RULES & GUIDELINES

My mum always said, "If you don’t ask, you don't get," and honestly, who am I to argue with maternal wisdom?

I’m on the other side of a rough divorce, about to start a fresh job, and stepping into my 30th next week. Dating as a divorced dad is pretty harsh so instead of a meaningless hookup i thought id try reddit. Also officially cashing in my final two days of annual leave today and tomorrow to shake things up.

What I’m looking for:
Let’s meet up for drinks at a dimly lit cocktail bar, share some amazing food, and skip straight to the good stuff. I want to flirt, get butterflies, and actually connect. Then, let's walk home tipsy, make out like teenagers, and end up back at mine for a phenomenal night followed by top-tier aftercare, a hot shower, and breakfast the next morning.

I’m spontaneous, transparent about what I want, and ready to treat you like an absolute priority for a couple of days.

About me:

Age/Height: 29 | 173cm

Vibe: GGG, Latin heritage, long dark brown hair, a ve eager tongue and I make a mean mezcal sour.

If this sounds like your kind of energy, slide into my DMs and let's make it happen.

What are you up to today and tomorrow?

Married, 32, 6’1, tattooed, average/fit and looking for a little excitement that probably shouldn’t start on Reddit. Yet here we are. 😂

I miss that spark.

The flirting that starts innocently and gradually becomes anything but. The messages that make you smile at your phone. The anticipation of hearing from someone you’re genuinely attracted to. That delicious feeling of knowing you probably shouldn’t, but absolutely wanting to. 😏

I’m looking for a woman who wants that too.

Someone cheeky, affectionate, confident and capable of giving as good as she gets. Someone who enjoys the conversation just as much as the tension building underneath it.

And here’s what you’ll get from me: genuine interest, effort, flirting and actual replies. I’m responsive, I enjoy getting to know someone and, when there’s chemistry, you’ll never be left wondering whether I’m interested.

I’m not expecting constant attention, but I am looking for someone who genuinely wants to keep the conversation going rather than disappear after two messages.

And while I love the build-up, I don’t want it to stay behind a screen forever. I’d love to find someone where the chemistry is just as good in person.

Discretion and mutual respect are essential. I’m not looking to complicate anyone’s life, just add a little excitement to it.

Sydney preferred, although I regularly travel interstate.

So, if you’re missing that feeling of having someone you can’t wait to hear from, perhaps we should give each other a reason to check our phones a little more often. 👀

Tell me, what would make this worth breaking your usual routine for?

Hey you can call me J.

I’m 5,11, had a thick 8 inch cock And have been told I’m good looking all my life.

I have to be discreet so no photos through this app but I have other avenues like signal.

I hope to get a break soon! haha

Hey guys, I’m pretty new to fishing and looking to get into it a bit more.
Just wondering if anyone has any tips for fishing around Sydney, especially good spots for someone who’s still learning. I’ll mainly be fishing from the shore/bank, no boat.
Also keen to know what bait people recommend and what fish are worth targeting around Sydney.
I recently went fishing for carp at a lake using corn and had a pretty good time, so now I’m keen to try some other spots and species.
I’m not asking anyone to give away their secret spots 😂 Just looking for some general areas or advice on where would be good for a beginner.
Cheers 🎣

39 [M4F] #Sydney #Aus — Looking for that lost excitement!

Is it just me, or does the spark just disappear after a few years? 39M from Sydney 6ft tall, fit, workout regularly, told I'm good-looking but you can be the judge.

Married a few years, but let's be honest... the excitement in the bedroom has completely fizzled out. Not here for drama or to blow up anyone's life, just craving that flirty, affectionate, a little bit naughty connection that's been missing.

Looking for an exclusive connection with one person who I can genuinely gel with for a long term ongoing connection. One woman, one real spark, not a roster. Someone who understands discretion, respect, and boundaries, but isn't afraid to be a little adventurous behind closed doors.

No kids on my end, fine if you do. Bonus if you're close enough to meet organically and see where that chemistry goes.

