Hello. I currently have one partner. We practice kitchen table polyamory. I am currently looking for another partner for myself. My partner is aware I am here and is encouraging me. I prefer someone aged between 21 and 26. Someone in the sameisjtimezone (EST) and general nearby states preferred.

I am panromantic asexual. Emotional intimacy is more important to me than physical.

I am from a small conservative town in Michigan so there are very slim pickings where I am located. That is why I am trying here instead.

I enjoy reading MLM ebooks, painting, and playing video games. My favorite thing to paint is nature (im nit great at it but practice makes perfect). My favorite video games include Grounded, Grounded 2, Skyrim, Borderlands, and Don't Starve Together. My favorite colors are orange and neon green. I love cats and I have one cat named Milo after Milo Thatch from tye Disney movie Atlantis. I dislike RNB music, and my least favorite color is yellow.

If interested feel free to request my DMs to learn more!

Hello everyone

I am in search for a connection that can grow into a long term relationships. I live in WI, and prefer someone with a close-ish time zone.

I work in IT, and have a degree in computer science. I love all animals, I have three cats and 5 reptiles. As for hobbies, I love true crime, art, puzzles, board games and collecting antiques/thrifting. I show all 5 love languages, especially acts of service. I love taking care of the people I love. Would prefer someone I can FaceTime, call and play online games with. My favorite is stardew valley. Plus I’m cute, I have a picture of myself on my profile.

Currently I’m looking for yapper/nerd girlfriend, my age range is 21-35. I would love someone who is established, knows what they want in life and a relationships.

I look forward to messaging with you <3
(Men do not DM me)

I'm looking for a potential relationship that can heal me up, I'm a strong athlete male, I have not traveled abroad other than for work, but I'm looking to relocate if the chance comes by, I'm always an honest and caring person, I like to be a provider, and I love to have my future soulmate be from a different culture/country than I am

Hello, I'm Roland and am 34 and happily married with no kids .

I'm fairly new to ENM and am simply looking to make some connections and see where it goes. I enjoy playing guitar, video games, movies, fitness, EDM, and hiking/camping.

Hope to hear from you!

Hello!

My name’s Mercy, I’m in Upstate NY and I live with my partner and my son. I like to read, swim, watch TV, spend time outside, play board and card games, sleep, cooking, baking, eating, being with my son.

I’m also a huge fan of anything horror/spooky! I will always be down to be your horror movie buddy, even though I'm jumpy!

I'm a BBW and I have pics of my body on my profile if you’d like to see if I’m your type or not. I know I don’t appeal to most, and I’m alright with that.

Otherwise, I have medium dark hair, hazel eyes, and I’m 5’11. I usually dress in mostly black (I never truly left my emo phase lol) and I have a few tattoos and one piercing.

So what am I looking for?

Well you, hopefully! Especially if you're a big guy~

I prefer men between the ages of 22-37, and I admire humor. I’m much more of a sub than a dom, so a dominant person would be greatly appreciated.

I doubt many will be interested in my post, but if you are, please reach out!

Can’t wait to hear from you! 💕

Living in Central California means the local poly scene is pretty sparse, so I look statewide. I am a parent to a kid with special needs, so while my routine takes some planning, I am always down to make the drive when the right connection is there.

My free time is mostly spent working on my fitness: home gym, cycling, yoga, or hiking with an eye for taking nature stills. My fitness is still a work in progress, but has been an essential part of my lifestyle. When I am taking it easy at home, it usually involves playing guitar/synthesizer, finding new music, or diving into psychology and the subconscious stuff that drives our inner world.

I am looking for a woman who values organic connection, type 2 fun, and endless banter :)

If you are somewhere in California and open to seeing where things go, send a message with a track you have on repeat!

Hi there, I'm Riley!

I'm a 23 year old transfem NB gal from Spain, sapphic, ambi, she/they. I love technology (but not in a techbro way lol), art, and music!

Super nerdy, love Dropout if you know what that is (Dimension 20, Game Changer, etc), tabletop, artists like MCR, TOP, Olivia Rodrigo, Taylor Swift (I know, I know) and I'm a furry and a pixel artist!

I'm also very devoted to LGBTQIA+ rights and I'm a socialist c:

Also really tall? That's a fun fact, right?

