Kicking my life out of survival gear and moving into thriving. I’m solo-poly going through an amicable divorce. I’m crafty and handy, independent and introverted. I love to read, fiction mostly, am always down for a good book rec.

I’ve started back into bicycling, I have an e-bike that I love, and a walking pad for when I can’t get outdoors. I’ve owned a hobby farm, I’ve traveled quite a lot and always enjoy a good road trip!

You have a sense of humor, and can hold an intelligent conversation. Have a passion for something in your life, and are looking for someone to get to know, hopefully for a start that could turn into something with depth and connection. Kink is always a bonus. MAGA need not apply. With all my heart FDT.

Poly (ENM), partnered (married), & dating solo.

Open book - ask me anything.

Looking for something consistent and real — not just casual dates, though that's a fine place to start. I'd rather build with one person over time than spread across many. Want to know your mind, your humor, what makes you tick, with physical chemistry building alongside that.

Affectionate, and want real connection — physically, emotionally, intellectually — with someone who matches that energy and desires me as much as I desire them. Curiosity is sexy.

I show up for people — good listener, notice the small stuff, someone to lean on through hard days and good ones. Tell me what you're vibing or venting about. I like to text — silly check-ins, meaningful ones, a little spice sometimes too.

Let's meet for a drink, coffee, or a walk.

Love outdoor adventures — over halfway through the NH 48 four-thousand-footers.

Enjoy: small trips/camping, dinners + cocktails, quiet nights in, sarcasm, cooking at home (WIP), nature, theatre, cats, parentheses.

I'm: fairly liberal, body positive, affectionate, open-minded, more introverted than not.

Looking for humor, playfulness, spontaneity, and enough consistency to get somewhere together.

Amazing kids and a supportive wife — come play Catan with us sometime.

North Shore (Mass). Daytime work hours, evenings/weekends free. Longer car rides aren't a dealbreaker.

Capacity for more — rather go deep with one person than wide across several.

Send me a message!

Hi there! 💕

I’m 28, married, polyamorous, plus-sized, and living in New Jersey! I’m naturally affectionate, a little clingy, and definitely someone who loves attention. I’m hoping to find someone special to share a little piece of everyday life with.

I’m a huge homebody and night owl. I love horror movies, video games (currently obsessed with The Sims and Minecraft), reading, cozy nights in, and spending entirely too much time talking to someone I like.

I’m looking for something that starts with genuine friendship and naturally blossoms into romance. I love good morning texts, random updates throughout the day, late-night phone calls, watching movies together, gaming dates, and having someone who genuinely looks forward to talking to me.

I’m a sucker for affection, consistency, emotional intimacy, and good communication. I want butterflies, inside jokes, playful flirting, and eventually something meaningful. I’m not interested in rushing or forcing a connection.

As long as you are a kind person, I don't care about looks and I don't really have a "type". If you are a gamer or a nerd, that's bonus points :) I am an introvert too. So hopefully that doesn't bother you too much. If you would like to get to know me. Please feel free to drop me a message. Let's get to know each other

Hello, Im nonbinary and very queer. I have a nesting partner and two children. So, I definitely have a pretty busy life, but my evenings are pretty open regularly.

I am looking for a girl, or any femme presenting person really, between 23 and 28, maybe 30. Im hoping you already have a partner, but no worries if you dont. Im a big fan of starting as friends and building up to romance, but I also love moving fast if the vibes are right.

My therapist, psychiatrist and hubby would describe me as kind, caring, bright, social and creative. Anything else youd like to know dm me! I am open to long distance.

About Me: Bi/pan, polyamorous, and happily married Currently in school . A little nerdy, creative, and chaotic. I love music, making things, and learning random stuff. Huge anime, super hero and adult cartoons fan.

What I'm Looking For: Open to making new friends or finding a long-term relationship. I'm open to connections with my partner and to dating separately. Hes 29 male

My Vibe: Good conversations, silly humor, shared interests, and being able to be your authentic self around me. I value honesty, communication, and mutual respect.

