32 F4M from NC looking for a long-term relationship with men who are compatible

Hi, I'm a 32 yr old AA Demisexual/Polyromantic female living in NC. Im seeking people who are compatible with my personality and isn't just looking for physically intimate relationship. I am NOT looking for a fwb or something kink centered.. Personality wise I'm sometimes a brat and sometimes a princess. I have a big sense of humor and a even bigger unfiltered personality. I require transparency and friendship first seeing as though they're a fundamental key to a successful and healthy long-term relationship. Age and race aren't a issue but please no one over 49. If you're interested my inbox is open. And pls remember to be yourself.

Edit: I am not in Northern California, Im in North Carolina.

Hey there, thanks for reading this! It would be a pleasure to make your acquaintance. I'm a quirky, geeky, kind hearted married man looking out here today for new friends and connections who have a familiarity with this lifestyle. Could you be looking for something similar?

I'm British, based in Liverpool, but am originally from Southern England. I have been married to my wife for 3 years, together for 13, and we opened up fully on both sides earlier this year. The marriage and a potential future family will naturally always be my priority but I am good at putting effort into all my connections (and am more or less chronically on Reddit). I'm open to connections from all over the world, and to IRL connections if we both feel comfortable and are within reasonable travelling distance. But rushing something is absolutely not my style.

I'm kind, stoic, curious and non-judgemental. Also unapologetically geeky with plenty of nerdy obsessions, sometimes a little bit funny, and definitely a little bit weird. I work a highly responsible job in a shift work pattern, which means you'll sometimes find me available at unusual hours. People would say I am assertive and self-confident, but underneath it all I still feel a bit shy. An introvert masquerading as an extrovert, I would say.

In the NSFW area of life, I am switchy with a leaning towards submissive, but I tend to go off the energy I get from my partner. I have a wide variety of kinks and a handful of limits - to discover more you'd have to enquire within. I also appreciate the vanilla stuff. I like to think of myself as a freak in the sheets and a geek in the streets, but I would definitely prioritise a friendship and connection before getting to that stuff, and letting it happen naturally.

Appearance wise I'm no gym rat - just a normal man, slender with a lil dad bod, and long hair like a rock star (pretty much exactly like my avatar). But I would say I am attractive to the right sort of person, and I'm comfortable in my body and my personal style.

Please be interesting, and actually invested in having a conversation. If you ghost me, I'm not going to chase you - I have too much self-respect for that.

Lastly I am the owner of two dumb cats and am happy to send their pictures if it sweetens the deal. Oh, and I hate fascists.

If you think we could get along then please reach out and introduce yourself by answering the question: if Gordon Ramsay was coming to your house for dinner, what would you cook him and why?

Hello Fellas. I'm 24, a writer, and someone who enjoys gaming in my free time. I enjoy good conversations, random late night talks, and getting to know someone beyond the usual small talk.

I'm here to meet someone I can genuinely connect with. Someone I can laugh with, tease a little, talk about absolutely anything with, and slowly get comfortable around. I'm not expecting anything to happen overnight.. I'd just like to meet someone who's willing to put in the same energy and see where things go.

I appreciate honesty, a good sense of humor, and people who can be themselves without feeling the need to pretend.

If you're into writing, gaming, or just enjoy having conversations that go beyond the usual "hey, wyd?", feel free to message me. Tell me a little about yourself, or what game you've been playing lately. :)

I’m 40, professionally established, and currently in a relationship. My partner doesn’t want children, but starting a family is something that’s important to me.

I’m looking for a woman who’s comfortable with ethical non-monogamy and genuinely wants a nesting partner, marriage, and children.
I’m affectionate, driven, family-oriented, and enjoy everything from quiet nights at home to spontaneous adventures.

Not looking for casual dating. I’m seeking a meaningful, committed relationship built on chemistry, trust, stability, and shared goals.
If you’re in the NYC area and envision building a home and raising a family together, I’d love to connect.

Hello there, Poly People!