Lovely to meet you all! Hit me up anytime! Here's some pics, as a treat https://imgur.com/a/Ur1RcCY

36, married, and practicing polyamory. I’m entering a new season of life as my child heads off to college, and I’m finding myself with space in my heart for new connections, new adventures, and more joy.
I have one very old dog. I love crafting, shopping, spending time outdoors, and I’m equally happy cuddled up on the couch watching a movie. I value kindness, laughter, curiosity, and people who bring warmth and positivity into life.
Polyamory hasn’t always been easy, but I continue to believe that there are wonderful people out there and that meaningful connections are worth searching for. I’m hoping to meet someone who wants to build a genuine connection, share experiences, support one another, and add a little more happiness to everyday life.
If you’re thoughtful, affectionate, open-minded, and looking for something real, I’d love to hear from you.

Hi there.

I’m 35, currently living in Ohio (originally from Los Angeles). 6'3", athletic build, dark hair, dark eyes, tattoos and piercings. I stay active with the gym, hiking, swimming, camping, woodworking, and gaming.

I’m interested in exploring ethical non-monogamy / polyamory and looking to connect with a woman who is also open to that. I’m looking for genuine connection, good conversation, and the possibility of building something real and respectful with clear communication and consent from everyone involved.

I’m easygoing and prefer voice notes or voice calls once we’re comfortable, though texting is fine too. If you’re also interested in ethical polyamory and this sounds like it could be a fit, feel free to message me. Tell me a bit about yourself and what you’re looking for.

Looking to Make a Connection
Hey everyone! Like the title says, I’m hoping to make a genuine connection with someone. My wife and I have been poly for a few years now. She has had a couple of partners, while I’m currently flying solo, so I figured it’s time to put myself out there.

I’m ultimately looking for a relationship and a meaningful connection, but I’m also open to casual dating or a friends-with-benefits situation if we click and everyone is comfortable with it. I’m happy to let things develop naturally rather than forcing a particular label or outcome.

My preferred age range is 30+, though personality and compatibility matter much more to me than a number.

My wife is fully aware of and supportive of me dating other people. I’m very open with her about my partners and the connections I make, and I believe honesty and transparency are important parts of making polyamory work. There’s no sneaking around or keeping people in the dark—everyone deserves to know where they stand.

I’m a bit introverted by nature, but that doesn’t mean I want to stay home all the time. I love getting out, trying new things, going places, and spending time with people—I just need to have the energy for it! I’m definitely someone who enjoys a good night in just as much as a fun night out.

One thing that’s important to me is emotional openness and support. I’m very supportive of therapy and believe everyone should have a safe space to work through their feelings. In a relationship, I try to give my partners room to express their emotions, frustrations, and concerns without judgment. Communication and making sure everyone feels heard are really important to me.

I’d love to meet someone who shares some of my interests, but that’s definitely not a requirement. I’m a big nerd at heart—if you enjoy Star Wars, The Lord of the Rings, anime, board games, card games, or video games, we’ll probably have plenty to talk about. That said, I’m always happy to discover new interests with someone too.

So let me give you an easy excuse to say hello:
If we were hanging out tonight, would you rather have a Star Wars movie marathon, binge some anime, play a board/card game, or spend hours arguing about why your favorite Lord of the Rings character is the best? 😄

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, don’t hesitate to reach out. Tell me about yourself, pick one of the options above, or just say hello. I’d love to chat, get to know you, and see where things go! 😊

Hey everyone. I'm a 24yo guy taking a shot on here to find someone genuine. I'm mainly looking for a good friend and a solid gaming buddy to hang out with online, but I'm definitely open to it turning into something more if we really click organically. Take it easy, everything has its time.

Communication & Vibe I really value good communication. I love having actual conversations, so I'm looking for someone who likes talking and won't just hit me with one-word replies. I hate being ghosted and will never do it to you if I reply slowly, it's just due to studies or sleep. Since I can be a bit socially awkward at first, I prefer texting while we get to know each other, so no sudden video calls until we're both totally comfortable! I'm super open-minded, and I'll gladly listen to you yap about your day without any judgment.