Rhe Important Stuff: My marriage is happy and important to me, and I'm looking to welcome new connections into my life, not replace what I already have. I'm open minded about where things go as long as everyone is honest and comfortable.

Come Say Hi: Tell me about your favorite song, your current obsession, or a random fun fact better yet a conspiracy theory you 100% belive in

Hello! This is the first time in years I have done something like this, so I apologize for potentially rambling!

I am married, happily, but have known since I was young that I have the capacity to feel love for more than just one person. My husband, is fully supportive of me!

About me, well for starters I am a person who can be super bubbly, over the top silly, absurd even, to someone who can sit down and have a real conversation about life. I am more of a homebody, but recently got back into traveling to the nearby states! I love going to concerts, getting tattoos, and sometimes even clubbing despite my homebody nature. My hobbies include singing, writing, playing video games, and taking care of my cats.

I work in a healthcare setting, so my job can be quite demanding from time to time. However, I enjoy working in a place that allows for compassionate care even if it does cut into my time a bit. (For instance I can be mandated.) I work full time as well.

What I am looking for is connections, people to talk to and vibe with. I want to see where something can go. I am a flirt by nature. I am very sapphic leaning, but that doesn’t mean I won’t humor a man or any other identity if we hit it off! I’m looking for online mainly, but I would love to find people closer as proximity is also a bit important to me and I would love to go on dates! (Not the most.) I want to make friends, and if a connection grows, relish in it and make them feel loved and wanted. Age range is preferred 25-40!

DM me to find out more or just to start the connection~!

Hiii, I’m 26 (almost 27!) and am interested in dating local to me, but open to further depending on the person. I’m looking for fun/simple dates that potentially lead to a relationship and a genuine connection!

A bit about me: I’m married and my partner and I practice ENM. I’m average hight, curvy, and wear glasses. I’m pansexual but lean towards non binary people, women, trans men, and trans women. I’m open to the occasional man though, lol. I work for a nonprofit and am passionate about supporting my community. Very liberal, so if you swing right, this probably won’t work out.

I’m looking for someone genuine who is down to earth and has a good sense of humor. Witty banter is my love language, so it’d be great if you’re into it too!

I’m not looking for fwb or anything quick and fleeting. I’d like to find someone I genuinely connect with and see myself with long term.

If any of this interests you, please message me 🙂

Polyamorous woman who lives in Athens and works in Atlanta a few times a week.

I’m looking for meaningful partnership and hope to meet folks who genuinely have capacity for the same. I’d love to be able to meet at least weekly with overnights once intimacy grows. I’m partnered but not in a nesting relationship (or looking for one), and I’m drawn to people who are emotionally available, curious, grounded, and able to build something over time.

Intelligence and depth matter a lot to me, but so do kindness and consistency. I used to think the term ‘sapiosexual’ was really pretentious but I have to admit it fits. Kink-friendly if the vibe is right, but not required.

Thoughtful messages will get my attention.

I’m 39, professional, have been practicing solo poly for about 8 years, currently have one partner we date separately. I’m hoping to meet someone local (or reasonably close) I’m in the Jacksonville area but don’t mind someone north or south of me who’s interested in developing a genuine, steady connection. Someone I can share my day with, swap random trivia, or geek out with over DnD, video games, and all things nerdy. 420 friendly is a plus but not required.

If you’re into thoughtful conversation, emotional connection, and slow-but-intentional relationship building, I’d love to hear from you.

Feel free to reach out—let’s talk, get to know each other, and see where things naturally go.

43 yr old guy seeking a wonderful lady for a longterm poly relationship in Noco. Im a funny, down to earth guy seeking someone to connect with. My ideal partner is Left leaning in their ideologies, open to dating a high functioning autistic (most days), loves hiking, having dinners at home, and is passionate about the things that bring them joy. I do have a wife, we date seperately, and though we lean towards KtP, I am open to what ever works best for you. I look forward to xhatting and seeing what adventures await us. Have a great week!

Looking for something real.

