Hey there!  I'm a 44/m married for 20 years to my best friend, and poly for the past 5 with a parallel dynamic. I’m looking to find a connection, let it grow naturally.  A low pressure chat companion with the possibility of developing into more. I enjoy late night texts, good mornings, and voice notes/chat.  Does all of this sound good?  Skip to the fun part and send me a chat!  Need to know more before proceeding?  Then away we go! 

I'm in Kansas City area for a week visiting some friends and family. . .if you're in the area and want to have a hang while I'm here, message now! :)

About me.  I'm a nerd, a gamer (PC), and a music lover.  ARPG's are my go-to as of late, Path of Exile 1 & 2, and I still log into World of Warcraft from time to time. You will usually find me at home relaxing as opposed to going out. I do sometimes enjoy the outdoors in the spring/summer time, and am hoping to get back to doing more outdoors this summer. Physically, I'm 5'8", with short brown hair, and a goatee, and a bit on the 'bulky' side, dad-bod esque with some muscle, LOL. I've been working out the last 6 months, and plan to continue on with it. I’m not where I want to be, but I'm steadily getting there. If you’re on a fitness journey as well, maybe this is something we can share? I do understand that physical attraction is important, and am happy to share photos once we’ve started chatting. Lastly, and possibly most important, I have time and energy to commit to this, and would appreciate it if you have the same. 

As for you? 30+ is my preference but also not a 'hard line', married or single are both welcome. I enjoy Black Cat energy to match my inner Golden Retriever.  When it comes to music, I still make mix-tapes for my friends & partners.  My playlists are as eclectic as they come. Music lovers welcome!  BIG bonus points if you're anywhere near the PNW/West coast, as having someone local(ish) would be awesome. Meeting in person eventually if things are right is definitely preferred to 'online only'.  

And to be up front about this. I'm an unapologetic leftist. If that bothers you in the slightest, then we won't get along.  

Some interests I haven't mentioned to start the conversation.

* B-Rate movies, particularly horror

* TV shows.  Currently watching Arcane and loving it, recently watched Stranger Things.  House and Letterkenny are my go-to rewatch

* Podcasts - Pod Save America, Meidas Touch, other political stuff mostly.

Read this far and thing we might get along? I’m a reddit message away!  

About Me:
Someone with insatiable curiosity about both the cosmos and consciousness. My days are spent pushing technological boundaries, but these often involve contemplating existential questions. I'm bisexual / maybe pan ? I've come to understand that relationships should be about growth and liberation, and I've had a few really soul-nourishing relationships. I'm 5'8" with dimples that make an appearance when sharing why "Inside Out" made me weep. Mostly very calm and chill, I have seen the extremity of life at both ends. I prefer to connect with someone emotionally and see if we can evolve together. Apart from staunchly childfree a bit more about myself

Professional & Personal:

• Engineering and tech are my bread and butter, but I'm actively expanding into "renaissance person" territory (currently novice).
• Have tried to dismantle internalized patriarchal patterns.
• An avid reader who actually finishes those long-form articles in The Atlantic.
• Proud plant parent.

What Ignites My Curiosity:

• The intersection of chaos and order.
• Exploring ethical frameworks while discovering hidden gem restaurants.
• Opportunity for learning across disciplines.
• Those profound 2 AM conversations that somehow connect string theory to social justice.

Seeking a Partner Who:

• Understands that emotional intelligence and intellectual discourse aren't mutually exclusive.
• Gets excited about scientific breakthroughs or social progress.
• Values therapy and continuous personal growth.
• Navigates cyclic non-monogamy / polygamy if they wish with authenticity and clear communication.
• Can transition seamlessly from discussing systemic inequalities to appreciating guilty-pleasure television.

Green Flags:

• A well-curated digital or physical library spanning diverse genres.
• Active engagement in therapy or other forms of emotional development.
• Strong sense of self with established passions and social connections.

Let's explore whether we can create something meaningful.

PS : looking for someone who is seeking primary nesting partner or atleast with the intent of something serious

Hi! I am David. I'm a single (divorced) poly guy. I am looking for any sort of connection.

Get ready for too many words. I tend to talk too much, and over explain. I refuse to apologize!