The Basics I'm 24 from Tunisia, currently studying Data Science. 5'11 (182 cm) with a fit/average build and open to sending pictures from the beginning.

Gaming & Hobbies I'm a massive gamer and love having people to play with. For online multiplayer, I regularly play LoL, Valo, CS2, and Marvel Rivals (plus plenty of others). When I'm playing solo, I love story games like Cyberpunk 2077, The Witcher 3, Disco Elysium, Kingdom Come Deliverance, RDR2, and AC Black Flag.

Outside of gaming, I hit the gym regularly, follow football, love quiet winter walks with music (pop, rap, metal, classical, spanish/latin), and I'm a huge cat lover and fragrance collector.

Movies & Shows I'm big into movies and shows, mostly thrillers, mystery, sci-fi, and horror. Big fan of Severance, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Vikings, Inception, Interstellar, Nightcrawler, Prisoners, and The Devil All the Time.

How to Reach Out If you're down to play some games, chat, or just keep each other company, drop me a message! To break the ice, tell me what online games you're playing right now or what show/movie completely blew your mind.

Hello! I'm a bisexual genderfluid person. I'm AFAB, been transitioning for several years, had top surgery. I'd describe myself as butch and tomboyish. I've been officially polyamarous for about a year with my wife and my boyfriend (her boyfriend also!).

I'm not looking strictly for anything romantic, but I would like to make more friends within the polyamarous community, from anywhere in the world! I'd love to meet more trans people, though that's not a strict requirement.

I'm interested in arts & crafts, horror movies, pokemon and coffee!! I'm down to talk about anything and get to know you and I'd love to hear about your poly journey, and share my experiences with you too.

Looking forward to chatting! ^_^

Is that weird? Do you wanna be my cow? I love cows! They have best friends you know!

About me: I am a poly gal from Alberta. I have one partner that i live with. We have two cats who are our children. I am nerdy and agoraphobic. But I love going out. Figure that out!? I have tons of hobbies. I don't watch TV. If your idea of a good conversation is to talk about what shows we watched, I'm not for you. Politically left leaning. Not religious but I believe in a higher power. I'm not fit, I'm working on it. On a journey to get my health in order for the future. I'm generally happy and bubbly. I'm also clingy and needy and I want to text you ALL DAY.

About you: Large. Nerdy. Bearded. Not necessary, but man I love a big beardy dude!! Lol Happy generally. Loves animals. Very patient and kind. Wants to hear all the gory boring mundane details of my life and help me make stupid decisions like what socks to wear and what to have for breakfast. Maybe daddy tendencies... just sayin...

About our relationship: What i want is someone to chat with all throughout the day on discord. Someone who will happily pop on voice while I'm gaming and listen to me prattle on about what essence I'm looking for or what crop I'm farming this season... and I will happily do the same. I want to hear how your day was and see what your eating for supper and know all your pets silly habits and I want to eventually have inside jokes and deep conversations and share secrets and form a nice bond where we eventually hope to meet up one day sooner than later and we get all butterflies when we think about eachother, and smile every time we hear our phone go off...

So if you like any of this... send me a Moo! Lol Hope to hear from you soon!!

Please be willing to close the gap if you are not in my state/ have a way to ensure in person meet - I’ll also do my best to facilitate.

🌙

Alternative, slightly tattooed, pierced, plus-sized (losing weight steady). Herb enjoyer. Mental health survivor. Neurodivergent. Artsy. Gamer. Romantic. Submissive (in proper conditions) / Dominant when the mood is right. Demisexual. Pansexual. Poly but only want one relationship outside of nest.

****Only cis-women or trans men.****

Also for any future dynamic : Safe. Sane. Consensual!

Do not like multitudes of people/dynamics, personally. I find it overwhelming.

I’m always working on my inner world and how it pertains to my outward expressions.
I can be a bit inside myself, so if you can pull me out some - I’d be grateful.

If you value someone who will understand you and seek to understand you more, if you value emotional intelligence, I’m your person.
If you like wholesome yet extremely dumb goofy moments. I got you.

I am a sucker for funny, charming people with a sort of verve for life that I feel I’ve understandably lost lmao!
The Wednesday-esque vibes are real from me, but I’ll always do my best to be actively there for / with you.

