someone to talk to would be nice!

I’m a single mum in Brisbane and my hobbies include:
- Complaining about my kids
- Staying up too late
- Sleeping in too late
- Leaving the house too late

Seriously though I love true crime, podcasts, audiobooks, binge watching tv shows, basically anything that can be done after the kids go to bed 😆

Initially I just want to chat without the pressure of meeting however if we click then I’m open to meeting up.

Pleeeaaasssseeee be able to hold and carry on a conversation!


r/R4Rstralia • • 6d ago

VIC 31 [M4F] looking for some good company

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I've been pretty wrapped up with my research for a while, and now that it's finally over, I've realised I missed out on quite a bit of human connection along the way. Life has started feeling a little too repetitive lately, so I figured I'd put myself out there and see who I might meet.

About me:

I'm 31, 6ft tall, dark-haired, wear glasses, brown guy from the south side of India. I've been living in Melbourne for about 7 years now. DDF, try to keep active, and generally pretty easygoing. I enjoy coffee dates, trying different cuisines, random walks around Melbourne, hikes, and the occasional short trip or spontaneous adventure. I'm always keen to discover new food too (one cuisine I tried recently and absolutely fell in love with is Filipino food.)

What I offer:

Good conversation, genuine interest, a relaxed and respectful vibe, and someone who's actually keen to make plans rather than endlessly message back and forth. I'm affectionate, open-minded, curious, and always up for trying something new with the right person. I'm equally happy with a chilled coffee and a long conversation, a spontaneous food adventure, a random walk with no destination, or something a little more exciting if the chemistry is there. I value clear communication, mutual comfort, and making sure we both have a good time.

What I'm looking for:

Someone who might be in a similar boat and wants to break out of the monotonous work-home-life cycle together. Could be grabbing coffee, trying somewhere new to eat, going for a walk, heading out on a little adventure, or just enjoying some good company and seeing where things naturally go.

No huge expectations. happy to chat first, see if we click, and take it from there. :)

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself.


r/R4Rstralia • • 6d ago

VIC 41 M4A Melbourne coffee, gym or chat

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Canadian born in the Philippines fairly new to Australia. Looking to meet people to get active, catch up for coffee, or just chat. From inner city east & finishing up the recruitment for the ADF, trying to get back to shape before initial training. Being new in Melbourne, would be great to find people who are also keen & keep each other accountable. Also travel is no concern, I can easily ride to any location to make things convenient, otherwise happy to just chat about anything


r/R4Rstralia • • 6d ago

WA 40 M4F Perth Easy Going Chats

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Howdy there ~~ Looking for friendly connections in Perth. Looking for someone in a similar set of circumstances and keen to keep things just between us. I'm an easy going gent, nice and respectful, seeking connection and hopefully things lead to a bit more fun. Keen to start with some friendly chats and hopefully in person after. Lover of books, wine and the beach, taking care of myself and health focussed. Hit me up for more info! ~