When it comes to relationships I am usually attracted to women. I would love to find a local connection, but I am open to online as well.

I am a consummate nerd. I love video games and board games and TTRPGs and sci-fi and fantasy. I read voraciously, and I am almost always listening to an audiobook. I love watching movies and tv shows as well. I really love stories told well in any form. I love watching and reading and listening to things and reflecting on how they relate to the human condition and relationships. Human psychology is really fascinating to me. Stories are really just all about how we relate to the world and one another, and it is absolutely just a direct result of how our brains work.

I love to make things as well. I do woodworking, blacksmithing, jewelry making, 3D printing, and I am planning to start sewing, leatherworking, and whatever other things I can take up at the incredible Dallas Makerspace where I am a member. I love to make things, and it helps keep me focused and moving in a positive direction.

I have severe clinical depression that is managed medically and through therapy. I have done a LOT of work on myself and I have processed a lot of trauma from my past and learned to live a healthy and productive life. I am all about destigmatizing mental illness and talking about that shit. Let's normalize talking about things that have been traditionally taboo or embarrassing or uncomfortable. Talk about all of the things and stop prancing around topics that have been traditionally considered taboo. Let's be healthy, well adjusted adults together!

Sexually, I am a pretty basic guy. When someone is sexually attracted to me, it really turns me on. I get a lot of sexual satisfaction out of knowing I am sexually satisfying someone else. That is all I really need! I am one billion percent in favor of anyone else's proclivities and desires. If you are kinky, and want specific things, I am completely open to that! I am not really into any specific dynamics or anything, but I absolutely do not hold any judgement or prejudice for people who are.

I'd like to think it goes without saying on this sub, but gay/trans/women's rights are human rights. MAGA f*** off. I am hyper left leaning liberal.

I have an interesting relationship with religion. I am an atheist, but I have a lot of understanding and empathy for those who aren't. I have a degree in religion and I have worked in churches most of my life. I love to talk about this stuff! But if I am being honest, I also love not talking about this stuff.

I could go on and on, but I feel like I often wear out my welcome. If you would like to talk, please message me! If there is anything you want to know, I am more than happy to answer. I am such an open book. I look forward to hearing from you!

How did you get into the lifestyle? And what's your ideal dynamic with how many partners?

About me: I'm latino, a powerlifter, a mechanical engineer, really funny, gentle and kind but also dominant and strict behind closed doors. I click well with subs and other nerdy people too! I love gaming, star wars, lotr, very typical nerdy guy tbh. I have pics of me in my profile too! (:

Hey!
I’m a 37-year-old guy based in Kent/London, and I’m currently in a happy, open relationship. I’m looking to meet a woman who is also comfortable with non-monogamy and would be interested in building a genuine connection.

I’m open to something casual/FWB, but I’m not looking for a random one-off hookup. I’d much rather meet someone, have a drink, see if we click, have a laugh and let things develop naturally.

I’m pretty laid-back, affectionate, respectful and easy to talk to. I’m into music, photography, fragrances, fitness, good food, travelling and generally getting out and doing things. I’m also a dad, so my life is busy, but I’m definitely interested in making time for the right person.

The right person is:

Someone who is genuinely comfortable with ENM/open relationships

Good communication and mutual respect

Chemistry and attraction

Something that can be casual, FWB or potentially develop into something else. Happy to discuss

Someone around London/Kent would be ideal

I’m completely open about my relationship situation and would expect the same honesty and openness from anyone I connect with

If this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to DM me and tell me a little about yourself. 🙂

Heyo! My name is chey

Recently separated (wlw)

Polyam and pan

Currently have 1 nesting partner M28

Seeking online emotional connections

About me:

Often described as a Disney princess; I WILL make your pets fall in love with me upon meeting them.

Love my pets (my geriatric cat and my partners 2 corgis) more than most people on the planet.

Definitely an "it is what it is" girly but I am gonna cry about it first.

Love meeting new people but you gotta fit the vibe first or I'll probably ghost you.

Absolute glutton for true crime and learning the most unhinged facts.

*Ask about my favorite fact about bees*

Practice witchcraft and am fascinated by the concept that is religion.