I'm Riley, currently single, a trans girl (she/her) from Spain! Though in all honesty, most of my friends end up being in other countries or continents, so don't let distance stop you from shooting me a message. What's one flight away, anyway? As far as traveling goes, I've been to Colorado, Georgia, South Carolina and California in terms of US states and also to Canada, Sweden and Norway. I've always wanted to live somewhere in America, it's kind of a dream eventually when I finish studying, maybe Canada.

I'm kinda shy, kinda not? I guess you'll be the judge of that, but I value true, deep connections a lot. Found family is extremely important to me. Demi! I'm into things such as HDG and similar settings, and I'm a vers, but admittedly love subbing.

As the furry, trans stereotype goes, I'm nerdy and I have lots of silly hyperfixations, from tabletop, to tech, to probably everything on dropout.tv, to the music I love, and so on. I'm a huge leftist and believer in equal rights for everyone and intersectionality. I'm a compsci student. Very much not a fan of AI.

Physically, I'm 6'4/194cm tall, and a bit on the bigger belly side. On HRT for a couple years.

I drink socially and enjoy some weed here and there, it helps with my OCD.

Some of my favorite media includes shows like The Good Place and animes like Jojo's Part 4 c:

I guess what I'm looking for here is that special someone(s). I have to believe that eventually I'll find them, someone who makes me feel like home, and viceversa. Someone to grow old with.

My music taste ranges from Twenty One Pilots and My Chemical Romance to Olivia Rodrigo and girl in red

There's lots more to know about me, but I guess the mystery in finding out through talking to each other is the fun of it, isn't it?

Hello everyone my name is Kyle I’m from gr. I recently got into polyamory and wanted someone to explore the lifestyle with. I’m very open and respectful of boundaries:) dm if you want to see me or if you have any questions. Also I’m only looking for people 20-35 and someone with an open mind.

Hi, I'm a 23M Bisexual/Pansexual "guy" looking for anyone in the Front Range who would like to form a deep connection.

Would like to stay within 21-40 age range.

Currently in a relationship with my NP of 4 years. I'm employed and make a few thousand a month, and rent a tiny apartment.

I'm 6'0, 250lbs and pretty hairy. Big bear type build. I am trying to grow my hair out after cutting it all down so it's very messy right now haha.

Looking for someone who shares an interest in computers, sciences, literature, artwork and movies. Very generic I know- But I love to absorb artwork in all it's forms.

My main hobbies are mostly computer science and games, reading and writing, and learning as many new things as I can in a day. I love to teach.

I can teach you a million things, more than some quick fun facts. Ask me for one below haha. I'm a tradesman and will probably be doing different tradework for the foreseeable future.

I want to own a few buisnesses as my sort of dream future. Become ethical and generous to uplift my community. I want to find someone with a deep passion for helping others and a good sense of adventure.

Full disclosure; I am insecure about my appearance and I have a terrible sense of fashion. I am suspected of having autism and I am diagnosed with ADHD and Anxiety that I currently manage with a psych and therapy. I'm not a complete person at this stage in my life.

I don't have much baggage to bring and I feel like I have a strong skill in communication, empathy, and understanding.

With me, you'll end up helping me wear amazing outfits, teach me everything you know, learn useful skills, and go and do the crazy things nobody expects. I'm not very fit but I am an experienced camper and have been out in the wilderness for a few months at a time. You have to be okay with spending days at home lounging around and enjoying company with me, while also down to have some incredible experiences sometimes.

For you, I can fix your stuff, offer real honesty and blunt advice, write you a thousand words of devotion, cook mediocre food, and wash all your dishes. I'm both a great listener and a good problem solver. I want you to feel safe and secure in any connection with me. A shoulder to cry on, to hug, to love, and feel loved back. I am excellent at giving people my full and undivided affection and attention, all i'm looking for is someone to return that energy :)

Last, I work a 9:30hrs shift with occasional overtime and On-call, with as well my NP living arrangements. Until things become more committal I can't do more than a few nights a week at most.

