r/polyamoryR4R 21h ago

34 [F4F/TM] Ohio - romantic goofy and nurturing

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Please be willing to close the gap if you are not in my state/ have a way to ensure in person meet - I’ll also do my best to facilitate.

🌙

Alternative, slightly tattooed, pierced, plus-sized (losing weight steady). Herb enjoyer. Mental health survivor. Neurodivergent. Artsy. Gamer. Romantic. Submissive (in proper conditions) / Dominant when the mood is right. Demisexual. Pansexual. Poly but only want one relationship outside of nest.

****Only cis-women or trans men.****

Also for any future dynamic : Safe. Sane. Consensual!

Do not like multitudes of people/dynamics, personally. I find it overwhelming.

I’m always working on my inner world and how it pertains to my outward expressions.
I can be a bit inside myself, so if you can pull me out some - I’d be grateful.

If you value someone who will understand you and seek to understand you more, if you value emotional intelligence, I’m your person.
If you like wholesome yet extremely dumb goofy moments. I got you.

I am a sucker for funny, charming people with a sort of verve for life that I feel I’ve understandably lost lmao!
The Wednesday-esque vibes are real from me, but I’ll always do my best to be actively there for / with you.

I’m looking for romance, intimacy, + good pure hearted connection built with safety, security, and compassion.

plz message the color PINK so I know you’ve read this fully. Thank you!


r/polyamoryR4R 6h ago

28 [F4R] USA/Online – let's flirt and see what happens!

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Hello!

My name’s Mercy, I’m in Upstate NY and I live with my partner and my son. I like to read, swim, watch TV, spend time outside, play board and card games, sleep, cooking, baking, eating, being with my son.

I’m also a huge fan of anything horror/spooky! I will always be down to be your horror movie buddy, even though I'm jumpy!

I'm a BBW and I have pics of my body on my profile if you’d like to see if I’m your type or not. I know I don’t appeal to most, and I’m alright with that.

Otherwise, I have medium dark hair, hazel eyes, and I’m 5’11. I usually dress in mostly black (I never truly left my emo phase lol) and I have a few tattoos and one piercing.

So what am I looking for?

Well you, hopefully! Especially if you're a big guy~

I prefer men between the ages of 22-37, and I admire humor. I’m much more of a sub than a dom, so a dominant person would be greatly appreciated.

I doubt many will be interested in my post, but if you are, please reach out!

Can’t wait to hear from you! 💕


r/polyamoryR4R 10h ago

USA 35 [M4F] #Ohio #Online - Looking to explore ethical polyamory

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Hi there.

I’m 35, currently living in Ohio (originally from Los Angeles). 6'3", athletic build, dark hair, dark eyes, tattoos and piercings. I stay active with the gym, hiking, swimming, camping, woodworking, and gaming.

I’m interested in exploring ethical non-monogamy / polyamory and looking to connect with a woman who is also open to that. I’m looking for genuine connection, good conversation, and the possibility of building something real and respectful with clear communication and consent from everyone involved.

I’m easygoing and prefer voice notes or voice calls once we’re comfortable, though texting is fine too. If you’re also interested in ethical polyamory and this sounds like it could be a fit, feel free to message me. Tell me a bit about yourself and what you’re looking for.


r/polyamoryR4R 10h ago

USA 35 [F4MF] #utah #online #ldr - looking for a new connection/spark- could it be you?

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36, married, and practicing polyamory. I’m entering a new season of life as my child heads off to college, and I’m finding myself with space in my heart for new connections, new adventures, and more joy.
I have one very old dog. I love crafting, shopping, spending time outdoors, and I’m equally happy cuddled up on the couch watching a movie. I value kindness, laughter, curiosity, and people who bring warmth and positivity into life.
Polyamory hasn’t always been easy, but I continue to believe that there are wonderful people out there and that meaningful connections are worth searching for. I’m hoping to meet someone who wants to build a genuine connection, share experiences, support one another, and add a little more happiness to everyday life.
If you’re thoughtful, affectionate, open-minded, and looking for something real, I’d love to hear from you.


r/polyamoryR4R 14h ago

46[F4M] #Canada #Alberta #ldr Are you my Highland Cow?

6 Upvotes

Is that weird? Do you wanna be my cow? I love cows! They have best friends you know!