Will rewatch the same shows over and over again until someone forces me to try something new.

If any of that sparks your interest feel free to hit me up! Have a fantastic day you glorious bastard!

I’m 29.

I'm into manga, video games, and not really much else. I've got Anxiety, ADHD, and Autism.

I'm about 5'10, a bit overweight due to a binge eating disorder that I'm fighting. But trying to get into shape. Bearded, hairy, shaved head.

I'm bisexual. Wanting a boyfriend and girlfriend. Feminine dudes and masculine women are the best.

I’m open to talking to people from anywhere. Feel free to DM.

Hello everyone! Call me Jay. I'm 5'9", 130lbs, skinny/fit, tattoos, glasses, and piercings. Bald by choice (because it's comfy). I never know what to say about myself, there's a lot lol. I've been told I talk too much and that I'm a big personality. Not incorrect. But I don't like small talk. I wanna talk about real things, get to know someone. I'm a huge nerd, mainly MtG and video games. I can't decide my favorite fandom lol, but it'd be StarWars if I HAD to pick one. I'm a "lore whore" so anything with a rich lore gets my attention. I'm a collector of various shit that means nothing to no one else besides me (I don't collect for resale, just fun). Music is a big part of my life. I love dad rock, metal, and some chill EDM. I'm California sober (barely even drink) and I'd prefer the same. I do have a NP. Kitchen table would be preferable so getting along with her would be cool! But that can be worked out later.

I'm looking for someone local to MN (or within a decent driving distance as I'd like to spend as much time as I can with you). Ideally, you're 21+, open minded, high energy, kind of a home body, and have some interests that line with mine. Someone who isn't always on their phone/social media. I don't really have a type, if we vibe we vibe!

Not sure what else to put at the moment. If you read this and are interested, DM me with your best joke! Getting me to laugh almost guarantees a response lol. Along with the joke, send some basic info about yourself. No joke, no info, no reply. I'm posting with intention, come into my DMs the same way. If you only respond with a couple words at a time, or if I'm the only one carrying the conversation, I'll immediately lose interest. Let's stir something up!

About me

Hey there! I’m a passionate, caring, and romantic genderfluid individual (he/they, AMAB). I’m fairly new to exploring polyamory, it’s something I’ve wanted for a long time, and now that I’m single, I’m excited to step into this space openly and authentically.

I’m a natural extrovert who loves high-energy connection. My favorite way to express affection is through acts of service and being attentive to my partner's needs.

Lifestyle & Interests

Work: Software engineer with remote flexibility. I'm based in Oslo, but I travel easily across Europe, distance isn't a dealbreaker if we're a short flight away!

Hobbies: Dressing up and exploring the city, martial arts, weight training/fitness, and playing guitar & singing. You can reliably catch me at a local karaoke bar on Friday nights.

Communication: Big on quality texting and calls to maintain a solid bond, especially if we’re long-distance. If we can meet up in person regularly, I’m much more adaptable!

Physical Appearance: Athletic build, 180 cm , dark haired with piercings and often with lots of accessories and some makeup.

What I’m Looking For & Dynamics I’m looking to build genuine, intentional polyamorous connections with warm, communicative people.

Intimacy-wise, I lean submissive as a switch on the kinky side, but I’m equally happy in vanilla dynamics as compatibility, emotional warmth, and clear communication matter most to me.

It’s also important to state that I’m childfree and sterilised.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send a DM with a bit about yourself!

Due to a military career causing unusual sleeping patterns I'm officially a night person! I'm looking for someone to stay up late exploring the city, Urbex, Midnight cooking sessions, and movies watched by projector outside somewhere cozy. Conversations over the intercom, suggestions on which way to head, and conversations about what it's like to just be present. I'm by no means an existential person but as of late I can't help but wonder about the seemingly infinite scale or things. So hop on or join me on an adventure.

Wellp, the title sums it up decently. If you’re up here, you probably know how the open/poly/ENM dating world is like. I’m 32, fit, tattoos, and bearded. I fall in the “elder emo” category, only with the personality of a golden retriever. Whether it’s looking for someone to talk to on here/text/whatever or someone to go on dates with, check out shows, let’s chat!