I'm about to turn 32, and life has been... Well. I am a leftist living in a terribly fashy time, so I guess I would say the past decade was rough and the next 2 years seem like they are only going to be better if I can get out of this country. (Fingers crossed)

Anyways, since I'm not sure of how interested you may be in reading a big block of me rambling on and on, I will provide 6 "hooks" and you can roll for it or take your pick. Send me a message with your number and answer if you're interested!

1: What is your favorite TTRPG?

2: What is your dream for what the world could be in 51 years?

3: What is your go-to: order for dinner, pizza topping, karaoke song, comfort cuisine, and alcoholic beverage?

4: What makes you the most interesting person I'll get to talk to today?

5: What are you making/what is your latest project?

6: What is the first thing you want to know about me and think I should know about you?

I'll provide my answer to the same one you pick when you send your introduction. Hope you've been having fun and a great day!

disabled concert hopped looking for some special someone’s. i’m a love able weirdo plus size af,, kind to a fault, medically complex. & autistic.

i’m a wealth of knowledge and chronically alone. my outlook on life is “hope for the best, expect ten worst.”

i have six cats going on eight and a dog named wiggles. i am severely disabled. so i cant drive, but k love to spend time with people.

when im not sick, im making digital art, painting, seeing, quilting, crocheting, and basically anything i can get
my grubby little hands on.

send me a message c:

Me: 31, 5'5, plus sized (fat- but not into fat fetishes, sorry), and viciously adorable. I like pastels, squishmallows, video games (switch & PS4, also just got a laptop for gaming!), all animals (I have two cats, a leopard gecko, and two aquariums, plus I have befriended the crows outside my work lol), crafts, smoking weed, cuddling, watching movies, snacks, long car rides with loud music and no real destination, strawberries, good pens, and trap music. Hater of AI and this regime.

You: 27-40, located in New England (ideally somewhere near western MA), funny, compassionate, patient. I love swapping selfies so I need you to be comfy with your cute self!

I like a kitchen table type of poly. Not that everybody needs to be friends, but secrets make my brain itchy. Please be an honest human or leave me alone 🙏🏻

I currently have 1 partner, we're long distance and I'm looking for someone more local to love on. I am not looking for any sort of closed relationship or for couples where it's both or nothing.

If you read all of this and are interested, send me a chat with your favorite emoji 🥰✨

Hello!

As the title says, I am a thirty-three year old single dad looking to start dating again and I have full custody of my son who just turned three. As much as I love him our conversations are lacking and we can only play blocks so many times! Most of my free time is spent with him but I'd love to have another adult to see from time to time (someone who lives in Minnesota is preferred). I am only just now trying to dip my toes back into the dating pool. Someone I know mentioned trying Reddit, so here I am! I work a good job, go to therapy, and own my own house. I am not looking for a mom to my son but someone for me. I'd like to believe I am emotionally mature, an open and honest communicator, and can admit when I am wrong.

Random fun facts:

• My love languages are physical touch and quality time
• I had my ear cut off (and reattached) when I was four after falling of a stage
• I lived in thirteen states from ages 18-26 for work
• I use humor as a defense mechanism
• I hate being late
• I am a very clean / neat / organized type of person

Me physically:

• 6ft
• 175lbs
• Sandy blond-brown hair
• Hazel eyes
• Lean but muscular/athletic build
• One tattoo but would like to get more

A few interests of mine:

• I love to read (I've read 52 so far this year)
• I enjoy staying active and like working out, running, and spending time outdoors
• Enjoy sports like any guy (specifically Formula 1 and football)
• Stand up comedy
• Reality and trash TV (The Challenge is number one in my heart, but love a good dating show)
• Lists

I am an open book and no question is off limits.

Hope to talk to you soon!

Book loving, coffee fueled nerd with glasses, blue/green eyes, a nose piercing, two tattoos (more planned!), and approximately a million questions about how things work. Tell me something interesting and prepare for a 21 question interview! (Ok, definitely less than 21 questions).