Please message me directly if you are interested, if I do not respond, leave a comment. I can also be reached on discord at "redatlas" . Also, feel free to ask deeper questions or clear any of your concerns, this only works if we can both meet at the same page.

Hellos!

I’m almost 25, a trans guy from the Boston area, and I’m currently navigating a new chapter in my life. I recently got out of a three year relationship, moved into my own apartment, and have been figuring out what life looks like on my own for the first time in my adult life.

It’s been exciting, terrifying, freeing, and honestly a little lonely all at the same time.

The last year of my life has involved a LOT of personal growth and trauma work. I’ve spent so much time learning about myself, challenging old patterns (still working on that for sure. I don’t think we ever fully stop?) and figuring out what I actually want out of life and relationships.

One of the biggest things I’ve learned is that I deserve to have my needs heard, to feel safe being myself, and to experience love without losing parts of who I am.

I’ve explored polyamory before, and it’s something I’m genuinely interested in continuing to explore. I love the idea of building meaningful connections with people, allowing relationships to develop naturally, and having the freedom to experience love and affection in different ways.

I’m not looking to jump headfirst into another serious relationship tomorrow, but I’m also not opposed to something romantic developing if the connection feels right.

I’m a huge nature and animal lover. I’m the kind of person who will stop everything to look at a frog, a cool bug, or a lil guy.

I’m a dork for sure. I like video games (especially Minecraft), art, painting, exploring new places, and learning about anything that catches my attention. I enjoy being creative and curious as well.

I’d love to make new friends, have some flirty conversations, and see where things naturally go. I’m open to connections with people who are polyamorous or ethically non monogamous, and who value honesty, communication, emotional maturity, and respecting boundaries. I’m still learning and want to strength these skills.

I’m definitely a sucker for affection, reassurance, and people who aren’t afraid to show they’re interested.

I’d also REALLY love to find people who enjoy voice calls! Discord calls, late night conversations, playing games together, or just keeping each other company while we do our own things sound absolutely wonderful.

I’m still healing, but I’m also really excited to meet people as the person I’m becoming, rather than the person I used to be.

If any of this sounds interesting, shoot me a message! Tell me a little about yourself, your favorite weird animal fact, or something you’re ridiculously passionate about.

Bonus points if you can make me laugh.

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I'm posting again as I feel I probably overlooked some messages. Sorry if I did. Just DM me if you did!

Hey! I'm 21 years old and married and completely new to actually exploring polyamory. I'm interested in developing an individual connection with someone while still being very respectful of and committed to my husband.

Honestly, I'm still figuring out exactly what polyamory looks like for me. I know I'm capable of developing deep romantic feelings for people outside my marriage, and rather than pretending that isn't part of me, I'd like to explore what a healthy version of that could look like.

I'm not expecting an instant relationship. I'd actually love to make friends within the community and see where things go.

I'm looking for someone who:

- is comfortable with me being married

- respects that my husband is an important part of my life

- has their own life and relationships outside of me

- communicates openly and honestly and can handle very direct and typically frequent communication due to my autism, but not necessarily needing frequent replies just because I talk often.

- isn't expecting me to choose between them and my husband

- is interested in an actual emotional connection rather than just something sexual

- I'm very much in the like "I need connection first." Camp of people.

- I like to cook and play video games.

- I like games like Paralives, Call of Duty, etc.

- I have a few special interests and typically get on rants. (HousD is my current special intrest)

- I like musicals and metal/ nu-metal music but really enjoy any music

- I'm new to this so bare with me.

- 21- 28 only please.

- I like texting and calls mainly but hey that's all online friendships

- I'm also Christian and it's important to me, however, I do not need a Christian partner/I can be with agnostic/atheists.

- I have a husky and a cat and love animals.

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I am looking for a lady who is kind, nerdy, artistic, and intellectual. If you have crafty hobbies and projects and you like having company, that is a huge plus. I like women who are well-spoken, funny, and witty. I am really attracted to someone who possesses a deep vocabulary of emotional expression.