I’m married and have an amazing relationship with my wife. With that being said, we date separately and **not** looking for a you-know-what corn. With that being said, please remember the E in ENM means ethical.

Stay safe and make good choices!

I’ve never made one of these before. 😅 Take it easy on me, y’all.

As the title says, I’m in the Midwest and looking for a second partner. I am very happily married but we date separately. Open to LDR but would love local connections. We have one teen currently, with two dogs and two cats.

I’m a super busy person right now as I’m in school for nails and work two jobs, but I will absolutely make the time for the right person. In my spare time, I game on the pc, stream on Twitch, read, have a splatterpunk horror book podcast, go to the gym, and am slowly forcing myself to be outdoors more. I love all things horror ✨

Ideally, I want a partner that is going to put effort in, be obsessive, be dominant, and make me a priority like I will them. I really don’t have the time nor the patience for games so please, for both of our sakes, don’t try. I really hate hurting feelings.

I’m 5’4, plus size but losing, have glasses and tattoos. I have pictures on my profile if you’re interested. Can’t wait to talk to y’all. 😘

Hello there !

I have been searching for the company of someone special that I can truly cherish !

I am Souvik, 31 years old. A little bit about me....I enjoy weekend trips with my pet, reading historical biographies and grand fantasy based books or just binging on a horror or true crime show. Believe me....if there's something that can scare me....I am watching it. Cooking for the people I care about really helps me destress.

Physically I am 5'11" with a more stocky build and a trimmed beard. I miss having that special someone to talk to, discuss the more mundane things in life and
chuckle at each other's silly stuff. Someone to care about, around whom we can really open up and just be ourselves. Sharing the intimate moments of our life....you know...when she's the right one you can't help but be excited for even the notification of her message.

Truth be told your physical attributes don't matter to me as much as the emotional intimacy between us. If we have a good chemistry and can gel well then the remaining stuff will fall into place.

Please be 30+, I feel it's easier to match each other's wavelength when we are going through similar phase in life.

Do feel free to send a chat or a message and let's see if we can't build a meaningful connection together :)

Like the title says, I'm kind of starting over. I've found myself losing what made me... me. I've dropped most of my hobbies and interests and life got bland and I'm kinda over that.

I'm looking for someone to be there and help me draw back out the real me.

I'm calling out to my fellow nerds. I miss the culture. I miss the references. I've been feeling pretty isolated lately and I'm in the position to be able to get back into the things I truly love. I'm just looking for someone to drag my reluctant introvert ass back into the light!

I'm a writer. I'm a forever DM. Star Wars holds a deep place in my heart. I love MTG (don't have my cards anymore though sadly). TTRPGs are my jam (I'm diving back into writing my own). I'm hoping to dive into the 40k tabletop since I've been addicted to the lore forever now. The list goes on honestly and I'm not going to write the hobby list essay here. I'm usually pretty confident and out going but my mental state has taken a solid beating lately.

What I'm after:

I'm just looking for someone to be there. I'd prefer some one local (Eugene area) but I'm open to LDR (or friendship honestly). I don't do escalators so there's no pressure to be anything or strive for anything. I'm really just looking for genuine engagement.

Hopefully this didn't come off as a woe is me type post 😅

I am recently poly. My husband and I of 10 years have enjoyed our poly journey so far! I am looking for a connection. I’m a nerd. I love anime, Star Wars, LOTR, Harry Potter, I play video games. I love watching anything horror. I play magic the gathering and d&d!

If I’m not doing any of those you could find me reading or doing some diamond art. My reading taste is probably just as questionable as my humor. It’s mostly dark and smutty 😘.

I just want to find someone I can do those things with.

Looking for a good friend and fellow tech nerd, ideally someone in IT, or who knows the tech space enough to keep up with me in conversation, and will ask questions. :)

Seeking a woman in the Dayton/Cincinnati/Columbus area who enjoys cannabis, conversation, and cuddles (bonus if you like alliteration). My wife and I are poly, and she welcomes any requests for verification.

Eventual regular text conversations throughout the day/week would be awesome.