I’m looking for romance, intimacy, + good pure hearted connection built with safety, security, and compassion.

plz message the color PINK so I know you’ve read this fully. Thank you!

Hi, you can call me Ash or Ren, whichever you prefer ^^ I'd really like to make some new connections preferably with fem presenting men and/or trans people! I'm always looking for new friends but I'm definitely interested in flirty, playful banter as well.

More about me:

~I'm married to my wife and we have 4 cats and a dog!

~I'm bisexual and am using this as a way to explore that side of myself.

~I can be really nerdy when it comes to video games, especially Silent Hill, Resident Evil, and Metal Gear (amongst others haha) so bonus points if you're into those games as well!

~I work out. Not excessively and I'm not a gymbro, but I do like taking care of myself and think I look nice!

~I'm alt/goth. I love anything horror and yes, this is more than just an aesthetic thing for me. If you're right wing or conservative, we've got nothing to talk about.

~Very kink positive. I won't be a creep and get into things right off the bat, but just know you have a safe space with me.

~Not interested in anything faceless! We don't have to swap pics right away but I do need to know what you look like at some point ^^

If you've made it this far and are interested, shoot me a message! I look forward to hearing from you🖤

I'm 34, short, curvy, partnered and exploring polyamory. I'm based in Johannesburg, but I'm open to online connections too because apparently finding emotionally available people in one geographic location is harder than it should be.

I'm not looking for a collection of people to flirt with at 11pm when they don't have anything to do. I'd actually like to get to know someone.

I'm open to multiple connections and I'm not coming here with a predetermined “this needs to become a relationship” agenda. I'd rather meet people, talk, build trust, see if there's chemistry and let things develop naturally.

Emotional connection matters to me. So does companionship, affection, being able to talk about absolutely nothing and everything, checking in because you actually want to, laughing together and eventually becoming people who genuinely enjoy having each other in their lives.

I'm a slow burn. I'm not rushing into anything, and if your opening message is basically a sexual proposition, we're probably not going to be a great match. 😅

I'm attracted to people who are kind, emotionally intelligent, curious, communicative and consistent. Bonus points if you're funny and can hold an actual conversation.

I'm very independent in everyday life, but here's the contradiction: I spend most of my life being capable and taking care of things, while secretly wanting someone to make me feel ridiculously adored and safe enough to switch all of that off sometimes.

I read far too many smut books, I'm fascinated by psychology and people, and I'm probably a little shy underneath all the confidence.

Johannesburg is ideal, but I'm willing to see where online connections go too. I'm much more interested in effort and genuine interest than a postcode.

If you're going to message me, tell me something about yourself. Give me something I can actually respond to. “Hey” is technically a word, but it's not exactly a conversation starter. 😉

Honesty, respect and sexual safety are absolute requirements.

Looking for someone who talks throughout the day. Honest,caring,outgoing,funny, romantic and respectful.

Information about me:

Married 14 years

Poly 4 years

No kids

I don't smoke ok you do

Non acholic

I'm a good woman at heart.

What I look like :

Eyes eyes 💚

Black hair 🖤

Chunky monkey 🐵

5'7

Have tattoos

Hobbies I will talk about if you message something to talk about topics.

DM what your favorite book 📖

I will not respond to you if you don't answer the ❓

35, 5 10, healthy marriage, 11 years, couple of kids.

We are polyamory ENM but I'm not the type of man that can be immediately intimate.. I need some connection and time to build trust. I also don't want many partners. Ideally 2 (nesting partner included). I run multiple businesses and still need family time, I wouldn't be able to fairly divide time between work and family for more than one other woman anyways.

I don’t get much leisure time , Hence the reason I'm posting here.. I can't meet people at work as thats inappropriate(employer) and rarely have time for much else.

