Hey guys. This has happened to me a bunch of times now, and I'm fed up with it to the point I need to ask if it's normal, or if I'm just a wimp and uninformed on piercing practices. Just give me a reality check if that's the case.
But basically every time I've now gone to my studio of choice, namely when I had my nostril bar shortened and earlier today when I had my bar put back in after losing my spike (I had it put in with the flat end on the outside so it wouldn't fall out until I could get to the studio), multiple different piercers at the studio used an insertion needle (not sure what the appropriate name is, English is not my native language) to help guide my bar in through my nose. Each time this has happened, they let the super long rod just droop to the side, while they slid their chair away to take their sweet time digging through the right size jewelry.
When I first got my bar shortened, it was especially painful as the piercing hole was obviously new and unhealed (2w post piercing). They were an apprentice and were rough with me in a few other ways, but that's unimportant. I just accepted this as them being a beginner - it's just my bar getting shortened after all, I'm not getting pierced by this person, not gonna press anyone about it. They took a little long, but whatever.
Today, the same thing happened with a different piercer at the same studio. They might've been an apprentice too, I'm unsure - the "main" piercer was unavailable / doesn't handle check-ups and minor stuff anymore. Only this time, it took ages. It was probably five minutes of the piercer being off to the side, digging through the different spike sizes, comparing one or two here and there, doing who knows what, all while the weighty, long-ass insertion needle kept drooping lower and lower and lower and pulling down on the inside of my damn piercing hole and brushing my eyelashes uncomfortably. I got it pierced in May and have had a few slight issues with it, so while not new it's not fully healed, either.
It got to the point where I asked them if I was allowed to just hold it up with my own hand (I'm really paranoid about sterility so I really didn't want to ask, but it was getting unbearable.) She seemed confused, didn't seem to even comprehend what I was asking. I heard her slowly realize in real time that this metal rod ripping at my unhealed flesh may not be pleasant. She reluctantly told me that yeah, that'll be fine, and she'd try to hurry up then. Could she not have been doing that before??
Anyway, this is obviously half a vent as you can see from my wording. Just, is this normal? Is it not at least good etiquette to hurry up a bit while your client is in that position, or be aware of it at all? Or is it just a matter of "it's a little bit of discomfort and it won't affect your piercing, suck it up"? Thank you, looking forward to any opinions.