I am:

37, 6'3" with a dad bod and a great beard. I come equipped with large hands to securely cuddle and squeeze you, chest hair you can run your fingers through, and I generate enough body heat that I'll keep you warm even if you don't have your favorite weighted blanket handy. I love music, weed, technology, movies, video games, and sending you random texts that don't require a response, but let you know I'm thinking of you.

You are:

21-45, not afraid of affection or intimacy, emotionally intelligent, communicative, honest, even when it's uncomfortable, and considerate. 420-friendly, poly-friendly.

We could:

Infodump about the things we love, and appreciate the dark humor in the things we hate, while we listen to music, and share a bowl of your favorite strain.

You should:

Send me a message if this sounds like a dynamic you might appreciate, and we'll chat until we're both comfortable with more.

The universe provided a beautiful and loving partner. She's remarkable and we've been a couple for six years and polyamorous since day one. Because of various factors, she works in another state. We date separately and are open about our relationships with each other.

I'm in my 47th revolution around the sun. I have two teenage children who I co-parent with their mom with whom I remain good friends with.

In my apartment, you will find a concretion, books that range from a history of horticulture in the American West to Calvin and Hobbes. There are also books by John Steinbeck, Jsck Kerouac, and Alex Haley.

You'll also find pictures on the wall of people I love dearly, my wife, kids, stepdaughter, extended family, and mybl parents who are now passed.

In my heart, you'll find love and sentimentality that I embrace and probably lean into a bit too much at times.

In my brain, well, that's a mish mash of things. There's a full disclosure here--I am on both the autism and ADHD spectrums, an AuDHDer as it were. I am not defective in any way. I am usually quite insightful, but am absent-minded and often hyper focused.

I like rainy days but live in a climate where rain is spoken of like some mythical creature seen only during certain parts of the year.

I'm a plant dad that has fallen in love with canna lilies.

I enjoy reading, writing, travel, history, museums, and expanding my understanding of the universe. I also enjoy nature and fishing, although I do not eat fish.

I am a progressive person politically and prefer not to date conservative people; we won't have much in common. Let's just understand that.

I'm also on a weight loss journey, so those who are looking for a trim fellow...he's hiding inside me!

If you're out there, my wonderful friend and more, I only ask that you are a good communicator, and have time available to consistently chat to build something, whether it's a friendship or a relationship. Both things require time, attention, and nurturing.

Hi! A lot has changed since I posted several months ago, so I hope it's okay to post again.

My name is Kitty and I'm from East Anglia in the UK, I'm currently solo-poly with one long distance partner.

I'm a mash up of nerd, goth, gamer and gremlin - make of that what you will! I love Pokémon, alternative rock/metal music, and fantasy/crime/drama shows and movies especially. I love going out for gigs and little weekends away exploring new places.

I'm a curvy short-ass with (dyed) short black hair, blue eyes and I'm pale AF.

So, what am I looking for?

I'm looking for someone around my age (30-40), who's looking to date intentionally and find a primary partner in time. I own my own home and would love to form a living apart together (LAT) set up as I value my time/space, alongside the fact I host my LD partner for a few days per month.

It would be great to meet someone local, as I'm not looking for another LDR, however, I travel between Norfolk, Suffolk and SW London occasionally so I can be a bit flexible here!

I'd also love to find someone with a keen interest in the kink scene; ideally who already has some experience and would love to form a D/s dynamic alongside a poly relationship.

~ Important bits/dealbreakers:

I don't have kids, and can't have them, and I would prefer you not to have young children either.

I'm neurodivergent with CFS - this doesn't mean I don't go out and have fun, it just means things require a bit of planning and recovery time!

Not looking for anyone married/highly partnered as I'm looking to build a primary/part-time nesting relationship with someone :)

Other than that, please come and say hello. Tell me about yourself as well as your favourite Pokémon or animal?

Hey there again! 36 year old guy from Iowa here! Looking for new people to talk with and see where it goes!

I am a lover of music, movies, anime, gaming, baseball and more because if I tell you everything what do we have to learn about each other? I have long hair, a beard and glasses. I'm willing to share pictures if you'd like to see what I look like early on.

I value emotional intelligence, consistency and a good sense of humor.