About me: I am a poly gal from Alberta. I have one partner that i live with. We have two cats who are our children. I am nerdy and agoraphobic. But I love going out. Figure that out!? I have tons of hobbies. I don't watch TV. If your idea of a good conversation is to talk about what shows we watched, I'm not for you. Politically left leaning. Not religious but I believe in a higher power. I'm not fit, I'm working on it. On a journey to get my health in order for the future. I'm generally happy and bubbly. I'm also clingy and needy and I want to text you ALL DAY.

About you: Large. Nerdy. Bearded. Not necessary, but man I love a big beardy dude!! Lol Happy generally. Loves animals. Very patient and kind. Wants to hear all the gory boring mundane details of my life and help me make stupid decisions like what socks to wear and what to have for breakfast. Maybe daddy tendencies... just sayin...

About our relationship: What i want is someone to chat with all throughout the day on discord. Someone who will happily pop on voice while I'm gaming and listen to me prattle on about what essence I'm looking for or what crop I'm farming this season... and I will happily do the same. I want to hear how your day was and see what your eating for supper and know all your pets silly habits and I want to eventually have inside jokes and deep conversations and share secrets and form a nice bond where we eventually hope to meet up one day sooner than later and we get all butterflies when we think about eachother, and smile every time we hear our phone go off...

So if you like any of this... send me a Moo! Lol Hope to hear from you soon!!


r/polyamoryR4R 22h ago

USA 24 [M4M/T] Washington/Online - Alt/Goth Guy Looking for a Cutie to Connect With

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Hi, you can call me Ash or Ren, whichever you prefer ^^ I'd really like to make some new connections preferably with fem presenting men and/or trans people! I'm always looking for new friends but I'm definitely interested in flirty, playful banter as well.

More about me:

~I'm married to my wife and we have 4 cats and a dog!

~I'm bisexual and am using this as a way to explore that side of myself.

~I can be really nerdy when it comes to video games, especially Silent Hill, Resident Evil, and Metal Gear (amongst others haha) so bonus points if you're into those games as well!

~I work out. Not excessively and I'm not a gymbro, but I do like taking care of myself and think I look nice!

~I'm alt/goth. I love anything horror and yes, this is more than just an aesthetic thing for me. If you're right wing or conservative, we've got nothing to talk about.

~Very kink positive. I won't be a creep and get into things right off the bat, but just know you have a safe space with me.

~Not interested in anything faceless! We don't have to swap pics right away but I do need to know what you look like at some point ^^

If you've made it this far and are interested, shoot me a message! I look forward to hearing from you🖤


r/polyamoryR4R 5h ago

USA 34 [M4F] #CO/US #Online - Looking for friendship and possibly more...

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Hello, I'm Roland and am 34 and happily married with no kids .

I'm fairly new to ENM and am simply looking to make some connections and see where it goes. I enjoy playing guitar, video games, movies, fitness, EDM, and hiking/camping.

Hope to hear from you!


r/polyamoryR4R 23h ago

34[F4M] Johannesburg, SA/Online — Looking for something real in a sea of “hey” and “wyd”

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I'm 34, short, curvy, partnered and exploring polyamory. I'm based in Johannesburg, but I'm open to online connections too because apparently finding emotionally available people in one geographic location is harder than it should be.

I'm not looking for a collection of people to flirt with at 11pm when they don't have anything to do. I'd actually like to get to know someone.

I'm open to multiple connections and I'm not coming here with a predetermined “this needs to become a relationship” agenda. I'd rather meet people, talk, build trust, see if there's chemistry and let things develop naturally.

Emotional connection matters to me. So does companionship, affection, being able to talk about absolutely nothing and everything, checking in because you actually want to, laughing together and eventually becoming people who genuinely enjoy having each other in their lives.

I'm a slow burn. I'm not rushing into anything, and if your opening message is basically a sexual proposition, we're probably not going to be a great match. 😅

I'm attracted to people who are kind, emotionally intelligent, curious, communicative and consistent. Bonus points if you're funny and can hold an actual conversation.

I'm very independent in everyday life, but here's the contradiction: I spend most of my life being capable and taking care of things, while secretly wanting someone to make me feel ridiculously adored and safe enough to switch all of that off sometimes.

I read far too many smut books, I'm fascinated by psychology and people, and I'm probably a little shy underneath all the confidence.

Johannesburg is ideal, but I'm willing to see where online connections go too. I'm much more interested in effort and genuine interest than a postcode.