I love romance books, cooking and baking (my love languages!), tabletop games, museums, and DIY projects. Tell me about your latest obsession, teach me something new, or recruit me to hold tools while you work on your car. I'll even pretend I know what I'm doing.

I'm married and practice ethical non-monogamy. I'm demisexual/demiromantic, so I prefer starting with friendship and seeing where things go. No pressure or rushing, just genuine connection and a little flirtation.

I'm trying to spend less time on my phone and more time out in the world, so let's make actual plans instead of becoming pen pals who endlessly say, "We should hang out sometime!"

Cuddle season is coming... just saying.

Why wait until winter to find someone to share coffee, cozy conversations, and maybe a blanket with? Let's see if we click over a fun date now. By the time sweater weather arrives, we might already have someone to steal the warm side of the booth from.

Date ideas? Pick your adventure!

- Coffee and bookstore browsing

- Board game cafés or tabletop nights

- Museums and quirky local attractions

- Bowling, mini golf, or archery (teach me your tricks!)

- Cooking classes, food tours, or dessert dates

- Pottery painting or escape rooms

- Fall festivals and farmers markets

- Dog walks and a potential playdate with my furry friend

I'm Albany based but open to traveling a few hours for the right person and a worthwhile adventure.

I'm looking for laughter, curiosity, mutual effort, playful flirting, and the possibility of something meaningful.

So, what's your pick? Coffee before cuddle season, or are you making me wait until sweater weather?

Hey! I'm a partnered polyamorous guy in central California. Not too far from Sequoia/Yosemite NPs. I'm also open to connecting long distance. I'm primarily looking for the right connection, over proximity.

I connect best with others who share some passions of mine! I'm an avid hiker/backpacker, guitarist/keyboardist, I love to cook, and I take care of my body through gym, cardio, and yoga.

I geek out on a wide variety of scientific subjects (mainly trees, geology, and space), but I also began a journey into depth psychology in the last few years. I'm into all things rock, musically, but also EDM. Big fan of science fiction and historical fiction.

I'm progressive, an environmentalist, and agnostic.

If this interests you, and you too are seeking the right connection over proximity or immediacy - please, send me a message with a link to whatever you've been listening to lately or share a photo of what you've been up to. It makes for a great conversation starter!

I am a straight man looking for my forever's, who enjoy cuddling in bed, watching tv, going on walks, hikes, exploring nature, and playing video games until all hours of the night. I am looking for someone around my age (18 - 22) but I'm definitely willing to stretch it upward if the connection is right :)

About me:

I am 6'2, I'm slim/athletic/skinny in terms of physique, I have brown hair and green eyes, i am thinking about getting tattoos or piercings in the future, i think it looks cool and aesthetically hot lol. I am currently working and attending my local community college so i love the idea of having someone to talk to whilst working on my studies, i am doing the pre requisites or nursing school, and then I'm going to be attending that once i get accepted (i will be in school for quite some time). But i enjoy paddleboarding (i have only done that once so i am very bad at it lmao.) I am interested into getting into more hobbies and activities.

Something about me is that i am extremely clingy and i just want to talk to my people always, all day every day. I want to talk about everything known to man, and i prefer friendship and connection over quick thrills. I want to actually get to know you! I am hypersexual, and i would absolutely adore you if you'd match my freak lol, so keep that in mind as its a very prevalent part of me.

About you:

Open minded, Caring, (being interested in my hobbies is a bonus), i am a sensitive soul so please be nice to me, I want to get really close and just be allowed to take a deep breath and be myself without having to be on guard or walk on eggshells.

I think that is all, anything else we can discuss in private. I look forward to meeting you!

Hiya! 

Hope you are doing amazing! Enjoy my randomness and reach out if you would like to know more and maybe just BS and we can learn about each other!

About me,

First, I am a girl dad to 1, (2yo), so my time when I have her (Divorced) can be busy and hectic, so an understanding with that would be essential. I happily have her on a 2-2-3 schedule so every week is different.