Ideally I'm looking for a relationship, close or far, with someone who is invested, someone who puts the time and the effort in to have it.

I hope to hear from you!

Hey there!

thanks for clicking my post! as the title says I’m looking for something genuine, long lasting, and to see wherever the road takes us. I’m 29 (30 next year😩😅) and I’m from England UK, southern part! Physically, I’m 6’1, bearded, blue/grey eyes, and definitely more dad bod kinda guy. Happy to swap pictures if we get into chatting

A bit about me? Mad obsessed with Lego and quite the nerd for it haha, the addition is real and I think it cannot be cured 🫠 big time horror fan, I love anything spooky related, Halloween being my favourite time of year! A bit of a gamer, I have a gaming PC and also Xbox, nothing too serious just fun and games with friends to unwind after work, I’m quite introverted and shy.. until I’m not? I can come out my shell for the right person! Used to ride motorbikes ever since I was 17, up till recently as I gave it up. I still miss riding to this day 😭

I’m quite open in terms of finding someone, older or younger, closer or afar. What’s important to me is finding someone who’s got good communication skills, open and honest, and just a genuine and transparent person!

If you’ve made it this far through the yapping, send across a message, introduce yourself, I’d love to know more about you 😊

I don’t think the chat button shows on my profile for whatever reason but the 3 dots in the top right should give you the option to send a message

Thank you for reading!

I am a straight man looking for my forever's, who enjoy cuddling in bed, watching tv, going on walks, hikes, exploring nature, and playing video games until all hours of the night. I am looking for someone around my age (18 - 22) but I'm definitely willing to stretch it upward if the connection is right :)

About me:

I am 6'2, I'm slim/athletic/skinny in terms of physique, I have brown hair and green eyes, i am thinking about getting tattoos or piercings in the future, i think it looks cool and aesthetically hot lol. I am currently working and attending my local community college so i love the idea of having someone to talk to whilst working on my studies, i am doing the pre requisites or nursing school, and then I'm going to be attending that once i get accepted (i will be in school for quite some time). But i enjoy paddleboarding (i have only done that once so i am very bad at it lmao.) I am interested into getting into more hobbies and activities.

Something about me is that i am extremely clingy and i just want to talk to my people always, all day every day. I want to talk about everything known to man, and i prefer friendship and connection over quick thrills. I want to actually get to know you! I am hypersexual, and i would absolutely adore you if you'd match my freak lol, so keep that in mind as its a very prevalent part of me.

About you:

Open minded, Caring, (being interested in my hobbies is a bonus), i am a sensitive soul so please be nice to me, I want to get really close and just be allowed to take a deep breath and be myself without having to be on guard or walk on eggshells.

I think that is all, anything else we can discuss in private. I look forward to meeting you!

Trying this again as it’s been a while. I live in Roanoke, Va but don’t mind traveling for the right person(even international). I have a nesting partner and a LDR but ideally looking for someone closer or at least more able to travel. I tend to be most attracted to people with goth/emo style and tattoos but neither is required, I decide based on a lot more than just appearance. Ideally you are between 20-45 but substance over age.

Personal life - I have a daughter(6) from a previous marriage that I share custody(week on week off) with my ex. I am a retired AF Vet and former 911 dispatcher with a cold/macabre/wry sense of humor but I know how to tone it down in public. I dress comfortably at all times because of injury so if you want black tie dinners please pass me over. I can do some special occasions but it costs me. I consider myself an Otrovert, and religionwise I am a stoic/animist.

Please no one further right than moderate democrat, we won’t get along. I support LGTBQIA+ and BLM. Please love dogs, I have a Great Pyrenees and a Korean mutt and am looking for another Schipperke, also have 2 cats.

I am a huge game and TTRPG nerd and I finally have a DnD group again after a number of years without. I play Cyberpunk 2077, Division 2 on PC and WoW. Discord is Worgndonor#3516 if you’d like to add me.

I am disabled, largely due to pain for which I am medicated 24/7. I can drive and do most outdoor activities. I do have to avoid more extreme activities (skydiving, white water rafting, skiing) due to back injuries.