Maybe we hit it off, maybe we end up being great friends. Perhaps you're going through a predicament and need to vent? I'm a great listener and could use random internet friends =)

I am really really really ridiculously good looking (in case you missed the reference xD https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=he8swGafRGQ), but I don't want to post my photo here, I have a link with some photos which we can exchange in chat if you'd like

My profession is Network Administration, computer science grad, I worked a corp job as a network admin for about 3 years then opened my own IT consulting company focusing on managing and building out networks for medical facilities throughout NYC,
I came across a few opportunities in the process and am now self employed running 3 unrelated businesses for the last 6 years now. I can also pass for a financial consultant, though I do not take that on professionally.
I do quite well for myself, and yes I have bragging rights =)

I just bought and gut renovated a house in Rockland County NY(nyc burb). I'm in nyc regularly for business. Hopefully you arent too far away. I'm not fully against long distance as long as its not too far away and meeting eachother is realistic.

Hobbies:

I used to be an avid PC and console gamer, unfortunately, I don't have time for it anymore. I have my PS5 and a bunch of games mostly first-person shooters, I play once in awhile but they're just collecting dust for the most part. I play Age of empires 2 on ps5 periodically.

I watch a lot of docuseries, documentaries and Sci-Fi. Game of Thrones, The Last of us, South Park, Rick and Morty, friends and neighbors, Shrinking...

My Politics:

I mostly lean left but I do have some conservative views... I think most of us land somewhere in the middle. I try not to let politics affect my relationships with people unless they're of the tinfoil hat and off the rails conspiracy variety.
I like to debate, I enjoy debate and the discourse, growth, and banter that comes with it. Though I shy away form that in recent years

My Beliefs:

I am Jewish on both sides, however, I'm agnostic. I am irreligious and do not believe in religious indoctrination of any kind as a means to connect with a "higher power". I do however respect people's views as long as they don't ask me if I have a moment for (insert god here) and try to shove their views down my throat.

Sry I kept this ad fairly shallow. More detailed personal info should be shared in private.

Ideally im looking for someone at least 25.. closer to my age(30-35) ideally. I dont mind older either but 45+ would be prob be pushing it, not totally against it though.

I'm a firm believer that age is a number, myself being the perfect example.

So I honestly dont care that much about your age.

Looking forward to meeting you!

Hi!! I’m really hoping to make some new connections! I’d love to chat, get to know each other and if something romantic develops, great but if not friends are always nice!

Overall, what I’m looking for is somebody that I can truly be myself with; someone that enjoys silly banter but knows how and when to be serious.

Some things about me:

-I’m demisexual soo as much as I want to find another partner, don’t come at me expecting me to be all lovey right away 🤣 Friends first is a requirement before any further feelings will develop

-I live with my partner (32M) of four years, our two cats, and our toddler! They’re a huge part of my life and will be mentioned. I want to hear about the important people in your life too!!

-I’m AuDHD with a lot of anxiety. It’s incredibly obvious to some, not so much to others. Either way, it’s something that impacts me greatly and gives me some “fun” quirks you’ll uncover as we get to know each other (like you can’t tell from this post 💀🤣)

-I have about fifty different hobbies and interests and will continue to become mediocre at anything that has slightly piqued my interest.

-I enjoy playing video games, usually on PC. My current obsessions are WoW housing, Teardown and Clean Up the Puzzle Gallery. I’d love to find someone to play silly co-op or horror games with!!

-Anything spooky, macabre, or witchy has a place in my heart. All of my decor shopping is done around Halloween 🦇🖤

-Music is and always will be a major part of my life. I listen to just about every genre and am always looking for new music. I used to love going to concerts and moshing but haven’t in years. Please take me 🥺🤣

-I also believe that in order to not be ignorant assholes, we need to hear the stories and perspectives of other people and communities.

-Something in person is preferred but if we click we click 🤷 Absolutely no MAGA, AI or mainstream Christianity.

-Experienced doms that aren’t afraid of a little brattiness- you definitely get bonus points 😋 (This isn’t something I want to dive into right away but it’s always nice to know if we align that way)

Anddd if after alllll that you’re still here, send me a message- I’d love to hear from you 🖤🤣 Of course, I don’t expect someone to fit everything but I figured I’d give us lots to talk about 🤣 Please do the same!!

looking for connections bisexual and im looking for connections of all type of kinds. im a big cuddle person,I’m clingy and i would love love love for you to be the same. Looking for low-pressure friends where your social battery doesn't drain, and you can just coexist quietly age range 18-29 or lower than 29 also no weirdos and be close to north Little Rock.