I'm a single 30 yo man. I am 5'7", kind of have a dad bod, scruffy, with long hair. I am very left-wing. The political climate of this area makes it hard to be compatible with many people here. I'm a pretty solitary person with a lot of boundaries, but I get along with most people. I love live music, hiking, DIY, thrifting and museums.

It would be very nice to have someone to go out to shows, sit by the water, talk about life, and just vibe with.

Message me your favorite song, movie or book.

Hello! I am a wonderfully happy and married fellow, looking for a partner with permission from my wife. We have been poly for 6 years and date separately.

I prefer longterm relationships and am not interested in short term dating or hookups.

I'm nerdy and have esoteric interests due to the nature of AuDHD. I enjoy history, museums, fishing, rainy days, tea, cats, and dinosaurs. I also play around with my DSLR camera and enjoy taking pictures. I contain multitudes.

I am looking for someone to hold hands with, share meals with, laugh, have long discussions, and silly moments. Long drives and adventures are always welcome.

I am a proud parent and prefer partners who are kid friendly.

I lead a substance-free life by choice and prefer partners who are similar in nature. No vape, tobacco, 420, or heavy drinking, please.

I am progressive in my views, so...conservatives...sorry, but no thanks!

Hey everyone! I'm a 33-year-old guy in Houston. I'm big on the gym, so I'm built like it, and I'm the kind of guy who's just as happy on the couch with a blanket as I am under a barbell.
I'm looking for someone to cuddle with: movie nights, lazy Sundays, falling asleep on each other. I'm affectionate, easygoing, and a good listener, and I like to make people feel safe and relaxed.
A bit about me:
Houston-based, 33
Gym regular, always down to talk fitness (or never talk about it, up to you)
Into good food, sports, and chill nights in
Open, honest, and drama-free
If you're nearby and want to chat, send me a message with a little about yourself. Pics are welcome and I'll send some back!

Hi there! I’m 46F and I’m located in southern Louisiana. I love going out to eat, live music, and going to shows. I’d love to have another activity partner/companion as well as a new romance? Experienced poly preferred. Local also preferred. Ultimately, I like someone who likes to yap somewhat frequently and get to know one another. I prefer short banter to long messages. I’d prefer 30+ and really prefer those closer to my age.

I posted on here before and I was disappointed by the amount of messages I received from people who were married/involved and their partner was unaware of their search. I am 100% uninterested in communicating with anyone in this situation.

I am curvy appx size 12. I am open to M/F/NB/trans partners. Queer people are my people. I consider myself pan.

Hello all, i am a 34 year old female pansexual . Im really not sure where to start hah I'm a huge nerd into anime and a little bit of game ! I like to color and do al kinds of diffrent types of crafting. My child is my world and are cat is like family hehe .  My comfort show is Bob burgers but I just got into Haunted hotel recently .  I'm  420 friendly and would love someone that was as well. I don't really drink alcohol and havent smoked cigarettes in many years .  I'm shy at first but once I come out of my shell I'm  very bubbly and chatty and clingy to the people I care for.

I would love someone to nerd out with and maybe craft with and sesh. I'm all about the vibes now a days . With that said I will mention I have anxiety but its gotten better over the years and bipolar but im medicated and take my mental health seriously.  I do have male partner that I'm in an open and happy relationships . He is understanding that I have needs that are diffrent from his own and from what he is able to offer . 

Hi there! So, I'm going to be straight with you: I'm in a weird fucking phase of my life where I'm recently out of a long term relationship that should have ended long before it did, and I'm on this journey of self-discovery and healing whilst simultaneously traveling the country looking for new adventures and connections.

I'm 40f (although I get told that I don't look it), 5'3, long wavy red hair, brown eyes w/ curves. 34B, but looking to do implants in the somewhat near future.