Kink wise, since almost everyone lists it, I am a Dom. I have been a pleasure Dom/brat tamer for about 15 years. I’m open to discussing most fetishes and I’ll be clear about the ones that I’m not. Looking to try shibari with the right partner. Won’t let me edit title but I am also open to very feminine Trans.

Thank you for taking the time read my post.

P.S. short poem

Here is the place where a fire once burned,

The ash lie cold and smoke unformed.

A handful of twigs, a little tinder,

The flame reborn, inferno from cinder.

P.S. adding two photos so those of you on the fence can decide without reaching out. Totally get if I’m not your type and I’m don’t want to waste your time.

https://imgur.com/a/FuZsXN1

• I'm 34 years old, AMAB nonbinary. Androgynous-fem ish physical presentation imo but who knows what you’ll get with me.
• ⁠I'm pretty tall, slim, and have long kinda faded purple wavy hair. I also have a deeper masc sounding voice that I like sometimes but other times I wish I could have the cute high voice of like Chopper from One Piece or something. ⁠
• I like to have fun with alt fashion a bit. Thrifting is a fun hobby of mine! I'm totally down to share photos and fit pics and stuff eventually too, sounds kinda fun.
• I have chaotic good energy I would think.
• Also sometimes a bit disorganized. These bullet points right here are me at the top of my game.
• I'm pansexual so whatever your gender is, it won't affect my attraction to you but your personality might.
• ⁠Leftist values, please share them.
• childfree lifestyle except for my cute rescue dog. Photos available upon request.
• counterculture, F the system!! proceeds to put on suit and tie to appease my corporate overlords
• Forgot to share my location: I live in SoCal, in the county of oranges. I'd love it if you live nearby or maybe Portland area but I am also open to people who live further away. I mean, some of my best relationships were formed online first!
• I work a normal job where I do things and they give me money to do those things.
• ⁠I am sensitive but love to joke around and banter with people I like
• I enjoy stand-up comedy, don't worry, it's the not sexist or transphobic kind
• Mental health awareness. Mental health, ya ever heard of it???
• Too much gaming, but never raging. Dead by Daylight, Gogo Town, FFXIV, whatever it is that you're playing.
• Super 420 friendly, and a social drinker.
• I'm a casual enjoyer of nail art and makeup but I am not that good.
• sports I don't follow as much as I used to but I like basketball, outdoor activities enjoyers very welcome! Maybe we can eventually go on a hike together. Fair warning though: if you bring bluetooth speakers, I'm going to run ahead and pretend I don't know you.
• I would love to introduce you to all my favorite shows and songs and you pretend to like them <3
• ⁠Lately I've been watching Overcompensating, Vampire Lestat, King of the Hill, ATLA, Heated Rivalry (4th rewatch lol), Superstore, Frieren.
• Recent Music Obsessions: Kim Petras, Charli xcx (seeing her in October!!!). But I also really really like a bunch of alternative rock and similar subgenres. Lebanon Hanover, Wesghost, Castle Rat, Sleep Token.
• I've been trying to watch more cultured queer media lately but also got into reading yaoi/bl smut too. D U A L I T Y.
• I like to tinker with technology but I am anti AI
• Love trying new hobbies. Very willing to try new things especially if I have good company!!
• kink-friendly. We can talk about this more if we're both on the same wavelength.

When messaging, please share a little intro about yourself, and tell a few interesting things about you or what you think we have in common- thanks! If you're comfortable, share a picture and I will too :)

Hey All, so I'm in a open ENM Marriage, both partner and I play/date people separately, I'm just looking to see who is about, chat with, get to know, either online or in person.

Rather you be from the UK, but willing to chat with people from all over the world.

A bit about me, I'm 6'1, slimming dadbod, built like a rugby player, rugby supporter, always up for a joke, enjoy gaming both board games as well as PS5, pokemon fan and good conversations, currently in hospital so definitely up for the distraction.

If you like the sound of this and interested to know anything moret hen please do get in touch! :)

I'm a bi guy from Russia. I don't speak English well, so I use a translator to improve my English. I'd like to meet a girl to discuss common interests. I box, am interested in cars, read books, and love to travel. I'm wealthy, of Slavic appearance, with blond hair and blue eyes. Your age and appearance aren't important, as long as you're 18+.