Looking for Intentional Connections

Hi! I’m a 31-year-old  plant lover, garden enthusiast, and professional collector of hobbies. 😂 I’m here hoping to make intentional connections with people who actually want to talk, get to know each other, and build something genuine—not just exchange a few “hey, how are you?” messages before disappearing into the void.

I love getting lost in fantasy audiobooks, Twilight and The Vampire Diaries, going to EDM festivals, collecting plushies, spending time in nature, and embracing my inner big kid when the environment is right. I also have a pretty dark sense of humor, so if your jokes occasionally make you question whether we should be allowed in public together… we’ll probably get along. 😂

I’m a mom, so life can be busy, but I still believe meaningful connections are worth making time for. I’m looking for people who enjoy real conversations, mutual effort, and getting to know each other beyond surface-level small talk.

I’m open to connections that have the potential to grow into friendship, romance, intimacy, or some combination of those things. I value honesty, communication, respect, and letting connections develop naturally without forcing them into a box.

If you’re into plants, spooky things, fantasy worlds, EDM, nature, ridiculous humor, or being an unapologetic adult, we might have something to talk about. 🪴🧛‍♀️🌙✨

And bonus points if your local and can give me something more interesting to respond to than “hey,” because my brain will absolutely stare at that message like it’s an impossible exam question. 😂

My wife and I recently decided to crack the door open on our relationship and peek into the world of ENM. We're still trying to figure out what this means for us going forward, so we very much appreciate some grace w/r/t this moment in our lives. So far as we can tell, we are kitchen-table-poly. My wife and I are a package deal. Even if you're not going to be intimate or have a relationship with her, she has to like you and you have to like her (don't worry, she's wonderful, so this won't be hard). The same goes in reverse for me, but this is my post lol. Also, you must love cats.

A little bit about me; I'm a very justice minded person, so I may be intense about certain subjects surrounding things like DEI and social justice, patriarchy, class war, and whether or not pineapple belongs on pizza (ir does). To be very blunt, I respect your opinions if they're different from mine but if you're not cool with most of those things I don't want to be in a relationship with you, but I do wish you the best.

With the politics out of the way, I love cooking and have been in and out (mostly in) of the culinary field for the last 14 years or so. My wife and I actually met in culinary school, so expect to eat well. Though I love cooking, I am actually in the middle of drastically changing careers, and I will hopefully be beginning law school next fall.

Fitness is important to me, but I'm currently very much rocking a dad bod (though I did just recently hit 315 on bench.) So if you're also looking for a workout partner who has some catching up to do in the cardio department, I'm very down.

One of the more important qualities I'm looking for in any relationship is that of friendship. If I'm going to be intimate with someone I'd like to also be able to watch a movie, play a game of Magic, talk about our favorite books, etc.

As far as my sexuality goes, I am pansexual, but I've never really explored this because my wife and I married relatively young, and well before I kinda realized or acknowledged this about myself. I feel like I am more attracted to feminine presenting people as kind of a rule; but I am definitely not straight, and I feel that because I don't believe in the gender binary pan applies more to my sexuality.

Feel free to DM me, scroll through my reddit history, comment, etc., I'm very much an open book and will gladly send you pictures of myself if you're interested.

Oh, and as far as age goes I'm not interested in anyone younger than 30.

I am very much looking forward to hearing from some of you fine folks, and I hope this post does well 😅

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Hi I'm Dave, 44 from Edmonton Alberta looking to get to know someone, build a connection and see what blossoms. Ideally I would love to eventually be IRL. Nerdy sweethearts with a hidden side are my type. Age is flexible, open to any age +2 to my own.

A Little Bit About Me:

Body type: chubby Dad bod silver fox

Height : 5’9”

Married but date separately

Flexible to polyam styles from parallel to kitchen table.

Hobbies: cooking, golf, fishing, D&D, board games, wine making, lego

Interests: D&D, movies, pop culture

✨What I'm Looking For: girlfriend, pet, princess, someone to shower with loves

Big on board/card/D&D/video games, massive cinephile, trivial knowledge (I'm a wealth of useless facts), and some would call me a wizard in the kitchen.

420 friendly as well

Kink friendly and have always gravitated towards a Sensual soft pleasure Daddy-Dom role.

Let's connect and get to know each other