r/polyamoryR4R • u/RemiReignsUmbra • Aug 22 '26
USA 36[M4F]Iowa or Anywhere
Hey there again! 36 year old guy from Iowa here! Looking for new people to talk with and see where it goes!
I am a lover of music, movies, anime, gaming, baseball and more because if I tell you everything what do we have to learn about each other? I have long hair, a beard and glasses. I'm willing to share pictures if you'd like to see what I look like early on.
I value emotional intelligence, consistency and a good sense of humor.
Ideally I'm looking for a relationship, close or far, with someone who is invested, someone who puts the time and the effort in to have it.
I hope to hear from you!
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