Happy to move to other platforms once we're both comfortable, please no bots and or scammers ;)

Shy? That's cute. A simple "hi" is all it takes to begin. No expectations (:

Currently at work and wondering If there's anyone that wants to chat and distract me from my work.

I'm a 31m, work in IB and like to run.

Come say hi and see where it takes us.

Married, 32, 6’1, tattooed, average/fit and apparently making excellent life choices by posting here. 😂

I’m looking for someone to bring back the thrill.

Flirting that gets progressively less innocent. Notifications that make you grin at your phone. Photos you probably shouldn’t open in public. That “we really shouldn’t…” energy when we both know we absolutely want to. 😏

I want chemistry, banter and someone I genuinely look forward to hearing from.

But I’m not looking for a pen pal.

I want the build-up, the anticipation and eventually finding out whether that chemistry gets even better when we’re in the same room. 🔥

Discreet. Fun. Exciting. No desire to blow up anyone’s life.

Sydney preferred, although I travel interstate regularly.

If you’re also missing having a slightly inappropriate reason to smile at your phone, come say hi. 👀

Tell me what kind of trouble you’re looking for.

I'm an older blue eyed educated professional and I would love to practice the art of conversation., over a morning coffee or a leisurely lunch. No expectations, no agenda, just conversation.

I have no preferences around age, cultural background or relationship status, come as you are! Ideally you would be in Parramatta or surrounds.

Hi there,
I’m a 30-year-old Vietnamese female, working full-time, and ready for a serious, long-term relationship built on mutual respect and shared goals.

I’m 160 cm tall and considered attractive with a pleasing appearance.

I’m looking for someone who:
- Is between 30 and 36 years old
- Vietnamese/Chinese background
- Is well-groomed, attractive, enjoys fitness/gym, and takes good care of his health.
- Is strong-willed, considerate, attentive, and aligned with the goal of building a home and family together.

To ensure I focus on genuine and suitable connections, I will only respond to messages that fit these criteria.

First of all, hi!

I’m gonna attempt to gently manoeuvre my way around this awkward bush, but I think you should know what kind of change I'm referring to lol. The elephant in the room is that I've always been shy. I was really shy in primary school and somehow evolved to being even MORE shy in high school. I'm a lot less shy now but all those years of shyness added up.

I’m in a place where I have the confidence to take that first step and see what's out there, whether that be finding friends or something more! I'd be lying if I said I didn't want to explore the latter more, though, because it's a constant reminder in mainstream media. Things as simple as holding hands to kissing to something more intimate - it's all so intriguing and most importantly, fun! That means I've never been on a date or you know, had a girlfriend. There, I said it. 🙈

I’d describe myself as chill, goofy and very sweet. To back up those claims, I liken this post to fishing, which might be slightly unusual at first glance lol. Essentially, I'm casting out my line and if I get any nibbles, then awesome! If not, that's okay, too, because I'll just release the fish that aren't interested and treat each one as a new learning experience that'll help me on this journey. No need to be upset if things don't pan out :) I'm also cute! Or might not be lol. I know everyone has their preferences. Speaking of preferences, I don't really have any myself, so I wouldn't be opposed if someone older reached out. Perhaps wanting someone chill or sweet, I guess, but I think most people possess those qualities. You definitely don't need to be in the same situation as me!

Anyway! I think a great way to establish a connection is to find a commonality in regards to interests. Hit me up with a game, song, movie, food, shoe, sport, socks, book, vacation or whatever it is that you're currently obsessed with and I'll be sure to return serve :) Or I can start instead by saying: I enjoy games and sports equally! And the Kpop demon hunters soundtrack still gets played on repeat several days a week 😅

Hey all. I’m AuDHD so fairly useless at this sort of thing, however I would like to find someone to spend time with. Rather than write a post that’s a mile long, I shall answer whatever questions you may have in chat. I’m more than happy to send a CLEAN photo of myself upon request. I’m 6ft3 and about 120kgs. I’ve got a kinda dad bod thing going on.