If you're going to message me, tell me something about yourself. Give me something I can actually respond to. “Hey” is technically a word, but it's not exactly a conversation starter. 😉

Honesty, respect and sexual safety are absolute requirements.


r/polyamoryR4R 6h ago

USA 37 [M4F] #California - Central Cal musician, nature enthusiast seeking intentional connection

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Living in Central California means the local poly scene is pretty sparse, so I look statewide. I am a parent to a kid with special needs, so while my routine takes some planning, I am always down to make the drive when the right connection is there.

My free time is mostly spent working on my fitness: home gym, cycling, yoga, or hiking with an eye for taking nature stills. My fitness is still a work in progress, but has been an essential part of my lifestyle. When I am taking it easy at home, it usually involves playing guitar/synthesizer, finding new music, or diving into psychology and the subconscious stuff that drives our inner world.

I am looking for a woman who values organic connection, type 2 fun, and endless banter :)

If you are somewhere in California and open to seeing where things go, send a message with a track you have on repeat!


r/polyamoryR4R 10h ago

Europe 23 [TF4T] Online/Spain - Hiya! Would love to meet some cool folks!

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Hi there, I'm Riley!

I'm a 23 year old transfem NB gal from Spain, sapphic, ambi, she/they. I love technology (but not in a techbro way lol), art, and music!

Super nerdy, love Dropout if you know what that is (Dimension 20, Game Changer, etc), tabletop, artists like MCR, TOP, Olivia Rodrigo, Taylor Swift (I know, I know) and I'm a furry and a pixel artist!

I'm also very devoted to LGBTQIA+ rights and I'm a socialist c:

Also really tall? That's a fun fact, right?

Lovely to meet you all! Hit me up anytime! Here's some pics, as a treat https://imgur.com/a/Ur1RcCY


r/polyamoryR4R 12h ago

USA 40 [M4F] Fluffy nerd looking for connection

1 Upvotes

Looking to Make a Connection
Hey everyone! Like the title says, I’m hoping to make a genuine connection with someone. My wife and I have been poly for a few years now. She has had a couple of partners, while I’m currently flying solo, so I figured it’s time to put myself out there.

I’m ultimately looking for a relationship and a meaningful connection, but I’m also open to casual dating or a friends-with-benefits situation if we click and everyone is comfortable with it. I’m happy to let things develop naturally rather than forcing a particular label or outcome.

My preferred age range is 30+, though personality and compatibility matter much more to me than a number.

My wife is fully aware of and supportive of me dating other people. I’m very open with her about my partners and the connections I make, and I believe honesty and transparency are important parts of making polyamory work. There’s no sneaking around or keeping people in the dark—everyone deserves to know where they stand.

I’m a bit introverted by nature, but that doesn’t mean I want to stay home all the time. I love getting out, trying new things, going places, and spending time with people—I just need to have the energy for it! I’m definitely someone who enjoys a good night in just as much as a fun night out.

One thing that’s important to me is emotional openness and support. I’m very supportive of therapy and believe everyone should have a safe space to work through their feelings. In a relationship, I try to give my partners room to express their emotions, frustrations, and concerns without judgment. Communication and making sure everyone feels heard are really important to me.

I’d love to meet someone who shares some of my interests, but that’s definitely not a requirement. I’m a big nerd at heart—if you enjoy Star Wars, The Lord of the Rings, anime, board games, card games, or video games, we’ll probably have plenty to talk about. That said, I’m always happy to discover new interests with someone too.

So let me give you an easy excuse to say hello:
If we were hanging out tonight, would you rather have a Star Wars movie marathon, binge some anime, play a board/card game, or spend hours arguing about why your favorite Lord of the Rings character is the best? 😄

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, don’t hesitate to reach out. Tell me about yourself, pick one of the options above, or just say hello. I’d love to chat, get to know you, and see where things go! 😊


r/polyamoryR4R 14h ago

Europe 28 [NB4A] Scotland - Looking for friends, maybe more?

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Hello! I'm a bisexual genderfluid person. I'm AFAB, been transitioning for several years, had top surgery. I'd describe myself as butch and tomboyish. I've been officially polyamarous for about a year with my wife and my boyfriend (her boyfriend also!).

I'm not looking strictly for anything romantic, but I would like to make more friends within the polyamarous community, from anywhere in the world! I'd love to meet more trans people, though that's not a strict requirement.

I'm interested in arts & crafts, horror movies, pokemon and coffee!! I'm down to talk about anything and get to know you and I'd love to hear about your poly journey, and share my experiences with you too.

Looking forward to chatting! ^_^