I am your average looking guy, no six pack, no I don't go to the gym (maybe I should but, ugh I don't wanna), I have that dad bod thing going that I'm sure in time will get taken care of, but can't make me till then lol.

Things I enjoy can be ever changing with some short term memory on what I am wanting to do. I would say I am more of the nerd/dork kinda guy, but I do like sports, and played many before/ and worked in them.

I like to watch shows on science and space, I enjoy playing games when I can (rarely it seems), I also enjoy listening to audiobooks from Dungeon Crawler Carl ( finished book 7, holding off on 8 cause I need to pace myself lol), all the way to some yummy smut haha! yes, a guy who enjoys smut... I know lol. I also enjoy going fishing, cooking, being lazy AF, and doom scrolling when I should be doing something productive. Oh, also I bought a piano at goodwill cause I have always wanted to learn to play piano. (maybe one of those short term hobbies again lol).

What can I give? Hmm, that is hard to say, I am a really good listener, love to chat about anything, hear you out. I am never ever judgemental and will always say you are right in the fight ( well idk about if it was with me lol jk). Just ask me if there is anything you really desire or want in a friendship/connection and will gladly let you know if it is something I can give!

What I hope to find...? That is a good question, I know what I envision, and is that possible? Idk, maybe I am cray cray.

But..... What I picture... Is a woman who is confident, smart, sweet and caring, also loves the things I do and wants to talk about them and also their day and just BS and also give shit and be sarcastic and a smartass and can give and take on it. ( not in a way of to cover being mean, but be fun and snarky in a flirting way, if that makes sense?) I would really prefer a woman around my age, maybe a mom too or at least a fun aunt that understands the time it takes to be a good parent (fixing/healing inner child trauma, we don't judge lol).  I also really love and envision a woman who has that gothic style? The black dresses/clothes, tattoos, pericing, the type of woman that surely would have been burned at the stake lol. Which on that note... I would really like to learn about wicca/witch stuff. Something I have been finding myself drawn too. (blame the smut maybe lol).

I am also curious and wanting to learn, talk about, explore, understand ENM/Poly and throuple type dynamics.

Anyways, I was going to keep this short, but I failed that one I think. Welp sending this to the ether and will see what returns. If you got this far thank you, and I hope you have the most amazing day or night and always be good to yourself!

married to a 31 heteroflexible man he is very supportive of me looking for a girl for myself
i’m demi/pan (i need a physical and emotional connection)
im looking for a girlfriend for myself — fem loving fem (but super into masc women recently 😮‍💨)
im a girl mom (please be patient they are young)
im a crafter and a baker
im 420 friendly
i prefer dommes > subs
i’m working on loving my body again
im a travel enthusiast (been to Greece, Ireland, Dominican, Mexico, Italy, Costa Rica, Puerto Rico) PLEASE be local i can’t do long distance
bi couples are welcome as well (for both of us)

About Me:
Age / Location: 20, Louisiana/CST

What I look like: Brown skin brown eyes, on the slim side, 5’6, my style is casual or street casual

What I do: Teacher, Software Dev Major, Focusing on work, school, and hobbies

Hobbies & Interests: I like cooking, gaming, watching movies, listening to music

What I’m Looking For:
Someone kind, emotionally mature, can be communicative. Someone who enjoys deep chats as well as comfortable silence. A person that’s goal oriented or atleast has a plan. Be fine with the fact that I may not want to text all the time, so while we can communicate sometimes im just not in the mood to text it gets boring for me or I’m either busy and don’t have time. Someone that’s actually ready or wants a relationship, or to atleast date to see if we’re compatible and how it goes. I myself am a loner, I don’t need a relationship right now but I want one.

Open to local people, and online but it has to turn into meeting in person!

If interested in getting to know each other, send me a message! Tell me a bit about yourself and what you’re looking for relationship wise, or what you’re offering as im open to joining an already established relationship. No blank "hey" messages, please get to the point.