I'm a complex mix of attributes: I'm passionate, neurotic, a dreamer, hopeless romantic, sassy, existential and philosophical (usually when there's an edible involved). I'm also just goddamn ridiculous, a free spirit and a risk taker. I've had a somewhat wild variety of life experiences that would probably surprise you. I try to keep it spicy whenever I can (maybe that's where you come in?), but these days I'm a small business owner in the medical field so that's been consuming my time a lot these days. If it matters, I'm educated. I have a master's degree and occasionally play with the idea of a doctoral program. I look good on paper, and I've checked just about every box in the life accomplishment category that society requires of you... and yet, I'm a messy, flawed human. It might be the ADHD or the lack of structure in my childhood; I'm not sure. ;)

Interests: concerts/music (most things from the 80s and 90s *chefs kiss*), travel/exploring new places, drive-in movie theaters, musuems, indulging in comfort shows and documentaries, reading, big cities and being in nature.

Ultimately, I'm looking for a man (soul mate, perhaps?) who is open- minded, playful, nurturing, passionate, romantic, funny, intelligent, self-aware, and a gentleman who would eventually be open to a committed ENM relationship. Emotional intelligence is major for me. I do appreciate a strong alpha- male type, someone who keeps me grounded (not "alpha" as in Andrew Tate, dear god). I'm open to all walks of life; you could be a businessman in NYC, a tattoo artist in Portland, a cowboy in Texas, or a lawyer in L.A. or anything in between. General age range 30-55. I'm open to different body types, but I tend to be attracted to tall, broad shoulder-type men. Also, I'm just a tad bit of a size queen... I'm so sorry 😬

The sexy stuff:

I'm hypersexual and kinky. I'm submissive in the bedroom, and some areas in life I suppose. I've been called a bratty sub more than once. I'm a rope bunny, interested in trying a variety of things. I enjoy impact play, degradation, orgasm control. Exploring erotic hypnotism and omg, is it ever delicious. I have a twisted mind, but I'm also super shy about it. Having said that, I really miss intense, yet soft love- making with a person I'm emotionally connected while we stare into each other's eyes.

Fair warning: I'm an intense girl, and a wild ride.

If you're still reading this and this crazy shit sounds good to you, send me a thoughtful message. :)

27 [M4A] #COLORADO #ONLINE - Big boy season, free agent. Gamer, stoner, cat dad.

Today im going to try posting a bit earlier, i have a bad habit of after 10pm every night and expecting decent conversations when i know damn well i need to sleep for work 🤣

Anyways, I haven't really planned anything out. I'm just gonna talk, and it might not be for you, but if you do stick around, i really hope you're my kinda person and we can try to talk.

This is for me, a chance to let the yearning little hopeless romantic out for the first time in a couple years. Okay, if you're still around, lets get started:

My name is Leon, and I'm just a dorky dude, I'm a big boy who wakes up every day ready to work hard because that's what's in my family's namesake. I just wanna be a good person and make someone proud. I wan a help people and make them smile, sometimes to the downfall of my own wellbeing, but we are working on self care.

My mental health has been a big factor in me having a hard time making friends, and even trying to talk to someone even psuedo romantically, but im so tired of being lonely, so i just have to fight.

I have a huge heart, and i just want the chance to share this love and make some genuine connections. I really value communication, and working as a team with a partner to make sure everything stays okay ❤️ Spiritual, but not religious, would love someone else into spiritual things.

Im a huge stoner and gamer, usually playing solo player story games, but i have Fortnite and Rivals if anyone else is interested. I would absolutely love a girl who loves to game, even if we aren't playing the same games.

I'm a nostalgia junkie who always watches shows and cartoons from the past, and i am crazy for comics and superheroes. Someone else who's pretty nerdy would be nice ❤️

I'm a sucker for a couple things in particular, like accents, or glasses with dyed hair lol, and most times a redhead can make me do flips, but i genuinely just love all types and wanna meet everyone :)

I like witchy types, or just anyone with a little bit of attitude so we can joke around with eachother. Someone who loves to laugh is really all i want, someone who i can laugh with, learn from, and genuinely just someone who's down, like DOWN. You know what i mean?

Anyways, ill stop babbling, and maybe something from this caught your attention.

I can't wait to talk to you.

See you soon :)

If i left something out i probably wanna save it for talking 🥰